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"Is what you said before true?"

Seeing the vague attitude of his family members, Chen Jianye thought for a while after listening to Chen Xiangwu's words, and then found a chance to chat with Chen Chen privately.

Chen Chen replied, "It's true."

Chen Jianye felt very uncomfortable, "Did you really live with a man after that? No children?"

Chen Chen said decisively: "Even if I don't live with Du Xingwei, I won't have children in the future."

Chen Jianye choked up, "Really?"

Chen Chen was categorical, "No way."

Chen Jianye was really heartbroken now.

In Chen Jianye's view, a man must marry a wife and have a child to be considered complete.Especially my own son, as a father, I am afraid that after a hundred years, my son will be alone and have no one to rely on.Nowhere to cling to, what is that?

Originally, Chen Jianye thought that Chen Chen was deliberately annoying him by saying that, just to be with Du Xingwei.But now after repeated questioning, Chen Jianye understood that Chen Chen probably wasn't lying, and he had no choice but to live with a man.

Chen Jianye was silent for a long time before asking: "If it wasn't for..." Chen Jianye couldn't say the words in the middle, "Will you still talk to Du Xingwei?"

As soon as Chen Chen heard Chen Jianye's words, he knew that he had made up something in his head. Chen Chen felt speechless and distressed at the same time. He asked himself: Does he usually seem so easy to make do?

Chen Chen said solemnly: "Dad, there is no such assumption, and I didn't talk to Du Xingwei because he was my only choice. I only talked to him because I like him. He is good enough and attractive. It has nothing to do with other things." .”

Hearing this, Chen Jianye only felt uncomfortable.

Whether it is forced to have sex with a man or willing to have sex with a man, as long as the other party is a man, Chen Jianye feels very uncomfortable.

In the final analysis, it is people's thinking that is affected by the social environment, but this society is not tolerant enough in this regard.

Chen Chen didn't want to challenge the social environment.If the law clearly stipulates that two men are not allowed to be together, then no matter how much he likes Du Xingwei, he will not take this step.But now there is no clear regulation in the law, and everyone does not accept it because of prejudice in cultural customs. Then Chen Chen has already determined whether he can bear this part of the risk when making this decision.

Chen Chen thought: He didn't do anything heinous and outrageous, so why didn't he try?

After a long time, Chen Jianye said: "Because you and Xiaobei have been talked about for so many years about your mother, if you really want to deal with Du Xingwei now, then you have to be prepared to be talked about for the rest of your life."

And it's all been publicized. If it doesn't get better halfway, then there will be more rumors and rumors, which will be even worse.

In short, no matter whether it is smooth or not, it is a difficult road to walk.

As soon as Chen Chen heard Chen Jianye's words, he knew that he had softened, so he said seriously: "I've already made preparations."

Chen Jianye opened his mouth, feeling lost in his heart. After a while, he said: "I have been sorry to you and Xiaobei all these years."

Chen Chen said softly, "Dad, you didn't apologize to me and Xiao Bei."

However, Chen Jianye shook his head and continued: "She is a girl from the city, and I am just a mud leg doing farm work in the countryside. Although I can read a few words, I am only a primary school graduate. I am indeed not good enough for her. At the beginning, my family disagreed. I married her, but I insisted on marrying her. I didn't listen to what the family said, so I had no choice but to ask this relative. If I wasn't stubborn and honestly married a girl from another village, neither would you I have been talking about it in and out of the village for so many years, I am sorry for you..."

"Dad, it's not your fault." Maybe it was a mistake to be blinded by love and not see the real face of the person before marriage, but Chen Chen never thought it was wrong to pursue true love and want to marry and live with the person he likes .As a husband and father, Chen Jianye has always done a good job. After all, he is just a poor man abandoned by true love.

Chen Chen knew that what he said this morning hurt Chen Jianye's heart, so he said: "Dad, you are a good husband and a good father. I have always been grateful for your support for us to study. As for what I said this morning Those words are not accusations, I just want to tell you that I am not the kind of weak person who can't stand things, whether it is because of my life experience in the past or because of my partner in the future, I can handle it anyway. I I just don’t want you to worry about that, so don’t think too much about it.”

"I didn't think much about it." Chen Jianye, who hadn't sorted it out from yesterday until now, was exhausted all over his body, his eyes were extremely red and bloodshot, and he still denied it.

However, Chen Chen didn't expose him, but said: "It's good that you don't think too much about it. Our family is doing well now, we have food, clothing and money to earn; Aunt Liu has kept the house in order, and treats you and us well." Very good, they speak kindly and never quarrel; Xiaobei and Pingan are also sensible and diligent, and they do well in every exam. If they continue to keep up, they will probably be able to get into a good university. In the future, it will be us A serious college student who went out from home; as for me..."

Chen Chen smiled, and said with a self-deprecating tone: "Although I have caused a major event for my family, I am afraid I will be gossiped for the rest of my life, but apart from this, I think I am really good. I can earn money by reading and writing, and I can lead the way In order for our whole family and the people in the village to live a good life, I think my merits and demerits can be offset no matter what, right?"

Chen Chen looked at Chen Jianye's appearance of crying or laughing, and asked deliberately: "Dad, do you think it makes sense?"

Chen Jianye wiped his face, choked up and said, "I'm not afraid of what the villagers say, I'm just afraid that you will be wronged."

Chen Chen's nose was sore, but what he said was: "Irrelevant people will never be wronged by me, because they are not important; what I am most afraid of is that you will disagree and insist on blocking me, then I really feel Wronged."

Chen Jianye struggled to utter two words, "No."

Chen Chen took the opportunity to ask a question, "Then Dad, do you agree?"

After a long time, Chen Jianye said, "I agree."

When Chen Jianye said these three words, he felt that his mind was empty, he felt lost, and he felt relaxed.He knew that once the words were uttered, they could never be taken back.

Whether life will be good or bad in the future, whether his son can live well or not, is not up to him to decide.

However, Chen Chen had the urge to cry, he never thought that in such a time and age, he would really be able to wait for such a sentence.

"Thank you."

……

The old couple in the family let go, and now Chen Jianye, the biological father, also agreed. Then the matter of Chen Chen and Du Xingwei's talking about the partner is officially settled on the Chen family's side even if it has completely passed the Ming road.

However, the feelings of both parties are very complicated.

The reason why the Chen family agreed was because they were forced to do so.

It happened to be at the critical moment when Chen Chen was working hard for his family and fell ill. The Chen family who loved him naturally felt a little guilty in their hearts, and they were unwilling to go against Chen Chen's wish;

Then it was those heart-wrenching words Chen Chen said that stabbed a bunch of people to pieces, making everyone unwilling to force him;

Of course, the most important point is that the powerful reason Chen Chen said categorically that he can't treat women makes the Chen family completely lose the idea of ​​marrying a wife and having children for him;

In addition, the ridiculous village quarrels, and the helpless reality of accidentally spreading the matter to the whole village;

And Du Xingwei's excellence, responsibility and commitment...

In short, the combination of several reasons made the Chen family let go and compromise.

When you come out of the closet, you can't escape from beatings and scolding, but fortunately, the family always loves the child, and Chen Chen himself is very capable, so what he has done all the time not only made Chen Ming and the others secretly poke at him. He helped him speak, and convinced all the Chen family members. There was a sense of dependence that "he said what he said", so that even if he had doubts, he believed it under Chen Chen's various firm words and expressions. .

After all, the Chen family is from the countryside. They were worried about Chen Chen's face and did not seek a doctor to verify whether Chen Chen was really bad at women. At the same time, because of their cognitive limitations, they couldn't figure out the incidents of sending their children to mental hospitals, rehabilitation centers, etc. .

Of course, in the eyes of the Chen family, public places such as mental hospitals, correctional centers, police stations, etc., are not something ordinary people can provoke. They are also afraid of sending their children there, and when they come out later It is not a healthy person.

Just like that person in Lijiagou before, his good body was completely ruined, wouldn't that harm the child for the rest of his life?

The Chen family is more protective by nature, and they can't bear the heart to let their children suffer that crime.

Chen Chen was thinking that it was lucky to have such a family, otherwise, if he really met that kind of family with "more face than his son", he might really want to break off the relationship and run away from home.

Chen Ming was distressed that his bitter plan seemed to work, but it didn't seem to work.

Chen Qian felt that his fourth brother was awesome, and he could convince his family members to agree to such a thing!It's just terrible!But being able to be with brother Xingwei, there is actually nothing wrong with them, both of them are amazing, there is nothing wrong with getting along with each other.

Chen Jin was half happy and half worried, quite worried about Chen Chen's future.

This point of Chen Jin is the same as that of the rest of the Chen family.In life, you can open your mouth, and you can say anything when you touch the upper and lower lips. Now I am happy and say that I want to date someone, and I swear that I like it. I feel that I can bear everything, but who knows whether it is real or not? Can you carry it?If the two of you can't get along in the future, what should you do?With Chen Chen's stubborn temper, what kind of pain is it?

Alas, the more the Chen family thought about it, the more worried they became. The more they thought about it, the more worried they became. They didn't feel so anxious about marrying a daughter.

Of course, these anxieties and worries about the Chen family didn't show up in front of Chen Chen, but they couldn't help but test Du Xingwei's attitude one by one, and their words were full of warnings.

What else can Du Xingwei do about this?

That is of course a promise to treat Chen Chen forever!

Seeing that the biggest difficulty is about to pass, shouldn't he behave well and reassure the Chen family?

Faced with Du Xingwei's promise, the Chen family didn't believe it or disbelieve it, they just said...

"It's useless to talk nicely, I just want to see how you do it in the future."

"it is good."

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The author has something to say:

It's not that easy to come out, but I can't bear to torture the two of them too much, so the parents have passed the test.

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