My Haughty Adorable Wife Has Arrived

Why did this naughty kid say anything? Su Xiaowan was so angry that she couldn't stand it anymore. As soon as Tangtang finished speaking, the living room was silent for a second. Tangtang seemed to feel that something was wrong, but she didn't Understand where the problem is.

So, he turned to look at Su Xiaowan and found that her mother's face was so ugly, and the look in her eyes was so scary.

At this time, it was obviously not the time to educate the naughty kid Tangtang. Just as he was about to say something, Xiao Changchang from the Yonggu family suddenly ran up to her mother and said to Tangtang angrily: "You can't It's very rude of you to say that to my mother."

The atmosphere suddenly became tense, and Tangtang was not afraid of anyone speaking, but was afraid that no one would answer her. She didn't think she had done anything wrong, so she raised her face and said, "Why am I not polite? What I said is the truth. When I was in class, there was a child who didn't speak well and was slapped by the teacher. From then on, he didn't dare to speak. "

"Our teacher said this is for his own good. Why are you being mean to me? Humph, I'm not afraid of you."

Upon hearing this, Guoguo also echoed and said, "Yes, Tangtang is right. The teacher beat her so hard that time that she even cried."

As soon as Tangtang and Guoguo finished speaking, everyone breathed a sigh of relief. Second aunt hurriedly came over to smooth things over and said, "Hey, that's what Tangtang meant. It was your brother Chang who misunderstood you. Changchang, why don't you follow me quickly?" Sister apologize?"

The child Song Shichang blushed and wanted to say something, but his second aunt glared at him and stopped him talking. Song Yong's cousin sister-in-law, whose face turned even redder, didn't know what to do.

Su Xiaowan was even more embarrassed at this moment and wanted to find a crack in the ground to crawl in. She quickly stood up and said, "Second aunt, cousin, I'm not good. This child talks nonsense because I didn't discipline him properly. Changchang is protecting his mother." It couldn’t be more correct. It’s your sister Tangtang’s fault. Tangtang, please apologize to your aunt and your little brother.”

Tangtang was said to be confused, and her second uncle and grandma had already said that it was not her fault, so why did she have to apologize? However, when she turned around and saw her mother's stern expression, her momentum became a little lower. However, she was stubborn and would never apologize if she didn't think there was something wrong.

Therefore, when she tilted her head, she had no intention of apologizing at all. Su Xiaowan turned red with anger, and Han Dongchen also darkened his face. However, this is educating children in other people's homes. What's the point of educating children in other people's homes? Son.

When the second aunt saw it, she immediately smiled and said: "Hey, look at you, why are you so angry? It's a child's unintentional remarks. She is only five years old, what does she know? Tangtang is also kind-hearted, Xiaowan, do not do that."

At this time, the cousin of Song Yong's Gu family also said with a coaxing smile: "Cousin, don't, don't, don't, don't blame Tangtang, no, no, it's okay."

This cousin is actually a very nice person, good-natured and kind, but she has a problem with her speech. The more nervous she is, the harder it is to speak.

After she said this, Su Xiaowan's face became even more irritated, and the second aunt took some candies and melon seeds for everyone to eat. While taking them, she said: "Xiaowan, you and Dong It’s my first time to come to my house in the morning. Don’t be polite to your aunt. Just let the kids play outside. We haven’t seen each other for a while. Let’s chat.”

Su Xiaowan smiled unnaturally and said, "Second aunt, you guys talk first, I'll go to the bathroom."

After that, he said to Tangtang: "Tangtang, go with mom."

Tangtang was a little unhappy, but she seemed to be brave. Although she didn't understand why her mother was angry, she thought about it and felt that she had done nothing wrong, so she plucked up the courage to follow.

Although she was beaten at home, every time she was beaten, there was a reason. Moreover, her mother almost never spanked her outside. Her mother also once said that she should learn to stick to her own opinions. If she thinks there is nothing wrong, she should stick to it. , unless someone else is more reasonable than her.

Tangtang has always done very well in this matter, so she is very stubborn and very independent. Similarly, at a young age, her self-confidence has been cultivated very well.

However, children who are assertive and confident are usually naughty, but this naughtiness is also for adults. Children do not think that they are naughty.

Why are adults angry? That's because the children did not act according to the wishes of the adults and were out of their control.

Not to mention that adults like to control children. They want to control everything from behavior to language to thoughts. At the same time, adults also want to control everything about adults.

Otherwise, why would there be so many quarreling couples, quarreling families, quarreling colleagues, and quarreling neighbors? The reasons for the quarrels are just trivial matters. In fact, they are very simple. They all want the other party to be like themselves, and they want the other party to listen to them. Yes, it’s about wanting to control everything.

If you are not satisfied, you will get angry and argue to solve the problem.

Su Xiaowan's family was no exception. However, Su Xiaowan was always angry, but she would try her best to control her temper, even if the children embarrassed her outside.

She would not directly deny the child, or get angry and hit her directly, which is such a barbaric and rude thing.

However, simple and crude methods are not conducive to children's understanding of the world, self-understanding and correct self-evaluation. Parents are children's first teachers and bear the important responsibility of understanding the world and society.

So Su Xiaowan needs to have a good talk with Tangtang, and many children will be timid after feeling the changes in their parents' emotions, because in the children's world, parents are the absolute authority.

However, the rare thing is that although Tangtang is timid, she is very brave.

Tangtang is a curious child, and she is also a straightforward person. She says whatever she wants and can't hide her words, which makes Su Xiaowan very helpless.

However, Su Xiaowan also knows, what does a five-year-old know? She is at the age of curiosity, and it is also the time when she can't hide her joy, anger, sorrow and happiness. Psychologists say that childhood is the period closest to the self and follows the principle of happiness, so she can't think too much.

Therefore, at this time, parents need patient teaching and guidance, instead of getting angry and suddenly storming because the child embarrassed her outside, making the child lose his temper.

Su Xiaowan knew that she might not do the best, but she would try her best to do it and control her temper. So, when she went to the bathroom, although she was very angry, she whispered: "Tangtang, do you know what mistake you made just now? Why did your brother Xiaochang say that you are impolite?" Tangtang frowned at her young age, and her face was wrinkled like a little bun. After thinking for a long time, she said: "Mom, brother Xiaochang is because of what I said to my aunt, but I have thought about it and I am right."js3v3