The restart of wealth-gathering life

When drinking at other times, it takes only three or two glasses, and people get confused.

But when I was drunk and worried, I felt that my mind was so confused that I didn't know anything, and it was not so easy.

Wen Na thinks that she is in such a state now, she cares, but not all.Say you don't care, why is it so uncomfortable.She was lying on the lawn, "Probably still a little unwilling, not worth it!" She said and looked at Lin Yutong sideways, "I sometimes think, what is wrong with me, how can I not compare with others? A voice said, He is for money. Because the other party gave him a house, I just didn’t tell him what I have. Fortunately, I didn’t say anything, otherwise I wouldn’t be able to see what kind of person he is. Another voice said, he said that someone has a house. I just gave him an excuse that doesn't look like empathy. But in the end, he still fell in love with someone else. If so, I don't understand, how is this other person better than me? "

This question is so stupid!Perhaps in another ten years, she would also feel stupid.

But now, she is unable to get out of this maze.

Lin Yutong pulled her up, "Want to know who won you? What is the person who won you?"

It's not that I want to, it's just... Curiosity?

I can't say it, but I just have such an idea.In fact, it doesn't matter whether you know it or not.

Lin Yutong looked at her, took the wine in her hand, and handed over a sausage, "Well, let's draw a 'portrait' of his incumbent now, the answer is actually on the question, but he never Something to think about."

portrait?

How to draw a picture?

Lin Yutong snapped her fingers, "There are a few things we know. First, she is a preschool teacher and teaches in a kindergarten. Second, her family is in the county. Third, her family's financial situation is not bad. She paid the first payment. These are the three known on the surface. Do you have any objection?"

No.

"Okay!" Lin Yutong continued, "She is a kindergarten teacher, a kindergarten teacher in the county, then I can infer that she should have graduated from junior high school and went to a kindergarten teacher technical secondary school, so I know her education - the other party's technical secondary school Graduation." Wen Na thought about it, and there are early childhood education universities, but they are still in short supply.As far as early childhood education in normal universities is concerned, they are all over before they graduate.In recent years, there have been more and more private characteristic kindergartens in big cities, with better wages and benefits.If I really had a high degree of education, I wouldn't go back to such a small county with only two streets.

So she nodded, according to common sense, it is so.

"After knowing the education background, we also know that this person is in good health, at least with good facial features, and no obvious physical defects. Do you have any objections?"

Wen Na nodded, as a kindergarten teacher, you have to meet this basic line.She never thought that there was something wrong with the other party!But what do you know if you know this?

"Listen." Lin Yutong stuffed a peanut into his mouth, and then said: "We know that the girl graduated from a technical secondary school, is in good health, and at least has good facial features. If she is the same age as us, that is to say, we are in high school. When she graduated, she had graduated from technical secondary school. She could start working. Right?"

right!However, she might be a few years younger.

"Okay! According to what you said, she may be younger than us. Then a new problem arises. If she is younger than us, how did they know each other? In fact, when people are young, the circle is not big. Zuo is just a fellow villager. Relatives of classmates, at most, there are sisters and sisters among the classmates, not at the same level! Is there anything else?"

That's about it. "Even if they are junior girls, they are considered the same age. Because he must have studied in the village. His wife should have studied in the county. The only possibility is that they both attended the same junior high school."

Wen Na thought it made sense, "It is true that he went to junior high school in the county town. There is also a junior high school in the town, but the top students are specially recruited to study in the county town. He mentioned it to me!"

"Of course, we can't say that the two must be classmates. But we can push it backwards! Two people want to know each other. There are two situations. One is that they know each other from the beginning, and the other is that someone introduced them to each other. The first one, let's start Put it aside. Let’s talk about the second type, introduced by others. It depends on the situation. Some are not introduced for the purpose of marriage, and some are introduced by acquaintances for the purpose of marriage. They are all male and female, and older In this city, everyone introduces each other and talks about being friends. But is there a lot of introductions of pure friendship between opposite sexes? Many professional women know some people, and most of them are working relationships. But the two of them don’t match up at all. In the circle, the possibility of introductions not for the purpose of marriage is extremely low."

That is an introduction for the purpose of marriage.

Lin Yutong just laughed, "A girl who has a house in the county, has decent family conditions, has a stable job, and is not ugly. What kind of matchmaker is this? You introduced such a big pit to others! You have been to his house, Is his family poor?"

poverty!A house is not much better than a thatched cottage.Adobe walls!We rarely see such poor families here.

"So, his family was poor because they were poor. He has been poor since he was a child, not because her sister brought her nephew home and had to see a doctor."

Wen Na hesitated for a moment, but still nodded.Her sister brought the child home, which only made things worse.

"Let's be honest, if someone introduces such a person to your sister now, will your family agree?"

It looks like a bottomless pit!The girl is normal, the matchmaker has any grudges, and introduces such a person to others.The girl's parents are out of their minds!He took a girl in vain and bought the house.

This is fine if the other party has a high degree of education and is indeed capable.Or it counts if you come back and have a formal job.

"But he is in a private school in the county!" Lin Yutong said, "Private schools in big cities have a lot of teachers. The fees are high, but they are still flocking to them. But in a small county with two streets, how big can a private school be? The school is for profit, so the source of students must be guaranteed. The county is not big, the economy is not good, and very few children from the countryside come to the county to study. Are you optimistic about the future of this school?"

After careful consideration, it really is!Like the private schools in the city, they all hire experienced in-service teachers with high salaries.Teacher qualification certificate is the most basic, right?But he didn't have this thing.

"Such a person who is heavily in debt, has a heavy burden, has not developed outside, and has no stable job when he returns home. You said, if this was introduced by a matchmaker, then his parents must not call out the matchmaker!"

So?

"So, they must be classmates. And junior high school classmates. Considering that the probability that the senior sister likes the junior high school is too small, then, I guess, they are either classmates, or the junior high school girl likes the senior. He was in junior high school back then. When he was born, he must be a top student."

The expression on Wen Na's face became more complicated, "Yes! He was specially recruited from high school to attend high school in their prefecture-level city."

It is a very routine operation that a good school selects the top students from below in order to increase its admission rate.

"Same age, junior high school classmates." Lin Yutong asked, "You said that you are in the same class in junior high school, excluding the situation of a village at home, how many contacts are there between the students? How many male and female students are still in contact with each other? How much? Especially after their respective life trajectories are completely different, what is the probability of connection?"

Don't talk about contacting, I almost forgot the name.The only thing I can't forget is probably the boy I had a crush on.

Even if we ran into each other on the main road, we couldn't recognize them anymore.

"Yeah! So what's going on with these two people?" Lin Yutong spread his hands, "So, there is a high probability that his wife has liked him for many years. They should have been in contact all the time."

Wen Na pointed to her nose, "Then I'm the one who stepped in?"

That's not it!

"So I said, this girl won't be ugly. If she looks really unsatisfactory, I won't contact you long ago. But she won't be particularly beautiful. Pretty girls have already taken boys down. This should be a very ordinary girl. , I really like each other in my heart. I have always liked her very much. But she is a scumbag in elementary school, and the boy is a top student. The top student despises the scum in the early years. The only thing he is proud of is studying well! He went to college. Compared with this girl, he is psychologically He has a sense of superiority. But in college, when he thought he could meet a beautiful love, the plight of being a poor student and living a difficult life made him unable to find the one he liked among the girls around him. He even felt inferior. Only through the Internet, we first It's not the outside of the person that you look at... It's cruel, but it's the truth."

Wen Na accepted the words calmly, "It makes sense! He is like this, and so am I. I also dare not associate with the boys around me because of my external inferiority complex. On one point, I should be the same as him. "

Lin Yutong then said: "So this girl's portrait actually came out. She is in the same grade as us, with a technical secondary school education, and has always liked junior high school classmates. Over the years, she has maintained a relationship like a friend with this male student she likes. Her The role should be more like a 'confidant'. You don't know her existence, but she should always know your existence. She knows the family background of the boy she likes, but still likes him as always. He is real in front of her! But He was in front of you, whether it was concealing or shaping, you found it, and you punctured many things he shaped. In addition, because of the pregnancy earlier, the torn wound between you was bloody , he knows too much how it hurts you and your relationship. After that, he will no longer be confident in this relationship. He will always be a head shorter than you! On the other side, there is a girl who likes him and admires him , Knowing his background, but still sticking to it as always. You bought a house of [-] square meters, and it is still far away from his home. How does he take care of the house! It’s too far away. If you bought it at their hometown, you might have already done it.”

Wen Na looked at the sky, "If you ask me to choose again, I won't buy it in his hometown. If he gets married, he wants to go back to develop. It's okay to sell it here and buy it in his hometown. But that kind of Under the circumstances, I can't do that!"

you can not!But someone can! "That girl gave a condition comparable to yours. She also bought a house, which is close to home and easy to take care of. So, this girl's love came. He was moved by her perseverance for so many years, and abandoned her higher education. , a girlfriend who still has a house in a big city even gave up her job in a big city and returned to a small county town. She spends her time in a private school and then takes the public exam. It would be better if it develops in the city. And I guess, the high probability should be related to the city. Otherwise, it is better to buy a house near the provincial capital than in a prefecture-level city. Unless, people have already planned .Look: a stable job, a real estate in the city, a wife who loves him, all of them! It's just perfect!"

Wen Na took a few sips of the wine bottle, "Why do I hear it... a little panicked." As she spoke, she turned her face to look at Lin Yutong, "Then tell me, his wife knows what he thinks. Is it?" Is it important?

Doesn't it matter?

Lin Yutong shook his head, "A person who has been stubborn for so many years, does she care if he loves her? Whether he loves her or not, just keep it. Anyway, she got what he wanted. So, this girl is a bit stubborn, and she doesn't care. A little strong. It's very different from your personality."

He couldn't help laughing as he spoke, "Of course, this is my guess. Maybe it's right, maybe it's not! However, you should know. He will still come to you in one, two, three or five years. It's not very What do you want to develop, I just want to get in touch, talk about the past, and recall the past. When he mentioned his wife, he would say that he couldn’t help it at the time... Don’t want to regret it all these years! You don’t need to ask him about his wife’s situation. I will tell you, when the time comes, you can compare and compare to see how many of our guesses are correct. In fact, in this kind of triangular relationship, it is rare for two women to know each other. Most of them are one who knows the existence of the other, and the other One has been kept in the dark. In fact, the two of them are the ones who have a common secret, and you have always been excluded. Therefore, you can see that many people involved in the divorce are often the last to know the truth."

Wen Na became even more disgusted and panicked.

Lin Yutong just laughed, "So, if you really want to know, you just wait and wait for verification. It's easy to be disillusioned in this way of life! That girl has looked up to him for many years, and when she finds out that he is nothing more than that, won't she change? When things change, he is on the unconfident side of the marriage again. He needs to find confidence in another place. Then you who "love him" will be that choice. So, give up! It's just a lesson, This kind of person is really not worth it."

Wen Na felt that he really gave up.Whether the truth is like this, she doesn't know, and she doesn't care.She was more inclined that this was her friend's ferocious material in order to make her give up and completely dig that man out of her heart.She has been giving herself psychological hints, yes!He is that kind of person!

But he never expected that in only three months, the person who had been shot ten thousand times in his heart would really contact him.

On this day, a strange call came. She thought it was the company's business. Now she contacted the courier and delivery, and many of them were complicated by her.That's why she couldn't change her cell phone number.

It's getting colder, and autumn clothes are selling well.She hit the back of the head with her busy foot.When the phone rang, she picked it up.I can't see where the number belongs, because the shipment is sent to all parts of the country, sometimes you have to contact the courier company in various places, and she treats any unfamiliar number as a work phone.

In the end, a very familiar voice answered, "Hello——"

Only this sound, she heard it.After being silent for a while, he finally said 'um', "What's the matter?"

There was silence on the other side, and it took a long time before he sighed, "...I... I'm fine, I just wanted to call you. Are you... how are you doing?"

Wen Na sat down to catch her breath, "It's fine. Are you okay? I'll hang up if I'm not. I'm busy."

"Don't!" The tone over there was obviously anxious, "Well... I always feel that I owe you an explanation. I just don't have the courage to tell you, so don't say it, I always feel bad! The more I don't want to think about it, the more I think about it .”

Wen Na was expressionless.She thought, if Lin Yutong's gaze hadn't told her, maybe she would have been moved so much.Maybe I still feel that she still loves me after all.

"...It's embarrassing to say that I came here. I really didn't think about betrayal or anything... It's just, she, she has liked me for many years. Later, in the class group of junior high school classmates, I got in touch again... Contact I didn’t know you when I went to school. I didn’t like her at that time, really! Anyway, I didn’t have a deep impression. If I didn’t really love you, I wouldn’t waste time with you so far away. After all, I am very close to her, and I can see her whenever I want. Anyway, just like a friend, we kept in touch intermittently. Later, didn’t my nephew get lost? The family was anxious to find it, so they hurried home. That is to say, she is quite enthusiastic. Her eldest uncle is in the Public Security Bureau, and he is still a leader. He helped a lot, and he was found anyway. I just treat her to a meal, and then she cried and said that she has always liked it. I, I didn't know what happened at the time, so I made a mistake and couldn't hold it back... Later, she said she was pregnant. I did something sorry for you, and I found that you have been particularly depressed and emotionally depressed after losing that child. Gao, I know that this kind of thing hurts girls a lot. I have already felt sorry for you, so I can’t feel sorry for him anymore! Really, the matter of getting married is very helpless. There is no common topic, no plan for the future... It hurts Others will be punished, I think I am! I have been punished. Nana—”

Wen Na took a breath, "Don't call me!" Her voice became sharper, "Don't bother me anymore! I know where your home is, if you call again, I will take someone to your home Trouble. Anyway, my house is far away from yours. No one in my family knows how ugly I am. But you are different. If you want to keep what you have now, you don’t bother me. Believe it or not, you You can try it."

As he said that, he hung up the phone with a snap, and then slapped himself on the face, wondering how he could have loved such a person with his heart covered in lard.

She could only comfort herself, "Some of the emotions of that young man who was separated from the Internet back then were true. It was only later that they slowly changed."

The direct result of this matter is - fear of marriage!

If the married man becomes so hideous, then what is the purpose of marriage?