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Li Liping didn't know that Zhao Chaogang had countless spirit stones, but she knew that at least middle-grade spirit stones were definitely not a problem for Zhao Chaogang.

There are tens of thousands of middle-grade spirit stones in the storage rings worn by her and Jingjing alone, not to mention the number of spirit stones on Zhao Chaogang himself. To Zhao Chaogang, a spirit-gathering formation is completely trivial.

When we get here, maybe someone will ask, since Li Liping is so aware of the preciousness of middle-grade spirit stones in the cultivation world, even cultivators at the foundation-building stage will be tempted when they see middle-grade spirit stones in the cultivation world. However, Zhao Chaogang, a cultivator who is only in the middle stage of foundation establishment, actually produced tens of thousands of middle-grade spirit stones. It is absolutely unimaginable how rich Zhao Chaogang is.

When Li Liping came here, wouldn't she doubt Zhao Chaogang?Isn't she wondering why Zhao Chaogang has such a deep net worth?
To be honest, after Li Liping knew the preciousness of middle-grade spirit stones in the cultivation world, she was really curious about why Zhao Chaogang had such a deep net worth. However, Li Liping was curious because she would not really go Ask Zhao Chaogang this question.Love: generally refers to the feeling of love and friendship between a man and a woman; it also refers to the feeling of love.

Love is a human emotion, an extremely mysterious emotion that human beings cannot ignore!Love is a strong attachment, intimacy, longing, and selfless, dedicated, and exhausting emotion between people. It is usually a contrast between love and desire.

In Chinese culture, love is to catch each other's heart.Attributes of intimacy, lust and commitment, attachment, affection, and confidence in the longevity of the relationship, and the ability to share a private life with the other.

On the emotional basis of love, in addition to cross-cultural differences in love, over time.The concept of love has also changed a lot.

Love is an integral part of human nature. In a narrow sense, it refers to the love between lovers. In a broad sense, it also includes love between friends and relatives.

Love is divided into true love and "false love".Love belongs to everyone, and whether you can meet the most suitable life partner requires everyone to work hard to find it, and you can only find it if you treat it sincerely. The encounter in life is fate.It is not necessarily love, but once you really miss the right person, you will regret it.Sex is the physiological basis of love. The reason why people have love is because of sex.If there is no desire for sex, how can there be the germination of love?On the surface it is sweet love.In fact or eventually, it must be implemented into -- sexual.

In the process of pursuing love, modern people need to pay attention to the difference between spiritual love and the love or marriage that needs to be recognized in reality. Spiritual love can have no boundaries, but it must be emphasized in the process of practice. Observance of social ethics should emphasize the consideration of realistic rationality, otherwise.It will bring infinite damage.

It is a generally accepted fact that marriage in our country has no philosophical theoretical basis so far.There is no unity of theory in the world.

To put it simply, the love ethics relationship is the loyal relationship between the same sex and the opposite sex arising from love as the starting point.According to general principles of ethics.Love relationships are beyond love emotions.

The metaphysical love that we have never mentioned, or the emotional relationship.

Many things are fractal and metaphysical, for example, time.For example, all clocks and watches have more or less errors, which is physical.So is there an absolute right time?Yes, the absolutely correct time only exists in the world of ideas, which is called being with God in religious parlance.

Only relative to the absolutely correct time standard, we will know how much error there is in physical clocks and watches.

Another example is when building cars, there are standards for building cars, and for building houses, there are standards for building houses.Standards are always beyond the physical.For example, the standards for making cars are absolutely correct, but the cars made may have errors and errors.

Love ethics is actually the standard of love.In the beginning, it must be the love emotion conforming to the love ethics that produces the metaphysical love relationship.The metaphysical love relationship must be beyond the physical love emotion.

Because of the existence of metaphysical love ethics and love relationship, we can know whether our love behavior is right or wrong.

In school, the teacher would only say that psychological love, biological love, and ethical love are just a process of choosing and preparing before marriage, but the historical truth is not like this.The real ethics of love, the real ethics of marriage, and the currently practiced ethics of love and marriage are three completely different things.

True love-ethics can allow men and women to directly pursue a life-long loyal relationship instead of going through marriage.Ethics of love - rational relationship arises from emotion and transcends emotion.

The emergence of the love ethics relationship means that the relationship between the two is sacred, that is, after the love emotion is over, the love ethics relationship between the two still exists beyond the period.

Divide love into two stages, first, the stage of love choice, and second, the stage of love belief.

It is suggested that the transcendence of the general love ethics relationship-sex-time is at least one month after the end of the love emotion.The transcendence period of the love ethics relationship can depend on the specific situation.

Why love has such an important position in people's hearts, in fact, this is inseparable from the characteristics of love.

1) Love gives a special attraction and a special feeling, once you are with the girl/boy you love, that special feeling and attraction.

2) Love creates a good feeling in your heart.When with the girl/boy you love.There will be a very good feeling, this good feeling comes from two aspects, on the one hand, it comes from the beauty of the girl/boy you love, and on the other hand, it comes from the beauty of your love life, that is to say: being with a beautiful girl/boy Boys have a wonderful love life.resulting in a good feeling.

3) Love creates excitement and joy in your heart.When you love a girl/boy, you feel excited and happy when you are with her/him.If the love is deep, this excitement and joy will not decay with time and repetition of life.

Love is so sacred, so how did love come about?Attraction is fundamental to love and is shaped by known factors such as distance, similarity, and cross-cultural differences.

Attraction includes the following aspects:
1) Charm: There are two types of charm to attract the opposite sex.One is the charm that has nothing to do with gender, which can be shared by both men and women, such as: good looks, good emotions, and the other is the charm related to gender, such as: tall, tall, Successful career.Feminine tenderness and loveliness.

2) Genes: Scientists have discovered that love is related to genes.Find the perfect fragrance for yourself, one that may prove irresistibly romantic to you, but even if they don't bring people together, fragrances can still be used to amplify natural body odor.

Some people tend to seek the opposite sex who is genetically complementary to them, and some people tend to seek the opposite sex who is genetically similar to themselves.

3) Common experience: Having a wonderful experience together may attract each other.We have experienced suffering together, helped each other in suffering, and gave each other a warm feeling.There may also be attraction to each other.

4) Shadow personality: Everyone has "dominant" and "recessive" personalities. In addition to expressing the "dominant personality" that everyone sees, each person also has the exact opposite.The "hidden personality" hidden in the bottom of my heart is also the "shadow personality".

Psychologists believe that one of the reasons for the strong attraction between lovers is to pursue the complete self, because falling in love with someone who has their own "shadow personality" can promote the integrity of their own personality.

5) Facial connection: After contacting all kinds of people, subconsciously connect various faces with various emotions.

Example: Met a wonderful, kind person.Later, if you meet someone with a face similar to him, you may feel that this person is also a beautiful and kind person.Therefore, it may feel attractive.

Love is often expressed through kissing, hugging, loving-caressing and -sexual - behaviors between partners.The most important expression of love is that a person does everything he can for his lover.

Love will bring psychological-physical changes to both parties in love.The first is idealization, where two people in love ignore each other's flaws.And exaggerating the advantages of the other party, idealization can make both parties believe that they have made the most correct choice.

The second is suffering.Even when rejected by a loved one, that person will justify unrequited behavior by enduring pain.

The third is fantasy.People in love have certain illusions about the future, even unrealistic illusions.

In addition, love can also make a person highly sensitive, especially emotional reactions to the behavior of the other party.Not only does this bring a sense of insecurity, but also a sense of fulfillment.

The quality of love can be judged by the above characteristics.Love makes one person have emotional and physical dependence on another person, and when losing a lover is often accompanied by chest tightness, loss of appetite, insomnia, anger, depression, nostalgia, emptiness, loneliness, despair, depression, fatigue , nausea, crying, and loss of confidence.

The best way to treat a lovelorn is to divert attention and force yourself to focus on the things you are good at to increase the concentration of dopamine in the brain, increase self-confidence and hope.

In addition, exercise and sunshine are also a good way to treat a broken relationship.At the same time, it is crucial to help the lovelorn recognize the rewards and costs of love.

Love is so sacred, therefore, when dealing with love, we need to establish a correct concept of love.

1.Love should be serious and dedicated.

Love is a relationship of admiration between a same-sex or opposite-sex relationship.This kind of relationship includes one's own unique feelings and obligations, and it can only exist between two lovers, and no third party is allowed to intervene.Moreover, love is not a child's play, both parties should treat each other sincerely and treat themselves realistically.Also treat each other as they are.

Numerous facts have proved that using deceitful means to cheat love will not lead to happiness.

In addition, once the two parties establish a love relationship, they must be loyal and single-minded;It is immoral for anyone to engage in a love triangle or polyamory.

2.Correctly handle the relationship between love, studies, and career.

Love is beautiful.It is an important part of the content of life, but not the whole of life. It should be subordinate to the career and promote the development of the career.

Only when a person succeeds in his studies and career can the flower of his love bloom brighter and more fragrant.so.Put your studies and career first, straighten the relationship between love and your studies and career, and don't spend all your precious time on romance and relax your study and career.

Love without studies and careers is like sowing seeds in the desert. Without a solid foundation and soil, it will wither sooner or later.Only when love is combined with career and career can love have strong and lasting vitality.

3.The concept of love includes the following aspects: advocating like-minded love.

In love, you should put consistent thoughts, common beliefs and pursuits in the first place, and take beautiful souls, noble sentiments, and psychological compatibility as the first criteria for choosing a mate.

Shakespeare once said: Love is not sweet words in the shade of a tree, nor sweet words in a peach blossom garden.It's not light tears, let alone rigid coercion, but spiritual communication based on a common foundation.

therefore.The most important condition in the choice of a lover should be like-minded, generally consistent in ideology and morality, career ideals, and life interests.

The lofty love between Ma Ke Si and Yan Ni is built on the basis of like-mindedness. It is because of Ru that their love has withstood the test of hardships and has become a good story.

The concept of love should be an organic combination of ideals, morality, obligations, career and sex--love.

4.To understand that love is a responsibility and dedication.

Love is not only obtained, but more importantly, a kind of responsibility and dedication.In social life, people have two responsibilities: one is the responsibility of the individual to the society; the other is the responsibility of the individual to the family, parents, children, friends and lovers.

The second aspect of responsibility belongs to the nature of private life.It is the field of life where social intervention is the weakest, and it is mainly maintained by good moral cultivation and a conscious sense of responsibility.Therefore.It reflects a person's personality charm.

Once you enter the kingdom of love, you must have a strong sense of responsibility and dedication.In order to obtain the noble love.

5.In the process of love, we should have more understanding, trust and tolerance, respect each other and make progress together.

Love is the unity of mutual love. Both parties in love have their own independent personalities and spiritual worlds. They can neither completely depend on each other nor demand to completely occupy each other.

Love is the same as being a human being. Understanding, trust, honesty and tolerance are all very valuable qualities.

Love often means a kind of giving, you need to know each other, respect each other, and give in to each other. "There is no perfect person in the world", two people are not a simple combination, they must accommodate each other; love, you must accept everything about him, including shortcomings.

Only by erecting the correct concept of love in your heart, will your road to love be smooth and smooth!
Love is not limited by time, no matter in ancient times or in modern times, love actually existed, the essence before and after is the same, the only difference is that the time point of love is different.

In the eyes of Chinese people, love often cannot escape worry, sadness and melancholy.The long-term confinement of Chinese women has made Chinese love poetry always have a plaintive and sad tone.

After the Tang Dynasty, more love poems expressed longing and disappointment, nostalgia and longing after parting.

Li Qingzhao, a poetess in the Song Dynasty, mainly focused on boudoir love and scenery descriptions in the early stage. The sentence "Looking and looking, deserted, desolate and miserable." expresses the loneliness and emptiness in the heart.

From another point of view, the novel should describe the story. The most common pattern to look at is: at a party or at home, a guest of a similar age comes, because it is rare to go out to meet people.So it's easy to fall in love with.

Then comes natural trouble and sadness, under the oppression of society and the shackles of tradition, so that she can only try her best to conceal this vague and strong desire, then personal friendship, and then there will always be some episode.Either the war caused the two to live in different places, or one of them was forced to arrange the marriage by their parents, or something happened during the son's rush for the exam, which caused both parties to wait, look forward to, and worry.If the relationship is sincere and passionate, you will get a lovesickness. This pattern is surprisingly similar in Chinese love stories.

Lovesick.His face was pale, his eyes were dim, and his parents were worried, so he quickly arranged a marriage, just like the last line of the usual happy ending in Chinese opera: "May all lovers in the world be married."

Relative to this sad situation.Modern lovers should be quite happy.

There is no so-called "marriage gift" from superiors to subordinates; there is no finger-to-palm marriage that begins in the mother's womb; there is no social and ethical requirement that one woman only serve one husband.

The degree of civilization of society can change the way of love, but it cannot kill love.

No matter what social attributes, how the ruling class confines women and instills a complete set of traditional moral education, love exists objectively and will not change due to changes in the social background. What changes is only a formal phenomenon.

So looking at ancient and modern times, has the society suddenly changed its understanding and become more open?
Dating back to ancient times.It has been about 300 million years since the birth of human beings. Although some instincts of animals still existed at that time, there were also some taboos.This should be regarded as the beginning of human social attributes!

There was no love at that time. Of course, this is just a family statement and has no basis.

There are at least three conditions for love to occur, the first is specificity; the second is equality; the third is cultural quality.

Love is a comprehensive experience of many feelings, related to personal taste, ideals, morality, aspirations and other concepts.

"Guanguan Jujiu, in the continent of the river. A fair lady. A gentleman is very good." In the "Book of Songs", the standard of the object of admiration for both men and women has been clearly written.

In "Li Sao" written by Qu Yuan, the great patriotic poet of Chu State, he also directly expresses his longing for and hard pursuit of his lover.

Expand the canvas of the world horizontally.The time just coincides with the far-reaching Western Platonic love, and it is the development process of Western love civilization.The earliest surviving document.

As a concept, Platonic love has influenced generations of Westerners.

"Platonic love" is also called "spiritual love".This kind of love thinks that the combination of flesh and blood is impure and dirty, and that love and sex are two opposite states.

Plato's love emphasizes spiritual communication rather than physical desire. It is a kind of true love.

The spiritual love advocated by Plato originally refers to a kind of true love between homosexuals. The ancient Greeks believed that the process of homosexual love is more of spiritual intercourse and divine intercourse. , rather than - shape - cross.

Plato firmly believes that true love is a persistent emotion, and only time is the touchstone of love.Only unearthly love can stand the test of time.

Western scholars have different opinions on this.But one thing is certain, that is, Plato believed that love can make people sublimate.

The gist of "Platonic love" can be summarized in the following four aspects:
1. Platonic love is not the so-called pure spiritual love - pure romantic feelings without any physical contact, but refers to the unity of "body love-desire and soul-love-desire", or " One who unites mind and body."

2. Platonic love also emphasizes that love is higher than --sex.

3. Platonic love also implies the separability of sex--and love, love and marriage, sex--and marriage--sex.

4. Platonic love is nothing but an endless "ideal" to pursue "beauty itself" by admiring one beautiful body after another.

In other words, to put it in a strong tone, platonic love means that love is something that belongs to the ideal world after all, and it is actually impossible in the real world.

The Chinese call Platonic love "spiritual love". This kind of love believes that the combination of flesh and blood is impure and dirty, and that love and sex are two opposite states.When the mind accepts the truth, it must abandon the flesh-body. At this time, the human flesh-body is polluted by sin, and people must give up the flesh-body if they want to pursue the truth.

As unacceptable as it may seem today, this is a sublimation.It can be understood that this kind of love is the real "love" that Plato yearned for, a persistent love, an ideal love...

Back in China, when love begins, people's consciousness is blurred.Until the feudal society started in Xia, this not only meant the progress of the society.At the same time, it means that the feudal shackles have begun to trap people's necks. After the Spring and Autumn and Warring States period, matchmaking marriage has been officially established. "Book of Songs? Qi Feng" "How to choose a wife, you must tell your parents."

As the system developed, so did the taboos.If there were still some "relics from ancient times" before.The centralization of the Qin Dynasty, in addition to the rule of the monarch and his ministers, also involved the control of women. This kind of coercion and oppression to avoid love made the obscurity even deeper.

In the Sui and Tang Dynasties, especially after the emergence of the "Government of Zhenguan" and "Government of Kaiyuan", social material and cultural extravagance began to spread, the most typical one being the "love" of emperors.

Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty was greedy for many years - seeking beauty - sex.It caused the sorrow of the country, and also caused the personal tragedy of love between himself and Yang Yuhuan.

But just imagine, an emperor's harem is three thousand.What about love?
China's history has been repeated, separated and reunited.With the deepening of the Song Dynasty's academic concepts, there were more and more taboos about love between men and women, and women's footbinding also began to rise at this time, and men and women could not kiss each other.

Cheng-Zhu Neo-Confucianism's various chastity concepts such as "starving to death is a small thing, and being dishonest is a big thing" embody "preserving the principles of nature and destroying human nature".He has caused a certain degree of distortion in human psychology, dignity and freedom.

It can be said that in feudal society, this can be regarded as a standard of abstinence.

Ancient and modern concept of love.The biggest difference is that one focuses on results and the other on process.

Ancient tragedy of love.It is usually caused by the feudal system. While expressing his feelings, the author also criticizes the social ruling class at that time. This can be regarded as a kind of resistance; Married for life.

Therefore, marriage should be regarded as a carrier of love at that time. Without the appearance of marriage, no matter how great love is, it will be reviled after all. What is sacrificed for this love is not only reputation and future happiness, but also the possibility of losing life.

The ruler cleverly formulated various tortures to deal with women who fell in love under the guardrail of no marriage.

It was not until the Qing Dynasty that some people of insight began to seriously consider the rationality of this inequality between men and women.

During the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom Movement at the end of the feudal society, Hong Xiuquan also made relevant regulations on the marriage system at that time, proposing that "all marriages do not care about wealth". This completely ended the comprador marriage that lasted for thousands of years. This is a proof, which is somewhat similar to the current marriage certificate.

Women enjoy a certain social status and enjoy equal rights and obligations in politics, economy, culture, etc., which also provides the possibility that marriage is truly a union for love.

China has a long history of thousands of years, and the oppressive and heavy shackles of the feudal society netted the human body, but could not cover the human eyes.

In order to deepen its rule and to fool and suppress the subjects, the ruling class has formulated a series of precepts.Love is a product that can only be produced under the condition of free communication, and it is the product of the combination of spirit and body.

People before Xia and Shang had a matrilineal clan society, and no one had a father's surname, but only one mother.There is no inhumane system, and there is no violation of cannibalistic feudal thought.

At first glance, the feudal society really looks like a cancer, while the primitive society is as free, wealthy, and happy as it is now... In fact, it is not. There are also many taboos. When people learn to use the system to demand themselves and others, the society has actually progressed.

Primitive society did not have so many taboos. Since entering the feudal system, there have been more taboos, which is because the social structure is complicated.

Jumping to modern times, people's sense of freedom has increased, but there are also more gray shadows.

Time is tight and modern life is hectic.I don't have time to care too much about emotional appeal and romance. Society is a big wheel. Everyone seeks development and everything seeks efficiency.Doing everything is under the schedule of time, leading a regular but irregular life.including love.

Modern people doubt love as they doubt everything around them.

People's material conditions are much better than before, and they have more freedom, but they themselves have become fragile and suspicious.

People live in groups because of their limited abilities and cannot leave the group; now they work alone.We should be thankful that society has developed.

After the social structure is complicated, the human structure is also complicated. Who is an adaptive animal?
People nowadays are exposed to external temptations dozens of times more than before, and they are overwhelmed all the time. People have learned to protect themselves.In a state of self-protection all the time, doubts are inevitable.

However, love does not distinguish between time and space. It is not because society has a system that different loves are distinguished. Love itself exists, and the system only restricts the way people express it.

Pure love has been pursued by people since ancient times, and an ideal state has been longed for by the world.

Sincere communication, frank relative.No deceit, no influence, no class.No possession, no separation, no sorrow...seemed an impossible state.Since the privatization of property, it is impossible for people to be equal.

Love is a war, fierce during the war, and calm after the war.Being able to accept calm and monotony is the best guarantee for love to last forever.The difference is that war brings benefits, but love does not.

Most people will report an ideal: love leads to marriage.Marriage is a simpler and more realistic emotion than the romance of love, and it is a commitment to love.Although we clearly know that there is no need to promise anything in love, but human nature - sex is always afraid of losing.

Once a child starts to know what "I" is from the mirror, he will learn another word - "mine" at the fastest speed.

Humans like to own things, not just to appreciate them. There are countless concubines in ancient emperors’ harems, which is caused by the psychology of possession. Because he has the right, he owns it. It’s not that ordinary people don’t want to own things, but they don’t have the ability. .

People who are in love are most likely to be "delirious". People like to hide their flaws, and no matter how proud they are, they will confess everything about themselves in front of their lovers, give up all pretense, and show their most essential side.If not, then he just deceived himself, and then he was sincere to others through the deceived self.

In conclusion, love from the soul is beautiful.People in any age and any country have the same desire for love.When love comes, you must accept and experience love with the most sincere and pure heart.

Love is sacred and desirable, which can be seen from so many stories about love that have been passed down from ancient times.

Such as "Cowherd and Weaver Girl", "Meng Jiangnu", "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai" and "The Legend of the White Snake", etc. There are also some western stories about lovers, such as "Romeo and Juliet", etc. These stories are also very It is touching, and has been recited by the world. It can be seen that love is sacred!
It is also because of the world's yearning and expectation for love that the annual Valentine's Day appears.

However, Valentine's Day is completely different in China and in the West, and the reasons for it are also different.

In China, Valentine's Day is actually Qixi Festival.

Qixi Festival, also known as Qiqiao Festival, Qiqiao Festival or Seven Sisters' Birthday, originated in China. It is a traditional festival in the Chinese region and East Asian countries. It is celebrated on the seventh day of the seventh month of the lunar calendar.

Qixi Festival comes from the legend of Cowherd and Weaver Girl.

In the past, the fate of women could only be married, husband and child, so many women believed in the legend of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, and hoped to follow the example of the Weaver Girl. It is a festival that can be ingenious and get a happy marriage.

This is the origin of the name "Qiqiao".Women will also build colored buildings, prepare thin needles made of brass, and use five-color thin threads to thread the needles against the moon and wind.Over time, Qixi Festival has also become the "Daughter's Day".

On May 2006, 5, the Qixi Festival was included in the first batch of national intangible cultural heritage list by the Chinese People's Republic of China and the State Council. Think of it as "Chinese Valentine's Day".

The legend of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl is one of the four major folk legends in my country. It is also the legend that has been circulated the earliest and the most widely spread among the people in our country. It has a very important position in the history of folk literature in our country.

According to legend, the cowherd's parents died young, and he was often abused by his elder brother and sister-in-law.There is only one old cow for company.

One day the old cow gave him a trick, teaching him how to marry Zhinu as his wife.On that day, the beautiful fairies went to the Milky Way to bathe and play in the water.

At this time, the Cowherd hiding in the reeds suddenly ran out and took the clothes of the Weaver Girl. The panicked fairies hurried ashore, put on their clothes and flew away.Only Zhinu remained.Under Cowherd's entreaty, Zhinu agreed to be his wife.

After marriage, the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl farmed and the Weaver Girl weaved, fell in love with each other, and lived happily ever after.

later.When the old cow was about to die, he told the cowherd to keep its hide and put it on for help in times of emergency.

After the old cow died, the couple reluctantly peeled off the cowhide and buried the cow on the hillside.

The marriage between Zhinu and Cowherd was known by the Jade Emperor and the Queen Mother.They were furious and ordered the gods to capture Zhinu back from the lower realm.The God of Heaven took the Weaver Girl away while the Cowherd was not at home.

The Cowherd didn't see the Weaver Girl when he came home, so he put on the cowhide and chased after him with two children.Seeing that she was about to catch up, the Queen Mother panicked and pulled out the golden hairpin on her head and swiped towards the Milky Way.Cowherd couldn't make it through anymore.

From then on, Cowherd and Weaver Girl could only look at each other across the river with tears in their eyes.Forever and ever, the Jade Emperor and the Queen Mother couldn't hold back the sincere feelings between them, allowing them to meet once a year on July [-]th...
According to legend, every seventh day of the seventh month, magpies in the world will fly to the sky to build a magpie bridge for the Cowherd and Weaver Girl to meet in the Milky Way.

also.In the dead of night on the Qixi Festival, people can still hear the Cowherd and Weaver Girl's tender words of love in the sky under the grape rack or other melon and fruit racks.

in the West.Valentine's Day is also called the St. Valentine's Day or the St. Valentine's Day, which is on February 2 every year.It is one of the traditional festivals in the West.

It's a holiday about love, romance, flowers, chocolates, greeting cards.

Men and women send gifts to each other on this day to express love or friendship. It has become a favorite festival for young people in Europe and the United States, and other countries have also become popular.

In China, Qixi Festival, one of the traditional festivals, is also a day that girls value, so it is called Chinese Valentine's Day.Because it can express common human feelings, countries and regions have discovered their own "Valentine's Day".

Valentine's Day is a time to be cautious - especially for singles and romantically involved.

When you wake up early in the morning on "Valentine's Day", you should peek through the keyhole.According to legend, if the first person you see is walking alone, then you will be celibate; if you see two or more people walking together, then you will definitely find a lover; if you see Get a rooster and a hen, and you'll be married before "Christmas."

But now there are very few roosters and hens in the courtyards of various houses, and there are no chickens in the open areas of the city, so if you can see a pair of pigeons or a pair of sparrows, it is also wonderful.

From ancient Rome to Victorian times, people used two half-bloomed flowers to predict the status of marriage.

Unmarried men and women plant two half-opened flowers, and the first letter of the flower name must be the same as the first letter of their respective names.

If the two flowers bloom together, it indicates that the couple will be happy for life; if the two flowers bloom opposite each other, it indicates that the couple will part ways; In the case of death, it means that one of the spouses will die before the other.

The customs of celebrating Valentine's Day are different in different eras.Among them, from 1837 to 1901, the customs of Valentine's Day in England during the Victoria-Doli-A-Queen period were the most unique: on February 2th, a couple of lovers would plant a plant with two buds waiting to be released. The first letter of the flower name must match the first letter of the name of the lovers.

A few days later, if the double buds on the spring branches are in full bloom and complement each other, it indicates that the couple will grow old together; Huge and brilliant, it means that there will be a house full of children and grandchildren in the future, and the family will be happy; if a flower withers and withers, one of the lovers is in danger of dying early.

In Buckingham County, the custom of praying on Valentine's Day was also prevalent: light a candle, insert two thin needles, from the bottom of the candle to the heart of the candle, silently recite the name of your lover, and pray that love will last forever. , when the candle burns to the tip of the needle, it is said that the loved one will knock on the door in time.

There is also a custom of Valentine's Day: in the week before Valentine's Day, for 7 consecutive nights, take off the socks on the left foot and put them on the right foot, repeatedly wishing: "May my beloved be able to enter the dreamland tonight."

It is said that at this time, the old man under the moon will throw down an auspicious red silk thread...

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