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Wu Zhongyuan said these words to the girl. Although he just said it casually, it was the only correct way. No other way could prove his innocence, including "having been together for so long, he didn't even do this" There is no trust at all, including "We should respect each other, you can't invade my privacy," and all kinds of angry and noisy things, which can only show that you are guilty and that you are hiding something from the other party. If you really have a clear conscience , you can openly let the other party check it, even if you are very disgusted with the other party's behavior of not trusting you, you have to prove your innocence before getting angry in an argument or even breaking up with the other party. If you cannot do this, you will have to prove your innocence to the other party. All doubts and criticisms are not qualified to deny or refute.

The girl couldn't move or even speak now. She was in confusion and shock because of the sudden inability to move. However, Wu Zhongyuan didn't want her to say anything. He turned to the boy who was also stunned and said, "You have to know how to check the other person's phone." What is the nature of it? This is a huge distrust of the other party and will seriously hurt the other party's feelings. Once you make such a request, the other party will only have two choices: agree or disagree, which is equivalent to forcing the other party to a dead end. If she really has no problem, you have to think carefully about how to compensate her; if she really has a problem, you have to be mentally prepared to lose her."

After Wu Zhongyuan finished speaking, he disappeared. He did not leave, but just disappeared. He was not sure whether there was anything wrong with the girl and wanted to see the boy's reaction and final result.

After he disappeared, the two of them regained their freedom. After both looking around, their eyes focused on the mobile phone. This was the girl's mobile phone, but it was now in the boy's hands. Since the time was still short, the screen of the mobile phone had not dimmed yet. Lock.

Wu Zhongyuan really hopes that the boy will take the initiative to return the phone to the girl, and he also hopes that the girl will hand the phone to the boy. If this can be done, it means that one of the two parties is tolerant and the other is okay. This is the best result.

But it was a pity that after the boy came to his senses, he immediately turned around and walked towards the west with his mobile phone. The girl quickly followed him and reached out her hands to snatch the mobile phone.

The boy refused while checking. Wu Zhongyuan was next to him. He wanted to see what the boy had read. The boy directly clicked on WeChat and scrolled down the contacts. He didn't stop while scrolling down. He must have found nothing suspicious.

Just when Wu Zhongyuan was wondering why the girl was behaving so abnormally since there was no problem, the boy clicked on the WeChat address book and clicked on the new friend at the top of the address book. At this time, the problem arose. Last night, the girl passed two When applying for adding friends personally, the boy clicked on the chat page between these two people, but there was not a single word in the result. If there is no chat record, there is a problem, because when adding friends, a greeting message will appear, and even the greeting message does not indicate the chat information. It has been deleted, and the fact that there are no avatars of these two people on the main page indirectly illustrates this point.

The boy then clicked on the friend circles of those two people and found that they were full of things to do, including luxury cars and villas, skiing and golf, exquisite food from various luxurious Western restaurants, and photos of various luxury goods.

In the friend circles of two different people, the boy found the exact same photos of vacation in the Maldives. Even the shooting angles were exactly the same. He immediately understood that these two people were scammers who stole the pictures. But unfortunately, the girl no longer Listening to what he said, she no longer paid attention to his scolding and questioning. She grabbed the phone, became angry with shame, and left angrily.

The truth was already very clear, and there was no need to ask any more questions. However, the boy still chased her and asked why she lied. The girl drooped her face and remained silent.

Seeing this situation, Wu Zhongyuan sighed. It was obvious that although the boy asked for the truth, he was not mentally prepared enough. The so-called psychological preparation is divided into two parts. One is the psychological preparation to accept the truth, and the other is the psychological preparation to lose the other party. Psychological preparation, when a person's disguise is exposed,

You will definitely become angry and end the relationship immediately. This is actually a hypocritical and cowardly escape.

The ancients said that no one can make mistakes, especially young people. If they make mistakes in a moment of confusion, as long as they can recognize their mistakes and are willing to correct them and actively compensate the injured party, they should still be given a chance. After all, for people who have made mistakes, it takes courage to stay shamelessly. Compared with those who get angry and cut off the relationship after their disguise is exposed, this kind of people can still be saved.

However, the premise of giving a chance is that those who have made mistakes should position themselves correctly and no longer expect to be on an equal footing with the person they have hurt, because people who have made mistakes are ultimately people who have made mistakes. It is unfair to those good people who always love alone and are cautious and prudent if people do not pay the price and cost of making mistakes.

The boy kept chasing the girl for an explanation, asking the girl what he did wrong, but the girl made up her mind, walked quickly with an expressionless face, and stopped talking to him.

Seeing that she was pretending to be cold after she had done something wrong, Wu Zhongyuan couldn't stand it. He wanted to possess the boy and give her a slap, but he gave it up after thinking about it. This kind of person is not one, but a kind of person. He slapped her. If you don't come here, you won't be able to wake up.

Enlightenment is a very elusive thing. It is not like doing something. You have planned it before, and you have to overcome obstacles all the way to achieve the goal. The light of inspiration may not flash at any time. If you ask for it intentionally, you will not get it. After restraining the thought of the possessed boy slapping the girl, Wu Zhongyuan suddenly thought of a question, which he had never thought about before, which was the joy, anger, sorrow and joy after gaining a glimpse of the great road. He was very worried that he would suffer because of it. I have lost my joy, anger, sorrow and joy as a human being because of the clear glimpse of the essence. Now I think that my worries are unnecessary. Even if I have a clear glimpse of the essence of yin and yang, I will not lose my joy, anger, sorrow and joy because of it. It is just more open-minded, just like everyone knows that in the end They will all die, but this does not affect their efforts to live, and understanding the nature of yin and yang does not mean that all four elements are lost.

What is the biggest trouble and obstacle for a person to improve his career? The answer is fixed thinking. Before this, he subconsciously believed that being a god should not have joy, anger, sorrow, and joy. The reason why he had this idea was because in the eyes of the world, gods are transcendent and different from ordinary people. If Just like ordinary people, this god is not a real god, and is not worthy of looking up, respecting and worshiping. He may even be suspected of cheating.

There is a saying that foreign monks can chant sutras. The meaning of this sentence is that people always look down upon people they do not understand, but tend to look down upon people they are familiar with. The reason why this happens is because of the They know the people around them and are familiar with them, but they are strangers and do not understand others. For people they do not understand, people will subconsciously feel awe. This situation is actually related to people's fear of the dark. The truth is that in a dark environment, people cannot see clearly what is going on around them, and they are afraid because of the unknown. Because I don’t understand others, I look down on them, but I don’t know that many times the really powerful people are right next to me, but I just ignore them.

He grew up in modern times, and his consciousness was also established in modern times. His consciousness has obvious modern characteristics, which not only helped him a lot, but also caused him a lot of trouble. He always It is to understand gods according to modern people's cognition. This is his problem. It is like looking at people through colored glasses. It is difficult to be fair and objective.

What exactly are gods like? The answer is "certainly not what the world thinks it is." Why? Because the world has never seen a real god, the god in their eyes is shaped based on their own cognitive level, personal preferences and personal needs. To put it bluntly, the god in the eyes of the public is actually what they want it to be.

In fact, gods must all have emotions, anger, sorrow, and joy, and they are not stereotyped characters. Although they have mastered huge abilities and can distinguish yin and yang clearly, they have not lost their humanity.

In addition to being limited by his own inherent consciousness, the reason why he went into misunderstandings before was that he cared too much about the opinions and attitudes of the world. He was worried that the results of enlightenment would not be understood and accepted by the world. Caring too much about other people's opinions was also a problem for the world. A common problem is that everyone wants to be recognized by others. If you want to be recognized, you can only do what others want you to do.

Everyone hopes to be respected by others. If you want to be respected, you must not do things beyond the cognitive level of the world, and strive for success within the scope of the world's definition of success.

Many people end up living the way others want them to live, or the way the society needs them to live, instead of the way they really want to live.

This flash of inspiration took away the last bit of Wu Zhongyuan's confusion, and the direct result was that he possessed the boy. However, he did not hit the girl because the girl was still young and what he did was just a bad omen. It’s not really a red line that was hit.

Although he controlled the boy's body, he did not suppress the boy's consciousness. The boy also knew what he said next. He took a few steps and grabbed the girl. The girl wanted to get rid of her, but failed.

"We are still young, and everything we do may not be right, but you shouldn't lie to me." The boy said loudly.

"Let me go. Since you don't believe me, why are you dragging me down? Let's just break up!" The girl struggled to twist her arms, but she still couldn't get rid of the boy.

"If we break up, we'll break up," the boy said loudly, "but you have to make it clear. You lied to me first. What qualifications do you have to get angry at me? Just because I exposed your lies, are you angry and furious? Let me tell you , no matter how angry you are, things are still there. Do you think that if you get angry and confuse yourself, my thinking will be confused with you? Let me tell you, my mind is very calm, my thinking is very clear, and I am not confused at all. "On the one hand, you want good results, but on the other hand, you want excitement. Let me tell you, there is no such beautiful thing in the world. You have to pay the price for excitement."

Because the boy's voice was so loud, everyone nearby stopped to watch and whisper.

"you……"

"What are you doing? Have I wronged you? You know it in your heart. Go away. I don't want you anymore." The boy snorted coldly, turned around, and walked away.

There will be no fierce conflict in a true heart-to-heart relationship. When one party's feelings fade away, it is better to leave calmly than to be entangled.

He detached his soul and returned to his body, only to find that the communication device on his wrist was vibrating.

"Huh?" Wu Zhongyuan pressed the call button.

"Boss, why did you go to the university again? Have you eaten?" It was Fang Yi's voice.

"I just finished eating and was trying to reason with college students." Wu Zhongyuan said casually.

"Oh my God, you should do your job properly. That's not what you should do," Fang Yi said helplessly, "Come back quickly. Everyone is here, waiting for you to come back and choose..."?