Wife Please Be Obedient

In-depth consultation?

Sun Wen was silent and did not answer, and took another sip of wine.

Although he really wants to try how deep this depth is, he is not in the mood now.

"Desperate." Xu Wei shook her head looking at him, and then laughed again, "But I am more interested in you."

It will be more interesting to conquer such a man.

"Are you stubborn?"

"Different."

"Where is it different?" Sun Wen asked.

"I want to find a way to make myself comfortable, you find a way to make myself uncomfortable." Xu Wei pointed at him with a finger, and pointed behind her, "The less you can get, the more uncomfortable it will be, and as long as I encounter a similar one, Can replace you."

Sun Wen laughed, "You won't be in your thirties anymore?"

Women, especially those who can maintain, are really hard to tell their age from their appearance.

Not to mention wearing makeup.

"Eighteen this year."

"Okay, I believe it."

The two did not speak any more, Sun Wen placed the cup on the bar and rotated it gently, Xu Wei placed her forearm under her neck, leaning against the edge of the bar and watching him quietly.

The more I look at it, the more interesting it becomes.

When the beautiful illusion collapses, the longer the lover man, the more complete the collapse.

"I can help you with an idea."

After a long silence, she spoke with a smile.

"What's the idea?" Sun Wen asked.

"An idea to help you save your relationship."

"tell me the story?"

The woman suddenly changed her attitude, he was a little uncertain of what she was thinking, with obvious doubts on his face.

Xu Wei didn't care about his attitude, she still kept the posture of leaning on the bar, and said: "Do you know what your problem is?"

"What is it?"

"What is the difference between men and women?" Xu Wei did not answer, but raised another question.

"Just say what you want to say." Sun Wen was too lazy to play guessing with her.

"I'm helping you analyze the essence of your relationship." Xu Wei flicked her nails lazily. "Just talked about the princess dream, have you seen any fairy tales?"

"Of course I have seen it."

"What are the princesses in fairy tales like?"

"Pretty, gentle... kind... generous, strong..." Sun Wen thought, and laughed at the end, "add all the good things and it's done."

"How do they do things?"

"Uh……"

"Waiting." Xu Wei curled up her mouth with a meaningful smile, "Whether the princess is abused by the queen, captured by the dragon, or casted by the witch, they will silently endure all the suffering, and then wait for the prince or the warrior To save her, all she has to do is wait."

"and then?"

"The prince and the warrior are the opposite. They are all overcoming obstacles, crossing thousands of mountains and rivers, eliminating all difficulties to save the princess."

Xu Wei looked at Sun Wen's thoughtful expression and smiled even more, "This is the difference between a man and a woman."

"Huh? Men and women?"

"Women are passive, men are active. No matter how much suffering a woman suffers, it is difficult for a princess dream to wake up, because it is normal for a princess to suffer a little bit. Sooner or later there will be a prince to rescue her. You can’t, it’s because you are not her. Prince."

She paused, and continued: "But men are different. As long as they hit a wall a few times out of society, they will wake up and understand that they are just an ordinary person, not a prince, nor a warrior, but a common man. For ordinary mortals, the dream of marrying a princess will disappear."

"So women's standards are almost always aligned upwards. Finding a spouse must be stronger than themselves, and there must not be too many shortcomings. They can ignore all the other advantages of a man for a small shortcoming, and then tell him: We are not suitable."

"Men are just the opposite. Most men's standards are downward alignment. It doesn't need to be too good. As long as they can see the past and have one or two advantages, he can ignore all other shortcomings, fall in love with this woman, and then pursue. "

Sun Wen lit his cigarette and thought for a while, "something absolute, right?"

"Of course, I'm only talking about the majority, and there will definitely be exceptions." Xu Wei did not deny, but just looked at him and said: "But you, and your ex-girlfriend, are not the exception."

"carry on."

"Your ex-girlfriend, who regards'you don't need reason to fall in love' as the truth, is obviously not waking up from a dream, and occasionally acting like a baby in love can be unreasonable, but always regardless of right or wrong, it is to be unconditionally coaxed. Be spoiled..."

Xu Wei smiled and shook her head, "Once you can't do it, she will think you are not her prince-this is the source of your problem."

"What can I do if I don't coax?" Sun Wen asked.

"For someone like your girlfriend, coaxing is right, but you shouldn’t try to reason first, and coax only when it doesn’t make sense... Humans have evolved billions of years to evolve such a perfect brain, but she is reluctant to use it. , I don’t even bother to talk about the truth. I just want to be coaxed and spoiled like a pet. Why do you want to reason with her?"

"..."

"The relationship between the two of you is not equal from the beginning. Maybe you sometimes feel that you are humble in this relationship, but in fact the humble one is not you, but her. She has turned herself into a man's. A vassal, you don't have to reason with her, just coax it. Thinking about it this way, is it suddenly clear?"

"..." Sun Wen didn't talk to him while smoking a cigarette.

Xu Wei smiled and looked at him, "Now you know what to do?"

"How to do?"

"I just said so much for nothing." She shook her head, "The reason you broke up is because you are not enough."

"Not enough scum?"

"As long as the pie you draw for her is big enough, the words sweet enough, the lies are true enough, and the habit is enough, she can't do without you-you are not her prince, but you must pretend to be a prince."

"..."

"Unconditionally go accustomed to it, try to cheat when it comes to money, and make a blank check. Do I still need to teach you this?"

"I don't want to just play around." Sun Wen frowned.

"But you want to get back together." Xu Wei shrugged indifferently. "The more you get used to her, the more she can't live without you. Even if you break up in the future, her new boyfriend will not be able to stand her. Will be back."

"Is that right?"

"Think about it, just break up like this, let her try and make mistakes again and again, and then find other scumbags, or do you do it yourself?"

"...I actually think what you said makes sense." Sun Wen squeezed out his cigarette butts and took another sip of wine. "So, everything is my fault of reasoning with her?"

"Being reasonable is the fuse, you have to learn to cheat." Xu Wei shook her head, "She wants a lv bag, you and her rationally said that you want to save money and think about the future... Isn't this stupid? You have to learn How can she be happy without buying."

"There is this kind of operation?" Sun Wen was stunned.

"Of course, as long as you make her happy, she can't do without you."

Seeing that Sun Wen's wine glass had bottomed out, Xu Wei raised her hand and called the waiter to refill him.

"Thank you." Sun Wen did not refuse, "but what about the future?"

"I only teach you how to get it back, and you have to rely on yourself for the future."

There was a hint of playfulness in Xu Wei's eyes.

after?

This kind of love essentially means that one person uses words to make another person happy. When the other person is happy, he uses depth to make him happy.

It's just a transaction, where does it come from?

"Then how do I start?"

"What is your situation now?"

"right now……"

The two continued to drink and talk.

The night outside became darker.