The Good Mother System

It is getting late, and there has always been no habit of going to bed late in the countryside, so the backyard of the Lin family has also become quiet just now. People have left in twos and threes with small benches, and the noise has turned into silence.

The women who left consciously formed a small team according to their friendship, and the nuanced voices were full of presence in the silent night sky.

"Hey, if only Cuihua could give birth to a son!" This is the person who heard that the child in Cuihua's belly was still a girl.

"Yeah, yeah, if you have a son in the end, you won't have to divorce!" The people who had just finished the discussion and still hadn't done it all came together again.

"Even if you give birth to a son, Cuihua was almost beaten to death! What's the use of this kind of man!" Seeing squintingly, the angry woman interrupted her mouth. She is a determined divorcee. Can't stand a man hitting a woman most.

People who are stubbornly loose in their minds usually say: "Hey...it's not right to beat a wife, but divorce or something is too much. If you are divorced, no one wants it!"

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What you said and I said, the unfinished discussion in the mutual aid class just continued. In the mutual aid class, sharing is more admired than arguing. Everyone can talk about their views, but no one is required to convince Who, of course, what more people need is a hearty debate, which naturally stays after class and lets them make their own comments.

But in this way of sharing and debating time and time again, slowly the women in Datong Village and even the surrounding villages have completely different ideas.

They began to realize that, as women, they are the most oppressive women. The ones who were bullied by the mother-in-law to hold their heads up, instead, they are the wicked mother-in-law who is the most scolded by the daughter-in-law. She was once abused and improperly beaten by the family because she was a daughter. Personally, he is desperately trying to have a son...

Perhaps the concept remains the same, but for those precious loosening, a change is taking place...

Lin Qing and Lin Yu both nestled next to Shan Jingqiu, stroking the backs of the two little girls, looking at those leaving backs who were excited about the discussion and even heard the sound from afar, they had many thoughts in their hearts.

Lin Yu raised her head puzzledly and looked at her mother: "Mom, some of them think so wrong, why don't they tell them directly? Shouldn't they have to correct them if there are mistakes? You see, there are people who think Aunt Cuihua shouldn't divorce."

Even if she received more love, those little extremes and little tempers in her heart could not be completely erased. Faced with injustice, she always couldn't help her voice being excited, and she wanted to speak up right away.

Shan Jingqiu lowered her head, looking at her daughter who was about to catch up to her height, who had grown into a young girl, stared into her eyes, with a soft tone: "Ayu feels that we should tell them directly that the divorce is right and should be. is it?"

Lin Yu nodded vigorously: "Yes! They were wrong in the first place. Look at how Aunt Cuihua and Sister Nier were beaten! How can they not get divorced?"

Just like she used to hate this family, why not leave? Of course, this is fine now, she doesn't want to leave!

"Everyone has the right to choose, and my mother cannot guarantee that what she said is right." Shan Jingqiu looked into the distance: "What my mother can do is give them a place to let them listen to each other's stories. Most of the people are ordinary people. When they hear stories about bad mothers bullying their daughter-in-laws, they will jump with anger, hear stories of bad husbands abusing their wives, and they want to roll their sleeves and fight, and hear things that are bad for their children. It was so distressed that they shed tears... They just didn't realize that what they were doing might not be so right when it was their turn."

Shan Jingqiu continued: "Mom understands Ayu's feelings. Ayu is very angry why Cuihua has been bullied like this. Some people will think so. But people are different from each other. If you don't talk about anything else, just say that mother and Second aunt, mother is so fierce than second aunt, what about second aunt? Maybe you rarely really lose your temper in your eyes, but we are all taking care of you in our own way..."

"...In many cases, there is no certainty about right or wrong. You can't ask everyone to live life as you want." She closed the end and looked at her dumbfounded daughter and Lin Qing.

Lin Yu encountered more unfairness, and she felt more wronged and extreme in her heart. The modern life of the original heroine grew up in love, so the heart is softer, and he does not treat people as bad. Maybe some modern people are selfish, but they are not annoying.

Lin Yu turned his head to think for a long time, then nodded: "So auntie, apart from saying that men and women are the same and that women can hold up half the sky, you never say anything right or wrong, right?"

"No, I also think that many opinions are wrong, but I know that opinions that are forced to accept are often not really accepted." Shan Jingqiu looked into the distance and rubbed the two children, only thinking that the future is unlimited. She is not sure that the education she brought to the original heroine and her daughter must be the best. After all, in the environment of Datong Village, it is not as good as the city, but she hopes that her child will be open and willing to listen. My heart is also willing to make a little contribution of my own.

From a distance, another tall boy who can no longer be said to be a turnip head was walking home carrying a bag. When he saw Lin Qing and Lin Yu from a distance, he jumped up and greeted his brother loudly, and Lin Xiong also bounced. Dada came over and shared what I learned today with my sisters.

"Today, the teacher told me about the current communication technology. We have to take telegrams and send letters to the county town. It is troublesome. I hope that I can be a scientist in the future and develop tools that allow us to contact us at any distance! Lin Xiong said with excitement, Lin Yu looked at the fantasies that his brother was saying "whimsical" in admiration.

"Brother Axiong, you are really amazing..." Lin Qing admires a little bit. There are few children in Datong Village who have such a big "dream" as her brother, but she is also a little worried, afraid that her cousin thinks too much. Naive, after all, scientists or the like are too far away for the people in the village.

Shan Jingqiu looked at her child with pride in her heart, couldn't help messing up his hair, and said gently, "Then you have to work hard."

On the branches of the moon, the night went deep, and the backyard of Lin's family was full of children's happy words and mother's gentle responses...

In the bedroom, the window was closed fiercely, and Sun Jinhua listened to the voice outside and kept mumbling: "Why is it so noisy, it's time to rest and not let the child go to rest? What a foolish mother! And why don't Jianjun and his wife care about it? In charge of the child, I don’t know who the child will become!"

She thought more and more angry: "Look for a bunch of people to come to the yard and talk about it every day! I don't know if it's hard for the elderly to rest."

Sun Jinhua didn't expect it at all. In fact, every day is a little time after meals, and most of the time it is not noisy.

Lin Yaoxi sighed deeply and looked at her impulsive mother-in-law. She felt helpless. It's already done. She couldn't see clearly: "Jinhua, think about it for yourself, who is raising it now? You, who takes care of you every day?"

More than two years ago, Lin Jiandang, who had just graduated, found a girl in the city and cut in. Before leaving, he took away all of Sun Jinhua’s savings from the past few years. At that time, Sun Jinhua became so angry that she fell ill on the spot. , Lingering sickbed, only recently got better.

But now the two of them are not completely dependent on Jingqiu and Qiuyun to take care of them. Even the married Xinghua and even the peach blossoms who have not been in contact for many years often come back to see them. But their conscientious son did it once. Never came back.

Lin Yaoxi was also bitter, but he didn't understand why this lady didn't understand when she came to this day?

Sun Jinhua pursed her lips, grabbed the quilt, and looked forward in a daze. She couldn't slow down for a long time, but said blankly: "You don't understand."

As far as she could see, the can of malted milk was thrown over by Peach Blossom two days ago. If you lose it, you will leave; the quilt under her body was made by Jianjun to help the new fight, fearing that the old couple would catch a cold. The apricot flower was made a few days ago, with fine stitches and beautiful floral cloth; even the eldest daughter-in-law, who points to her nose every day, bought precious fruits...

But her most precious son founded the party, once...and never came back...

Sun Jinhua lay down slowly, lying on her side with her back to her old man, and her tears fell on the pillow drop by drop. She didn't shed tears much in her life. She killed the dead witch to death. She laughed and sent her father-in-law away. She laughed, and even when she sent away her eldest son, she just lied and howled a few times, but now, she really cried so much.

Would she still not understand? She understands.

But if, once she admits that the little son she has been looking forward to has become a wolf-hearted white-eyed wolf, what has she had in her life? Everyone talks about the last blessing, is she really blessed in this day?

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It's so bitter, she's so bitter!