Daiyu's stepmother is not easy to be

After finishing Qingyu's birthday banquet, on July [-]th, Baishuang's dowry was carried to the wedding room to be exposed.

Seeing these dowries, Lin Jiangwang and the others were not dissatisfied with Bai Shuang.

Even though Lin Ming's sister-in-law, Ding, felt a little sour in her heart, she thought that they would still be by their parents' side in the future, and that her brother-in-law and sister-in-law were far away in the sky, and it was difficult to see each other twice a year.

Besides, there are only advantages and no disadvantages in establishing a good relationship with your sister-in-law.What good would it do her to offend the people who came out of Madam's side for no reason?

But not everyone is like Uncle Huang, who dares to offend his wife directly.

After reading the letter from my wife, saying that she wanted to betroth Miss Yumei to Uncle You, she was still crying and unwilling.

Fortunately, my uncle immediately dragged her away and locked her in the house again, and the people in the clan chose not to see her. Otherwise, Second Uncle You probably would have a hard time with Mrs. Su.

They are all their own children, why is it that the second uncle is like an adopted one?

Even if you really don't like Second Uncle You in your heart, let Second Uncle You remember the love at home.When he is successful, can he pull out his brothers?

Occasionally, Mrs. Ding heard from her mother-in-law and aunts that the niece of her natal family who was brought by Uncle Huang four years ago hadn't left the house yet.

It is said that her niece Huang Ling thought she would be able to climb Gao Zhi'er, but who knew she didn't succeed. When she got home, her parents picked people for her.

Although 17 years old is not considered very old, but Huang Ling has been tossing around for the past two years, and no one around her dares to marry her.

Uncle Huang's elder brother and sister-in-law were naturally unhappy when their own daughter was harmed like this, so they came to question Huang Uncle and Grandmother.

Uncle Huang thought, second uncle You is about the same age as Huang Ling?

And the more Uncle Huang thought about it, the better she felt.Second Uncle You has not been close to her since she was a child, and she is also lazy to talk to him.Now that Uncle You is well-off, he can't remember her as an old lady.

When he promises his niece from his natal family to Second Uncle You, Second Uncle You will naturally change his mind.

Besides, the marriage is the order of the parents, the words of the matchmaker, she said so as an old lady, I don't dare to disagree with Second Uncle!

Huang's aunt and uncle went home happily and told her brother and sister-in-law about this. Her brother and sister-in-law were also very satisfied when they heard that they were helping the Shangshu Mansion in the capital.

Who knew they had just decided, and the letter from Jingzhong came.

After reading the letter, others envied Second Uncle You for having such a good fortune, but Uncle Huang felt that the world was falling apart. She was ashamed to see her family and felt that Uncle You was completely out of control. Uncle You hurried home and was not allowed to go to the capital again.

When Mrs. Ding returned to the house, she remembered what happened to Uncle Huang and grandmother, and secretly warned herself not to do anything stupid.

Uncle Huang's grandmother still has her seniority. She kept the filial piety for her parents-in-law, and gave birth to and raised three sons.No matter how hard she tried, as long as she didn't kill or set fire, the clan and her uncle could only lock her up for a few days.

But she is a young daughter-in-law with unstable foundation, so she can't learn from Uncle Huang's grandmother.

After thinking about it for a long time, Ding hurriedly checked the meeting gift he gave to the bride on the second day of the wedding.

When I was at home, I didn't think so, but now I think it's a bit thinner. Ding became cruel and added a golden hairpin that I hadn't worn this year, and then I felt that it was almost the same.

There are only two days left for the wedding. Although the man's elders and family members are not too worried, and it is all up to the Lin family to arrange, they are also preparing their own.

Although Bai Shuang still has parents, but she said that she only pretends that she doesn't have any now.But for marriage matters, according to the current etiquette, both parties must be on top to look decent.

Even regarding Zhong Luan and Feng Yuan's affairs, Wen Jiao made the decisions and let Nanny Xu be the woman's elder to help manage them.Now that it's the turn of the people around me, naturally they have to plan more thoroughly.

Among Wen Jiao's trustworthy mothers, Mother Xu recognized Miss Zhong Luan privately, Mother Chen recognized Cao Shi at her own discretion, and Mother Zhang was still free.

And Shui Sister and Wei Sister are also called Sisters, but they are actually the same people as Mr. Yang and Mr. Li. They didn't show their intentions, and Wen Jiao didn't want to force them to join in the fun.

It is also an honor to be able to recognize the eldest girl next to the wife as a goddaughter in the eyes of Xu Momo and others.

Wen Jiao thought again and again, the Cao family and Zhong Luan were not considered to be the people around her. Among the three mothers, after all, Mother Xu was the head first, so she still ordered Mother Xu to be the elder of the woman's side and take care of Bai Shuang. marriage.

The day before Qingyu's birthday, Baishuang had already moved out of the main courtyard and moved to live with Madam Xu.

Mammy Xu's own daughter hadn't left the house yet, but she helped the two girls get married first, accumulating a lot of experience in marriage affairs.

Bai Shuang and Lin Ming have been engaged for a year and a half. Although the two of them don't see each other every day, with Wen Jiao's acquiescence, he can always meet once or twice a month and exchange a few words.

21. The young men and women in the second year are engaged and know that they are their future husband and daughter-in-law. Both of them are not bad in appearance and personality. They both fell in love with each other the first time they met.

A year and a half later, Lin Ming sent Bai Shuang Ming some snacks, flower candy figurines and jewelry fabrics from outside.

According to Bai Lu's secret disclosure to Wen Jiao, Bai Shuang made eight pairs of shoes for Lin Mingguang in just one and a half years.

Wen Jiao recalled what Lin Ming wore in the past. He was wearing ordinary clothes, shoes and socks. Except for two purses and sachets, he didn’t see any needles and threads with white cream, so he wondered, “But why should I wear them? Didn't you see him wearing it?"

Bai Lu laughed and said, "Girl Yumei heard about it from Second Master You, which means that even if Second Master accepted it, he would not be willing to wear it, so he almost put it in his arms and held it as a treasure."

Wen Jiao laughed and said, "Trust his mouth. Fortunately, Yumei is usually so clever, so he coaxed her away."

It can also be seen that Lin Ming is really looking forward to marrying Bai Shuang day and night, and Bai Shuang is also looking forward to married life.

On the night before the big wedding, Nanny Xu still told Bai Shuang some necessary knowledge before marriage, which made Bai Shuang think about it.

Bai Shuang didn't sleep well all night, and was called up to dress up in the middle of the night, but her heart was filled with nervousness, expectation and a little bit of fear, and she didn't feel tired at all.

Dressed up and put on wedding clothes, the sky is already bright.At this time, Bai Shuang, Madam Xu and his daughter-in-law all heard the sudden commotion in the yard, reporting in one go: "Madam is here." There was another series of greetings.

Bai Shuang didn't expect his wife to come today, so she quickly stood up and went forward to meet her.

Wen Jiao entered the room and saw Bai Shuang in a bright red dress, very moving, Yingying bowed on the ground and bowed three times, feeling deeply moved.

Speaking of it, Bai Shuang was the first girl she sent out with her own hands.

Bailuyuxueyumei and Xiaomanguyujuluhelu also came to add make-up to Baishuang, the whole room was buzzing with chatter, and they all felt reluctant to part with Baishuang.

Especially the three of Bai Luyu, Xue Yumei, and what happened, they are also sisters for so many years.

Now among the four of them, Bai Shuang is going to be the first to marry as a wife, and all three of them are very emotional and can't help but shed tears.

No matter how hard Bai Shuang endured, her eyes turned red.Wen Jiao hurriedly held one in each hand, and said with a smile: "You don't seem to come to congratulate me with me, why are you going to make the bride cry?"

After finishing speaking, Wen Jiao pulled Bai Shuang and smiled again: "Don't cry today, you have to be happy every day, and the days to come will be prosperous."

Except for this dynasty, there is a custom of crying when girls get married in any previous dynasty.

It's just that some are lighter, just crying before getting into the sedan chair on the wedding day.

For some, it has become a big rule to start crying half a month in advance, and wait until the night before the wedding to finish crying to relatives one by one according to the rules, which is considered a big gift.

If a bride cries badly, she will be ridiculed for not knowing the rules.

Before the marriage of Princess Wuming, the daughter of the founding queen of this dynasty, some people said that the princess should cry and marry according to the rules, in order to repay the kindness of the Holy Queen's upbringing, so that the husband and wife can be reconciled after marriage.

The founding queen has always been the most displeased with this kind of thing that tortures women, so she beat the person who spoke up to death first.

Then the founding queen said that the princess was getting married, not married.Even after marriage, the princess is still the daughter of the royal family, not just a member of the son-in-law's family.

If life with the son-in-law is not going well, the princess can go home with Li, and she will naturally support the princess.

The founding queen also said why the previous rule had to have a crying marriage?

Isn't it because most women suffer humiliation after marriage, and the days of being daughters before marriage are the happiest time in their lives, so they all cry through the custom of crying marriage to vent their grief.

The founding queen finally ordered to announce to the world that girls are not allowed to be forced to cry for more than half a day when holding weddings in various places. If there is any, once found, they will be punished as the crime of cruelty.

Because the founding queen followed the emperor to fight north and south, her prestige was no less than that of the emperor.

And in these years, the founding queen first pushed the memorial archways all over the country, ordering that women are not allowed to be forced to become widows.

When a husband dies, a woman can freely remarry after a year of mourning for her husband.

It is also strictly forbidden to bind women's feet. If any parents bind their daughter's feet, they will be beaten fifty times.

If it is found that an official in court bound his daughter's feet, he will be dismissed and exiled once found out. Before exile, his feet will also be broken and put into small golden lotus shoes.

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