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"Big brother, Leng Xin and the others are really swimming towards us now, big brother, we have too much hatred with Leng Xin and the others, now Leng Xin is swimming towards us, big brother, what should we do now? "

Xu Jie's heart was a little confused, because he remembered the few bullets Leng Xin fired at him just now, and there were bursts of very slight painful wounds on his hands, and he kept telling Xu Jie that he and Leng Xin How deep is the hatred, Xu Jie now hates Leng Xin and the others to the bone.

When Leng Xin dealt with their two brothers just now, he was ruthless. Moreover, now that Leng Xin will end up like this, the two brothers should also bear a lot of responsibility. Without the reason for the two brothers, Leng Xin How could they fall into such a desperate situation.

Therefore, Xu Jie believed that if the two brothers really met Leng Xin, no matter what happened to the two brothers, Leng Xin would definitely kill them.

Xu Jie is not afraid of being killed by Leng Xin. Anyway, he is already a drag on his elder brother. Without him, the chance of his elder brother escaping is even greater. However, Leng Xin will definitely not let him go after killing himself. After killing the elder brother, Leng Xin will definitely attack the elder brother.Xu Jie?Ten thousand?Book?Bar? .nsb. He didn't want his elder brother to die in Leng Xin's hands, so when Xu Jie saw Leng Xin swimming towards them, Xu Jie's heart was in a mess.

"Hey..., this is really a house leak and it's raining all night, what a fucking bad luck!" Xu Chang cursed directly, he really didn't want to get together with people like Leng Xin.

"Xiaojie, don't worry. Even if Leng Xin is in front of us now, he doesn't dare to do anything, Xiaojie. Don't forget, now we are in the sea, not on a fishing boat or on land.

On fishing boats or on land, our two brothers really have nothing to do with Leng Xin, but in the sea, it is our two brothers' world.

Leng Xin's current martial arts is only one level higher than ours.So, if he wants to deal with our two brothers in the sea, he will steal the chicken without losing the rice .),so.Leng Xin will definitely not come to trouble us now. "

Xu Chang said with certainty.Xu Jie's fear in Xu Chang's heart was obvious to Xu Chang, so Xu Chang directly put everything on the table, so that Xu Jie's fear of Leng Xin looking for their two brothers could be dispelled in Xu Jie's heart. "Hehe, that's true. If Leng Xin really makes a move later, then our two brothers will let Leng Xin see how good we are. In terms of actual eyesight, Leng Xin is stronger than us. But, In the sea. Even if Leng Xin is a tyrannosaurus rex, he has to lie on his stomach obediently. Brother, you are the best, you can see so clearly."

Xu Jie laughed. Xu Chang's explanation just now made Xu Jie look very relaxed.

However, Xu Jie's back is facing Xu Chang now. If Xu Jie is facing Xu Chang now, he will know that Xu Chang's face is actually very ugly now. Why is this?This is because Xu Chang really doesn't want to be with Leng Xin and the others.

Then why did Xu Chang get together with Leng Xin and the others so reluctantly in his heart? It stands to reason that Xu Chang is no longer afraid of Leng Xin and the others. Moreover, if Leng Xin and the brothers Xu Chang and Xu Jie get together, they will unite. Isn't the strength even greater, but why does Xu Chang have such an ugly look on his face when faced with such 'good news'?
In fact, there is a reason for this. Xu Chang doesn't want to get together with Leng Xin and the others. It's not that Xu Chang is afraid of Leng Xin and the others. Just like what Xu Chang said just now, Xu Chang is the only one facing Leng Xin on a fishing boat or land It's easy to catch, but in the sea, Xu Chang has plenty of ways to fight back.

Xu Chang didn't want to get together with Leng Xin and the others, because once they get together, the goal is too big, and now his younger brother Xu Jie is injured and can't swim at all, so he has to walk on his back, so now Xu Chang is swimming. The speed is actually not fast. Once Leng Xin and the others catch up, they will definitely surpass Xu Chang and his two brothers.

At that time, their Xu brothers were Leng Xin's stepping stone, and Xu Chang didn't want to be a stepping stone.

However, Xu Chang knew that even if he didn't want Leng Xin and the others to get together with him, it would be impossible, because when people are facing danger, the herd mentality in people's hearts will make people gather together unconsciously.

Imagine that for some reason, you or a few people are floating in the endless sea, there is no one around, and there is no way to escape, and at this moment, you suddenly find that there is another person not far from you. Other people, at that time, I believe everyone knows what kind of reaction you will have.

You will choose to shout loudly towards the distance at the first time. If the people over there can't hear your shout, or ignore your shout, you will try your best to swim towards that side, wanting to be with that side. Those people gathered together, in fact, this is the mentality of gathering and following the crowd in your heart at work.

Frmist mentlity means that individuals are influenced by the behavior of the outside crowd, and their own perception, judgment, and understanding show a behavior that conforms to public opinion or the majority. Experiments show that only a few people remain independent. Sex, not being conformed, so herd mentality is a psychological phenomenon common to most individuals.

Conformity refers to the social psychological phenomenon in which an individual maintains the same line with the majority unconsciously or involuntarily under the invisible pressure of the social group.

Individuals are influenced by the behavior of the outside crowd, and their own perception, judgment, and understanding show a behavior that conforms to public opinion or the majority.Usually, the majority opinion is often right.

It is generally good to follow the crowd and obey the majority, but it lacks analysis and does not think independently.It is not advisable to obey the majority regardless of right and wrong and follow the trend.It is a negative "blind herd mentality".

Scholar A-Xi once conducted a herd psychology experiment. As a result, only 1/4~1/3 of the test subjects had no herd behavior and maintained their independence.It can be seen that it is a common psychological phenomenon.

Conformity is a quality of will that is opposite to independence; people with strong conformity lack opinions, are susceptible to hints, and accept other people's opinions without analysis and put them into practice.

There are many factors that lead people to herd mentality, and there are three specific factors: 1. Group factors: Generally speaking, large groups, strong cohesion, and consistency of group opinions are all likely to make individuals have herd behavior.

2. Situational factors: This mainly includes two aspects: the ambiguity of information and the influence of authority figures.That is to say, a person in these two situations is prone to herd mentality.

3. Personal factors: This is mainly reflected in three aspects: personality characteristics, gender differences and cultural differences.

Generally speaking, people with low intelligence, low self-confidence, and weak personality are more likely to follow the crowd; women are more likely to follow the crowd than men; people with different cultural backgrounds have certain differences in their conformity performance.

As far as the occurrence of personal conformity is concerned, conformity may be blind or conscious; it may be superficial obedience or inner acceptance.In its sense, conformity may be negative or positive.

Many people actually understand the reasons for conformity, but, generally speaking, the behavior of group members.Usually have a tendency to follow the herd.He feels a strain when he finds that his actions and opinions do not agree with the group, or with the majority of the group.This prompts him to tend to conform to the phenomenon of the group, called herd behavior.

Conformity is everywhere in our lives.Two people were arguing on the street, it wasn't a big deal.result.There are more and more people, and finally even the traffic is blocked.The people behind stopped and looked up into the crowd...

American James Thurber has a very expressive passage to describe people's herd mentality: Suddenly, a person runs up, maybe he suddenly remembered the date with his lover, and it has been outdated for a long time now.

Whatever he was thinking, he ran down the street anyway.ran east.Seeing this phenomenon, another person also ran.This could be a newsboy in high spirits.Then, a third person, a fat gentleman in a hurry, trots too... and within 10 minutes, everyone on the street is running.The noisy voice gradually became clearer, and the word "levee" could be heard clearly.

"The embankment has burst!" This terrifying voice may have been shouted by an old woman on the tram, a traffic policeman, or a boy.

No one knows who said it, or what really happened.But more than 2000 people suddenly fled. "East!" the crowd shouted.The east is far away from the great river, and the east is safe. "Go east! Go east!"  …

It seems that herd mentality has a great influence on people.

There are many reasons for people to have a herd mentality.In a group, because the individual is unwilling to be new and different, he feels isolated, but when his behavior, attitude and opinion are consistent with others, he will have a sense of security that "there is nothing wrong".

Conformity stems from the invisible pressure of a group on itself, forcing some members to behave contrary to their own wishes.

Different types of people have different degrees of herd behavior.Generally speaking, women are more than men; people with introversion and inferiority complex are more than extroverted and self-confident people; people with low education are more than people with high education; people with younger age are more than people with age; There are more people with less experience than those with rich social experience.

Herd behavior is manifested in all aspects, including work, life, and study.

It makes sense for us to understand the herd mentality of people and deal with its behavior appropriately.Some leaders' opinions were originally wrong, and some employees voted for them against their will because they were afraid of opposition and would be detrimental to themselves in the future.If you can persist at this time, it will be beneficial to the future work of the unit;
A problem-solving method of some teachers is not the best. Because many students do not object, most students follow the teacher's problem-solving method.If you can come up with your own better problem-solving method than the teacher's method at this time, wouldn't that make many students avoid detours?

Therefore, whether it is a leader or a teacher, understanding people's herd mentality is crucial to improving and improving one's own work.is very helpful.

With the development of society, communication and transportation are becoming more and more convenient.There are more and more conformity behaviors, so many scholars have started research. After research by relevant scholars, it has been found that "conformity" is actually a relatively common social psychological and behavioral phenomenon.

The popular explanation is "follow what others say" and "follow the crowd"; everyone thinks so, so do I; everyone does it, and I do it too.

Related researchers also conducted a very specific analysis of herd behavior, they found.Herd mentality generally has the following manifestations: one is superficial obedience and inner acceptance, the so-called oral obedience.The second is oral dissatisfaction.Out of helplessness, he had to obey on the surface and follow the crowd against his will.The third is to follow the trend completely, and there is no question of whether to accept or not.

As far as the objective influence of herd mentality is concerned, it has positive significance.There are also negative connotations.It mainly depends on the specific content of herd behavior.

Due to the lack of knowledge and experience of middle school students and the lack of self-control ability, in most cases, the conformity behavior is blind to varying degrees.Among the middle school students, there is a "true conformity" that is convincing.

There are also "false herdsmen" who are dissatisfied. "True conformity" often means that the opinions or suggestions put forward are exactly what one wants, or one has no fixed intention, or the idea of ​​"being with the majority can't be wrong" follows the crowd.

'False conformity' is often out of favor or from the group's accusations and punishments.For example, some students don't smoke and don't want to smoke, but many of their partners smoke.In order to make myself consistent with everyone, I had to draw on it.

This kind of conformity against one's will is quite common among students.

In real society.There are many examples of herd mentality, and the following herds are the most typical ones.

The first type: advertising conformity.There are many people who follow the herd in life, and some people use people's herd mentality to achieve a certain purpose. Some commercial advertisements use people's herd mentality to stir up their own products, so as to achieve their goals.

There are indeed some shocking events in life that will cause a sensation, and the masses will spread, discuss, and participate in it, but there are also many cases that are artificially propagated and exaggerated to attract public attention.

It is often that once public opinion is "fried", people tend to follow the "hot".Advertisements and news media reports are commonplace, but people with a herd mentality often follow along to "join in the fun".

It is already an unhealthy mentality to "obey" a certain propaganda effect without analysis, to "follow the crowd" behavior of following the crowd, and even develop to "blind obedience".

More independent thinking spirit, less blind conformity, so as not to be deceived, is a healthy mind.

Type [-]: Learning to follow the crowd
There is often such a phenomenon in colleges and universities that students randomly arranged between classes and dormitories when they enter the school show different levels in various aspects within a year or so, and there is an obvious "asynchronous" phenomenon.

Classes and dormitories are relatively concentrated for top students, English passing grades, graduate admissions, etc.

The dormitory members collectively participated in various certificate training courses, which has become a popular scene on the university campus. A boy said bluntly: My brothers are studying hard. If I don’t make progress, wouldn’t I be ashamed?
The third type: consumption conformity
Entering an institution of higher learning can be described as an "eye-opener". There are many people on campus who "dress differently, smoke and drink differently", "eat high-end, wear fashionable clothes, play well, and smoke famous brands" .Some college students go to restaurants, go to dance halls, visit scenic spots, go out in spring and autumn, celebrate birthdays, meet friends, eat bonuses, and drink subsidies. Basically, spend a lot of money.

Someone in authority made it clear: there is nothing I can do, for the sake of face, I have no choice but to ignore the bottom line.

The fourth type: falling in love with the crowd
Under the watchful eyes of the public, it has become an open scene on university campuses that lovers of men and women read the same book and eat the same bowl of rice together.

"Now all the fellow villagers, classmates, and friends I know are in love. I have no choice but to find someone to show off." A boy said humorously.

Campus love is very contagious. In some classes, few people talk about it in one stage, but a group of people in love appear in the other stage; in some dormitories, no one asks about "love", and in some dormitories, everyone is "in love".

For those who do not fall in love, everyone gathers firewood, and within a few days, they will be completely "attracted".

The fifth type: acting - cheating and following the crowd
In recent years, when it became popular in the society to "suffer the bold and starve the timid to death", the philosophy of "don't look at nothing and don't look at it" has emerged on campus. ——The method of cheating was brought into full play, so that the students who did not cheat in the exam were ridiculed as "fools", "Everyone cheated, why didn't I do it"? The boy who was caught cheating plausibly defended himself excuse.

In addition, gambling conformity, joining the party conformity, and job selection conformity also have a considerable market on university campuses.

It can be said that whether the herd mentality exists in all aspects of society, no matter how you deny it, it is useless. From this point of view, the herd mentality seems to be a good phenomenon, and many people agree with it, agreeing that the herd mentality is in the real society. Inside the usefulness, however, this idea is very one-sided and incomplete because.

ps: ?? Note: Thank you Jin Guiguan for molesting and Xie Zhixiu for your support, thank you!