The restart of wealth-gathering life

No one is an idiot. I didn't think anything was wrong when I first saw the child, but after waiting for a long time, I couldn't understand anything.

During the meal, the child came down from the arms of the grandpa.Grandpa said, "Stay, grandpa hello today!"

No kid, just sit down and go.

Lu Shuqin just laughed, "Don't be in a hurry, let the children eat first."

The child does not move the chopsticks first, and waits for his father to say, "Let's eat." After the adults move the chopsticks, the child grabs his own spoon and eats his own meal.

After steaming the shrimp, Lu Shuqin pulled the plate over, "Our Qijin likes to eat this, can you give us Qijin?" The child looked at his mother, but the mother didn't say anything, the child bowed his head to eat, "I will eat two... He put down the spoon and stretched out two cute fingers, "Just eat two, and give it to grandma and grandpa!"

good good!

The child should be praised, but the child's parents should be scolded.This is because you are not at home, what did you do to the child?

Don't children have to be lively?What's wrong with Tong Yan Wuji?Is it reasonable to manage the children well?

There are rules when it comes to eating.When it's time to stick to the rules, you have to stick to the rules.There's no one stopping this lively place, right?

Suppress your temper, but didn't say anything on the spot.When I wanted to talk, the family took the child back to the house after dinner.

Lu Shuqin burst into tears, and said to Lin Youzhi, "Did you see that? It's because we didn't manage the children well."

If you think so, you are asking for pain.

Lin Youzhi said, "This is still a daughter-in-law. Will you be able to bear it if you change your daughter-in-law in the future? You love the child, and I love the child too. If it's that big, if it's like that, can I not hurt it? But you Do you still remember the first time you hit Tongtong?"

Lu Shuqin stopped talking for a while.

The child was only three years old, and the child's grandmother told the child to go to the back to collect eggs.At that time, the courtyard walls of each family were short, only half the height of a person.The chickens are free-range and run around all over the yard.The reed chicken next door doesn't recognize the nest, and goes to the house to lay eggs every day.The child's grandma asked the child to stare at the reed chicken, and waited in the backyard as soon as it came.When the chicken came out of the coop, the child was asked to pick up the eggs.Later, Tongtong waited for other people's chickens every day, stared at the chicken's buttocks, picked up the eggs, and hurriedly took them back to the house for fear that the neighbors would see them.

Because of this, the daughter was beaten severely, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law even fought a big battle.Lu Shuqin let go like crazy, if she didn't ask the old lady to take care of Tongtong, she would ruin the family.

At that time, life was difficult, and it was not that the old lady did not love Tongtong.I brought the eggs, but they all went into Tongtong's stomach, and I even added another one. I always felt that the child was only that big, and I gave birth to a second child. The parents didn't raise the child well, and I was afraid of losing the child. .

In those days, the old lady, don't care how she got it, anyway, she found something to eat and stuffed it into her mouth, it was her own.Back then it wasn't really a problem.Is it all for the belly?It has nothing to do with morals.

But at that time, as young people, they felt that this would not work and would teach bad children.

It's the same thing now, "We don't think it's a problem, but the children think it should be a problem. I look pretty good. Have you seen it, you always say that Lao Qin's grandson is domineering behind you, look at it now..."

In the evening, the neighbor in the back brought his grandson over to play.Children, like to get together.Played together before.This child is one year older than his own child, and this one year older is more thoughtful.You're welcome here, where are the snacks at home, this kid remembers exactly.Come here and never treat yourself as an outsider.As soon as I entered the room, I ran directly under the TV cabinet, opened it and took it, and took it and ate it.Seven catties is small, and it is often not as good as others.That kid didn't have to worry about tearing the packing bag by himself, but Qijin Zilai never asked him to do that.

Besides, there is no shortage of snacks for my children.His second aunt is very good at life, she buys goods from the supermarket, and brings everything home.Many dare not ask their children to eat.My own children have seen a lot, so naturally they don't care about that thing.I usually don’t eat it, unless I see other children eating it and then I realize it’s mine and I have to eat it too.

They took an 'Old Man Mi' and tore it open with their small fangs. My children just looked at it, but couldn't help but hug Old Man Mi. Then when they finished eating, he was still holding it in his hand.

This time it was different, each person had an old man Mi, and when the child arrived, he even grabbed a small ham sausage.The children of Lao Qin's family just tore open the packaging bag, and they will exchange seven catties with others. The old man Mi who has not opened it in his hand plus a ham sausage will exchange it with you for the one you opened.The kid was very happy, and so was he.

Lin Youzhi was full of complacency when he said it, "Look at Lao Jin's virtue. I don't know how happy he is to see his grandson exchange a ham sausage for labor. The dirt on the beams of the house is almost falling off when he laughs." " Then he sighed, "We had a hard time back then, and we only taught children how to take care of food and how to look after their own things. But the situation is different now, and it really won't work to teach children like that."

Lu Shuqin touched her face, and said 'hmm', since she knew her mistakes and corrected them.Lin Yutong soon discovered that people adjusted their rhythm very quickly.

If you find that you don't like asking your children to be teased by others in a crowd, then don't go.I never asked the child to do anything, and in the morning I took the trouble to teach the child to put on his little socks by himself.After eating, ask him to take his small bowl and spoon by himself, "Help grandpa take it to the kitchen, grandpa can't get it anymore."

In this way, the child not only gave away his own, but also went back and took the small steamed buns on the table for the second time.

After waiting, she went to tidy up the vegetables in the backyard. She had to pull the weeds and water them, and she didn't care about the children's work.Even if a child goes in and steps on the vegetable seedlings, you can tell him to be careful in the future, but don't stop him from doing it.

So, you will find that it is really tiring to take care of children like this.He always wants to help you, and he will do whatever adults do.But what can he do?You ask him to help, and the more you help, the more busy you are.If you want to finish any work quickly, this little one will trip under your feet, and it will not be efficient at all.I don't know how much time it takes to pour some vegetables, roll the mud all over, and then change clothes and wash his clothes. Fortunately, the child's father is at home and can replace him. Otherwise, taking the child like this will exhaust the adults.

But this change is also obvious. Other people's children go to the house to play, and everything is tumbling.Of course, no one cares about it. The usual saying is: children!

But the children played around and ran to other people's houses, Lin Youzhi hurriedly followed.Following the past, I found that my child no longer tosses.In the past, he didn't think much of it when he went to someone's house to look through someone's snack cabinet.But when the child didn't go, he waited at the door when the family was tumbling, and he didn't follow in if there was no adult in the house.He felt even more that his parents' discipline was right.

But more people don't think so.Their thinking is that when children go to other people's homes, they have the courage to ask for this and that, and eat whatever they like.

Seeing that Jinze would not go, the adults said, "Dandan! Hurry up! They will finish it in a while. Go! Snatch it from them."

The child just smiled but didn't move, leaning on his grandpa's lap, waiting for his friends to come out before playing together.

Then the others laughed: "Who is this kid with? Shy! We are so incompetent!"

Lin Youzhi was not very happy, so he took the child back with excuses.When I came back, I said to my daughter, "If the job can be transferred, it should be done as soon as possible. Siye is usually at home, and I will not follow your mother when I go to the county. The child will go to kindergarten next year... We can go whenever we want. It's all about the feet."

Correct!

Lu Shuqin seemed to have made up her mind, and asked Fourth Master, "Can I still rely on a driver's license at my age?"

what?

Test driver's license?

"My dad wants to take the test?" Lin Yutong agreed: "Take the test! I will buy a car after passing the test."

Lu Shuqin pointed to herself, "I'll take the test! Your dad can't do it now, his eyesight is not as good as mine."

You?

"Can't you?" Lu Shuqin said, "When I was traveling in Hong Kong, I met a lot of elderly women. They drove wherever they wanted... It depends on the driver's license, and I know the age is stuck, but I didn't listen. Talk about sex!"

No!No gender card.But for people of your age and experience, at this age, those who suddenly want to take the driver's license test can't be said to be unique, anyway, they are relatively rare.

Fourth Master is a good son-in-law, "It's not easy, the road is being built to the west of the town, and there is no one at night, Mom, I will take you to learn to drive at night. There is no need to go to the driving school at all! I will take you to sign up for the test!"

Really?

Really!

That works!

In order to learn how to drive, she even went to buy sports shoes, and asked Lin Yutong, "Sneakers are better? Or those outdoor hiking shoes? The hiking shoes you bought for your dad last year, he didn't wear them in the snow at all. Slippery!" Lin Yutong: "..." Actually, it's fine, it's not that strict.She asked Lin Youzhi, "Dad, how about I teach you?"

don't go!I looked at my child, "The point is, I'm not so courageous now. The older I get, the more timid I feel that the car is not safe. Your mother is nice, and now she is getting older and more beautiful, why do you want to learn how to drive?"

"I have a car, and the child will be in the city in the future. I can go to see it whenever I want, without asking for help."

Just for the sake of being able to see the children in the future, at Lu Shuqin's age, she is really serious about learning how to drive.

Jin Baoguo vacated the second-hand bread at home, "Use this to learn. It won't hurt if it gets scratched." He also said to Lu Shuqin, "Learn, it's not much more difficult than driving a tractor."

Then Fourth Master found out that Lu Shuqin was a really quick learner. She should have learned to drive a tractor from Jin Baoguo when she was young.Theoretically speaking, those who know how to drive a tractor can drive a car after a little practice.Those who can drive cars may not necessarily be able to drive tractors.

I thought it was a lot of trouble, but it was completed in half a month.Lu Shuqin was able to drive on the production road.At night, I drove around the production road in the town.

It's really a one-off, they didn't leave the back door at all, and passed the driver's license test!