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"Okay, I don't have any opinions, so I'll just follow what Xu Chang said. As long as everyone cooperates sincerely, everything else can be discussed."

Leng Xin on the one side also agreed, and he also showed great sincerity. In fact, Leng Xin didn't care much about Xuchang's limited cooperation.

To be honest, if Xu Chang said that he sincerely cooperated with Monkey and the others, on the contrary, Leng Xin's vigilance would only increase at this time. He didn't believe in such things as falling from the sky.

However, now that Xu Chang said what he said so clearly and so softly, after Leng Xin listened to it, he felt more at ease in his heart.

"Then it's settled like this, Brother Xuchang, now let's discuss how to distribute the work between the two parties when investigating the terrain of this island? Who is responsible for each direction? These issues, I think... . "

Xu Chang's limited cooperation made things go smoothly, and soon, Hou Zi, Xu Chang, Leng Xin and other subordinates began to gather together to discuss how to investigate the terrain of this strange island.

Since this is related to the .nsb.om matter of my own comfort, everyone here dare not neglect, and all put 12 points of energy to deal with it... ………………………………………………………………………………….
"Okay, it's settled like this. The detailed situation of the north and west directions of this strange island will be checked by us people, and the detailed situation of the east and south directions will be left to Xu Chang. Brother you, Brother Xuchang. I'm tired of you!"

Half an hour later, Xu Chang and Hou Zi discussed the specific allocation plan for exploring the topography of the island, and Xu Chang nodded in agreement with this plan.

"What's the trouble? Since it's a cooperation, I won't take advantage of you. I'm not a black-hearted person. I will take responsibility for what should be my responsibility. I'm not like those bastards—— If you encounter an advantage, you will rush forward to take advantage of it, and if you encounter difficulties, you will be the first to run away. Don't worry. I will investigate the details of the southeast direction of this island in detail.

Leng Xin, I hope that when I come here again, I can get good news.Just eat it! "

Before Xu Chang's words fell, his entire figure disappeared completely. Now that the specific cooperation plan and the scope of investigation of the two parties have been discussed, how can Xu Chang stay with people like Leng Xin?Every time I spend more time with people like Leng Xin.The dissatisfaction in Xu Chang's heart became stronger.So, after discussing the specific cooperation plan, Xu Chang flew away directly using his lightness kung fu, and it was a sight to see for nothing!

"Bah..., who is it? It seems that he is the only one who knows how to do light work, ah...!" Leng Xin slobbered on the ground, and left without saying hello to Xu Chang.Leng Xin was extremely dissatisfied.

Of course, when Leng Xin spat at Xu Chang's impolite behavior.It has been a full minute since Xu Chang used lightness kung fu to leave, and now Leng Xin only dares to vent his dissatisfaction and jealousy when Xu Chang can't hear his complaints!

"Okay, okay, big brother, why are you angry!" Seeing Leng Xin's behavior, Monkey stepped forward to persuade Leng Xin. Monkey actually understood why Leng Xin did such a thing.

After all, Leng Xin was still that powerful warrior a minute ago, Xu Chang could only bow his head to Leng Xin, how dare he make a mistake here, but now it's the other way around, he Leng Xin is going to bow his head to Xu Chang, This made Leng Xin, who was used to being the boss, very uncomfortable. Therefore, facing Xu Chang's impolite behavior of leaving without delay, Leng Xin was very dissatisfied!
"Boss, let's discuss the action plan later. Who will investigate the island's specific situation? Who will look for food and fresh water? Boss, I'm a little hungry and thirsty right now. Already!"

"Thirsty?! Really, I'm really a little thirsty now, well, let's discuss the action plan later, and you will take three people to investigate the two places in the northwest of the island. What do you think of the details of this direction, and I will lead the others to find fresh water and food, monkey?"

Leng Xin was quickly diverted by the monkey. He felt thirsty in his mouth, and he couldn't care less about complaining about Xu Chang.

"Okay, brother, I'll listen to you. I will take people to investigate the terrain. Brother will take people to find food and fresh water. Brother, I will take people to set off."

"Well, that's it!"

Soon, Hou Zi and Leng Xin led the people to separate and start to act, and the forest once again returned to calm!

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The conversation was divided into two parts, Leng Xin and Hou Zi on this side started to move, and Xu Chang on the other side also started to move.

When discussing the specific plan for exploring the island, Xu Chang actually played a small trick. Xu Chang, who was born as a fisherman for generations, knew very well that if he wanted to find food and fresh water on an unfamiliar island, the southeast direction was the most likely place.

The sunlight in the southeast direction is more abundant, so the vegetation in that direction is denser, and correspondingly, there are more animals in that direction, so Xuchang has a higher chance of finding food and drink. bigger.

Therefore, when discussing the cooperation plan, Xu Chang directly proposed that he be responsible for the southeast direction.It can be seen from this that Xu Chang also has some cleverness!
"Well, I didn't expect that there is such a thing here. With this thing, Xiaojie and I will not be in danger of lack of food and fresh water. Today is really blessed by God!"

A few big trees not far away directly attracted Xu Chang's attention. When he saw these big trees, Xu Chang let go of his worries about food and fresh water. With these coconut trees, Xu Chang didn't have to worry about food. and fresh water issues.

Coconut tree (English: cs nifer) is the only large plant in the palm family Cocos, and coconut is the fruit of the coconut tree.It is a fruit that is very popular in the tropics.

The popularity of the coconut tree is also related to the fact that the fruit coconut can drift thousands of kilometers in the sea and reproduce to a place very far away from the mother tree.

Coconut trees are evergreen trees that are native to the tropics.The trunk is about 15-30m high, with a single crown.Leaves pinnatisect.4-6m long, numerous lobes, leathery, linear-lanceolate, 65-100m long, 3-4m wide, apex acuminate; petiole stout, more than 1m long.

Coconut aliases include milk peach, cocoa, Yuewangtou, coconut juice, and coconut wine.

Coconut is an organic fruit of plants, no pollution.Contains rich vitamin B, C, sodium, protein, amino acid and complex polysaccharide substances.There is drinkable juice in the coconut, which can be used as a beverage.

Coconut water is rich in protein, fat, and vitamins that promote cell regrowth.Improve eyesight, invigorate stomach and sober up alcohol, relieve summer heat with sweetness (the Red Army of Qiongya Column once injected coconut water into veins instead of glucose water to maintain life).The flesh is white, can be eaten or pressed for oil, and is rich in nutrition.The peel fiber can form a net.The trunk can be used as building material.The bark has medicinal value.

Coconut is a tropical light-loving crop, which grows well under the conditions of high temperature, rainy, sunny and sea breeze.It is required that the annual average temperature is above 24-25 degrees, the temperature difference is small, and there is no frost throughout the year, so that coconuts can bloom and bear fruit normally. The optimum growth temperature is 26-27 degrees.

Commercially grown coconuts are generally harvested as green, immature fruits that are somewhat triangular in shape and about the size of a football.The "coconut" sold in stores is actually the brown core of the coconut.Also known as "coconut".

There is actually a thick layer of fiber and a green hard shell outside the core, in order to save the space occupied by transportation.The outer core is generally removed before shipping, and the core contains about a liter of almost clear sweet juice and fragrant pulp.

Coconut tree, the trunk is straight, 15-30m high, with a single crown and neat shape.

Leaves are pinnately divided, 4-6m long, with numerous lobes, leathery, linear-lanceolate, 65-100m long, 3-4m wide, apex acuminate; petiole is stout, more than 1m long.

Inflorescences axillary, 1.5-2m long, multi-branched, male flowers clustered in the upper part of the branches, female flowers scattered in the lower part; male flowers with 3 sepals, scale-like, 3-4mm long, 3 petals, leathery, egg-shaped oblong Shaped, 1-1.5m long; 6 stamens; several bracteoles at base of female flower, sepals leathery, round, about 2.5m wide, petals are similar to sepals, but smaller.

Nut obovate or nearly spherical, slightly triangular at the top, 15-25m long, endocarp bony, with 3 germination holes near the base, 1 seed; a cavity rich in juice in the endosperm.

The ripe fruit is oval or ellipsoid, with a thick shell and rich in fiber; the endocarp is hard, filled with endosperm (composed of coconut meat and coconut milk), and the embryo is very small.

椰子树通常5～6年后开始结果，15～18年为盛产期，单株结果40～80个，多者超过100个，经济寿命超过80年。

The number of leaves produced by coconut trees varies with the age of the tree. Before the peak production period, it tends to increase with the age of the tree. After the peak production period, it decreases slightly, but it can still remain constant.

Coconut trees generally have about 3 leaves per year at the seedling stage, 10-13 leaves for unfruitful saplings, 14-15 young fruiting trees, and 12-13 mature trees.As the plants age, the number of leaves produced per year decreases accordingly.

Within a year, due to seasonal changes, the number of coconut palm leaves per month also changes to a certain extent.The number of flower buds produced by young fruiting trees is less than that of adult trees, the former is 10.6 on average and the latter is 12.

In a year, the number of buds of coconut trees is the most in May-June, and the least in November-December.The inflorescence is exposed after 5 months after the buds are pulled out, which is called flowering. The flowering period is from July to September, and the pistils are the most in the flower buds, and the least is from November to March of the next year. It takes 6 months to mature.

Coconut trees mainly include green coconut, yellow coconut and red coconut. Coconut trees are generally more than 25 meters high. There are bunches of round coconuts under the coconut leaves.

Coconut cultivation has a long history, and many types and varieties have been formed in long-term natural selection and artificial selection.It is often analyzed and identified from the perspective of cultivated varieties that there are wild species and cultivated species, and cultivated species can be divided into high species, dwarf species and hybrid species.

Coconut trees are suitable for growing in low-altitude areas. The South China Sea Islands in my country can only grow well at altitudes below 150-200m.

Coconut is a tropical crop.It grows well under the conditions of high temperature, rainy, sunny and sea breeze.It is required that the annual average temperature is above 24-25C, the temperature difference is small, and there is no frost throughout the year.Coconuts can bloom and bear fruit normally, and the optimum growth temperature is 26-27c.

If the average temperature of one month in a year is 18c, its yield will drop obviously. If the average temperature is lower than 15c, it will cause flower drop, fruit drop and yellowing of leaves.

水分条件应为年降雨量1500～2000mm以上，而且分布均匀，但在地下水源较丰富或能进行灌溉的地区。年降雨量为600～800mm也能良好生长；干旱对椰子产量的影响长达2～3年，长期积水也会影响椰于的长势和产量。

In terms of soil fertility, the growth of coconut palms requires rich potassium fertilizers.The pH value of the soil can be 5.2-8.3.But 7.0 is the most suitable.Coconuts have strong wind resistance. Strong winds of magnitude 6 to 7 only have a slight impact on their growth and yield. Typhoons of magnitude 8 to 9 can blow off a few leaves and tear small leaves. Strong typhoons above magnitude 10-12 have serious damage to coconuts.The conditions are suitable, and the coconuts begin to bear fruit two years after planting.

Coconut pulp juice tonic, body fluid, diuretic, insecticidal, used for heart disease edema, dry mouth and polydipsia, ginger worm; fruit shell dispelling wind.Promoting dampness, relieving itching.External use controls tinea corporis, tinea pedis.Coconut pulp has the function of invigorating deficiency and strengthening; coconut water is the main raw material for making coconut fruit, which has the effect of nourishing, clearing heat and quenching thirst.

Coconut juice is as clear as water, quite sweet, translucent, refreshing and thirst-quenching.

A good coconut, about two glasses of water, contains two tablespoons of sugar, as well as protein, fat, vitamin C and calcium, phosphorus, iron, potassium, magnesium, sodium and other minerals, is a very nutritious drink.In addition, coconut juice is sweet and refreshing, which is an excellent cool and thirst-quenching product. Both coconut milk and coconut meat are rich in nutrients.

Most of us have drunk coconut water, but not everyone has eaten coconut meat.

Coconut meat is the coconut sac. After drinking the coconut juice, you can break open the peel to see the white coconut meat inside. Coconut meat also contains a lot of protein, various vitamins and minerals. The coconut meat is white as jade, fragrant, smooth and crisp. Delicious fruit for all ages.

Coconut as feed is mainly the coconut oil cake left after coconut oil is squeezed. Generally, each coconut can produce 0.18kg of copra, 0.11kg of oil can be squeezed, and 0.055kg of coconut oil cake can be obtained at the same time.

Feeding livestock with coconut oil cake needs to be gradually added to their diets, and the livestock are very happy to eat it after they get used to it.The feeding amount of dairy cows is 1.5-2.0kg per day. Feeding coconut oil cake can increase the milk fat content of dairy cows.

In pig rations, it is best to add 25%. In addition, coconut leaves and copra are also eaten by livestock, but generally they are not used as feed. Fresh coconut water can be used as livestock artificial - insemination - semen - dilute - A component of release—sperm—fluid.

Coconut cultivation has a long history, and many types and varieties have been formed in long-term natural selection and artificial selection.

From the perspective of cultivated varieties, it is believed that there are wild species and cultivated species. The cultivated species can be divided into high species, dwarf species and hybrid species. The main varieties are Wenye No. 2, Wenye No. 3, Wenye No. 4 and Wenye No. 5 etc.

There are two types of tall coconuts: red coconut and green coconut.According to the shape and volume of the fruit, the tall coconut can be divided into three types: large round fruit, medium round fruit and small round fruit.

The height of tall coconuts can reach 25m, while the height of dwarf coconuts is only about 15m. The economic life of high coconuts is much longer than that of dwarf coconuts: the economic life of high coconuts is about 80 years, while that of dwarf coconuts is only about 20-40 years. But the dwarf coconut bears fruit early and has a high yield: the dwarf coconut only needs 3 to 4 years to bloom and bear fruit, and the annual output is about 80 per tree, while the tall coconut takes 6 to 8 years to bloom and bear fruit, and the annual output is about 40 per tree. 60 to [-] trees.

Hybrid coconuts absorb the advantages of tall and dwarf coconuts, and have the characteristics of low height, long life and high yield.The annual output of hybrid coconuts is about 180-200 per tree. In addition, hybrid coconuts also have the characteristics of strong wind resistance and insect resistance.

Wenye 2 (cs nifer lv wenye n. 2) is an excellent variety bred from imported varieties and used in production in my country. It is the first fine variety bred from imported varieties and used in production in China Variety, the parent is Malayan yellow dwarf.Years of production tests and comparative tests have shown that it has excellent comprehensive properties and has strong ecological adaptability in the South China Sea.It is put into production early (3-4 years earlier than the local high species, and reaches the high-yield period after 8 years), high-yield (average plant yield is 115, high-yield single plant can reach more than 200), bright yellow fruit, high protein and sugar content .

It grows well in low-lying coastal areas with abundant and evenly distributed rainfall.Compared with other tropical crops, coconut is more resistant to wind.Generally, the wind in coastal areas is 3 to 4, which is not only harmless but beneficial to the growth, development and production of coconuts;
7～8级热带风景对椰子影响不大，9～10级以上强热带风景将会对椰子产生影响。年总日照量需达到2000小时。每月最少要达120小时，低于这个水平会影响椰子的生长发育。

The requirements for soil conditions are not strict, and the adaptability is strong, and it is more suitable when the pH value is required to be 5-8.

Wenye No. 3 (cs nifer lv wenye n.3) is an excellent variety bred from imported varieties in my country and used in production.It is the first fine variety selected and bred from imported varieties in my country and applied in production.The parent is Malayan red dwarf, with medium cold resistance and wind resistance, strong stability, high yield (average plant yield is 105, high yield per plant can reach more than 200), pure color, high protein and sugar content.

Generally, it blooms and bears fruit 3-4 years after planting, and reaches a high-yield period after 8 years. Its natural life span is about 80 years, and its economic life span is about 60 years.

Wenye 4 (cs nifer lv wenye n.4) is an excellent variety bred from imported varieties in my country and used in production. The parent is Perfume coconut.Years of production tests and comparative tests have shown that the comprehensive properties are excellent.It has the advantages of short plant, early fruiting, high yield, special fragrance of coconut water and coconut meat, delicate and soft coconut meat, delicious and sweet coconut water, and rich nutrition. It is an excellent coconut variety developed as a tender fruit type.

Wenye No. 4 bears fruit early and has a high yield.Generally, it blooms and bears fruit 3 to 4 years after planting, 2 to 3 years earlier than the local high species in Hainan, and reaches the high yield period after 8 years, 3 to 4 years earlier than the local high species in the South China Sea; the yield is high, and the average plant yield is generally more than 70. The high-yield ones can reach more than 120, which is higher than the local high species in the South China Sea; the fruit is small, round, with an average fruit weight of 490-1350g, a fruit diameter of 36-43m, a drupe mass of 370-1220g, and a drupe diameter of 29-37m. The mass is 180-300g; the leaf, petiole and tender fruit peel are green, the peel and seed shell are thin, and the average drupe weight is 607.5g.

On the treasure island of our country, there is a moving legend about coconuts.

A long time ago, there were only mountains on Treasure Island, but no rivers.The spring water is also buried very deep underground and cannot be dug out. People can only use containers to catch rainwater and drink it.When there is drought and it does not rain, people have no choice but to go to the seaside to drink the bitter and astringent sea water.Some people who live far from the sea die of thirst before reaching the sea.

This year, there was another drought on Treasure Island. There was no rain for half a year, and countless people died of thirst.

There is a young girl named Coconut, who lives in the west of Baodao not far from the sea.She was very sad to see so many lives lost due to lack of water.In order for people to drink water, one day, she took a shovel and went to the beach to dig spring water.

She dug and dug for 49 days, until her fingers were worn out. She dug a big and deep sand pit, but there was still no sign of the spring water.

At this moment, Matsupo came and said to her: "My dear child, how can you dig out the spring water if you dig like this?" When Coconut Girl heard this, she shed tears and said, "What should I do! Do you just look at it like this?" Do you want everyone to die of thirst?"

Mazupo said: "There is a way to save people from suffering, but it is at the cost of life!"

When Coconut Girl heard that she had a solution, she hurriedly asked Matsupo: "As long as it can save people from suffering, I am willing to use any method."

Ma Kepo was very moved when she saw that the girl was willing to sacrifice herself for others.So he took out a red fruit like burning coal from his bosom, handed it to the coconut girl, and said, "Good boy! If you eat this fruit, you can find sweet water for people."

The coconut girl swallowed the fruit without hesitation.

In the blink of an eye, the coconut girl turned into a beautiful big peacock.She felt like a fire was burning inside her stomach.My mouth was burning with thirst, very uncomfortable.

She twisted her body and plunged into the sand pit.The pointed mouth kept drilling down.She drilled and drilled, her mouth finally touched the cool spring water, and she drank happily.She drank and thought: I want to drink more water, hold the spring water in my mouth and bring it to the ground, and give it to those who are extremely thirsty.

But her head was buried in the sand and could not move, no matter how hard she pulled it out, she couldn't get it out.

what should I do?With a sudden effort, she suddenly became a big tree.The tall trunk is her body; the broad leaves are her tail.

Her head and mouth became roots.She sucked the underground spring water vigorously, and then sent the sucked water through the tree trunk to the round and big fruit in the village, so that people could quench their thirst by picking it off.

soon.The people who were looking for water came to the big tree one after another after knowing the dedication of the coconut girl. They drank the syrup in the fruit and finally passed the drought period.People commemorate the coconut girl.Call this tree a coconut tree.Its fruit is called coconut.

That is, since then, there have been coconut trees on Baodao, and there are more and more coconut trees.

There is also a legend about the coconut tree.

A long time ago, there was a tribal leader named Luo Wang in the west of South China Sea Island. After he led his men to win a battle, his head was chopped off by a group of traitors and hung on a small tree during a celebration.

In just one night, the small tree grew 4 to 5 feet high, and King Luo's head turned into a hard coconut.The canopy-like coconut leaves are King Luo's hair, and the tall and tall tree trunk is King Luo's body.

It can be clearly seen from here.Coconut is definitely a kind of food that can quench thirst and satisfy hunger. Perhaps the role of coconut is very strange to many ordinary people in the inland areas, but for Xu Chang, who has been a fisherman for generations, he is very clear that he found coconut What does it represent.

There are coconut trees growing on this strange island, which means that they will not die of starvation or thirst, which means that they can live well.No wonder Xu Chang had such a surprised look on his face when he saw these coconut trees.

"Oh..., thank God for your blessing!" Xu Chang shouted, and ran towards the coconut tree with a little luck...

As soon as he came under the coconut tree, Xu Chang immediately went to the top of the coconut tree with a 'huh'. Within ten seconds, Xu Chang disappeared into the deep forest.

Seen from a distance on the beach, Xu Chang's quilt is carrying a few coconuts on his back, and those coconuts are constantly swinging with Xu Chang's lightness kung fu, and they look full of vitality...

Xu Chang brought coconuts to Xu Jie. Xu Jie was injured and now urgently needs nutrition and water supplements. Coconuts are definitely a good nutrition and water supplement. That's why Xu Chang hurriedly picked a few coconuts, and then Going back right away.

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The words were divided into two parts. When the brothers Xu Chang, Xu Jie, and Hou Zi first arrived on the island, Zhao Chaogang's spiritual sense had already been withdrawn.

On the island that Zhao Chaogang just created, there is no dangerous thing at all, and Zhao Chaogang has already abolished all the martial arts of monkeys and Leng Xin. At the southernmost end of the island, Zhao Chaogang also prepared a small song. Fishing boats, therefore, Xuchang and the others must be able to safely return to Yushi District.

Hou Zi and Leng Xin's martial arts were abolished by Zhao Chaogang, and there was nothing dangerous on the island, but the martial arts of Xu Chang and Xu Jie were still there. If Xu Chang and Xu Jie couldn't survive, then Zhao Chao Gang will not pay attention to them anymore.

Zhao Chaogang can help you once or twice, but it is impossible for Zhao Chaogang to help you three, four, or even countless times.To put it bluntly, you are my relative and my friend, if you are neither, why should I help you!

"Huh..." After arranging the matter of Xu Chang and Xu Jie, Zhao Chaogang let out a long sigh of relief. Then, Zhao Chaogang turned his head to Liu who was still playing with those dolphins with a smile on his face. Jingjing said: "Jingjing, I have already done what you asked me to do. I have brought those who fell into the sea to an island, and I have left them a fishing boat. I believe they can return safely now." We've arrived in Yushi District, Jingjing, let me do things neatly!"...

As soon as Zhao Chaogang had done what Liu Jingjing asked, he immediately licked his face and asked Liu Jingjing for credit.When Zhao Chaogang did this, it seemed that he had no face, as if he was inferior.But what Zhao Chaogang did was very good for strengthening the relationship between husband and wife.

The most important thing in getting along between husband and wife is sincerity, the most important thing is to make concessions and tolerance, and the most important thing is to communicate and understand each other!

The family is the smallest cell of the social structure, and it is also an important part of the whole body. Most people experience the ups and downs of family life in a bittersweet life.

There have been rumors of siege for a long time, and modern families are dazzled by various external factors.more and more vulnerable.

Our current society is particularly individualistic and less tolerant.When we asked why those gray-haired old people have walked hand in hand for decades, most of them only had one word.Forbearance, tolerance.

This reminds me of the question about how to get along between husband and wife in the Buddhist scriptures. It succinctly states the key points of getting along with each other and observes carefully.Often harmonious family.This expression is particularly sufficient.

This is like the relationship between water and rocks. A man is as strong as a rock, but in the end he can't wear away a rock.Women are like water, and the family will be nourished and full of vitality.This is not to say that women are men's appendages, but the happiness that comes from giving to each other, and we modern people are used to asking for it, and giving up if we can't get it. Anyway, the outside world is very exciting.

Admire more than 2000 years ago.Buddha, who was born in the same era as Confucius in China, was in the era when women had no status.It expresses the principle of mutual respect and love between husband and wife, which is also applicable today.

The Buddha said in the "Buddha Saying Good Life Sutra": "Layer sons, like those in the West, if a husband looks at his wife, he should provide his wife with five things of love and respect. What are five things? One is to be compassionate to his wife, and the other is not to be contemptuous. , the third is to make a necklace, the fourth is to be at home at home, and the fifth is to miss his wife and kiss him.

Husbands should love and respect their wives with these five things, and wives should respect and obey their husbands with thirteen things.Why thirteen?The first is to love and respect your husband; the second is to support your husband; the third is to think of your husband well; the fourth is to take care of your homework; Nine, the door is not restrained, ten is to come to praise goodness, eleven is to lay a bed, twelve is to provide pure, beautiful and rich food, and thirteen is to make offerings to recluses and Brahma.The wife uses these thirteen things to be kind and respectful to her husband.Layman, such is the difference between the West and the West.

The son of a layman, the holy laws and laws of China and the West, are also called husbands and wives.Layman, if a man is kind to his wife, there will be gain, and there will be no loss. "

What does it mean?

The general meaning here is: a husband should provide his wife with five things

(Western refers to husband and wife)
The first is to show compassion for the wife. The husband should take care of and love his wife, and always be considerate and caring for his wife, thus bringing a harmonious and joyful atmosphere to the family.

Second, do not belittle your wife. You should treat your wife with courtesy. You should not despise your wife just because you support your family or have higher fame and wealth than your wife. Otherwise, the respect and love of his wife will be lost, and it will also bring disharmony to the family.

The third is to make a wreath, to provide various conveniences for his wife, and to decorate his wife to show his love.

The fourth is to be comfortable at home and fully trust your wife, which is the so-called "comfort at home" for your wife. The wife should manage the housework without much interference, so that the wife can handle it freely, and the wife has a full sense of security at home. Maintain family harmony and enhance family happiness.

The fifth is to miss your wife and kiss your relatives. The so-called "remembering your wife and kissing your relatives" means that you should take care of your wife's relatives, and treat your wife's natal family with sincerity.

Seeing this, women have to smile too.Especially the third article, wives also have the right to enjoy beauty, instead of turning into a yellow-faced woman as soon as they get married. Of course, women's attire at this time is more to please their husbands.

Now there is a popular saying among men, saying that finding a rich woman can save you 20 years of struggle. Why not? Of course, if you can treat your wife with the following thirteen things.

I am also a little surprised, why do men only have five things to do to women, but women need thirteen things to do to men?If you calm down and think about it, why can't you do these thirteen things?
These thirteen things roughly mean:

[-]. Loving and respecting your husband: The most common problem in the family is emotional concentration. A wife should not despise her husband because of her beauty.

A wife should respect, love and respect her husband, and not despise her husband because of the wealth and status of her natal family. She should also respect and love herself, and not let her husband be humiliated.

Second, provide for the husband: the husband is obliged to provide for the needs of the family, and the wife should provide the husband with food and clothing in a timely manner, and keep him clean and tidy, so that he will not be despised in front of others;
Three, think of your husband kindly: often miss the other person's kindness.I often think that my husband is working very hard outside, or that my husband is on a business trip. You should understand that your husband is tired from business trips and cannot eat or rest normally;
Fourth, support work: support is to maintain, so that the family property and business will not be ruined, and know how to maintain the balance of family income and expenditure.

Fifth, take good care of family members: treat your husband’s family members well, be filial to your parents-in-law, and have a good relationship with everyone in your in-law’s family;

Sixth, looking forward and serving: To the elders of the husband, one should visit and serve them from time to time, expressing filial piety;
Seventh, walk with love: When the elders of the husband are walking, they should escort and take care of them behind to show their respect and love;

[-]. Be honest with your words: Be honest and blunt. The most important thing between a husband and wife is loyalty and frankness. Some couples often have their own private money, and there are some things that are hidden and not transparent.

Nine, do not restrict the door: When guests come to the house, do not restrict them, but warmly welcome them. As a housewife, do not restrict the man’s parents, relatives and friends from coming to his house;

[-]. Seeing and praising: not only do not restrict people from coming, but also praise with joy when they come, and say some words of joy and praise to make people feel at home when they come home;

Eleven, laying the bed and waiting: when the guests come, the seats should be prepared;

Twelve, the facilities are clean, beautiful and rich in food: when guests come, don’t be stingy, treat them with delicious food, so that people feel warm and close, and feel that the housewife is a virtuous and virtuous woman;
Thirteen, make offerings to recluses and Fanzhi, and if you meet a monk, you should respectfully make offerings and provide food and clothing. (Making offerings to the recluse Fanzhi is a manifestation of religious morality. Both recluse and Fanzhi refer to people who practice. Ancient Indian-Du religious practitioners mostly lived by begging, which also embodies compassion and benevolence)

It seems that the wife provides for the husband more and is less fair. In fact, it is just a few things that are repeated, but these seemingly small things are completely big things accumulated in the family.The principles taught by the Buddha are also worldly. They are not closed doors, nor are they so extraordinary as being a monk or staying at home.

Most modern small families grow up in the era of flaunting their individuality and living out of themselves. If they can understand these ways of getting along with each other, I believe happiness will not be too far away!
Human beings have men and women, so it is human nature to love men and women.

What a woman pursues in her life is a happy family and a husband who loves her.A woman needs the care of a man. When she is tired, she can lean on her husband; when she is angry, she can have her husband's considerate comfort.A happy family delays a woman's youth, and a happy young woman is more beautiful, sweeter and healthier.

So how can we have a happy family, and how can we protect the relationship between husband and wife?

Husband and wife should treat each other with sincerity in everything, learn from each other's strengths to make up for their weaknesses; learn to tolerate each other's faults, and try to coordinate with each other in matters big and small.

Everyone has their own personality, don't try to change the other person to suit you; the best way to change is to change yourself, so as to maintain the original love.

Husband and wife must be honest, and treating each other with sincerity is the patron saint of love. "Thomas" once said: If you disclose the truth in your heart, your public truth will save you; if you don't disclose your inner truth, your private truth will destroy you.

ps:?? Note: Thank you Zhixiu for your support, thank you!