What to do if you are stalked by your ex-boyfriend's younger brother

Deng Changhua quickly changed the subject and began to talk about Guan Ze's life after he returned to the capital. He has been consciously guiding Guan Ze to talk more, and Guan Ze also tried his best to cooperate. It seems that there is no point in talking about some random things, but After saying these things, Guan Ze actually felt a lot more relaxed.

Looking at the time, it was only 20 minutes before the end of the consultation.

Deng Changhua smiled and asked, "How do you feel now?"

"Very good." Guan Ze ticked the box and said, "Thank you, Doctor Deng, I feel much better now."

Deng Changhua shook his head and said, "I don't think I made you better. I can feel that you were already much better when you came."

"Huh?" Guan Ze looked at Deng Changhua in confusion.

Deng Changhua pointed to Guan Zekong's water glass and said, "Every time you come, I will give you a choice of two different drinks, but you always ask for plain water. Today you asked for lemon tea without thinking, and you gave a glass of both. Finished."

Guan Ze reacted for a moment, thinking, because Zhou Di likes tea with lemon very much, did he choose lemon tea subconsciously?

But Guan Ze was ashamed to admit it in front of Deng Changhua, he quickly waved his hand and said, "Yes... every time I come, Dr. Deng said there is no white water..."

"How could there be no white water?" Deng Changhua spread his hands and said helplessly, "Ah Ze, sometimes you are too slow to be kind to others. Over the years, I have worked hard to make you give up drinking white water."

Guan Ze became more surprised and puzzled, and looked at Deng Changhua with wide eyes.

Deng Changhua showed a soothing smile to Guan Ze, and continued: "Perhaps you don't think it is important to change your taste, but every simple external behavior can reflect the inner state at that time. You It is a habit to drink water and eat vegetables for you for many years, but in fact this is your self-punishment, which shows that your psychological trauma has not been healed.

"I've tried and failed over the years and I've always felt sorry for that. But today you offered to ask for lemon tea and I'm really surprised and glad you took this step. Stop punishing yourself , indicating that your condition is improving. Although I don't know why, I guess it is because of your new friend."

"Doctor Deng..."

Deng Changhua shook his head to signal Guan Ze's tranquility, and continued: "Also, this time you came, you are obviously more willing to communicate. Although you still have reservations and are still uneasy, you have made great progress compared to before. Furthermore, you mentioned When you dream, you are not as blindly terrified as before, and you can even describe the content of the dream in detail, which also shows that you are more daring to face yourself and your past than before. All in all, I don’t know your friend What is the origin, but in a short period of time, he has done something that I have not been able to do for many years, Azer, all along maybe you don’t need a psychiatrist, what you need is a friend, and this person has appeared now , I'm really happy for you."

Guan Ze was so confused by Deng Changhua's words, he even forgot to blink, and kept looking at Deng Changhua.

Guan Ze really felt that his life had been changing since the first day he met Zhou Di, but Guan Ze hadn't thought about the significance of these changes at all.Then maybe I didn't realize how important Zhou Di was to me.

Deng Changhua gave Guan Ze a long time to digest slowly, and when Guan Ze recovered and blinked and his face turned reddish, Deng Changhua smiled and said: "Don't be too anxious, there are many things that don't need to be figured out now. "

Guan Ze nodded, and Deng Changhua looked at his watch and said, "There are still 10 minutes, Ze, do you have anything special to say?"

Guan Ze bowed his head and remained silent for a while. Originally he was happy, but after thinking about it for a while, his mood fell into gloom again.

What happened that day really couldn't be ignored.

After thinking for a long time, Guan Ze still spoke carefully: "Doctor Deng, that is... If a person takes extreme violent behavior after being stimulated, even to the point of being unable to control himself, can this be used to judge that this person has serious violent tendencies? ?”

Deng Changhua didn't expect Guan Ze to ask this question after thinking for a long time. He paused, and then answered seriously: "It's hard to say. Violent tendencies are a long-term and continuous process. If it's just an occasional situation, it may be a simple one. Violent impulsive behavior. Violent impulsive behavior is not a mental symptom in essence, and people with normal psychological conditions may also have such behavior under rage."

Guan Ze frowned and thought, he just vaguely felt that Zhou Di's mental state was abnormal at that time, and he couldn't judge it, so he asked Deng Changhua.

Deng Changhua saw Guan Ze's serious face, and his own expression became more serious, and said again: "Ah Ze, may I ask, is he your friend?"

Guan Ze didn't answer, but Deng Changhua knew the answer just by looking at him.

Deng Changhua sat up straight, leaned his upper body slightly towards Guan Ze, looked straight into Guan Ze's eyes very seriously, and said in a deep voice: "Ah Ze, I suggest that if even you feel that something is abnormal, then you should pay attention to it. If you can If so, please ask this friend of yours to come to me, and I will make a systematic and comprehensive psychological evaluation for him."

"This... I can't decide for him." Guan Ze felt restless. After all, Zhou Di is a minor and he has a guardian. Guan Ze has no legal guardianship relationship with him. It is impossible for him to bring Zhou Di to the psychological counseling center.

"Patients with bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and multiple personality are all likely to have violent tendencies. If it is so severe that it cannot be controlled by itself, it must be very dangerous. Aze, I strongly suggest that you bring your friend to let him I'll see you."

Guan Ze didn't expect Deng Changhua to take this question so seriously. On the one hand, he was grateful to him, but on the other hand, he was a little self-deceiving and didn't want to know the answer, so he said in a low voice, "I have considered all the mental illnesses you mentioned, but even if these illnesses are It is also very good to judge in the early stage. I have been with him for such a long time, and I have not found any clues."

Realizing that he made Guan Ze a little nervous, Deng Changhua immediately adjusted his tone, smiled slightly, and said, "Don't be nervous, Ze, even if you are not sick, there is no harm in having a regular psychological evaluation, don't you think so?" ? I just mean well."

Guan Ze took a long breath and said in a low voice, "Thank you very much, Dr. Deng."

"No need." Deng Changhua blinked at Guan Ze, and laughed at himself, "You know that the world is not good, and my business is not good. When I meet a potential client, I can't help but want to pull him over. Don't worry too much about it."

Guan Ze reluctantly hooked the corner of his mouth and said, "I know."