i have a small world

It is really a great science for a husband and wife to be able to hold hands until they grow old and stay together for a lifetime.Many couples in this subject do not have deep research on this subject, and have not learned thoroughly. For a long time, many couples have also paid great attention to this issue, and strive to make themselves better.

Husband and wife have bumps and bumps for a lifetime, and if they want to carry out their marriage to the end, they do not rely on a momentary love, but rely on a lifetime of family affection and unshirkable responsibilities.How to run a good family and have a happy marriage is the responsibility of both husband and wife.

It is said that everyone used to be an angel. Once he meets the one he loves, he will break his wings and fall to the mortal world, so never disappoint the one who loves you, because they have lost their way back to heaven. It will be a hundred years for you to be married Cultivate fate.

Between husband and wife, you have to believe that it is fate that brings them together. Whether it is a good life or a bad life, since you are a husband and wife, you have to believe that this is a blessing from a previous life.

Choose friends, don't let friends become barriers in your family.Choose your friends according to your personality, choose your friends according to your environment, choose your friends according to your own conditions, and choose your friends according to your family.

In choosing friends, you should distinguish the types of nsb. friends and treat the interests of friends correctly.Friends will be like reading books to experience carefully, and the levels of gains obtained in the process of experience are also different. Whether it is good or bad depends on how you absorb it.As a woman, you should distinguish between occasions, as well as a man.As a woman when going out in public with your husband.You must remember to think more about each other; as a man, when your wife is around, remember to love each other like a newly married couple.

Between husband and wife, no matter how busy or hard life is, they need to take some time to communicate every day. It is best to communicate at a fixed time or in a certain way.This is conducive to mutual dependence and trust, and we must remember to persist.

Whether it is an unmarried person or a married person, it should be appropriate. Two people should pay attention to each other's feelings, and of course find some topics that are more suitable for the occasion.Between husband and wife, no matter how many years they have been married, attraction should be used to condense the emotions of husband and wife.Everyone should have the right to keep their privacy, and couples are no exception.

Don't be too casual between husband and wife, because the distance will also create a sense of beauty.There should also be some etiquette, behavior, and habits between husband and wife.Just because you're married doesn't mean you're less attractive, so don't forget to show your personal charm.

between husband and wife.It is necessary to enhance the relationship between husband and wife by listening, and learn to listen patiently to any words of the other party.No matter how tired you are physically, when the other person talks to you patiently.You should also listen carefully.How you treat others is how they treat you.between husband and wife.We should trust each other and learn to understand each other.Sometimes you should leave some leeway for the other party, and you should also leave some leeway for yourself.There is a bright mirror in everyone's heart, and we must learn to use it well.No matter what happens, don't learn to escape, you should learn to stay calm.

Sometimes I also need to recharge my love, take some time to go out for a walk, such as a walk.Participate in more large-scale activities, so that you can feel that the other party will also bring you happiness.between husband and wife.No matter what you encounter, or what wronged you.Neither should be elusive.Learn to talk to the other party carefully, no matter how wronged you are when you talk, don't treat the other party with a grudge.Being elusive will only make the other party hate you more, and being suspicious will only make the other party stay away from you.Learn to express your thoughts with generous words, learn to think about the people around you with a careful role, and learn to communicate with each other patiently.

Between husband and wife, sometimes you have to learn to play some roles.For example, a husband wants to be a younger brother.Learn to respect each other, be good at improving the status of your wife, don't bring machismo and bad habits at work into the family, and don't make decisions lightly, except at critical moments of course.

Good at using women's psychology to create a harmonious family.While the husband loves his wife, he must learn to make his wife love him.

The wife must also learn to be willing to be the big sister, and be good at observing the emotional changes of her husband.Most husbands worry about themselves with the idea that a man will not cry easily.At this time, as a wife, she must play the role of the eldest sister to care for her husband. While giving support to her husband, she must let her husband know her own shortcomings.Only in this way can he deal with everything better.While caring for his wife, the husband also longs for the same caring for his wife.So, don't forget to love your husband.

Between husband and wife, whether it is a man or a woman, they must learn to coordinate the relationship with their elders.Be good at treating your elders with the mentality of respecting your parents on both sides, and think about your tomorrow with the method of heart-to-heart and transposition, which is the elders' today.Treat them differently according to their elders' personalities, and don't force them too much.No matter how your parents treated you in the past, the love between husband and wife is the best preferential treatment to honor your elders, because you feel sorry for the hearts of parents all over the world.

Having children in a family can add more color, and having children is the best reward for honoring parents.Having children is equivalent to continuing your dream of love, which can bring warmth to the family.Children make you better at work because children are the backbone of your spirit.Having children will make you more rational when making any decisions, and children are also the best excuse for refusing to socialize.

Families should learn how to spend money reasonably.The couple's money is earned through their own efforts, and it cannot be completely said that it has nothing to do with the other party, except for special occasions.To a certain extent, don't overly distinguish your money from mine, and try to consume after discussion and communication in family expenses, let alone set up your own small treasury.In special cases and occasions, it is necessary to establish a good reminder language in advance.For example, friends borrow money or children ask for money for no reason.

Husband and wife should be good at expressing their views.Both husband and wife should express their opinions at an appropriate time and environment, so that they can treat problems more rationally.Express your point of view while taking advantage of the other person's mood.Husband and wife also need to guide each other. As the saying goes, "the pillow is a good teacher".

Between husband and wife, don't let housework disturb the relationship between two people.Housework is not the monopoly of women. Housework is regarded as a platform for husband and wife to communicate, and labor is the best language to win each other's hearts.It allows you to look at the problems of life with a happy attitude, and enjoy the process of doing things with a happy attitude.

Neither man nor woman can learn to hide from reality.Don't bring too many work problems into the family, learn to decompress yourself.With the idea that the sky will fall and you will carry it, everything will naturally develop in a good direction if you look at the good side.

Husband and wife should care for each other.I have achieved results.Don't hang yourself up high, thinking that you are great and belittle the other person's feelings.

Behind a successful man is a man who gets along well, so it should be said that family is the cornerstone of career success.If you want to share the blessings, you must share the difficulties; even if you have small snacks, you should try your best to take care of them.

Communication between husband and wife takes place almost every day.The small communication between husband and wife is as ordinary as water and air.Therefore, it is easy to be ignored, and few people pay attention to the art of communication.Pay attention to the effect of communication.

One sentence can make people laugh, and one sentence can make people jump. The so-called relationship between husband and wife is actually the effect of communication between husband and wife, that is, whether they can communicate.

Husband and wife are not a place to talk and argue in the family. What is needed here is mutual respect and understanding.Respect means not being polite in everything, but communicating closely and effectively.This leads to mutual understanding and communication.

With mutual understanding, the differences in personalities and pursuits of the two parties can be compatible and coordinated with each other.Understanding does not have to be completely consistent; nor does each do its own thing.No one cares about anyone, understanding is to understand each other's personality psychology and life concepts.

You may disapprove of certain ideas and performances, but you cannot deny them all. Couples who understand each other may have different views on certain things, or they may do different things; but they are closely connected emotionally and spiritually. move closer together.

Husband and wife need compliments, even a superfluous greeting or a flat meaningless good word will make the other party feel refreshed and extremely happy.

Husband and wife are not inseparable. Husband and wife are as close as friends; the reason why friends can last forever is that they have space for each other.Love is also a kind of friendship. Only when husband and wife have the same relationship as friends can their love last.

The so-called space means that the husband and wife allow each other space to maximize their respective strengths.Husbands and wives should respect each other's privacy, and if they have any disagreements, they should put forward the pros and cons, and give in to each other with the advantages and disadvantages.

Both husband and wife must take the initiative to love each other and form a community of hearts.The love between husband and wife is generally not as warm and considerate as when they are passionately in love or newly married. This kind of mutual love is mostly trivial and small.

Because of its triviality, it is easy to do, but it is also easy to be ignored.If husband and wife are self-conscious and proactive like lovers, meticulous, and more romantic, then the negative impact of trivial daily life can be avoided, and a family atmosphere with long-lasting tenderness, warmth and lasting can be formed, and perfection should be sought in the imperfect , Husband and wife will always be lovers.

Appreciation is priceless, accommodate and praise your lover, and constantly improve the artistic level of couples getting along!May all married couples have a happy life and all married life is sunny.

There is no right or wrong, only cherish or not! Treat your lover sincerely.

In fact, to put it bluntly, love is ordinary and ordinary, that is, men and women understand each other, respect each other, support each other, care for each other, learn from each other's strengths, and comfort and considerate; the protagonist of the story is always a man and a woman who eat and drink;

The scene of the story is always family and society; the plot of the story is always nothing more than a man falling in love with a woman or a woman falling in love with a man; the ending of the story is either a tragedy or a comedy, and there is never a middle way; In your life, you will meet many people with different personalities and different people. How many of them are your bosom friends?How many people love themselves deeply?How many are you deeply in love with?

It is better to cherish the person in front of you than to seek thousands of times in the crowd; love is not waiting for you to cherish it when you are free, it is fate that we meet.For this fate, we may all be trying to adapt to each other, and we just want to let nature take its course;
If you can find someone you like in the vast crowd.It is not easy for people who truly love each other, and it is also a great honor. Maybe everything is not as you think, not so perfect, maybe not as good as you imagined, and it should not be so bad. Life is not so beautiful.All happiness should be known and cherished, and talk more about caring and less blame.There is a need for mutual understanding between people, and love is the same;

True love cannot be expressed in words, it comes from the heart. When you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted and fascinated by the person you love.Concerned about him.I wish I could see him every minute. When I can’t see him, I will think about him all the time. When I see him, my heart will beat faster. When we are together, I will feel very warm and safe;…

If you truly love someone, you will willingly take care of him, care for him, and give him everything he wants. When you see the person you love is happy, you will be happy, and when you see him troubled, you will be troubled, but you will try everything ways to make the ones you love happy;
If you truly love someone, you will want to grow old with him.With him, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him the greatest happiness.And you also get another kind of happiness in this process!
Always thinking of him makes me happy, and I really care about him. Without him, I seem to lose something. With him, I have happiness. Feel it with your heart.

No matter who you are, you must believe in your own choices.For example, your family is your best choice, you have to believe that your choice is wise, and you have to believe that you are where you are now because of the fate of the combination.Everyone has their own eternity in their hearts.

No matter what happens, or what difficulties you encounter, let yourself understand: love is in your heart!
Believe that he and she are worthy of your love for the rest of your life.The momentary flashes of him and her will remain in my heart forever.Don't forget to say "I love you" to the people around you at least every day. Although the words are very simple, they are the most sincere; although they are very ordinary, they are so warm in the ordinary.

Life is not about living well alone, but living well with two people.Live with your heart, feel with your heart, and love those who love you and those you love with your heart!

When husband and wife get along, only when they consider each other, understand each other, and confess each other, can this couple truly grow old together!
It wasn't long before Zhao Chaogang married Liu Jingjing, but in his heart he really wanted to grow old with Liu Jingjing. Therefore, although Zhao Chaogang is now a cultivator in the middle stage of foundation establishment, when he was with Liu Jingjing, He would not show the dignity of a cultivator at all, and would not get along with Liu Jingjing with an attitude of looking down.

When Zhao Chaogang gets along with Liu Jingjing, he will put himself at a disadvantage from time to time. This is not only Zhao Chaogang's love for Liu Jingjing, but also the best proof that Zhao Chaogang wants to grow old with Liu Jingjing/Li Liping.

If Zhao Chaogang didn't want to grow old with Liu Jingjing/Li Liping, he would never try to please Liu Jingjing/Li Liping, and would not do some naive but romantic things from time to time. In order to please Liu Jingjing/Li Liping, Zhao Chaogang, But for doing such a naive thing, it is obvious that Zhao Chaogang really loves Liu Jingjing and Li Liping deeply.

Yes, now Zhao Chaogang still has a lot of secrets that he has not told Liu Jingjing and Li Liping, especially regarding the small world of Yu and the source of his adventure, Zhao Chaogang has not confessed to Liu Jingjing and Li Liping at all. On the contrary, it is necessary for couples to get along with each other frankly, but Zhao Chaogang did not deliberately conceal this, but Zhao Chaogang was forced to conceal it.

Zhao Chaogang didn't tell Liu Jingjing and Li Liping these things, in fact, it was for their own good.

The secret of the small world is really too big. If Zhao Chaogang tells Liu Jingjing and Li Liping the secret of the small world, this matter will definitely not be a good thing for them, and even Zhao Chaogang will be harmed by this matter. A family was destroyed.

Maybe, when I get here, many people will say, I am lying, I just don’t want to reveal the secret of the small world, I don’t want to share this secret with others, it is completely selfishness at work.

If you think so, you are completely wrong.

yes.Zhao Chaogang didn't tell Liu Jingjing and Li Liping the secrets of the small world. It is undeniable that there is some selfishness at work, but.I believe everyone will understand Zhao Chaogang's selfishness, just like when you get along with your own wife, don't many people always want to hide some private money.

Don't say things like hiding private money, you haven't done it, anyway, Xing Zhe has been hiding private money, hey, otherwise.Where do you get the money to pay the bills when you go out with your friends?

Zhao Chaogang concealed the secret of the small world, and his mood was similar to our mentality of hiding private money.Moreover, this is only an extremely small reason why Zhao Chaogang did not tell Liu Jingjing and Li Liping the secret of the small world. one-third.

The real reason why Zhao Chaogang didn't tell Liu Jingjing and Li Liping the secret of the small world was because Zhao Chaogang was afraid that the secret of the small world would be leaked out.

certainly.Zhao Chaogang was not afraid that Liu Jingjing and Li Liping would reveal the secrets of the small world.If this is the case, Zhao Chaogang is absolutely confident that after he told Liu Jingjing and Li Liping the secret of the small world, they would never tell this secret to others.

Big deal, when the time comes, Zhao Chaogang will place a restriction in Liu Jingjing and Li Liping's sea of ​​consciousness. Once Liu Jingjing or Li Liping wants to tell others the secret of the small world, this restriction will immediately make them dizzy, and then Zhao Chaogang will There is enough time to rush over and stop Liu Jingjing or Li Liping.

certainly.This is the worst plan, if such a thing really happens.That means that Zhao Chaogang doesn't really like Liu Jingjing and Li Liping, so Zhao Chaogang will tell them the secret of the small world when the time comes.

In fact, Zhao Chaogang didn't want to hide the secrets of the small world from Liu Jingjing and Li Liping at all. It can be seen from Zhao Chaogang's continuous production of some very miraculous pills and cultivation techniques that Zhao Chaogang was really wrong. Liu Jingjing and Li Liping fortified.

You must know that when Zhao Chaogang took out these things, he did not make any excuses for the source of these things. Zhao Chaogang even told Liu Jingjing and Li Liping about his identity as a cultivator, and even brought Liu Jingjing and Li Liping into the In the world of cultivators, Zhao Chaogang helped the two of them become real cultivators. Therefore, Zhao Chaogang didn't want to hide the small world from Liu Jingjing and Li Liping.

Zhao Chaogang didn't tell Liu Jingjing and Li Liping the secret of the small world because he wanted to protect the safety of Liu Jingjing, Li Liping, and Zhao Chaogang's family.

The small world is a real acquired treasure. Once such a treasure is leaked, even Da Luo Jinxian, who is nine days away, will salivate. They will disregard their status and use all means to get the acquired treasure of the small world.

Some people may say that the acquired treasure of the small world is in Zhao Chaogang's hands, as long as Zhao Chaogang, Liu Jingjing and Li Liping don't tell outsiders, that's fine. At that time, no one can take away the small world, right? !

If you really think this way, then your ending will definitely be miserable, because when a cultivator reaches an extremely high level, his abilities will become stronger and stronger, and some abilities will even be so powerful that you will be terrified.

It's like once a cultivator reaches the existence of the emperor level, then once you say the name of the immortal emperor level, then the immortal emperor level immortal will immediately sense it, and he will know it soon. Who is talking about him, and then, these immortals are talking about this immortal emperor-level immortal, and this immortal emperor-level immortal will know.

This is also why in the fairy world, when many immortals plan to plot against others, they will set up a bullying array. The effect of the bullying array is actually very limited. , and there will be no harm. If you do more, you will be trapped by the phantom formation in the bullying formation, because the bullying formation has only one function, so you can hide it.

Concealing the sky and crossing the sea: Literally means hiding from the sky and smuggling across the sea. It is a metaphor for hiding one's true intentions from others with lies and disguises, and acting secretly behind the scenes.

Anonymous in the Qing Dynasty included "Crossing the Sea with Concealment" into his "36 Strategies" and made it the first of the "36 Strategies". The strategy of "crossing the sea with the sky" has been used in ancient times, and the formation of the term "cross the sea with the sky" may have something to do with the story of Xue Rengui's design to let Tang Taizong cross the sea in "Xue Rengui's Expedition to Liao" written by an unknown person in the early Yuan Dynasty.

The first use of the term "crossing the sea without the sky" should not be later than the end of the Ming Dynasty.

The strategy of "crossing the sea from the sky".People have used it in ancient times.

For example: In the Spring and Autumn Period, Qi Jiang and Hu Yan made a plan to get Jin Gongzi Chong'er drunk.He was sent away from Qi State; in the Sui Dynasty, Sui General He Ruobi repeatedly changed defenses with great fanfare to paralyze the enemy. Finally, when the enemy was unaware, he commanded a large army to attack and conquer South Xuzhou of Chen State.

The formation of the term "Crossing the Sea with Concealment" may be related to the story of Xue Rengui's design for Tang Taizong to cross the sea in "Xue Rengui's Expedition to Liao Stories" written by an unknown person in the early Yuan Dynasty.

The first use of the phrase "Crossing the Sky" was not later than Ruan Dacheng's "Swallow Notes? Buying Fortune" at the end of the Ming Dynasty: "I am the most famous for prosecuting. No one asks about crossing the sea. This year's big competition is approaching again. Well, I just want Earn a few coins to support Ah Zheng."

"Crossing the sea with the sky" is the name of the "36 Strategies".It began with "36 Strategies" written by Anonymous in the Qing Dynasty.

The strategy of cheating the sky and crossing the sea was used a lot in ancient times, in many major events in ancient times.There is a strategy of deceiving the world.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, the Jiang family of Qi sent her husband away while drunk.It is the strategy of deceiving the sky and crossing the sea.

The original text in "Zuo Zhuan? The Exodus of Jin Gongzi Chong'er": Ji Qi, the wife of Duke Huan of Qi, has twenty horses.The son is safe.Followers thought it was impossible.Will go, seek under the tree.The silkworm concubine was on it to sue Jiang.

The Jiang family killed him, and said that the son said: "My son has ambitions in all directions. I have killed those who have heard of it." The son said: "No." Jiang said: "Yes! Huaihean, it is defeated name." Young Master can't.Jiang and Zi committed a conspiracy.Get drunk and send it away.Wake up, use Ge to chase son offender.

Translation: Arrived in the state of Qi.Duke Huan of Qi married him a wife and gave him twenty cars and a corresponding number of horses. Chong'er was very satisfied with this life.

The people who followed Chong'er thought that they should not stay like this, and wanted to go to other places, so they discussed it under the mulberry tree.A slave girl who was raising silkworms was on a mulberry tree. She went back and told Chonger's wife, Jiang Shi, what she had heard.

Mrs. Jiang killed the female slave and said to Chong'er, "You have plans to travel far and wide. Anyone who overhears this, I have already killed her."

Chong'er said, "There is no such thing."

Jiang said: "You go! Greed for enjoyment and contentment with the status quo will destroy your reputation."

Chong'er refused to leave, so Jiang discussed with Hu Yan, drunk Chong'er with wine, and then sent him out of Qi. After Chong'er sobered up, he picked up his spear and went after Hu Yan.

This is the use of the strategy of deceiving the sky and crossing the sea in the Spring and Autumn Period. In the Sui Dynasty, the famous story of He Ruobi changing defenses and building momentum also used the strategy of deceiving the sky and crossing the sea.

The original text in "Sui Shu? The Biography of He Ruobi": In the ninth year of Kaihuang's reign, Chen was attacked on a large scale, and Bi was the general manager of the march.When crossing the river, he drank wine and cursed: "Bi's relatives inherited the temple strategy, strengthened the country's prestige far away, punished crimes and punished the people, and eliminated evil and violence. Go to the Yangtze River to learn from it. If it is good, good, bad, and prostitution, the army will benefit; If something goes wrong, you have to be buried in the belly of Jiangyu, and you will die without hatred.”…

First of all, Bi asked Yuan Jiangfang to gather in Liyang every time he gave an account.So the banners were lined up, and the camp was thrown into the wild.

The Chen people thought that the soldiers had arrived, so they sent out the soldiers and horses of the country.Knowing how to prevent people from confessing, the crowd will disperse.After that, I took it for granted and no longer installed it.And here, Chen Renfu felt that Bi used a large army to help the river.Invaded Chennan Xuzhou, pulled him out, and held his governor Huang Ke.

Translation: In the ninth year of Emperor Kaihuang, the Sui Dynasty aggressively attacked Chen Guo and appointed He Ruobi as the general manager of the army.

The army was about to cross the river. He Ruobi offered wine to pay homage, and prayed: "I, He Ruobi, have received instructions from my ancestors from the ancestral temple. I am going to conquer distant lands to revitalize the country, crusade against sinners, appease the suffering people, and cut off the vicious and cruel. , Yangtze River, please watch me do these things. If I can bless the good and bring disaster to the wicked, the army will cross the river smoothly; What a pity."

Prior to this, He Ruobi required that the troops deployed along the Yangtze River must concentrate in Liyang every time they changed their defenses.So every time there is a handover, many flags will be erected in Liyang, and military camps and tents will be spread all over the mountains and plains.

The people of Chen Dynasty thought that the soldiers were coming to attack, so they ordered all the troops in the country to come out to defend.Later, after knowing that it was the Sui Army who changed defenses, Chen Jun dispersed again.This happened many times later.Chen Chao thought it was a normal matter, so he no longer deployed troops to guard against it.

At this time, He Ruobi led the army across the river.Chen Chaoren didn't notice it at all.The army of the Sui Dynasty attacked and occupied Chen's southern Xuzhou, and captured Huang Ke, the governor of southern Xuzhou.

Xue Rengui was a famous general in the Tang Dynasty, a native of Jiangzhou, a famous military strategist and statesman, and his officials ranged from General Zuoweiwei to Protector of Anton.Because he likes to wear white robes all his life, he is known as "White Robe General".

In order to defend the country of Tang Dynasty.He was a soldier and horse all his life, and he was born and died. He created such great achievements as "Three Arrows Set Tianshan", "Bravely Conquered Liaodong", "One Look Repelled Thousands of Enemies", "Good Strategy Stops Fighting", "Benevolent Government Goryeo", "Love the People Xiangzhou City" and so on.

"Zhouyi Xinben Guyi" written by him.It is the earliest work in the world to demonstrate the art of war with dialectics.

"Concealing the sky and crossing the sea" later became a tactic in the art of war to show falsehood and hide the truth. It is one of the famous "36 tactics", which is used as a camouflage in battles in order to achieve unexpected battle results.Xue Rengui is a fledgling.This trick will work.Really good life!
Tang Taizong once commented on Xue Rengui: "I am old and old, and I can't bear to be sent by outsiders. Every time I want to recruit heroes, there is no one like Qing. I don't like Liaodong, but I like Qing."

Tang Gaozong also praised Xue Rengui in this way: "The people who taught Xian Zunsheng in the northern Han Dynasty and Liaodong have the power of Qing." "No one who is brave in ancient times can defeat Qing."Tang Xuanzong also said to Xue Rengui's son: "Father Qing is brave and rare, unprecedented in ancient times."

Can get so many emperors so high praise.It can be seen that Xue Rengui is so awesome!

Xue Rengui's descendants are also very competitive.His son, Xue Na, was an official to Grand Marshal and Prime Minister; his grandson, Xue Song.His great-grandson Xue Ping, his great-grandson Xue Ping, the crown prince Taibao and Han Guogong;

The 47 grandchildren of Xue Rengui's twelfth generation were all civil and military officials valued by the court, and they made great contributions to the 21 emperors of the Tang Dynasty.

To say that the strategy of cheating the sky and crossing the sea was really used to such a pure and pure point in history, it was during the Three Kingdoms period. During the Three Kingdoms period, the strategy of cheating the sky and crossing the sea was used to the greatest extent!

For example, the story of Wang Mei quenching thirst and boosting morale, I think everyone is familiar with this story, but this is actually a different kind of deception!
At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Cao Cao led his troops to attack Zhang Xiu, marching all the way, walking very hard.It was midsummer, the sun was hanging hot in the sky, exuding huge heat, and the earth was almost scorched.

Cao Cao's army has been walking for many days and is very tired.This road is full of barren mountains and ridges, without human habitation, and there is no water source for dozens of miles around.The soldiers tried their best, but they couldn't get a drop of water to drink.

In the scorching sun, the soldiers were dizzy and sweaty, but they couldn't find water to drink. Everyone's mouth was dry, and it felt like their throats were on fire. Many people's lips were so chapped. , the blood flowed straight.

Every few miles they walked, some people fell down and died of heat stroke. Even the soldiers with strong bodies were gradually unable to support them.

Seeing such a scene, Cao Cao was very anxious.He rode his horse and ran to a nearby hill, looking far away from the hill, looking for a place with water.But he was disappointed to find that the cracked land stretched as far as the eye could see, and the dry area was very large.

Looking back at the soldiers again, they were staggering here and there, thirsty for a long time, and it seemed that it would be difficult to go any farther.

Cao Cao is a smart man, he thought in his heart: this is terrible, we can't find water, if we continue to consume it like this, not only will the opportunity of fighting be delayed, but also a lot of troops will be lost here. Morale, to inspire everyone out of the arid zone?

Cao Cao thought and thought, and suddenly he had an idea, and a good idea popped into his mind.

He was on the hill, drew out his command flag, pointed forward, and shouted: "Not far ahead, there is a large plum grove full of big, sour and sweet plums. Hold on, and go there to eat plums." It will quench your thirst!"

After hearing Cao Cao's words, the soldiers thought of the sour taste of plums, as if they had really eaten plums. Their mouths drooled immediately, their spirits cheered up, and they summoned up all their strength and hurried forward.

In this way, Cao Cao finally led the army to a place with water.

Cao Cao used people's conditioned reflex to the sour taste of plums to successfully overcome the difficulty of thirst.

It can be seen that when people encounter difficulties, they should not be afraid to move forward. They should always use the desire for success to motivate themselves, and they will have enough courage to overcome difficulties and reach the other side of success.

It seems that this story has nothing to do with cheating the sky and crossing the sea, but as long as you think about the content in it, you will find that looking for plums to quench thirst is actually an alternative expression of the strategy of cheating the sky and crossing the sea, at least in this story!
It's not just Wangmei Qunxi in the Three Kingdoms that used deception here. For example, in the story of deceiving Yuan Shao and the second official's clever words, Liu Bei also used the strategy of deception!
It is said that during the days when Liu Bei lived in Yuan Shao's place, at first, he missed Guan Yu and Zhang Fei who were separated all day long.Later, when he learned that Guan Yu was staying with Cao Cao, he was worried that he could not be with Guan Yu again.

One day, Liu Pi and Gong Du of Runan sent Liu Bei's old official Sun Qian as their envoy, and asked Yuan Shao to join them in defeating Cao Cao.Because Yuan Shao didn't know the strength of Runan, he hesitated for a while.

At this time, when Sun Qian visited Liu Bei, he offered advice and said: "What are you waiting for if the emperor doesn't take this opportunity to escape?"

Liu Bei said, "Where can I go if I leave this place?"

Sun Gan said: "Uncle Huang can develop his own power in Runan, so that General Guan can have something to vote for in the future. Otherwise, can General Guan take the risk to vote for Yuan Shao? Guan Yu killed two members of Yuan Shao in the Battle of the White Horse General, how can Yuan Shao not be jealous of him?"

Liu Bei said: "Your concern is very serious, but how can I get out of it?"

Sun Gan smiled and said, "It's not easy. Tomorrow when Yuan Shao is discussing with the lord, why don't you take the initiative to go to Runan as an envoy?"

Liu Bei was enlightened after hearing this.

The next day, when Yuan Shao proposed to Liu Bei that he would join forces with Runan to defeat Cao Cao, Liu Bei said, "It is better to wait for my relatives to visit Runan before making a decision." Yuan Shao also felt that this was more secure, so he sent Liu Bei immediately set off to go.

When Liu Bei arrived in Runan, he saw that Liu Pi's army was too weak to gain a foothold, so he gave up his idea of ​​staying in Runan.So he returned to Yuan Shao's place.

A few days later, Liu Bei heard that Guan Yu had escaped from Cao Cao and joined his third brother Zhang Fei in the ancient city, recruiting many soldiers.Liu Bei thought, now is the time to get away from Yuan Shao.So Jian Yong was summoned to secretly discuss how to escape.

Jian Yong said: "My lord, you can go to see Yuan Shao tomorrow, and I will go to Jingzhou to invite Liu Biao to attack Cao together. If he agrees, we can take the opportunity to escape." Liu Bei asked, "How can you escape?" Jian Yong said: "My lord, don't worry too much. , I have my own way of escape."

The next day, Liu Bei said to Yuan Shao: "Liu Biao is guarding the nine counties of Jingxiang, and he has enough soldiers and food. How about I go and invite him to attack Cao Cao together?" Yuan Shao said, "I also sent envoys to him, but he refused to join him I cooperate."

Liu Bei said: "He and I are both clansmen of the Han Dynasty. If I go to persuade him, he will not refuse." Yuan Shao said: "If we can join forces with Liu Biao, it will be much stronger than the alliance with Liu Pi in Runan." Order Liu Bei to leave immediately.

As soon as Liu Bei left, Jian Yong said to Yuan Shao, "Liu Biao has a solid foundation in Jingzhou, and he and Liu Bei belong to the same clan. I'm afraid Liu Biao will be persuaded by Liu Bei if he can't say it, and stay in Jingzhou. Why don't I go with him?" Then we can persuade Liu Biao together, and secondly, we can urge him to return soon." Yuan Shao said, "Your thought is very thorough, so you can go quickly."

In this way, Liu Bei and Jian Yong escaped from Yuan Shao, and joined Guan Yu, Zhang Fei, and Zhao Yun to station in Runan.

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