What to do if you are stalked by your ex-boyfriend's younger brother

The appointment with Deng Changhua is on the next Saturday.

During this week, Guan Ze can be said to be very doting on Zhou Di.What happened to Zhou Di that day really made Guan Ze feel uncomfortable. After returning, he always felt that no matter how good he was to Zhou Di, he couldn’t make up for it, so he made all kinds of delicious food for Zhou Di in different ways every day. Even Zhou Di himself felt that He was flattered, so he proposed to invite Guan Ze to his suite next to the attached middle school as a guest after the psychological consultation, and he would cook for Guan Ze.

Guan Ze didn't refuse much, he only wanted the psychological consultation to go well, so he agreed to Zhou Di.

Guan Ze took Zhou Di to the psychological counseling center on time. When he arrived, Deng Changhua had just finished visiting the last patient and needed to rest for 15 minutes. The assistant took Guan Ze and Zhou Di to the reception room and poured out the water for them. Tea.Zhou Di proposed to spend some time alone with Guan Ze, and the assistant left quickly.

There were only the two of them left in the reception room, so Guan Ze stopped talking and just stared at the teacup in a daze.He has been worrying about Zhou Di's affairs, sometimes he thinks there is nothing wrong with Zhou Di, and sometimes he is too worried.

Feeling back and forth, ups and downs, Guan Ze's uneasiness was aroused again when he really came to the counseling center.

Zhou Di looked at Guan Ze and said, "Brother Guan Ze, why do you have this expression? You seem to be much more nervous than me."

Afraid that he would put pressure on Zhou Di, Guan Ze quickly pulled the corners of his mouth into a smile and said, "Why? It's very simple, just treat it as if you know a big brother and chat casually."

Zhou Di shrugged and said, "I'm not nervous."

After finishing speaking, Zhou Di laughed again, and said, "If you are like this, it seems that we are not going to go to psychological consultation, but to do a prenatal checkup."

"What nonsense are you talking about?" Guan Ze suddenly felt strange, and refused to look at Zhou Di again.

Zhou Di straightened his face, grabbed Guan Ze's hand, and said seriously: "Don't worry, you are so good, God will definitely bless our children safe and healthy."

Guan Ze's scalp felt numb all of a sudden, he stood up and said, "You, you are messing around again!"

Zhou Di let out a "puchi" laugh, quickly took Guan Ze's hand to make him sit down, and laughed loudly: "Hahaha, I'm just joking, don't be angry, don't be angry."

Guan Ze's face was flushed red, and he was helpless for making such a mess of jokes on Zhou Di.In fact, Guan Ze knows that Zhou Di has a childish nature and likes to fool around. It’s better for him to laugh it off. Every time he insists on listening to these jokes, he makes himself completely ashamed. I really... don’t know what to say about myself .

Guan Ze wanted to shake off Zhou Di's hand, but Zhou Di grabbed him firmly, and the rogue boy who grabbed him continued to say, "Okay, okay, don't be angry with me."

Zhou Di said while pulling Guan Ze to let him sit back beside him. Just as Guan Ze touched the sofa, Zhou Di said without hesitation: "Yes, be happy, so as not to move the tire gas."

Guan Ze:! ! !

"I, I, I don't care about you anymore!" Guan Ze stood up again and wanted to leave, but Zhou Di hugged his waist laughingly. He was even more ashamed and annoyed. He was so angry that he tried hard to break Zhou Di's fingers, but he didn't break them open for a long time. Those slender fingers bound Guan Ze like a lock, and Guan Ze couldn't break free. opened, and was pushed back to the sofa by Zhou Di.

"I was wrong, I was wrong, I was wrong, I was wrong..." Zhou Di kept begging for mercy, Guan Ze struggled so hard that he let Zhou Di hug him, panting quickly.

Guan Ze finally recovered after resting for a while.

At this time, Zhou Di was still saying "I was wrong, I was wrong", Guan Ze was so noisy that his ears were callused, he raised his hand and patted Zhou Di on the forehead, and said: "Okay, stop talking, let me go .”

This time Zhou Di was a good boy, he immediately stopped talking and let go of Guan Ze.

After Zhou Di's fuss just now, Guan Ze's anxiety has eased a lot. He lowered his voice and said to Zhou Di sternly: "Don't make jokes like this in the future, otherwise I will ignore you."

"Well, order!"

It was a joy to agree, but Guan Ze clearly felt that the boy's eyes were full of cunning, and he basically believed that it was impossible for him to ignore him.

It's really... There's nothing I can do about him.

Guan Ze had no choice but to keep a cold face and not talk to him for the time being.

At this moment, the assistant came over and asked them to go to the consultation room. Guan Ze told Zhou Di in a low voice to be more serious, and Zhou Di restrained his laughing appearance and became serious.

Deng Changhua was waiting for them in the consultation room. When he saw Zhou Di, he greeted him warmly and said, "Hello, Xiaodi, I'm Deng Changhua, um, can I call you that?"

Zhou Di shook hands with Deng Changhua without any discomfort and said, "It's ok, Doctor Deng, be more intimate like this."

Guan Ze stood aside and watched them silently, thinking, there was only one time when he called Zhou Di by his nickname so intimately.I didn't want to bark before, but I heard others bark, why is it so strange?

Deng Changhua continued: "That's fine, sit down first, what would you like to drink? Lemon tea or iced cola?"

Guan Ze regained his composure and said, "I don't need it, you guys talk, I'll just go to the reception room and wait."

"Wait, brother Guan Ze." Zhou Di grabbed Guan Ze's arm and said anxiously, "You stay here with me, what can I do if you're not here!"

Guan Ze was a little surprised. Before coming here, he told Zhou Di that Dr. Deng is a very experienced psychological counselor. Zhou Di may relax under his guidance and spread out many psychological states.Guan Ze thought that he had never been honest with Zhou Di, nor did he feel that he was qualified to know everything about Zhou Di.But now Zhou Di's attitude of taking it for granted suddenly moved Guan Ze very much.

He knew that Zhou Di trusted him, but he never thought that Zhou Di trusted him so much.

So the little discomfort about the nickname just now dissipated immediately.

Guan Ze nodded and said, "Okay, I'm right here."

Zhou Di then said: "Then you have to be where I can see you."

Guan Ze responded, and Zhou Di let go of his hand.

Deng Changhua looked at the two of them calmly, and waited for them to be tired, then asked them to sit freely, and poured a cup of lemon tea for each of them.

Deng Changhua sat in his original seat, and Zhou Di sat on the single sofa that Guan Ze used to do consultations in the past. His expression was a little disturbed and curious, but there was no nervousness.

Guan Ze sat down on a chair beside him. For the first time, he watched other people undergo psychological counseling from the perspective of a bystander.

Soon, Deng Changhua said: "Xiaodi, I already know some general conditions of your situation, but you need to tell me the details yourself. Is there any trouble for you when you visit today? Do you think there is anything I can do to help you?" ?”

"Then let me get straight to the point. A few days ago, I had a fight with someone." Zhou Di glanced at Guan Ze, and then said, "I couldn't control myself at the time, and felt a little worried afterwards, because I was It's...too heavy."

Deng Changhua asked: "What is the reason for the heavy attack? Was it because you were too angry at the time? This incident angered you?"

"Yes, I'm very angry." Zhou Di clenched his fists as he spoke, and he turned his gaze to Guan Ze again. Guan Ze lowered his head slightly to hide his expression, Zhou Di took a deep breath and continued, "He got rough on someone very important to me, and I couldn't help myself."

"Very important person?"

"It is not an exaggeration to say that it is the most important person."

"That's right, no wonder you are so angry." Deng Changhua consciously conveyed his empathy to Zhou Di, and said, "But you still feel that you have acted too hard, don't you?"

Zhou Di replied: "I didn't notice it at the time, but later I felt that I might have been so angry that I completely lost my mind. I knew I did something wrong, but I don't regret it."

"Yes, you may have lost control of your emotions, but this is understandable." Deng Changhua took the initiative to guide the next question, "Have you ever had such a situation before?"

"If you lose control of your emotions to this point... No, this is the first time. If you talk about fighting with others, it does happen. It was most frequent when I was fourteen or fifteen years old, and it's much better now."

Speaking of Zhou Di's childhood, Guan Ze couldn't help but tense his back.He has also read some simple psychology books, and knows that this is Zhou Di's relaxation under the guidance of Dr. Deng. Perhaps what he will say next will reveal Zhou Di's mental state.

Deng Changhua then asked: "Then what are the reasons for your conflicts with people?"

Zhou Di scratched his head and said distressedly: "I can't remember, I often get into a fight when I disagree with each other. It's just a trivial matter, I can't remember clearly. Sometimes others provoke me, and sometimes I am too sensitive. I remember I can’t help but remember things at home more clearly.”

"Then talk about your family, do you have conflicts with your family? What is it all about?"

Zhou Di ticked the corner of his mouth, and laughed at himself: "Dr. Deng, since you know my general situation, you should also know about my family. The gossip forums have detailed it. It's almost like that, but there are some deviations in the details. .My dad doesn’t hate me as much as the rumors say, but he doesn’t expect too much from me. His current wife hates me a lot, but she can’t make things difficult for me. She just blows pillows in front of my dad from time to time. , It just makes me feel a little bit unhappy. In this situation, my brother and I have not been able to get along very well since we were young. We always have troubles because of various small things, but my brother is 9 years older than me We couldn't fight at the age of [-]. But there was one time when my brother did something to me, and I remember it very clearly."

"When did it happen? Because of what?"

Zhou Di didn't think about it, and quickly said: "I was 7 years old, New Year's Eve. That morning my dad announced that Aunt Feng was pregnant. I was not very happy at the time, so I hid in my bedroom. At night, Feng My aunt fell into the hospital because I stepped on a marble that I dropped in the garden. I didn’t know what happened at the time. I found out the next day that her child was gone and she had to go to the emergency room for surgery, which was very dangerous. I My brother thought I did it on purpose, so he went crazy and ran home from the hospital and beat me. I still remember very clearly that he kicked me in the chest. It hurt so much that I thought my internal organs were ripped apart. .”