Wife Please Be Obedient

The closer the production period is, the more nervous Qin Guanglin feels.

It felt like I was about to be a father... well, I really wanted to be a father.

Why not get up at night several times every night because of her pregnancy, Qin Guanglin will wake up with it every time there is a slight movement, help her get out of bed and put on slippers, then follow her to the bathroom door and wait quietly.

Slippers have long been replaced with thick-soled cotton moppings, to ensure that they will not slip at the bottom. Every time you take a bath in the bathroom, you will mop the floor with a dry mopping. This child can not tolerate any accidents. The children in ordinary families are precious, and they The child of has an extraordinary meaning.

If something goes wrong, even if it doesn't collapse, it will regret all your life in the bottom of my heart and become an incurable heart disease.

"Are you going to give birth?"

"If you don't mind, I want to accompany you."

Qin Guanglin was worried that she would stay inside alone while waiting outside.

The issue of paternity was not popular in the beginning. Later, as demand increased, many hospitals increased this business. In recent years, due to various reasons, some hospitals chose to cancel this project.

On the one hand, the husband is prone to leave a shadow, on the other hand, pregnant women are emotionally unstable. If someone has a paternity, they may be encouraged, or they may become more fragile and fragile. They could have a smooth delivery but were affected to switch to a caesarean section. different.

He believes that it doesn't matter, he won't become more squeamish because he is around. On the contrary, he can feel at ease only if he is by his side. Needless to say, he also knows, just like he has to look at it to feel at ease.

When it is the most painful, there must always be someone to rely on instead of fighting alone.

"Aren't you afraid of leaving a psychological shadow?" Why not ask.

"Have I been with me last time? Is there a shadow?" Qin Guanglin was too lazy to think and asked her the answer directly.

If you didn't accompany you last time, you must accompany you this time; if you accompany you last time without shadow, you have to accompany you this time; if you have a shadow last time... then close your eyes to accompany you.

Anyway, as long as he agrees, he has to go in and stay by the bed—unless he doesn't want him to see her most embarrassing side, he will respect his choice.

Qin Guanglin has already understood the advantages and disadvantages of paternity very thoroughly. Not only is paternity, everything from waiting for childbirth to confinement later, he has read countless examples and materials in his spare time, and he understands everything. All considered, just look at the choice.

Sure enough, why not shook his head and said: "Last time I didn't, I don't want you to see the ugliest side of me and didn't let you in."

"But I don't want to wait outside. Although I haven't experienced it, the waiting is definitely uncomfortable."

Qin Guanglin just thinks about the scene when he is standing outside the delivery room and looking at the lamp on the door, rubbing his hands and stomping his feet in a hurry.

After a pause, he continued: "I heard that some fast ones take tens of minutes, and slow ones take several hours...Do you have the heart to let me wait for a few hours outside?"

"I was not that slow last time."

"Last time you didn't have overnutrition."

"...Well, then you will come in with me." Why not smile and touch his face, "I have already thought about it, this time you will be with me."

All, nothing is not unshareable, so is happiness, so is embarrassment.

The two of them do not distinguish each other.

...

New Year's Day is the Gregorian calendar. In previous years, we will gather for a meal. This year, because of the expectation of labor, it will be very simple, no different from normal days.

Mother Qin came over in the afternoon, brought a change of clothes, and moved into the room that had been prepared for her a long time ago. From then on, she was preparing to take care of her daughter-in-law until the end of confinement.

Both children were parents for the first time and had no experience-Qin's mother thought so. She was always worried about Qin Guanglin's inadequate care. After moving over, Qin Guanglin was able to take a walk and eat and take a walk. Check everywhere in the house. The sharp objects that should be put away have already been packed and hidden, and thick sponges are glued to the corners of the table, which is more careful than she was a mother.

"There are still ten days left before the expected delivery date? Do you want to go to the hospital?"

At that time, Qin's mother had children at home, and she didn't know much about the current delivery process in the hospital, so she hesitated to ask Qin Guanglin.

"No hurry, the doctor said everything is normal, wait for the two days before going back."

Qin Guanglin had thought about it before. He felt that it was better to look after in the hospital than at home, so he didn't listen to what he said. He pulled the doctor to ask and gave up the plan, and explained to Ma Qin: "The hospital ward is better than ours. It’s clean, but those aisles, corridors, toilets and so on don’t have to be, and there are...that stress on pregnant women, as well as eating and other things, work and rest... the familiar environment at home is better for pregnant women."

"Oh... so too."

"Don't worry about this, give birth to a baby... We are not panic, let alone panic, everything is properly arranged." Qin Guanglin helped knead the somewhat swollen calf and patted his chest to make sure.

When it comes to being a father, if it is not necessary, he does not want other people to participate, even if it is a generation of people, but his mother is kind and it is not easy to refuse, so he can only try to do everything by himself.

It is no longer easy to pull him up, and now he has children himself and does not want to bother the elderly anymore.

Qin’s mother has wanted to be a grandmother for a long time. The daughter-in-law should help take care of her childbirth regardless of reason or reason. She can’t stand by and watch. Besides, she is also happy to participate. So a family of only three people—to be precise. It was three and a half, so why not feel the feeling of Zhongxing Pengyue.

Yi Lai stretched out his hand and opened his mouth, except when I was a child, but also during the period of pregnancy.

Since New Year's Day, Qin Guanglin began to live like a year. He paid attention to the fetal movements every day. Whenever there was nothing to do, he leaned down to her stomach and listened to the movement. What was the original nervousness was washed away by his reaction a lot, relaxed and waited for labor. That day.

Ma Qin has always been familiar with this new home, the kitchen, egg beater, juicer, milk warmer...These are all very fresh. She lived with Qin Guanglin in the old house and hadn’t fiddled with these things before, so she didn’t care much about the quality of life. Now, I can’t help but feel relieved to see their exquisite lives. Generations are better than generations. This is the wish of every parent.

On the 7th, Dad He rushed to Los Angeles. He only told the couple in advance that he was coming. He asked the expected date of delivery, but didn’t know when to come. After getting off the train, he let them know. Qin Guanglin drove to pick him up. WeChat talked with Wuhui, and temporarily placed him in a hotel next to the street—they only have the master bedroom of the couple at home, and Qin’s mother’s room, plus the small room for his daughter, so small rooms are naturally not allowed. The old man moved in first, and he couldn't sleep on the small bed, so he could only stay in a hotel temporarily.

Until the tenth, why not start the pain at two o'clock in the afternoon, Qin Guanglin did not delay for a moment, carrying the delivery package, checking the documents, medical insurance card, cash, and so on, so why not get in the car with Qin's mother, why dad sit in The co-pilot, the family went straight to the hospital.

"How do you feel? Is it about to give birth?"

While waiting for the traffic lights on the road, his palms were already soaked with sweat, holding the steering wheel tightly, and looking at the two women in the back seat through the rearview mirror.

"It's just a pain, not so fast..." Why not feel inexplicably calm at this time, holding Qin Ma's hand tightly, feeling the pain in the body.

The child is ready to come.

Qin Ma felt her grip and her palms were full of sweat. She looked even more nervous than what happened. Her heart tightened, and a layer of fine sweat leaked out of her forehead in winter. Why did the sweat come out of her? Khan is nervous.

"Don't panic, I will be at the hospital soon."

Dad He looked calm, but the hands that kept rubbing his trouser legs still exposed his uneasy heart.

I always felt that my daughter was still young, still a little girl, even if she was married, she was still the little girl who called her father. As a result, she wanted to be someone else's mother.

"Guanglin is here, don't be afraid, it will be here soon..." He didn't know what to say, so he could only comfort him softly.

It is not the father who is here, but Guanglin who is here. He can tell who is most important to his daughter now.

"Yes, I am."

Qin Guanglin nodded vigorously, keeping his eyes fixed on the front. While paying attention to the road conditions, he drove the car fast and steady and went straight to the hospital.

It was the afternoon when there was not much traffic on the road and no traffic jams occurred. The family rushed to the obstetrics and gynecology hospital smoothly. After parking the car, the two elders got off with their arms. Qin Guanglin took the first step and ran all the way to the emergency department.

By the time the doctor diagnosed it, why would it be red.

...

"Pain is normal, don't worry, it's painful to have a delivery... You go through the hospitalization procedures first."

After the diagnosis, the doctor comforted Qin Guanglin and sent him to go through the procedures.

"Those who don't hurt have to have a caesarean section instead. Relax.... Every body has a different body constitution, which lasts for more than ten hours to one or two days. Go ahead and be hospitalized for observation first."

It was the middle-aged female doctor who had been in charge of assisting in the birth check from the early stages of pregnancy. She had been familiar with them all the way from the first conception to the delivery. Seeing Qin Guanglin's impatient appearance, she said a few more words.

"Thank you! Thank you! I'll go right away!"

Qin Guanglin always trot, trot to register, trot to go through the formalities, and trot to get hot water for drinking.

"Almost soon, the doctor said everything is normal, the pain is normal, bear with it... If it hurts too much, you can bite me. I have a lot of flesh on my hands..."

"I know." Why not push his hand away weakly, "Take off your stinky hoof, it smells."

"Yes, yes, it smells!"

"I want to drink."

"give."

"hot……"

"Wait, I will pour it for you."

Qin Guanglin, who was 30 years old in a month, was nervous like a child at this moment, holding two cups and pouring hot water up and down, blowing hard with his cheeks.

...

The pain lasted for 18 hours, Qin Guanglin remembered clearly, and he stayed by for 18 hours.

Eighteen hours later, the interval of labor pains gradually became regular. Why was he sent to the delivery room. He could not go in. He could only walk back and forth in the corridor, looking up from time to time, taking a deep breath, and going to the bathroom to wipe his face back and wait.

"Let’s have some dinner. I only drank some porridge from yesterday to today. Don’t be hungry."

Dad He brought the packed fast food to Qin Guanglin. Both Dad He and Qin’s mother went to rest this day and night. Only when Qin Guanglin couldn’t persuade him, he took the porridge and helped drink it clean. .

Qin Guanglin subconsciously wanted to push it away, glanced at the door in the direction of the delivery room, and opened it after receiving it, and began to eat.

"Am I too nervous?" He smiled embarrassedly with rice stuffed in his mouth.

Others are nervous, but there is no one like him. They have not yet started to give birth, but they have panicked when they enter the labor room in pain.

"It's okay, understandable." Dad He nodded, "The first time...you will be nervous, but you will react a little bit more, relax, and you have so many children every day, nothing happened."

"Well, relax, relax."

Qin Guanglin ate his food and responded vaguely.

Although he knew that everything was normal, he just couldn't restrain the inexplicable panic in his heart. It was not the panic about childbirth itself, but the sudden worry in his heart when he stepped into the hospital.

Why not be an ordinary pregnant woman, now all of this is the hard work of their couple.

She escaped time and went back ten years to re-experience everything, trying to save the accident a few years later.

He is just an ordinary person. He doesn't know whether there are gods and Buddhas, whether there is reincarnation, everything is unknowable, and he can no longer remain calm when his mind is in a mess.

Qin Guanglin swallowed the rice in his mouth, wiped his mouth with his sleeve, and took out the faded amulet in Zhongnan from his wallet, held it tightly in his hand, and touched it with his mouth.

I don't know if there is a corresponding price for doing everything. If so, he is willing to bear everything for it.

Please God and Buddha bless.

It was past eight o'clock in the evening, so why not wait for the second stage of labor in the delivery room. In the corridor separated by a wall, Qin Guanglin closed his eyes and prayed to the dark night sky outside.

...

At four o'clock in the morning the next day, after eight hours of tormenting, entering and exiting the delivery room, I did not know how many disappointments, and Qin Guanglin, who became increasingly anxious, finally got the news of why he entered the delivery room.

"I want to accompany her, yes, I have already paid the fee!" Qin Guanglin, who wanted to go in and take a look, was stopped at the door, and hurriedly found his paternity certificate from his bag, a thin receipt, but it was What he needs most at the moment.

"Don't worry, know that you are going in to accompany the mother, but it's not possible now. You can wait for three fingers." The nurse has long been used to seeing all kinds of prospective fathers, and was not impatient, and explained to him patiently, "This is It is stipulated that I will call you after a while."

"Wait?!"

Qin Guanglin stood on tiptoe and tried to look inside, but couldn't see anything. He had to take a deep breath and try to calm his mood.

"about how long?"

"Everyone is different, this time depends on personal physique, patience and so on."

"Thank you."

At four o'clock in the winter, it was still dark outside, with only a few sparse stars in the sky. Father He couldn't help being sleepy. Sitting on a chair in the corridor, Qin's mother went to the bathroom to wash her face. Drops of water dripped from the chin and came out, squeezing her hands tightly together, waiting for the birth of her grandson.

A neat family staying here, it’s not very common in the hospital, nor is it rare. There are no one to accompany, there are more than a dozen people waiting together, all kinds of situations are staged in this small corridor every day, only true When standing here, you have to wait for several hours each time before you can experience the hardship.

More than an hour later, Qin Guanglin squatted in the corridor, facing the door of the delivery room, staring at the crack of the door unblinkingly. When he was thinking about it, the door finally moved. He subconsciously got up and turned a little numb. The leg greeted him, but when the doctor came out with a list and pen with a tired face, he turned around and closed the door, raising his head and shouting to the family.

Qin Guanglin's heart suddenly burst, and a very bad premonition spurted from the bottom of his heart.

"Master Bao!"

Dad He was so frightened by the voice that he rolled down from the chair, Qin's mother shook her hands, suddenly raised her head, and the other strangers who hadn't slept in the corridor also looked sideways.

In the 21st century, there is still a saying of protecting big and small?

The doctor froze in place, looked down at the bill in his hand, and said in a deep thought, "Uh...this is a painless needle. You paid for it before and you need to sign it."

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Qin Ma weakened and sat slumped on the bench, looking at Qin Guanglin's back with complicated eyes, wishing to cover his face with more than 30 sizes of shoe prints.

Dad He stood up on the ground, a little bit dumbfounded, this son-in-law was far behind him.

Qin Guanglin also knew that he was embarrassed, and his almost stagnant heart slowly came back to life. Only then did he plop and thump violently, and a layer of cold sweat oozes from his back. It was a little cool and whistling. He smiled awkwardly at the doctor, and accepted it. Sign your name solemnly with a pen.

Before asking any questions, the kind doctor took the list back in his hand, glanced at it to make sure, and said: "You are the one who is going to give birth? You can go in."

"Thank you doctor!"

A look of surprise flashed in Qin Guanglin's bloodshot eyes, took a deep breath, and made a series of preparations such as wearing sterile clothes according to the doctor's instructions, and went to find his wife who was lying on the delivery bed in a panic.

Why didn't he still have the strength to laugh and laugh when he entered the delivery room? He was lying there with a pale face, looking at him sideways, with dry and chapped lips and messy hair sticking to his face, trying to hook his mouth.

"You came."

With a soft voice, Qin Guanglin helped her to pull the messy hair aside, and squeezed her hand distressedly, "Well, I'm here."

"that's nice."