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A person's life is for himself, he will not live for others, or for the sake of face, if this is the case, why can't people live a happier life, so, in life, life is still happy some good.In this way, your life is the real life, will be rich and colorful, will be full of sunshine!
Every one of us came into this world not by our own choice. We have no right to choose our birth, and of course we have no right to choose our death. God has left this right to himself. All we can do is choose how live.
Some people say that life is like a journey, you don’t care about the starting point, you don’t care about the destination, what you care about is the scenery along the way, I think this is very good.
But many of us seem to forget this point, we only focus on goals and results, and don’t know how to enjoy life itself. In the process of realizing the so-called life goals, we will do everything we can. We have spent our whole life , until the day of death, some people finally achieved their goals,|No|Error| .[][]. But more people ended up in failure.
If you ask them are they happy? I can assure you that none of them will feel very tired if they say they are happy, and they will realize that they have lived their whole life in vain when they are old. Why? Because they focus too much on results and forget that life is actually The most important thing is life itself. The process of life is actually the most important thing. As long as you live happily every day, it is more important than anything else. Take the QQ game as an example, when I am really doing my best When I can seriously answer other people's questions, I feel very happy and happy.
But when one day I dreamed of getting more points, trying to win the first place, and seemed to have grasped the secret of being the first, my happiness was no longer there, and I just felt tired, very tired. Why? what will happen?
Because my goal has been separated from the principle of happiness, because I am no longer here to answer questions for you for happiness, I am here to answer questions for the goal that seems to be attainable.
Friends, please remember that if your goal has deviated from the happiness principle, it is time for you to think about it. Is the goal correct? Do you need to make appropriate changes?
In fact, the most important thing in a person's life is to have a healthy body and a happy mood. Only this is truly your own, and the rest may be lost at any time. Because these are all external things, the so-called life does not bring, death Don't take it away. That's what it means.
The meaning of life is in life itself, to live wonderfully and happily, this is the whole meaning of life.
To live means to live in this world.However, the content of life is by no means so simple, and the bitterness, joy, sourness and sweetness in it are hard to describe.As the song says: life is a mess.Life is colorful clouds, life is a glass of wine...
Who can tell?But we all understand in our hearts: this is life.
Happiness is a mood.Happy people often laugh from the bottom of their hearts; happiness is a state of mind, and people who don’t smile are not necessarily unhappy; happiness is an emotion that permeates a person’s whole body; happiness is a kind of psychology, a manifestation of physical and mental health .
How can one live happily?Objective environmental factors make people have different encounters and feelings, so each person will be unhappy for different things, but happy people have some common subjective psychological factors, and they need to make a certain amount of effort to be happy.
If you want to be happy, you must "accept".Accept yourself and be accepted by others.
People must like themselves, regardless of height, weight, appearance, talent, etc., good or bad, they must be willing to accept; they must prove that what they do is right, and then they can be accepted by others.
If you want to be happy, you must be "dear", including loving others and being loved by others.A loving life is beautiful. Therefore, what people desperately pursue is to love and be loved by others.Intimate relationships are the foundation of happiness and the meaning of life.
If you want to be happy, you must have "achievement".Achievement comes from personal feeling.One doesn't have to be a big shot, and one doesn't have to make great achievements.
People of different classes and occupations in society have their own social functions and consciously achieve something.is an indispensable ingredient of happiness.
So how do we need to maintain a happy mood?
To maintain this kind of mood, you must develop an optimistic personality, cultivate yourself into an optimistic, funny, humorous, witty, and cheerful person, and be open-minded in dealing with the world.Treat others with generosity, and afford everything.Let it go and make a quick decision.
To maintain a happy mood, you must cultivate a wide range of interests.In addition to being interested in work and study, you must also develop hobbies for sports, music, art, photography, radio, and model aircraft.
In this way, when you are temporarily unsatisfied with something you are interested in, you can also be satisfied in other ways.
To maintain a happy mood, you must actively participate in healthy cultural activities. After work, study and life, you can play ball, sing and dance, or participate in favorite scientific activities. relax and happy.
To maintain a happy mood, you must take the initiative to communicate with others. Anyone who is unwilling to communicate with others feels lonely and depressed.In the process of interacting with people, you can exchange views and opinions, comfort and encourage each other, and when the problem is solved, you will naturally feel at ease.
If you want to live a happy life, you need to do the following:
First of all, you have to understand that you live for the present: all you have is the present, and the peace of mind and the effectiveness of your work all depend on how we live in the present moment.
No matter what happened yesterday, no matter what is coming tomorrow, you are always in the "now". From this perspective, the secret of happiness and contentment is to focus on every minute and every second of the present moment. .
Life must be centered on the present, and we must enjoy happiness during the journey of life, rather than saving it until the end.
Then, in your life, you have to avoid unnecessary waiting: as the saying goes: "Take the lid off from time to time, the water will not boil for a long time."
Sometimes you feel impatient for an expected phone call, after what seems like endless hours of waiting.You decide to find something else to do, and sure enough.The phone rang immediately.
Here's a rule of thumb for dealing with situations like this: "Go back and master your present. Don't hold your breath and wait for a miracle."
If you tell yourself, "I have to have this" to be happy and fulfilled, the chances of not getting what you want are greatly increased.
The less you worry about, the waiting will end a moment sooner.
In your life, you need to maintain your magnanimity: forgive yourself or others, if you are not tolerant to others, you are the one who suffers, and most of the people who are condemned by us do not know what we are thinking!
Sinners continue to live their lives happily, unaffected by the ups and downs of our inner emotions. If we choose to forgive, the situation will turn around in a miraculous way.
When we change.Others change too. We change our attitudes toward others and others adjust their behavior. As we revise our views on things, others respond to our new expectations.
It is not easy to forgive others, but it is even more difficult to forgive yourself. If you refuse to forgive yourself, you will always be immersed in guilt and bear unnecessary psychological torture.
life inside.You also need to understand what happiness is: Lincoln said: "Man's degree of happiness is mostly determined by himself." The impact of life encounters on happiness is actually far less important than our reactions to events.
Happiness is really not that easy. Sometimes it can be regarded as the greatest challenge in life, requiring all determination, perseverance, and self-control.Maturity means taking responsibility for your own happiness, focusing on what you have rather than what you don't have.
What a person thinks in his heart is beyond the control of others.Therefore, the feeling of happiness or not is in your own hands.
Others cannot force ideas into your head.To seek happiness, one must concentrate on thinking about the happy things.But do we often do the opposite?Do we often not take other people's compliments to heart, but get angry for several days because of one or two unpopular words?If you allow unpleasant experiences or bad words to occupy your mind, the consequences are only at your own risk.
Sometimes happiness requires hard work, just like keeping your home clean and beautiful-you have to put the good things on display and take out the trash. Happiness is searching for the good things in life. Some people see beautiful scenery, but others only see dirty glass windows , What to see, depends on your own thoughts to make decisions.
Remember, you are the master of your own thoughts.
An 85-year-old man said before his death: If I could live this life again, I would try to make more mistakes, I would not be so deliberately perfect, I would rest more, go with the flow, and I would not behave like this time So shrewd.
In fact, there are very few things worth worrying about in the world. I will be more crazy and less hygienic. You know, I am the kind of person who lives cautiously, soberly and rationally day after day, hour after hour.
Oh, I've indulged too, and if I could do it all over again, I'd have more of those moments—every moment, every minute, every second.
If I could do it all over again, I would go barefoot outdoors in early spring and stay awake at night in late autumn. I would ride on the carousel a few more times, watch the sunrise a few more times, and play with more children. As long as life can be restarted... …
"But you know, it can't."
Life is limited and should be used wisely, and the old man knew that to live a happier and more fulfilled life, he didn't need to change the world.The world is beautiful enough, what needs to be changed is yourself.
The world is not "perfect" and the degree to which we are unhappy depends on how far reality is from what it "should be".
Happiness is a lot easier if we don't demand perfection in everything. We just need to decide which direction we like things to go, and even if we don't get what we want, we can still be happy.
Finally, you also need to understand perfection and happiness: Unhappiness is because life does not meet expectations, our requirements cannot be met, and we think that life is not what it "should" be, and we will not be happy.
So we would say: "I will be happy as long as I want." But life is not so perfect. Anger, frustration, success, and failure often appear in life. The conditions for happiness are actually self-deception.
The environment is born from the heart, and happiness depends on oneself.Many people live their lives as if one day they will arrive at a bus stop called "Happy."
They think that one day everything will be exactly as it should be.Then they can take a breath and say, "I finally found happiness!" So their whole life can be summed up with "As long as I do. I will be happy."
Each of us has to make a decision: Are we going to remind ourselves every day that time is limited.Should we make good use of it?Or throw away the present, imagining a bright future?
The road to life is long but short. Let us devote ourselves to our current work with full enthusiasm, treat work and life with a positive attitude, pursue our own happiness, and harvest our own That success, let us work happily and live happily!
If we regard life as a long scroll, then every step we take in life is a beautiful landscape.
If we just walk with our heads down.If you ignore the scenery along the way, you will lose the joy of life;
If we only see the unsatisfactory things in life, then you lose the opportunity to enjoy life;
If we only regard work as a burden, then your life will lose the happiness and splendor that originally belonged to you.
Sunshine always comes after the storm. In life, we can only cherish our current life even more when we experience it, pay it, try it, and lose it.In order to better understand the beauty of our life!
Maybe we often complain sometimes, always complain that we pay too much and get too little; we always complain that others do less, but we do more;But we have never seen the favor of life for us.
When we complain more than we appreciate, we will not feel the beauty of things, and we will not feel the joy of life.You will not feel the beauty of life.
You can only adjust your mentality and treat life with a normal heart.If we are neither humble nor overbearing, we can feel the beauty of life.We can realize that we live in a beautiful world, our life is full of sunshine, as long as we pay attention, we can see many beautiful things that others cannot see.
We have an enviable job, but after a long time, we will lose the sense of freshness, patience and confidence in the work, and always think that we have given too much and received too little, and always feel that we have nothing in our life. It is a kind of waste and a waste to come over so plainly.
But think about it in reverse, is it possible for us to choose other jobs besides this job?Since we can't choose, why don't we go to work happily?
The job we are engaged in is as trivial as life, and it gets annoying after a long time, but in life, we can live in different ways, but we can't in work, so we shouldn't treat work as a joke, muddle through, and smile However, if you work hard to find fun, find happiness, and treat work as a kind of enjoyment, then you will fall in love with this job from the bottom of your heart.
The joy of our life is because we are happy with the company of colleagues, and we are more confident with the entrustment of our family members; the joy of our work is because we have a stable monthly income, and our knowledge and skills can be greatly improved. Can you not be moved?
Therefore, we can only keep this touching feeling in our hearts forever, and use it as the motivation for our work and life, work hard and give actively.
We must know that generous remuneration and a great sense of accomplishment are always proportional to the amount of hard work we put in at work and the size of the difficulties we overcome; in order to obtain more happiness and gains, we must pay more than ordinary people It takes a lot of hard work; as the saying goes, "No pain, no gain" is the truth.
In fact, everyone has troubles, whether they are light or heavy, more or less, but some people write it on their faces, while others bury it deep in their hearts.We have to find our own fun at work, learn to be grateful at work, and enjoy life while actively working.At work, we must also learn to be moved. Being moved is a silent education.
The beauty and richness of life are determined by us personally. Only those who love life can feel the beauty and variety of life.
This is because life is the result of our struggle to forge it.It can be said to be the fine wine of life brewed by oneself.
In the face of life, we must treat it correctly, treat it with a positive and enthusiastic attitude, and water it diligently with our own sweat to promote its healthy growth and development. Only in this way can we share a beautiful and sweet life and the charm of happiness.
As the saying goes.Sow a seed of happiness in spring, and harvest a load of happiness in autumn.
Although we work to live.But it is only one of the reasons, because the value of life can be reflected in work.Because friends in life can be met at work, because our lives can grow and mature through experience at work.At the same time, life is also for work. Only in life can we discover what we need, and our needs can only be met through work.
Since the relationship between work and life is so close, we should work happily and live happily, because happy work allows us to live happily, and a happy life provides inspiration and motivation for our work.
When we find that we cannot change the environment around us, we must learn to change our mentality.We can live without wealth but we cannot live without the ability to create happiness, the perception of which is purely internal.It is determined by your own concepts, thoughts and attitudes.No matter how bad your mood is, as long as you choose to be happy, you will be happy.
Whether a person is happy or not is all about himself. If you are looking for happiness, maybe it is by your side, otherwise troubles will also patronize you.Besides, there is no perfect life in the world. In fact, everything is conserved.
To learn to forget, the more space for happiness, the less space for troubles, as long as you live happily and freely, your life will be more exciting!
People in this world always seem to be troubled.Happy less.How can life be happy?Maybe many people will ask this question.
In fact, happiness is very simple, it is often around us, contained in some small things!What matters most is how you think about it!
Indifferent light, peace of mind!concern for others.Be content and be happy!Mentality is the most important thing, think about it carefully, in fact, happiness is by your side.
There is a Chinese MBA student working in a restaurant near New York Wall Street.one day.He said ambitiously to the restaurant chef: "Just wait and see, I will break into Wall Street one day."
The chef asked curiously: "Young man. What are your plans after graduation?"
mba answered fluently: "I hope that as soon as I finish my studies, I would like to work in a first-class multinational company immediately. Not only will the income be rich, but the future will be promising."
The chef shook his head: "I'm not asking about your future, I'm asking about your future work interests and life interests."
mba was speechless for a moment.
Obviously he didn't understand what the chef meant.
But the chef sighed: "If the economy continues to slump and the restaurants do not do well, then I will have to be a banker."
Mba was stunned and almost suspected that there was something wrong with his ears. How could the cook in front of him, who smelled of oily smoke, have anything to do with the banker?
The chef explained to the goose-like MBA: "I used to work in a bank on Wall Street, and I wore stars and moons every day, leaving early and returning late, without any spare time of my own.
I have always loved cooking, and my family and friends appreciate my cooking skills. Every time I see them enjoy the dishes I cook, I am so happy.
One day, I was busy in the office building until one o'clock in the morning before I finished my routine work. When I was eating a disgusting hamburger to satisfy my hunger, I made up my mind to resign, get rid of this rigid life like a working machine, and choose my love Cooking is a career, and now my life is a hundred times more enjoyable than before. "
Such a case is inconceivable to the Chinese.Because, when Chinese people choose a career, they first look at decentness and second at income. Having both is enough to show off before others.
Success or failure, honor or disgrace, is all about face, and face is to be praised by others, without applause, it is as boring as walking in brocade clothes at night.
But for Westerners, there is no distinction between high and low no matter what occupation they are engaged in. What they pay more attention to is the interest in the career. Moreover, the realization of self-worth, the embodiment of success, does not need to be verified by comparing with others. No need for affirmation from others to satisfy.
An indifferent life is a kind of enjoyment. A perfect life does not necessarily have to make a lot of money, nor does it necessarily have to have great achievements. In a simple and ordinary life, living happily and self is also a kind of superiority. realm of life.
So, if you want to live a happy life, it is actually very simple, that is, you need to maintain a normal mind and a magnanimity in your own heart, and Xu Chang is doing this now.
Although Xu Chang is not a high-level intellectual, he is.He grew up by the sea since he was a child and has an absolutely magnanimous heart, which is why.After Xu realized that the monkeys really wanted to change their ways, he was able to accept them so quickly.trust them.
The boundless sea makes Xu Chang's heart broad and boundless. I believe that Zhao Chaogang will help Xu Chang and the others in this way. Xu Chang's broad mind is also one of the reasons.
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"Everyone get up, don't kneel on the ground anymore, I believe that you have really changed your ways, I believe in you." Xu Chang directly stepped forward to help the monkeys up one by one, judging from the expressions on the faces of the monkeys and their movements above.Xu Chang can guarantee 100% that people like Monkey really want to change their ways.
Xu Chang was really happy that people like Monkey could make such a choice.
There is nothing more satisfying than watching a person who has gone astray finally come to his senses and be right again.Compared to these, monkeys and others offended him before, that's really trivial.
"Okay, that's great, Monkey. I'm very happy that you have such determination and actions like this, okay. Very good...!" Xu Chang patted the shoulders of Monkey and the others one by one with excitement on his face, and from time to time He said some encouraging words, which warmed the hearts of people like Monkey.
but.People like monkeys seem to have undergone a 180-degree change in their whole beings after they corrected their evil ways.After hearing Xu Chang's praise for them, they unexpectedly showed a shy expression for the first time.Therefore, after Xu Chang praised them, the monkeys only responded with a few very shy "haha...!" laughter.
Hehe, once this person changes, there will be jaw-dropping changes in many places.
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"Eyes, the sky is starting to darken, and almost all the dog-head gold here has been found. After searching for dog-head gold for so long, I believe that you are not very interested in looking for dog-head gold. Therefore, you still go first. Go back, and the monkey and I will go to the coconut tree over there to pick some coconuts for dinner.
It's night now, and those snakes have come out, so the matter of picking coconuts is still left to me and the monkey. After all, I am a quasi-warrior, even if I encounter poisonous snakes, I can easily deal with them. "
When we got here, things were almost done, and it was time for Xu Chang and the others to go back. However, before going back, Xu Chang still had to roughly discuss with Hou Zi how to deal with the gold mine, so he sent these people back first.
As for his saying that he and the monkey went to pick coconuts, that was just an excuse for the monkey to stay.Only when Monkey stayed alone with him, could Xu Chang discuss with Monkey how to deal with the gold mine.
"Well, let's go back first, brother Xuchang, you should also be careful."
"Okay, be careful on the way back. Also, tell my brother Xu Jie that I won't be back until about half an hour later. Of course, you can stop talking about the dog head gold, or don't talk about it." It’s good, lest other people feel jealous and something happens for no reason, remember?”.
"Don't worry, brother Xuchang, we know how to do it. It's too late for us to keep the matter of the dog's head gold secret. How can we talk nonsense? These dog's head gold are the guarantee of our future life. We will not mess around. Brother Xuchang, let's go first Alright, see you later!"
"Well, see you later...!"
Soon, the people with the eyes disappeared from sight. As soon as the people with eyes disappeared from sight, Xu Chang immediately moved. He came to the monkey with a look of excitement, and asked softly: "Monkey, what should we do with the gold mine under our feet now? Should we keep the mine secret for a while, or just use this gold mine as a bargaining chip to trade with others?" Woolen cloth?"
Xu Chang couldn't wait to ask the monkey this question. Xu Chang wanted to ask this question after he knew that there was a gold mine under his feet.
After all, Xu Chang is just a fisherman. Compared with Monkey, a college student, his knowledge is much different. So, how to deal with this gold mine matter.Xu Changde asked the monkey.
"Hmm...!" the monkey began to think, and Xu Chang on the side didn't urge the monkey at this time.Just driving the monkey with excitement on his face.
Soon, the monkey made up his mind: "Brother Xuchang. We will trade this gold mine with others as soon as we go back." When the monkey said this, his face twitched for a while. Obviously, Monkey is also extremely heartbroken about his choice.
Xu Chang on the other side didn't notice the twitching on the monkey's face, so at this time Xu Chang was already very loudly asking the monkey: "Monkey, why is this? Why do we need to deal with this gold mine immediately after we go back?" To someone else. We could actually mine this gold mine for a few years and then...."
"Then the two of us will suddenly disappear into this world..." Monkey interrupted Xu Chang directly and unceremoniously: "Brother Xu Chang, I am also reluctant to part with such a big gold mine, not to mention such a big one." Gold mines can allow us and our descendants to live an extremely luxurious and wealthy life without worrying about food and clothing. Moreover, such a large gold mine can also make us extremely powerful warriors.
With this huge gold mine, we have enough gold to buy everything we need inside the Jade Pagoda.Faced with such a huge temptation, I was also very moved. "
Speaking of this, the monkey's eyes are full of greed.Xu Chang, who was beside him, had the same eyes as the monkey at this time, but it was very fast.A basin of ice water was poured directly on Xu Chang's head, which 'woke up' Xu Chang.
"Brother Xuchang. It's not just me and you who discovered this place, but also people like Eyes. And Leng Xin, so we can't keep this gold mine a secret at all.
Of course, if Brother Xuchang can kill Leng Xin and those in the eyes, then we can monopolize this gold mine for a while.However, I believe Brother Xu Chang, you can't do such a thing, and it's also very difficult to kill Leng Xin.Therefore, this idea was rejected.
And as long as they return to the jade area and start selling dog head gold, others will immediately realize that there is a gold mine on this island, and at that time, countless people will come to this island.
Brother Xuchang, in the face of countless martial artists swarming in, will we still be able to keep this gold mine? The warrior who was blinded by the gold was torn to pieces.
So, Brother Xuchang, our only choice for this gold mine is to sell this gold mine to others as soon as we go back.In this way, we can take advantage of the time period when they buy and sell dog head gold, and sell the gold mine at a good price.
As for who is the owner of the last gold mine?The specific amount of gold mining?Then don't care about our business.Brother Xuchang, one must know how to be content, and don't be tempted by interests! "
People must know how to be content, contentment is a state of mind, a quality.
People should be content and happy, be tolerant and magnanimous, and don't think about anything complicated. If the burden on the heart is heavy, you will complain about others.If you are simple, the world will be simple to you.Simple life can lead to happy life.
It is necessary to delete the memory regularly, and get rid of the unpleasant people and things from the memory.Formatting itself is to delete you.Zhang-Ai-Ling said: Because I have loved, I am merciful; because I understand, I am tolerant.
People should be content and learn to cherish everything they have. What you can't get is because it is not yours, not because it is too good.What you have is the best.
People need to know how to give with contentment.When you want to get the care and love of others, first think about how you treat others, and think in another way, and you will never blame others.
If someone treats you well, it means that person is kind, but not that he should treat you well. If we can figure this out, everyone will live a very happy life!
Lao Tzu said: "To be content and not to be shameful, to know that to stop is not to be forgotten, it can last for a long time."
Those who know how to be satisfied will not be humiliated, and those who know how to stop will not encounter danger, so that people's reputation and interests can be maintained for a long time.
Lao Tzu is aimed at the society's "greedy husband for money, martyr for fame", he solemnly reminds people: "Which one is more close to one's body or famous goods?"
Greed for profit is also a serious human disease. If you want to overcome the objective world, you must first overcome the subjective world, that is, you must first overcome your own selfish desires.Indifferent to fame and fortune is a good medicine.
This kind of thing, whether positive or negative examples, can be said to be everywhere.
Being indifferent to fame and fortune is not the same thing as not wanting fame and fortune.The name that deserves it and the benefits it deserves belong to its share, and it is well-deserved.
People in Peiping like to say "so-and-so is enough", what is "enough share"? That is, not to give less than one cent, and not to take more than one cent, which is called "enough share".
Lao Tzu actually said that one should learn to be "satisfied" in terms of fame and fortune, and those who are contented can overcome or put an end to many misfortunes caused by greed.
As the saying goes, "the world is wide with contentment, and the universe is narrow with greed." For greedy people who don't understand contentment, there is no pair of shoes that fit their feet, and no chair that is comfortable to sit on.
Not knowing "satisfaction" means having too much extravagance beyond what is actually possible.Some people's extravagant desire for fame and fortune is often the result of a lion opening its mouth wide, eager to swallow the sun like a tengu.
An ancient Roman scholar warned mankind long ago: "If you want to be greedy, you must first have a heart of luxury."
"Contentment" is not a general meaning of not seeking progress. People maintain a certain desire within the limit, which may be a driving force for progress and an upward booster, but we must grasp the "degree" and adopt what is allowed under the rules. means.
Otherwise, extravagant desire may become a kind of alcoholic drink with extremely high alcohol content, which will make people super excited and also make people super decayed.
A person's contentment and dissatisfaction are not concepts brought in at once, but mostly cultivated by acquired objective reality.No one is born with countless unreliable extravagant desires. If there is, it can only be imposed by grandparents or parents on their immature children and grandchildren.
At a certain age, people will have some needs along with the needs of life, that is, they have certain desires in life.This desire is often necessary for life and survival, not extravagance and greed.
As long as there is no such crazy possessive desire, it is still a reasonable pursuit.
Greed and sin are almost synonymous.In the [-]th century, the outstanding thinker of Lanxi Country, Mo-Lei-Li, said in "Natural-Law-Code": "The only sin I know in the world is greed. All other sins, no matter what they are called, They are nothing but manifestations of this guilt in different ways and in different degrees."
Mohs regards "greed" as the root of all evils, and when he thinks about the current evils of people, he really has a good generalization.It should be pointed out that those extravagant desires that are too unreliable, those "dissatisfaction" that are like a bottomless pit, are often only one step away from "greed".
Lao Tzu said that those who know where to stop will not encounter danger.
Hu Guo, a writer from Lanxi country, warns people: each of our desires, even including love, also has an "appetite" and should not be too full.In any matter, the word "final" should be written at an appropriate time; in an emergency, one should restrain oneself, push the latch of food intake, imprison one's delusional thoughts, and ask for punishment.
People who know how to self-regulate themselves at the right time are smart people.People who are content with luxury and material desires are generally people who are brave in restraint and self-discipline. This kind of people is really smart, which truly reflects their excellent qualities.
Saying "satisfaction is a quality" mainly refers to the satisfaction of material enjoyment.People live in the world, in addition to enjoying life, they also need to pay attention to style.There are two kinds of styles: elegant and vulgar, which are two incompatible attitudes towards life.
In addition to the worship of material and fame, whether a person can see that there is a more meaningful and enviable spiritual world in human history is the watershed that distinguishes a person's elegant and vulgar life style.People's pursuit of the spiritual realm, the pursuit of noble character and the pursuit of noble life attitude can never stagnate, never be satisfied, and never have a "terminus".
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Every one of us came into this world not by our own choice. We have no right to choose our birth, and of course we have no right to choose our death. God has left this right to himself. All we can do is choose how live.
Some people say that life is like a journey, you don’t care about the starting point, you don’t care about the destination, what you care about is the scenery along the way, I think this is very good.
But many of us seem to forget this point, we only focus on goals and results, and don’t know how to enjoy life itself. In the process of realizing the so-called life goals, we will do everything we can. We have spent our whole life , until the day of death, some people finally achieved their goals,|No|Error| .[][]. But more people ended up in failure.
If you ask them are they happy? I can assure you that none of them will feel very tired if they say they are happy, and they will realize that they have lived their whole life in vain when they are old. Why? Because they focus too much on results and forget that life is actually The most important thing is life itself. The process of life is actually the most important thing. As long as you live happily every day, it is more important than anything else. Take the QQ game as an example, when I am really doing my best When I can seriously answer other people's questions, I feel very happy and happy.
But when one day I dreamed of getting more points, trying to win the first place, and seemed to have grasped the secret of being the first, my happiness was no longer there, and I just felt tired, very tired. Why? what will happen?
Because my goal has been separated from the principle of happiness, because I am no longer here to answer questions for you for happiness, I am here to answer questions for the goal that seems to be attainable.
Friends, please remember that if your goal has deviated from the happiness principle, it is time for you to think about it. Is the goal correct? Do you need to make appropriate changes?
In fact, the most important thing in a person's life is to have a healthy body and a happy mood. Only this is truly your own, and the rest may be lost at any time. Because these are all external things, the so-called life does not bring, death Don't take it away. That's what it means.
The meaning of life is in life itself, to live wonderfully and happily, this is the whole meaning of life.
To live means to live in this world.However, the content of life is by no means so simple, and the bitterness, joy, sourness and sweetness in it are hard to describe.As the song says: life is a mess.Life is colorful clouds, life is a glass of wine...
Who can tell?But we all understand in our hearts: this is life.
Happiness is a mood.Happy people often laugh from the bottom of their hearts; happiness is a state of mind, and people who don’t smile are not necessarily unhappy; happiness is an emotion that permeates a person’s whole body; happiness is a kind of psychology, a manifestation of physical and mental health .
How can one live happily?Objective environmental factors make people have different encounters and feelings, so each person will be unhappy for different things, but happy people have some common subjective psychological factors, and they need to make a certain amount of effort to be happy.
If you want to be happy, you must "accept".Accept yourself and be accepted by others.
People must like themselves, regardless of height, weight, appearance, talent, etc., good or bad, they must be willing to accept; they must prove that what they do is right, and then they can be accepted by others.
If you want to be happy, you must be "dear", including loving others and being loved by others.A loving life is beautiful. Therefore, what people desperately pursue is to love and be loved by others.Intimate relationships are the foundation of happiness and the meaning of life.
If you want to be happy, you must have "achievement".Achievement comes from personal feeling.One doesn't have to be a big shot, and one doesn't have to make great achievements.
People of different classes and occupations in society have their own social functions and consciously achieve something.is an indispensable ingredient of happiness.
So how do we need to maintain a happy mood?
To maintain this kind of mood, you must develop an optimistic personality, cultivate yourself into an optimistic, funny, humorous, witty, and cheerful person, and be open-minded in dealing with the world.Treat others with generosity, and afford everything.Let it go and make a quick decision.
To maintain a happy mood, you must cultivate a wide range of interests.In addition to being interested in work and study, you must also develop hobbies for sports, music, art, photography, radio, and model aircraft.
In this way, when you are temporarily unsatisfied with something you are interested in, you can also be satisfied in other ways.
To maintain a happy mood, you must actively participate in healthy cultural activities. After work, study and life, you can play ball, sing and dance, or participate in favorite scientific activities. relax and happy.
To maintain a happy mood, you must take the initiative to communicate with others. Anyone who is unwilling to communicate with others feels lonely and depressed.In the process of interacting with people, you can exchange views and opinions, comfort and encourage each other, and when the problem is solved, you will naturally feel at ease.
If you want to live a happy life, you need to do the following:
First of all, you have to understand that you live for the present: all you have is the present, and the peace of mind and the effectiveness of your work all depend on how we live in the present moment.
No matter what happened yesterday, no matter what is coming tomorrow, you are always in the "now". From this perspective, the secret of happiness and contentment is to focus on every minute and every second of the present moment. .
Life must be centered on the present, and we must enjoy happiness during the journey of life, rather than saving it until the end.
Then, in your life, you have to avoid unnecessary waiting: as the saying goes: "Take the lid off from time to time, the water will not boil for a long time."
Sometimes you feel impatient for an expected phone call, after what seems like endless hours of waiting.You decide to find something else to do, and sure enough.The phone rang immediately.
Here's a rule of thumb for dealing with situations like this: "Go back and master your present. Don't hold your breath and wait for a miracle."
If you tell yourself, "I have to have this" to be happy and fulfilled, the chances of not getting what you want are greatly increased.
The less you worry about, the waiting will end a moment sooner.
In your life, you need to maintain your magnanimity: forgive yourself or others, if you are not tolerant to others, you are the one who suffers, and most of the people who are condemned by us do not know what we are thinking!
Sinners continue to live their lives happily, unaffected by the ups and downs of our inner emotions. If we choose to forgive, the situation will turn around in a miraculous way.
When we change.Others change too. We change our attitudes toward others and others adjust their behavior. As we revise our views on things, others respond to our new expectations.
It is not easy to forgive others, but it is even more difficult to forgive yourself. If you refuse to forgive yourself, you will always be immersed in guilt and bear unnecessary psychological torture.
life inside.You also need to understand what happiness is: Lincoln said: "Man's degree of happiness is mostly determined by himself." The impact of life encounters on happiness is actually far less important than our reactions to events.
Happiness is really not that easy. Sometimes it can be regarded as the greatest challenge in life, requiring all determination, perseverance, and self-control.Maturity means taking responsibility for your own happiness, focusing on what you have rather than what you don't have.
What a person thinks in his heart is beyond the control of others.Therefore, the feeling of happiness or not is in your own hands.
Others cannot force ideas into your head.To seek happiness, one must concentrate on thinking about the happy things.But do we often do the opposite?Do we often not take other people's compliments to heart, but get angry for several days because of one or two unpopular words?If you allow unpleasant experiences or bad words to occupy your mind, the consequences are only at your own risk.
Sometimes happiness requires hard work, just like keeping your home clean and beautiful-you have to put the good things on display and take out the trash. Happiness is searching for the good things in life. Some people see beautiful scenery, but others only see dirty glass windows , What to see, depends on your own thoughts to make decisions.
Remember, you are the master of your own thoughts.
An 85-year-old man said before his death: If I could live this life again, I would try to make more mistakes, I would not be so deliberately perfect, I would rest more, go with the flow, and I would not behave like this time So shrewd.
In fact, there are very few things worth worrying about in the world. I will be more crazy and less hygienic. You know, I am the kind of person who lives cautiously, soberly and rationally day after day, hour after hour.
Oh, I've indulged too, and if I could do it all over again, I'd have more of those moments—every moment, every minute, every second.
If I could do it all over again, I would go barefoot outdoors in early spring and stay awake at night in late autumn. I would ride on the carousel a few more times, watch the sunrise a few more times, and play with more children. As long as life can be restarted... …
"But you know, it can't."
Life is limited and should be used wisely, and the old man knew that to live a happier and more fulfilled life, he didn't need to change the world.The world is beautiful enough, what needs to be changed is yourself.
The world is not "perfect" and the degree to which we are unhappy depends on how far reality is from what it "should be".
Happiness is a lot easier if we don't demand perfection in everything. We just need to decide which direction we like things to go, and even if we don't get what we want, we can still be happy.
Finally, you also need to understand perfection and happiness: Unhappiness is because life does not meet expectations, our requirements cannot be met, and we think that life is not what it "should" be, and we will not be happy.
So we would say: "I will be happy as long as I want." But life is not so perfect. Anger, frustration, success, and failure often appear in life. The conditions for happiness are actually self-deception.
The environment is born from the heart, and happiness depends on oneself.Many people live their lives as if one day they will arrive at a bus stop called "Happy."
They think that one day everything will be exactly as it should be.Then they can take a breath and say, "I finally found happiness!" So their whole life can be summed up with "As long as I do. I will be happy."
Each of us has to make a decision: Are we going to remind ourselves every day that time is limited.Should we make good use of it?Or throw away the present, imagining a bright future?
The road to life is long but short. Let us devote ourselves to our current work with full enthusiasm, treat work and life with a positive attitude, pursue our own happiness, and harvest our own That success, let us work happily and live happily!
If we regard life as a long scroll, then every step we take in life is a beautiful landscape.
If we just walk with our heads down.If you ignore the scenery along the way, you will lose the joy of life;
If we only see the unsatisfactory things in life, then you lose the opportunity to enjoy life;
If we only regard work as a burden, then your life will lose the happiness and splendor that originally belonged to you.
Sunshine always comes after the storm. In life, we can only cherish our current life even more when we experience it, pay it, try it, and lose it.In order to better understand the beauty of our life!
Maybe we often complain sometimes, always complain that we pay too much and get too little; we always complain that others do less, but we do more;But we have never seen the favor of life for us.
When we complain more than we appreciate, we will not feel the beauty of things, and we will not feel the joy of life.You will not feel the beauty of life.
You can only adjust your mentality and treat life with a normal heart.If we are neither humble nor overbearing, we can feel the beauty of life.We can realize that we live in a beautiful world, our life is full of sunshine, as long as we pay attention, we can see many beautiful things that others cannot see.
We have an enviable job, but after a long time, we will lose the sense of freshness, patience and confidence in the work, and always think that we have given too much and received too little, and always feel that we have nothing in our life. It is a kind of waste and a waste to come over so plainly.
But think about it in reverse, is it possible for us to choose other jobs besides this job?Since we can't choose, why don't we go to work happily?
The job we are engaged in is as trivial as life, and it gets annoying after a long time, but in life, we can live in different ways, but we can't in work, so we shouldn't treat work as a joke, muddle through, and smile However, if you work hard to find fun, find happiness, and treat work as a kind of enjoyment, then you will fall in love with this job from the bottom of your heart.
The joy of our life is because we are happy with the company of colleagues, and we are more confident with the entrustment of our family members; the joy of our work is because we have a stable monthly income, and our knowledge and skills can be greatly improved. Can you not be moved?
Therefore, we can only keep this touching feeling in our hearts forever, and use it as the motivation for our work and life, work hard and give actively.
We must know that generous remuneration and a great sense of accomplishment are always proportional to the amount of hard work we put in at work and the size of the difficulties we overcome; in order to obtain more happiness and gains, we must pay more than ordinary people It takes a lot of hard work; as the saying goes, "No pain, no gain" is the truth.
In fact, everyone has troubles, whether they are light or heavy, more or less, but some people write it on their faces, while others bury it deep in their hearts.We have to find our own fun at work, learn to be grateful at work, and enjoy life while actively working.At work, we must also learn to be moved. Being moved is a silent education.
The beauty and richness of life are determined by us personally. Only those who love life can feel the beauty and variety of life.
This is because life is the result of our struggle to forge it.It can be said to be the fine wine of life brewed by oneself.
In the face of life, we must treat it correctly, treat it with a positive and enthusiastic attitude, and water it diligently with our own sweat to promote its healthy growth and development. Only in this way can we share a beautiful and sweet life and the charm of happiness.
As the saying goes.Sow a seed of happiness in spring, and harvest a load of happiness in autumn.
Although we work to live.But it is only one of the reasons, because the value of life can be reflected in work.Because friends in life can be met at work, because our lives can grow and mature through experience at work.At the same time, life is also for work. Only in life can we discover what we need, and our needs can only be met through work.
Since the relationship between work and life is so close, we should work happily and live happily, because happy work allows us to live happily, and a happy life provides inspiration and motivation for our work.
When we find that we cannot change the environment around us, we must learn to change our mentality.We can live without wealth but we cannot live without the ability to create happiness, the perception of which is purely internal.It is determined by your own concepts, thoughts and attitudes.No matter how bad your mood is, as long as you choose to be happy, you will be happy.
Whether a person is happy or not is all about himself. If you are looking for happiness, maybe it is by your side, otherwise troubles will also patronize you.Besides, there is no perfect life in the world. In fact, everything is conserved.
To learn to forget, the more space for happiness, the less space for troubles, as long as you live happily and freely, your life will be more exciting!
People in this world always seem to be troubled.Happy less.How can life be happy?Maybe many people will ask this question.
In fact, happiness is very simple, it is often around us, contained in some small things!What matters most is how you think about it!
Indifferent light, peace of mind!concern for others.Be content and be happy!Mentality is the most important thing, think about it carefully, in fact, happiness is by your side.
There is a Chinese MBA student working in a restaurant near New York Wall Street.one day.He said ambitiously to the restaurant chef: "Just wait and see, I will break into Wall Street one day."
The chef asked curiously: "Young man. What are your plans after graduation?"
mba answered fluently: "I hope that as soon as I finish my studies, I would like to work in a first-class multinational company immediately. Not only will the income be rich, but the future will be promising."
The chef shook his head: "I'm not asking about your future, I'm asking about your future work interests and life interests."
mba was speechless for a moment.
Obviously he didn't understand what the chef meant.
But the chef sighed: "If the economy continues to slump and the restaurants do not do well, then I will have to be a banker."
Mba was stunned and almost suspected that there was something wrong with his ears. How could the cook in front of him, who smelled of oily smoke, have anything to do with the banker?
The chef explained to the goose-like MBA: "I used to work in a bank on Wall Street, and I wore stars and moons every day, leaving early and returning late, without any spare time of my own.
I have always loved cooking, and my family and friends appreciate my cooking skills. Every time I see them enjoy the dishes I cook, I am so happy.
One day, I was busy in the office building until one o'clock in the morning before I finished my routine work. When I was eating a disgusting hamburger to satisfy my hunger, I made up my mind to resign, get rid of this rigid life like a working machine, and choose my love Cooking is a career, and now my life is a hundred times more enjoyable than before. "
Such a case is inconceivable to the Chinese.Because, when Chinese people choose a career, they first look at decentness and second at income. Having both is enough to show off before others.
Success or failure, honor or disgrace, is all about face, and face is to be praised by others, without applause, it is as boring as walking in brocade clothes at night.
But for Westerners, there is no distinction between high and low no matter what occupation they are engaged in. What they pay more attention to is the interest in the career. Moreover, the realization of self-worth, the embodiment of success, does not need to be verified by comparing with others. No need for affirmation from others to satisfy.
An indifferent life is a kind of enjoyment. A perfect life does not necessarily have to make a lot of money, nor does it necessarily have to have great achievements. In a simple and ordinary life, living happily and self is also a kind of superiority. realm of life.
So, if you want to live a happy life, it is actually very simple, that is, you need to maintain a normal mind and a magnanimity in your own heart, and Xu Chang is doing this now.
Although Xu Chang is not a high-level intellectual, he is.He grew up by the sea since he was a child and has an absolutely magnanimous heart, which is why.After Xu realized that the monkeys really wanted to change their ways, he was able to accept them so quickly.trust them.
The boundless sea makes Xu Chang's heart broad and boundless. I believe that Zhao Chaogang will help Xu Chang and the others in this way. Xu Chang's broad mind is also one of the reasons.
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"Everyone get up, don't kneel on the ground anymore, I believe that you have really changed your ways, I believe in you." Xu Chang directly stepped forward to help the monkeys up one by one, judging from the expressions on the faces of the monkeys and their movements above.Xu Chang can guarantee 100% that people like Monkey really want to change their ways.
Xu Chang was really happy that people like Monkey could make such a choice.
There is nothing more satisfying than watching a person who has gone astray finally come to his senses and be right again.Compared to these, monkeys and others offended him before, that's really trivial.
"Okay, that's great, Monkey. I'm very happy that you have such determination and actions like this, okay. Very good...!" Xu Chang patted the shoulders of Monkey and the others one by one with excitement on his face, and from time to time He said some encouraging words, which warmed the hearts of people like Monkey.
but.People like monkeys seem to have undergone a 180-degree change in their whole beings after they corrected their evil ways.After hearing Xu Chang's praise for them, they unexpectedly showed a shy expression for the first time.Therefore, after Xu Chang praised them, the monkeys only responded with a few very shy "haha...!" laughter.
Hehe, once this person changes, there will be jaw-dropping changes in many places.
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"Eyes, the sky is starting to darken, and almost all the dog-head gold here has been found. After searching for dog-head gold for so long, I believe that you are not very interested in looking for dog-head gold. Therefore, you still go first. Go back, and the monkey and I will go to the coconut tree over there to pick some coconuts for dinner.
It's night now, and those snakes have come out, so the matter of picking coconuts is still left to me and the monkey. After all, I am a quasi-warrior, even if I encounter poisonous snakes, I can easily deal with them. "
When we got here, things were almost done, and it was time for Xu Chang and the others to go back. However, before going back, Xu Chang still had to roughly discuss with Hou Zi how to deal with the gold mine, so he sent these people back first.
As for his saying that he and the monkey went to pick coconuts, that was just an excuse for the monkey to stay.Only when Monkey stayed alone with him, could Xu Chang discuss with Monkey how to deal with the gold mine.
"Well, let's go back first, brother Xuchang, you should also be careful."
"Okay, be careful on the way back. Also, tell my brother Xu Jie that I won't be back until about half an hour later. Of course, you can stop talking about the dog head gold, or don't talk about it." It’s good, lest other people feel jealous and something happens for no reason, remember?”.
"Don't worry, brother Xuchang, we know how to do it. It's too late for us to keep the matter of the dog's head gold secret. How can we talk nonsense? These dog's head gold are the guarantee of our future life. We will not mess around. Brother Xuchang, let's go first Alright, see you later!"
"Well, see you later...!"
Soon, the people with the eyes disappeared from sight. As soon as the people with eyes disappeared from sight, Xu Chang immediately moved. He came to the monkey with a look of excitement, and asked softly: "Monkey, what should we do with the gold mine under our feet now? Should we keep the mine secret for a while, or just use this gold mine as a bargaining chip to trade with others?" Woolen cloth?"
Xu Chang couldn't wait to ask the monkey this question. Xu Chang wanted to ask this question after he knew that there was a gold mine under his feet.
After all, Xu Chang is just a fisherman. Compared with Monkey, a college student, his knowledge is much different. So, how to deal with this gold mine matter.Xu Changde asked the monkey.
"Hmm...!" the monkey began to think, and Xu Chang on the side didn't urge the monkey at this time.Just driving the monkey with excitement on his face.
Soon, the monkey made up his mind: "Brother Xuchang. We will trade this gold mine with others as soon as we go back." When the monkey said this, his face twitched for a while. Obviously, Monkey is also extremely heartbroken about his choice.
Xu Chang on the other side didn't notice the twitching on the monkey's face, so at this time Xu Chang was already very loudly asking the monkey: "Monkey, why is this? Why do we need to deal with this gold mine immediately after we go back?" To someone else. We could actually mine this gold mine for a few years and then...."
"Then the two of us will suddenly disappear into this world..." Monkey interrupted Xu Chang directly and unceremoniously: "Brother Xu Chang, I am also reluctant to part with such a big gold mine, not to mention such a big one." Gold mines can allow us and our descendants to live an extremely luxurious and wealthy life without worrying about food and clothing. Moreover, such a large gold mine can also make us extremely powerful warriors.
With this huge gold mine, we have enough gold to buy everything we need inside the Jade Pagoda.Faced with such a huge temptation, I was also very moved. "
Speaking of this, the monkey's eyes are full of greed.Xu Chang, who was beside him, had the same eyes as the monkey at this time, but it was very fast.A basin of ice water was poured directly on Xu Chang's head, which 'woke up' Xu Chang.
"Brother Xuchang. It's not just me and you who discovered this place, but also people like Eyes. And Leng Xin, so we can't keep this gold mine a secret at all.
Of course, if Brother Xuchang can kill Leng Xin and those in the eyes, then we can monopolize this gold mine for a while.However, I believe Brother Xu Chang, you can't do such a thing, and it's also very difficult to kill Leng Xin.Therefore, this idea was rejected.
And as long as they return to the jade area and start selling dog head gold, others will immediately realize that there is a gold mine on this island, and at that time, countless people will come to this island.
Brother Xuchang, in the face of countless martial artists swarming in, will we still be able to keep this gold mine? The warrior who was blinded by the gold was torn to pieces.
So, Brother Xuchang, our only choice for this gold mine is to sell this gold mine to others as soon as we go back.In this way, we can take advantage of the time period when they buy and sell dog head gold, and sell the gold mine at a good price.
As for who is the owner of the last gold mine?The specific amount of gold mining?Then don't care about our business.Brother Xuchang, one must know how to be content, and don't be tempted by interests! "
People must know how to be content, contentment is a state of mind, a quality.
People should be content and happy, be tolerant and magnanimous, and don't think about anything complicated. If the burden on the heart is heavy, you will complain about others.If you are simple, the world will be simple to you.Simple life can lead to happy life.
It is necessary to delete the memory regularly, and get rid of the unpleasant people and things from the memory.Formatting itself is to delete you.Zhang-Ai-Ling said: Because I have loved, I am merciful; because I understand, I am tolerant.
People should be content and learn to cherish everything they have. What you can't get is because it is not yours, not because it is too good.What you have is the best.
People need to know how to give with contentment.When you want to get the care and love of others, first think about how you treat others, and think in another way, and you will never blame others.
If someone treats you well, it means that person is kind, but not that he should treat you well. If we can figure this out, everyone will live a very happy life!
Lao Tzu said: "To be content and not to be shameful, to know that to stop is not to be forgotten, it can last for a long time."
Those who know how to be satisfied will not be humiliated, and those who know how to stop will not encounter danger, so that people's reputation and interests can be maintained for a long time.
Lao Tzu is aimed at the society's "greedy husband for money, martyr for fame", he solemnly reminds people: "Which one is more close to one's body or famous goods?"
Greed for profit is also a serious human disease. If you want to overcome the objective world, you must first overcome the subjective world, that is, you must first overcome your own selfish desires.Indifferent to fame and fortune is a good medicine.
This kind of thing, whether positive or negative examples, can be said to be everywhere.
Being indifferent to fame and fortune is not the same thing as not wanting fame and fortune.The name that deserves it and the benefits it deserves belong to its share, and it is well-deserved.
People in Peiping like to say "so-and-so is enough", what is "enough share"? That is, not to give less than one cent, and not to take more than one cent, which is called "enough share".
Lao Tzu actually said that one should learn to be "satisfied" in terms of fame and fortune, and those who are contented can overcome or put an end to many misfortunes caused by greed.
As the saying goes, "the world is wide with contentment, and the universe is narrow with greed." For greedy people who don't understand contentment, there is no pair of shoes that fit their feet, and no chair that is comfortable to sit on.
Not knowing "satisfaction" means having too much extravagance beyond what is actually possible.Some people's extravagant desire for fame and fortune is often the result of a lion opening its mouth wide, eager to swallow the sun like a tengu.
An ancient Roman scholar warned mankind long ago: "If you want to be greedy, you must first have a heart of luxury."
"Contentment" is not a general meaning of not seeking progress. People maintain a certain desire within the limit, which may be a driving force for progress and an upward booster, but we must grasp the "degree" and adopt what is allowed under the rules. means.
Otherwise, extravagant desire may become a kind of alcoholic drink with extremely high alcohol content, which will make people super excited and also make people super decayed.
A person's contentment and dissatisfaction are not concepts brought in at once, but mostly cultivated by acquired objective reality.No one is born with countless unreliable extravagant desires. If there is, it can only be imposed by grandparents or parents on their immature children and grandchildren.
At a certain age, people will have some needs along with the needs of life, that is, they have certain desires in life.This desire is often necessary for life and survival, not extravagance and greed.
As long as there is no such crazy possessive desire, it is still a reasonable pursuit.
Greed and sin are almost synonymous.In the [-]th century, the outstanding thinker of Lanxi Country, Mo-Lei-Li, said in "Natural-Law-Code": "The only sin I know in the world is greed. All other sins, no matter what they are called, They are nothing but manifestations of this guilt in different ways and in different degrees."
Mohs regards "greed" as the root of all evils, and when he thinks about the current evils of people, he really has a good generalization.It should be pointed out that those extravagant desires that are too unreliable, those "dissatisfaction" that are like a bottomless pit, are often only one step away from "greed".
Lao Tzu said that those who know where to stop will not encounter danger.
Hu Guo, a writer from Lanxi country, warns people: each of our desires, even including love, also has an "appetite" and should not be too full.In any matter, the word "final" should be written at an appropriate time; in an emergency, one should restrain oneself, push the latch of food intake, imprison one's delusional thoughts, and ask for punishment.
People who know how to self-regulate themselves at the right time are smart people.People who are content with luxury and material desires are generally people who are brave in restraint and self-discipline. This kind of people is really smart, which truly reflects their excellent qualities.
Saying "satisfaction is a quality" mainly refers to the satisfaction of material enjoyment.People live in the world, in addition to enjoying life, they also need to pay attention to style.There are two kinds of styles: elegant and vulgar, which are two incompatible attitudes towards life.
In addition to the worship of material and fame, whether a person can see that there is a more meaningful and enviable spiritual world in human history is the watershed that distinguishes a person's elegant and vulgar life style.People's pursuit of the spiritual realm, the pursuit of noble character and the pursuit of noble life attitude can never stagnate, never be satisfied, and never have a "terminus".
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