By Jia Xiuzhen

Yingchun said: "Originally, with my temperament, I was lazy to take care of you. Everyone has their own destiny, and I can't even take care of myself, so how can I take care of you? What happened to the lotus officials last time made me think too much A little bit. This slave is the master's slave. It is impossible to say that it has nothing to do with it. Ai Guan followed the third sister, so he didn't get involved in the matter. The official friendship is good, and I only care about the momentary mood. Now it makes several masters feel uncomfortable to meet each other. Sigh.

I thought, if Ai Guan hadn't been disciplined and taught by the third younger sister early in the morning, I'm afraid it would be a big deal.It is reasonable to say that you are such an adult, who in this yard does not call you sister, but you are so careless in your actions, if I don't point out a few words to you, I will not feel relieved if you cause trouble and disaster in the future.Therefore, this time I will share this matter with you.How are you? "

Siqi had never seen Yingchun talk to her like this before, so he quickly agreed and poured another bowl of tea for Yingchun.

Yingchun thought for a while and said, "You're so angry this time, because you didn't eat tofu, and you didn't eat stewed eggs?"

Si Qi was stunned, and then replied: "If it's just like this, it's not so grand. I just hate that woman. I'm afraid it's not thoughtful enough to flatter others. If the same thing happens to us, it will be a world of trouble. If you don't give her some color Look, I really can't bear this breath."

Yingchun sighed, "Haven't you ever thought that it's your fault that you ask for things for nothing?"

Siqi was taken aback for a moment, and hurriedly said: "Girl, how many times have we only asked for it? If you didn't look at Yihong Courtyard, you're almost at the full table!"

Yingchun nodded and said: "Listen to me. The wife and the second sister-in-law handed over the cooking to the Liu family. Shouldn't the cooking work be assigned by her? We can hold her accountable. The two meals a day are equal, and the meals are correct. Has she ever skimped on your meals? Or gave you some unpalatable things with shoddy goods?"

Siqi thought for a while, then shook his head.

Yingchun said: "That's right! She did everything she was supposed to do. After that, how much oil and water she made in the kitchen, that's what the house rules tolerated her. It's other people's business to be envious or jealous, she She didn't do anything wrong. In this way, the rest may go to the kitchen and ask for things. It is her own profit and loss, and it is her business whether to give or not.

To put it bluntly, even if I go to ask for something, if she says that there is no such thing in the rules, I have no choice but to give up, right?It is also her reason to go to the old lady.You want to talk about how she flatters others. It is because she is willing to use the benefits in her pocket to solicit others, or ask for something or just like it, so what does it matter to us?

This time, you are angry because she is willing to flatter others, so she should be willing to flatter you.As for what everyone can't make money.To be honest, she can make money, that's what the ancestral rules and the wives in charge have promised.What status do you have to say whether she earns or not?Acting like this, on the contrary, makes people look down upon it.

I thought, if you really want to eat that bit of tofu and eggs, you can send the little girl to take a hundred and ten dollars, wouldn't she be happy?She doesn't have that much affection for us, and it's really something extra, and she's not happy to ask her to take the benefits out of her own pocket.Even if you respond once, there will still be disagreements after two or three times.The root of this is that what you want people to do is what she is unwilling to do and should not do.Let me ask you, why are you so capable, you think she should support you? "

Just now, Siqi was only thinking about what the Liu family did to everyone in Yihong Courtyard, but deliberately slapped himself in the face here.Now hearing what Yingchun said, it's not that the Liu family is bad, but that he has no face?Naturally, I can't bear this, and just look at Yingchun.

Seeing this, Yingchun smiled and said: "The Liu family has won the approval of the wife and the second sister-in-law. They are in charge of the kitchen and do everything correctly. She naturally gives some benefits, which is also acquiesced. Now she is willing to flatter her with the benefits she has gained. People, but she is not willing to flatter you, you get angry, get anxious, and even smash other people's things... Tell me, what are you called?

I know you are not convinced.That's just the way it is.If you follow a worthless master like me, you have to be able to keep yourself safe in order to have peace.Because I'm not Baoyu, sister Lin, or third sister, I don't have that dignity, I only have a formal status.So if you want to be safe, just follow the rules in everything, and everyone will be quiet naturally.

If you make any mistakes in the rules, you can only ask for trouble.Because I am not that decent, naturally no one else will sell me this face, and naturally no one will give you extra face.If you break the rules and make mistakes, you can't ask me to intercede.Don't say whether I will go or not, even if I go, I will be ashamed along with me.Do you understand this? "

Siqi couldn't help feeling ashamed and bitter on his face when he heard what was said before, and when he heard what Yingchun said later, it was more true than what came out of her own heart. Serious master, how can you allow the servants to ignore us so much? The girl accepts her fate like this? Even if the girl accepts it, I don't admit it!"

Yingchun couldn't help laughing and said: "It's really a child's talk. Is it just the slaves who act independently? Look, you can only blame the slaves. To be honest, you should not blame the superiors for favoring us sisters. Different pets, blame you girl, I am from a poor background and have a soft personality and can't be liked?

It is precisely because of these that the minions do not take us seriously.You touch your heart, don't you hold the high and trample the low?Aren't you more careful when you see Miss Lin than Miss Si?You dare to smash the small kitchen, why don't you dare to smash the big kitchen?If you ask them for something, do you think they ignore you? ...It's just human nature, and I have it in myself, so why look at others and get angry. "

Then he smiled lightly and said, "Are you talking about whether you accept your fate or not? Isn't it stupid? Since it is fate, whether you accept it or not, isn't it the same fate? Because you don't admit it, you can change anything! For example You brought someone to make trouble this time, and sure enough, she will be afraid of you in the future and will respect you? Oh, I'm afraid it's because I have more resentment in my heart, and I'm just waiting for you to make mistakes and make mistakes in other people's hands Good to give you a never turn over.

You don't know, it's time to accept this fate, so that you can calm down and see the situation clearly, and there is a way out.It is for the purpose of 'putting people to death and rebirth'.Like you, it is because you refuse to admit this "worse" that you will be greatly annoyed by a little thing. You only talk about how treacherous and hateful others are, but you never see the "unwillingness" that is haunting you in your heart.If you are willing to follow such an unfavored master like me, without the face of other vice ladies, why are you so angry today?Or there would be no cause at all.

If you still can't figure it out, I'll point you to someone, Suyun.She is also on good terms with Ping'er and the others. If she is like you, she can't see others flattering Ping'er and others but ignoring her, then there will be trouble.But you see, in ordinary times, when you are in this mansion, has anyone ever heard of her?Where are the jokes lively, but what about her?She doesn't get angry with others, and doesn't fight with others. Sure enough, her life is not as good as others? 'A pure heart can keep you forever', just think about it. "

In Siqi's life, has he ever heard such words?She is from Jia Amnesty's side, and she followed Yingchun to stay here, watching from the hatchback, she knew the whole set of kung fu in this mansion with the red top and white holding high, stepping on the low, bullying the weak, fearing the hard bullying, having milk is the mother of.This time, she was angry that the Liu family looked down on her because they watched people order dishes, and the other was thinking that these people came here because you respected her and she bullied you, so it would be better to make a scene and let them Once you know how powerful you are, you can talk about the future.

This righteous indignation is now worthless by Yingchun, and even a little bit of resentment that he didn't even dare to think about in his heart was revealed.I couldn't tell what it was like for a while, I just stood there in a daze.

Seeing her like this, Yingchun smiled and said: "You may not understand these words for a while, just keep them in your heart, and when you meet Jinger, you can take them out and think about them. You must know that a person often has unwillingness in his heart. You get into trouble, you tend to go astray, and you do things that don’t care about the past and the future. I’m not afraid to tell you now, I’m just like this. If you feel depressed after following me, speak up as soon as possible, and there will naturally be other places for you to go. If you go, I won't blame you, how?"

Siqi glared: "What does the girl think of me! I'm one of those ungrateful little hooves!"

Yingchun shook her head and said, "You still don't understand what I'm saying. If you feel resentment in your heart, you can figure it out yourself. If you say something ungrateful, you call me to serve me, and I need you to accompany me. It's been so many years, but the name of master and servant What kind of kindness and righteousness can I give you? What kind of servant loyalty and righteousness are all empty words. Go think about what I just said, and don't rush to answer me. "

After saying that, he waved his hand to let Siqi go, but Siqi had no choice but to change the embroidered orange and sit outside to think about Yingchun's words.

When Xing Xiuyan came back, Yingchun talked about it with her. Xing Xiuyan smiled and said, "I said, why is Shiqi alone in a daze, so you were the one who discussed it with her."

Yingchun said: "Didn't my sister-in-law always say that there is a reason for being emotional when you see people and friends?" In fact, she came here just to eat tofu, but she didn't eat it, and she wanted to eat custard stew, but she didn't eat it. That's all I don't know, she is such a person who is willing to get angry. If it is because of this, she often wants to eat and wear, and she wants to get angry again and again. Now she is afraid He should be pissed off.

But without these two things, nothing else really came to her.It's just seeing others being flattered by others, but not being valued by oneself, and in comparison, he gets more and more angry.Isn't this the anger she found out by herself?It's nothing at all, this comparison is more resentment.

He also said that the servant saw no one in his eyes.To be honest, most of the people who can feel hatred because of this are because they have underestimated themselves in their hearts.Look at the bunch of mortals with naked eyes in this mansion, how many of them really respect the elder sister-in-law in their hearts?Can't sister-in-law see it?Why did she never get angry with these people?It's because the sister-in-law never felt that she was inferior to others, and those people looked down on her, she just thought it was funny.This is true dignity.

If other people are a little careless, they will jump up here and get to the bottom of it, but it is because I also underestimate myself and feel that I am inferior to others.But he refused to admit that it was inferior.Therefore, if something happened to a couple outside, she became anxious, because that was exactly what she knew in her heart but refused to admit.As long as this is the case, it is most likely to be resentful and annoyed. "

Xing Xiuyan sighed and said: "Grandma's words of 'putting your mind on things' are not false! What you said is absolutely true. You know that Miaoyu and I are old acquaintances. Speaking of which, she She treats me very well. I only see her acting in a weird way. Is it because she has a big worry in her heart? It's just that this kind of hidden pain is everyone's biggest secret, and I can't persuade her. If she can understand your words, it will be considered a solution.

She always hated people, how could she know that it was because she was afraid of people hating her in her heart?When I was young, I didn't know who I offended, and was said to be "harming my relatives and harming my family", so I had no choice but to become a monk.Her pain was buried in her heart, and she usually didn't want to think about it, and naturally she couldn't allow others to mention it.Just as you said, the more you avoid things that you know but are unwilling to do, the more you will distort your mind and thoughts, and your actions and words will become eccentric.But our own mind can only understand ourselves, so what can we others do. "

Yingchun said: "That's why I asked Siqi to think about it. Although I don't expect her to figure it out for a while, at least I will make it clear for her all the way, or when she will be able to understand a little bit, it is her own blessing. .”

The two talked about getting up, and then turned over their previous thoughts and explained in detail, laughing and sighing.Ordinary people are bored in their hearts, fearing that there are not enough secrets, but now they use them as medicine for nourishing the heart. Only this point, I am afraid that it is very human.