Two top traffic after getting married

The psychiatrist Xu Youyao found was her mentor, a very kind woman named Du, who is almost 50 years old this year and one of the domestic authorities in psychology.She used to teach at the Medical University and also worked in the Affiliated Hospital of the Medical University. Later, she resigned and opened a psychological clinic. She often went abroad for meetings and gave lectures on psychology. Too busy, not so good time.

As one of her favorite students, Xu Youyao would take the initiative to come to her to study and help when she was on break. Her fellow students were also like this. Dr. Du did not ask them to resign to help in his clinic. The patients here are all for her, and the students here do not have the opportunity to get independent diagnosis and treatment; secondly, there are more patients of all kinds in the hospital, which is more conducive to the accumulation of experience for the students, which is not available in her clinic.So instead of working full-time with her, she hopes that students will be more exposed to various psychological problems. In the future, when they have enough experience and have patients who can trust them, they will talk about it when they want to do it alone.After all, Chinese people still have a relatively shallow understanding of psychology. It is difficult for a psychology clinic without a foundation to have a good room for development. Doctors are a profession that requires continuous accumulation of experience. If there are no patients, they cannot make progress and lose their prospects.

Xu Youyao knew the level of his tutor, and those from the same school who could stay with the teacher were tight-lipped and trustworthy, so he dared to let Wen Yu come over.She thought that there was something wrong with Wen Yu, or that Yu Ying was too stressed by work and needed treatment, but she never thought it would be her idol!

Dr. Du talked with Ye Yansheng alone inside, and Wen Yu was invited to the family lounge, where fruit and drinks were provided.Different from ordinary clinics, Dr. Du's psychological clinic is decorated very warmly, unlike a clinic, it looks like a residence with an office atmosphere.The place is not considered hidden, but there is no big signboard, and more patients come here on admiration, or are introduced by acquaintances, so privacy is also guaranteed.

Xu Youyao rolled Wenyu's eyes several times, wishing that the black eyeballs would disappear, and scolded Wenyu 180 times in her heart, but since this is a clinic, it's not easy to conflict with Wenyu, so she was about to vomit blood .

The senior sister who came to help with her today also took a few glances at Wenyu. Her good professional ethics prevented her from asking, inquiring, or even observing carefully. After all, Wenyu was not a patient.

When Xu Youyao came in to refill him tea for the third time, Wen Yu finally said, "If you have anything to say, just say it, if you keep rolling your eyes, I'm afraid you'll have to go to the ophthalmology department."

Xu Youyao didn't dare to speak too loudly, let alone show her anger, but said with a cold face: "Brother, I didn't expect you to be such a person, I have to have a good talk with my aunt."

"Why am I such a person? What do you know?" This little girl is embarrassed to say that she is Ye Yansheng's fan, and Wen Yu naturally won't tell the truth. When can it be installed.

Xu Youyao was confident: "I know my sister-in-law has come to see a psychiatrist, and you must be responsible for it!"

Wen Yu tapped her head with a magazine: "Speak well, just call her name."

Afraid that Ye Yan's voice would be upset and he was too embarrassed to say it, he would remind him a few words first.

Xu Youyao didn't want to talk to him: "Since you're married, treat him well, otherwise I'm going to call my family to hold a criticism meeting for you!"

Wen Yu chuckled: "Don't worry about it, I know what I'm doing."

Xu Youyao sneered: "I believe you are a ghost!"

Wen Yu snorted: "Do you want to have dinner together at noon?"

Xu Youyao's eyes lit up, and his tone became friendly: "Brother, what are we having for lunch?"

Wen Yu didn't know much about the neighborhood, so he asked, "Can you recommend a place that's not too noisy?"

Xu Youyao immediately took out her mobile phone and began to search. Her brother's treat, among other things, must be expensive. In addition, Ye Yansheng is also there, so it must be in line with his taste. As for what Ye Yansheng likes, there are others Do you know better than their true fans?without!have!

Unknowingly, Ye Yansheng chatted with Dr. Du for an hour and a half. Dr. Du asked Wen Yu to come in, and told the two people about her judgment.

The result was the same as the previous consultation - stage anxiety disorder.

Wearing glasses, Dr. Du said about the content of the record: "I agree with the doctors Mr. Ye has seen before. Compared with drugs, psychological overcoming is more effective and more effective in curing. But both of you must be mentally prepared. Treatment is not immediate, it needs a process. Mr. Wen, as the other half of Mr. Ye, works hard to overcome with him, and the success rate is greater. I hope that Mr. Wen will pay more attention to him and give him more care in the future. the basic."

Wen Yu listened calmly, nodding from time to time, and it seemed that he was listening attentively.

Ye Yansheng felt a little embarrassed. It would be fine if they were really in love, but the problem is that they are not in that kind of relationship. I don't know if the ideas provided by Dr. Du will be effective.But having said that, with Wenyu accompanying him to listen to these, he felt less nervous.

Dr. Du continued: "When trying to improve things like anxiety and phobias, we must avoid the idea of ​​overnight success and be prepared to quit. We must consider possible emergencies and anticipate possible setbacks. , have a positive understanding of failure. I will elaborate on this step by step in a moment, and I will also make a list for you, so you can adapt step by step."

"This is not an insurmountable problem, so Mr. Ye, don't give up just because of a few failures. It's like your trainee's debut. It has to go through a process. It is impossible to arrange for you on the first day of registration. Are you going to debut?"

Ye Yansheng couldn't help laughing: "Doctor Du actually understands this."

Dr. Du raised his mirror: "There is no way, there are too many new things now, and if I don't keep up with the rhythm of you young people, I, a psychiatrist, can't talk."

Ye Yan nodded in understanding.

Dr. Du: "To treat this kind of psychological problem, you have to be prepared to endure discomfort. After all, you need to go out. Of course, this kind of 'discomfort' should be within your acceptable range. If you adapt too forcefully, it will only be counterproductive. The most readily available resource for you now is that you have someone who supports you, which is very important. If you have anything you want to talk to, try to talk to him, and trust him more.”

After that, Dr. Du told them the step-by-step method and the points that need attention, and made a list.The three of them exchanged WeChat. If there is any problem, they can communicate with each other at any time. In the early stage, they come for follow-up visits every month. If the situation improves later, they don’t need to be so frequent.

After chatting for another hour, Ye Yansheng left with Wenyu.It also happened to be lunch break, Xu Youyao changed her clothes early, and even touched up her makeup, looking extremely energetic.

After getting in the car, Wen Yu introduced the two of them carelessly.

"Hi sister-in-law!" Xu Youyao's voice was so sweet that half a catty of sugar could be exposed.

Wen Yu's white eyes are no smaller than Xu Youyao's before.

Ye Yansheng also greeted her politely, and didn't mind her address too much. This time, he also asked Xu Youyao to help. There are some things that Wen Yu didn't mention and he can't say it clearly. Xu Youyao can call her whatever he wants.

"Sister-in-law, your skin is really good, what kind of skin care products do you usually use?" Xu Youyao asked cheerfully, she was not the kind of little fan who was speechless when she saw her idol.

Wen Yu interjected: "Call the name."

Xu Youyao turned a deaf ear and continued, "My skin has been super dry recently."

Ye Yansheng actually had no objection to this title, it was just a title.

"I'm not too sure about those products. My agent is preparing them for me. If you need them, I can ask you." Like most men, Ye Yansheng has no research on skin care products. Cheng helped him prepare, which set to use in which season, and when to change, he didn't need to worry about it.

Xu Youyao smiled and said, "Don't bother, just go back and take a photo for me, I can tell the difference."

Ye Yansheng didn't refuse, it was just a little effort.

So the two exchanged WeChat.

Wen Yu was very speechless. He saw that Ye Yansheng was usually very smart, so why didn't he see that Xu Youyao was using WeChat with empty gloves?However, it may also be because Xu Youyao is not an insider, but also a relative, so he didn't think much about it.

Xu Youyao is very satisfied. She doesn't insist on whether her skin can be as good as Ye Yansheng's. It is the ultimate mystery to be able to use WeChat and the same style as Idol.

Xu Youyao chose a steak buffet. Apart from the high price in line with her expectations, there are also comments that the cakes here are delicious. Unlike ordinary buffet restaurants, the desserts are all similar. This one is really excellent, she thinks Ye Yansheng will like it.

This steak buffet is divided into several price points, and the highest price points are all private rooms, with good privacy.You can use the ipad to order food, which is very convenient and you don’t need to go to the public area to pick up the food.

All kinds of people ordered a table, and the Western food tasted like a family gathering to eat stir-fried vegetables.

During this time, Xu Youyao had been making friends with Ye Yansheng, and those who didn't know thought she and Ye Yansheng were family.

But no matter how close he was, Xu Youyao maintained his professional ethics and didn't ask Ye Yansheng why he went to see a psychiatrist.

Psychiatrists are obliged to keep the patient's information confidential, even for their own students. If they use it as a case, they must anonymize it.Typical occupational psychological problems like Ye Yansheng are rare. Even if the name is withheld, it is not suitable to use it as a case. Dr. Du has already told them about this, so they don't have to worry about it.

So Xu Youyao always felt that maybe her brother was not good enough to Ye Yansheng, which made Ye Yansheng feel insecure, or the two of them were in the entertainment circle, and everything was under the camera, which made Ye Yansheng feel pressured. I wanted to be a counselor, but I didn't think it was a serious matter.

Naturally, it was impossible for Wen Yu to show Xu Youyao the list that Dr. Du had made for them. If Xu Youyao saw something, it would be troublesome, and the less people knew about it, the better.

"Sister-in-law, when will you hold the concert? Can you give me a ticket then?" Anyway, when he was still at Five1, concert tickets were extremely hard to get, and now she is also a related person, can she Take a small advantage?I heard that there are special VIP seats.

After seeing the psychiatrist, Ye Yansheng's condition is not bad, even if Xu Youyao mentioned such a far-off matter, Ye Yansheng didn't feel depressed: "I don't have this plan yet, if there is a chance in the future, of course I can."

Xu Youyao looked happy, she looked at Ye Yansheng's innocent girl, she didn't look like someone who was a few years older than Ye Yansheng.

"Sister-in-law, don't think that my brother is not serious at home, but our family education is still very strict. If my brother treats you badly or cheats on you, don't bear it."

"Can you expect me to order?" Wen Yu was very helpless. He could understand the girl's voice to Ye Yan, but could she be normal?

Xu Youyao ignored him at all: "If it's not convenient for you to tell my uncle or aunt, just tell me, I will definitely let my brother be kicked out, and all the property will be yours!"

Ye Yan didn't know whether to laugh or cry, he didn't know if this was a cliché used by relatives after marriage, but the kindness was appreciated, even if it was useless at all.

"Hurry up and eat yours, and I have to go back to the clinic in the afternoon." Wen Yu decided not to see her off, and let her walk back by herself.

Eating with Ye Yansheng, is it important to eat?Of course it doesn't matter, the important thing is to look at people! !

But Wen Yu's next sentence made her restrain herself a bit: "Yan Sheng still has to eat."

Xu Youyao immediately said: "Eat quickly, I don't know if this restaurant suits your taste."

Ye Yan smiled and said, "Very good."

At this price, the steak parts are the best, and the taste is naturally not bad.

"That's good, eat more." Xu Youyao also started to eat his own, and fiddled with the phone for a while pretending to have something to reply.

Not long after, her good sister received a message - my little sister-in-law is super cute, super handsome at a close look, with super good skin, she is indeed our idol!