My ex-boyfriend wants to make trouble every day!

After several days of consideration, Shizhao answered without any hesitation, "I think the quality I am looking forward to is right."

"I like people who are kind, upright, and caring. How can such a beautiful quality be wrong? Who doesn't like a good guy and like a bad guy? At least I can't do it."

"I don't expect my lover to be perfect. As long as I love life, respect life, and have kindness not only to me but also to others, then I will be satisfied."

After Shizhao finished speaking, he felt a little more uneasy, "Dr. Kraft, what I said...is it right?"

Shizhao's only few love experiences ended in failure. He has always been convinced that there is no problem in choosing a lover according to this standard, but for some reason, he feels a little guilty.

Was he wrong?If he is wrong, then Charles will definitely help him find his crux!An excellent psychiatrist like Charles should know a lot more about love than him. Listening to Charles is better than him groping alone.

Charles was not in a hurry to give an answer, he asked again, "Then how do you manage a relationship?"

Shizhao took out several of his relationships and analyzed, "I was immature in the first relationship, I didn't pay enough attention to Alan, I thought it was a good lover to meet every day, but I even had good friends with him, and my salary was not enough to support him. Consumers didn't even notice, this is my dereliction of duty as a lover."

Charles smiled encouragingly at Shizhao, motioning for Shizhao to continue.

"In the second relationship, I learned to express my thoughts to my lover. I told him what I liked, but it had the opposite effect. In order to get my attention, he did bad things instead. In this relationship, I did not It is my fault for giving him enough sense of security and failing to explain the scandal in time."

"In the third relationship, I feel that I have done everything I should do. I coax him to follow him in everything. Obviously this is not right. When he shows that he wants to control my thoughts, I should be alert to his character. It has obvious flaws..."

When Shizhao looked back on his relationship, he had grown up, but in the end...it was useless?

"Doctor Kraft, it's too difficult to manage a relationship, and it's too difficult to understand a person thoroughly. I really don't know how to do it." Shizhao was very frustrated, "Why do other people's love affairs go so smoothly? It's my turn." Are there going to be so many problems?"

Charles was thoughtful, "I roughly understand your question."

"?" Shi Zhao asked for advice.

"In these few relationships, what do you lack? Concentration? Security? Independence?" Charles shook his head, "No, these are not important reasons. What you lack is the exchange of ideas. Have you ever tried to deepen Learn about their world and ideas?"

"You don't." Charles' eyes were sharp, but his voice was still soft and gentle, "Your thoughts are divided, you can't understand them, because you never really understand them thoroughly, not other people's evaluation, Not what other people think, but the soul in that body."

"You say you are lovers, but you are actually no different from strangers. Your psychological defense mechanism refuses to accept a new and strange thought."

Charles' sharp eyes became quiet again, "This is just my personal opinion. Love is the fusion of two souls. There is no doubt that split individuals will cause all kinds of troubles."

"But..." Shi Zhao frowned, "I don't want to touch those bad thoughts."

"If you don't understand, then even the only way to understand will be blocked." Charles said with a relaxed tone, "You have the ability to judge right from wrong, good from evil, and when you find that such a soul is not the soul you need, pull away and leave What's wrong with that?"

Shizhao was trying to digest Charles' words.

"A soul mate will make you ignore all external factors. What you lack is to try." Charles pulled the topic back, "I agree with those qualities you love, never give up hope, believe in the good things in human nature part, and one day you'll find the one that's right for you."

Charles could agree with his point of view, which made Shizhao nodded happily, "Well, I won't give up." Giving up just because of a few failures would be too useless for him.People who study psychology like Charles have seen all kinds of positive or negative thoughts, and can always maintain a positive attitude to heal clients, which fully demonstrates the importance of understanding thoughts.

Next time... If there is a next love, he will try to understand a soul as Charles said.

In the following conversation, Shizhao talked about his recent life and feelings. In front of Charles, those initial restraints and discomforts have all disappeared now. After the second meeting is over, he feels very benefited and is determined to come to Charles. Psychological counseling was the most correct choice he had made recently.

"Four days later, I will wait for you here." Charles flipped through his notebook, "You can ask me any new questions you have."

"Four days..."

Before Shi Zhao said anything, Charles could sense his embarrassment from his tone.

"Can't come because of something?" Charles's light gray eyes were clear, and he said kindly: "As long as the consultation is not terminated, it doesn't matter if it is delayed for a few days."

"It won't end. I know it's impossible to solve all the problems with just two consultations. I still need your help." Shi Zhao didn't feel shy about asking for help, and he could afford the consultation fee. "It's just that I have to go out recently. Travel, I don't know how long."

"Travel?" The corners of Charles' mouth curved slightly. "This is really a good choice. Travel will make you relax."

Charles kindly explained to Shizhao several ways to relax during the trip, and said that he could be consulted for any problems encountered during the trip.

Shi Zhao thanked him, no matter what Charles said was polite or truthful, he himself was not going to bother the doctor during the time outside the consulting room. After all, the consulting room was paid for consultation, so he felt at ease and consulted during the rest of the time. , he didn't want to owe any debt of favor.

Shizhao didn't pack a lot of luggage. He thought the trip lasted for a week. After a week, the company had finished investigating everything that should be investigated. His boss Angus said that there was no way he could waste time on travel.

Angus and Diana are two completely opposite people. Shizhao has never seen Angus engage in any entertainment projects. Diana is different. Even though she has a very successful career, she has not settled down. Shizhao was very envious of Diana's free and easy lifestyle.

As soon as Shi Zhao finished packing his luggage, Diana's bodyguard came to pick him up.They didn't go to any public airport, but drove to a private apron, and boarded the private jet without changing their expressions. This time, there was no jealousy in their hearts.

Sometimes the gap is too big and we can only look up, with a normal mind, a normal mind.

Diana returned to her normal attire, and Shizhao couldn't help but utter her compliments with that charming style, "I don't know how many people would envy me for going out with such a beauty, I can already imagine that this is an event. What a wonderful trip."

Diana, who was used to hearing compliments, laughed from the bottom of her heart because of Shizhao's words, "Honey, traveling with you is a pleasure, you look so handsome today."

Shizhao couldn't be unhappy when a beautiful woman praised her handsomeness, "Thank you, you are beautiful too."

Angus, who was sitting on the side, looked at the two people admiring each other, "..."

Diana didn't forget the "protagonist", she stood up, took the time photo and arranged the time photo to sit next to Angus, and asked the time photo, "Now, what do you think Angus has changed today? "

Shizhao turned his attention to Angus, change?After Diana said this, Shizhao realized that Angus was...very different from the past!

"Boss...you, have you changed your hairstyle? And this kind of dress..."

Angus usually looks like a social elite wherever he goes, with suits, trousers, shirts, ties, and hairstyles that remain the same and neatly groomed.And this Angus, whose jet-black hair was fluffed and messed up by pomade, piled up from bottom to top, made into a very popular "bullet" nowadays, wearing a white T-shirt on the upper body, printed on the T-shirt A Donald Duck, with a pair of brown slacks on his lower body, and with that lazy expression, he looks like he was just picked up from a university dormitory. This is very different from the Boss in his impression!

How old is Angus?How young? !

Seeing Shizhao's shocked expression, Diana raised her eyebrows proudly, "Does Angus look good dressed like this?"

"It looks good!" Shi Zhao replied without even thinking about it. With Angus's face, no matter how he dresses up, he will not be ugly. The dress in the workplace makes Angus look indifferent and unkind. Such an ordinary dress, he feels Angus looked a lot cuter.

When Angus heard Shizhao's words, his originally expressionless face finally had other expressions. He frowned in confusion, and was a little suspicious of Shizhao and Diana's taste, "... how good is it?" ?” Such a childish and ridiculous dress, will it look good?

"Boss is also a young man, so he should wear some clothes that young people should wear." Shi Zhao showed his thumb, "Casual clothes are also great!"

Angus turned his face away, a blush spread from his neck to his face, he coughed twice, "I was very young."

"Don't look at how mature Angus is. In fact, he just turned 26 tomorrow. I really don't know who he learned from. He has made himself several years old..."

"Wait! Diana, how old is Boss?" Shi Zhao wondered if he had heard it wrong. Angus, who had taken over several branches and had a "sky garden" on the top floor of the Tron Building, was still developing his business. ,many!few!age!

"To be precise, today is 25 years old." Diana blinked, "Stop calling him Boss, you are not in the company, we are so familiar, just call him Angus."

"25 years old..." Shi Zhao stared at the boss in front of him with complicated eyes. He never thought that the boss he admired would be someone younger than him.

Both are young people, isn't the difference too big!

"What's wrong?" Angus asked suspiciously.

"No wonder..." Shi Zhao changed the subject with a dry smile, "The smell of sugar on Boss is even stronger, young people, it's normal to like sweets."

Angus' flushed face turned dark instantly.

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Angus: I just look a little old...

10M: Actually younger than me! ! !