The Perfect Hidden Marriage
67. The standard of a good man: take care of the family, love his wife, and be responsible
What kind of man is a qualified good man.
At the company that day, several colleagues discussed this topic.
A female colleague said: You have to have a certain economic foundation. Without money, you can't do it. Money is a man's confidence. A man without confidence can only use one word: weak.
Female colleague B said: You can't be too rich. A man who is too rich must be philandering. A man earns enough for the family and treats you well. That is the most realistic.
Female colleague C said: Yes, a man's wealth does not need to be too rich. Character and ability are the most important. If you focus on the rich and handsome, and you have no ability to guard him, no matter how good you are, it will belong to someone else. I can only cry...
Su Jin listened to a few words, smiled faintly, and walked away.
In her opinion, a good man only needs to meet three criteria:
Caring for the family, caring for his wife, and being responsible.
A man with a strong sense of family can bring people more happiness than a man with a strong career. Men who take care of the family are mostly lovers.
Moderate people have rich feelings. They know how to be filial and sophisticated, so they naturally know how to love and please their wives.
It is the third article that must be emphasized: be responsible.
Men must be responsible.
His caring family and his loving wife all have to be based on responsibility.
Only a capable man can take responsibility.
That is to say: ability is the first.
He has to be able to support a family with a woman.
Although the time with Jin Hengyuan was not long, his kindness really penetrated into her heart more and more: Gu family, caring for his wife, responsible... He has reached the standard of a good man in her heart.
Oh, by the way, there are only two points that she is slightly dissatisfied with, that is, he is a bit chauvinistic and loves to spend money recklessly.
For example, when going to the supermarket to buy things, she used to pick out the necessities for the family, and Mu Sheng helped push the cart beside her. During the shopping process, she would consult Mu Sheng for advice, and she was the one who paid in the end.
Now, of course he pushes the car, but when buying things, this person especially likes to buy those impractical and expensive things, usually she puts them back when she sees them as inappropriate, and he goes to move them back into the car, and he justifies them Said: You buy what you think you deserve, and I buy what I think I can't afford. I pay for the money...it's settled.
No one is perfect, this is impossible.
Simply, more often, he will take care of her thoughts, so this problem is still tolerable.
Another Sunday, the feeling of living together for a week is still very good.
Jin Hengyuan unreservedly expressed to her his care and love for her.
I don't know if it's because he is six years older than her, but he always loves to spoil her, and his eyes often circle around him, with an admiring and pampering look, warm gaze, which makes people feel like A little attracted.
Although they haven't been together for a long time, she has gradually grasped his temper.
He loves to hug her and kiss her from time to time, or lead her away when he walks at night, and he has used all the little sentiments that should be in a lover's world.
When the two get along, he knows to respect her, but he will insist on what he thinks is right. Of course, in order to avoid quarrels, he will let her go.
Accumulating less becomes more is life experience.
The little things in life are telling her: Jin Hengyuan is actually a man with a lot of ideas, ideas, and his own way of handling things.
Before marriage, you were the pillar of the family, after marriage, I am your pillar.
This is what he said.
A very manly word.
When a strange man enters her life as a husband, she is not used to it, but she can't refuse his arrival, she can only get used to it. very awkward habit...
There is no love, but good feelings are always there.
She is trying very hard to let go of herself and accept him - the marriage of two people needs two people to work together.
About Su Mubai, she really wanted to forget - since that day, neither he nor she mentioned him, nor did he appear again, and just lived in peace like this.
She feels fine.
But vaguely, she always felt that there would be a storm coming... But now, it was just the calm before the storm.
*
At noon on Sunday, Jin Hengyuan went out. Su Jin didn't ask what he was doing, she just kept watch over Yao Mei.
At three o'clock in the afternoon, Su Jin received a call from him: Xiao Su, go downstairs and go shopping! Let Mu Sheng stay on guard at Mom's side.
Mu Sheng is also there.
Su Jin went to talk to him, his expression darkened for a moment, and he only gave a muffled hum.
At the entrance of the hospital, Jin Hengyuan, wearing a black shirt and black gown and sunglasses, was leaning against a white Chevrolet, talking on the phone. His outfit was cool, he was tall and good-looking, and it attracted several passers-by to look sideways.
She also took a closer look: this man in her family is really seductive...
She was very curious, why did he fall in love with her, and how did he fall in love with her? He didn't make it clear that day, and she didn't ask again.
come over!
Jin Hengyuan saw her early in the morning, hung up the phone in a hurry, smiled and waved to her, with an indescribable aura in his gestures.
Su Jin walked over and looked around the car.
then!
In a flash before her eyes, something was thrown over, she raised her hand to catch it, it turned out to be a car key.
Try the car.
The car is brand new and so are the keys.
What's the meaning?
I married you, and I didn't express it at all. Is that plausible? I bought this car with your ID card. It has your name on it.
It turned out that the ID card disappeared for a long time before, and it was he who committed the crime!
It's okay to buy a car, didn't you agree? Save as much as you can. I don't need a car...or you can drive it! And I don't have the money to share the cost now...
Most women would be very happy to get a car for nothing, even if it is not a very expensive car, but Su Jin doesn't like this unexpected surprise very much.
I can't drive it. I just tried it. This car is small. I have long arms and long legs. It's uncomfortable to sit there and drive. I prefer an off-road vehicle with more space... Also, this is what I gave you Wedding gift. You want to share with me again, I am in a hurry with you... It is necessary to buy something for my wife.
Look, machismo is at it again.
Su Jin looked at him helplessly.
If you want, just give me a kiss...
He pushed her into the driver's seat, while he himself sat in the passenger cab, adjusted the seat back and forth, and only then did he smile brightly and beg for a kiss when he sat comfortably.
That bad look really looks very dishonest!
Su Jin didn't want to talk to him anymore.
For now, enduring being kissed by him is already her greatest limit. She wants her to take the initiative to kiss him, maybe in the future, but not now——she doesn't have the desire to get close to him, unlike before, When she was in love with Su Mubai, she loved to secretly kiss him and enjoyed the intimacy between the two of them.
Jin Hengyuan naturally didn't force her, he knew very well that the intimacy between them would take time to deepen bit by bit.
Su Jin took him for a test drive and took him out for a walk, with a smile on his face, he liked it.
As for Jin Hengyuan, he looked at this face fascinated: as long as she is happy, he is happy - he feels a bit cheap.
In fact, no matter how good a car is at this price, it’s just that, and Jin Hengyuan doesn’t like it, but it’s impossible for him to order a Maserati for her now, it will frighten her, and it will also be detrimental to their relationship development. Cheap has its advantages.
Like it?
he asks.
She squinted at him, how did this man know that she liked this one, he was so thoughtful.
I like it very much, but there is one thing that I am very puzzled...
He raised his eyebrows and motioned for her to continue.
The total price of this car is more than 150,000, right!
Um.
One-time payment, right!
He said so during the test drive.
Um!
I have all your cards. How did you pay for this car?
She squinted at him.
150,000 is not a small amount, at least for ordinary salaried families, if you want to save enough money after removing the daily expenses, you will definitely not be able to save it for two or three years.
Jin Hengyuan smiled lowly, and she really asked.
Regarding this point, he had already thought of a countermeasure.
Honey, do you usually manage money?
Su Jin really doesn't manage money very well, mainly because she doesn't have much spare money.
Half of her money is used to pay the mortgage, half of the half is used for expenses, and the other half is used for a regular deposit during the Chinese New Year.
I don't manage money.
She said sullenly.
I see.
Jin Hengyuan smiled: Let me tell you, our future salary must not be deposited in one card. There is not much interest on demand deposits. Putting it on the account and letting the bank use it for nothing is called a fool.
Su Jin: ...
My salary is handled in this way. Except for daily expenses and human relations, I divide the remaining money into three parts. One part is for insurance, the other part is for stock trading, and the remaining part is kept on the card for saving. When it reaches a certain amount, we will deal with it separately...
He pointed to the car: The money for the car was paid in cash from the stock market. I made a small profit with the cash before the daily limit on Friday...
Tsk, this man really has a financial mind!
But, no!
She still frowned: You can withdraw so much money from the stock market to buy a car at once, how much money have you invested in the stock market?
Jin Hengyuan rolled his eyes, and asked with a smile: Is my wife trying to find out how much money I have?
...
She didn't mean that, okay?
Well, let's put it this way, for 10 years, I have invested one-third of my monthly salary on it. I only make money and not lose money. If you want to know how much money I have, you can check it with your card. Yue, the money on your card will be automatically transferred...Okay, I've made it clear...Let's go, grocery shopping...
He got out of the car, smiled like a spring breeze, came to the driver's seat in a gentlemanly manner, and opened the car door for her.
Su Jin stared blankly, touched her bag unconsciously, and had more and more doubts in her heart:
How much is this person's monthly salary?
Why does he want her to check his family so much?
What a strange person!
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