the city I love

Zhang Zhihuai was given away to others since he was born, just because a fortune teller said that he had a hard life and would overcome his father and mother.His grandma was a very superstitious person. Hearing this, she immediately demanded that the child be aborted. It was his mother who knelt on the ground and begged to give birth to him, but his mother bled and died when he was born. Grandma was even more convinced that he would kill his relatives, so she forcefully asked his father to send him away.

He grew up in the countryside. The family was very poor and lived in an adobe house, which is rare. When it rained heavily, he had to worry about whether the wall would collapse.When he was young, he was most worried about rainy days, the bed would get wet, his mother’s face was always sad, and his sisters would take bowls to catch the rainwater leaking from the roof, and they would take turns pouring water after a while .

At that time, the family already had three daughters, and even though they were poor, they still wanted to have a son. In their view, having a son meant having a queen, and they didn't have to worry about no one dying when they died.However, they were really worried about what would happen if they had a daughter in the next child, so his arrival became the hope of the whole family.

He was really raised as his own son. The rare eggs were given to him first. After buying food and earning some money, he took him to rip cloth and make clothes. The partiality is so obvious, but his The sisters didn't show any complaints, and they smiled and went up to protect him when others scolded him.

At that time, the whole family had only one bed, and all six members of the family slept on that big bed. It was okay when he was younger, and he and his sisters could play and fight on that bed.Later, when he grew up, his father in that family cut down a tree and made a bed for him, so he moved to another room.

At that time, it was really too poor. The sisters were very envious of the girls whose parents bought flowers for them to wear during the Chinese New Year, but they didn’t have any, so they used scissors to cut flowered cloth strips and put them on their heads.People in the same village laughed at them. Although he was young, he knew how to protect his family, so he rushed to fight with them to vent his anger for his sisters. After being easily pushed to the ground, the man was embarrassed by his three sisters.Now I can't help laughing every time I think about it.

Later, when my father was decorating the house, he accidentally fell off the stairs and lay on the bed unable to move. My mother's hair was mostly gray, and he had to take on the important task of supporting the family.He does everything. When he is busy, he hardly closes his eyes for a few days. The master who takes him is half pitiful and half admiring. From time to time, he will introduce him to some more work.He dropped out of high school not long ago, so he is naturally inferior to those who have received higher education. All he can do is to work hard.In fact, it’s okay, he is very diligent and honest, and many people are willing to find him to work. Tired is a bit tired, but after a few years, the family’s debts will be paid off. Finally, the house was refurbished and rebuilt, and he no longer had to worry about having no place to hide in the rain. His three older sisters were all married from that small bungalow, and one cried harder than the other before leaving.

At this time, he was already 30 years old.Earlier, his parents were worried about his marriage, but at that time the family was poor, plus three older sisters who hadn’t left the house, and a father who lay on the bed and needed to take care of him, many people saw that his family’s environment was not good. No matter how willing it is, or put forward very excessive conditions, asking him to step in and stop meddling with the affairs here.He was very angry and disappointed when he heard it. He just felt that it would be better not to end the marriage if it was so utilitarian, so he dragged it on until now.