My Best Wife

After listening to this, Bi Luochun did not immediately answer Fang Zhiqiang's words. Instead, he took a long breath, and after a long period of indulgence, he finally slowly said: "Actually, in your situation, in the final analysis, it is because of you. Scum."

Fang Zhiqiang frowned again, perhaps because he was a fan of the authorities. For Fang Zhiqiang, no one was scumbag for himself.

"Everyone who is troubled by love is actually very clear. The reason why he is troubled and confused is because he wants too much. In fact, there are some people and things, no matter how hard you work. Unable to get it." Bi Luochun continued.

"Just like me and Yanzi at the beginning, I was so poor before, but she didn't complain with me, but what happened later? I am rich, but when I want to share the joy of success with her, I find that she It’s no longer the same Liu Yan. At that time, I was wondering whether the person I was looking for was the one I really wanted in my heart? I didn’t find out until after we reconciled. In fact, she is still her. She herself has not changed, but her attitude towards me has changed."

"Speaking of this, I also want to remind you that you and Wang Yaxin, you two, actually I have always wanted to say something, but I don't think it is appropriate. In fact, you both know in your heart that you have a little bit of misfortune towards each other. The reason why you haven't taken that step is because you are too greedy."

What Bi Luochun said made Fang Zhiqiang more and more puzzled. He wondered what Bi Luochun's phrase "insatiable" meant.

"You are not only greedy for the other person, but you are also greedy for what the other person can give to yourself. You are also greedy for fame and for what others think of you. To put it simply, you have done something that makes others feel wrong, and you want to let others I have a good evaluation of you, so I think this is scum." After Bi Luochun finished speaking, he turned his head and glanced at Fang Zhiqiang.

Sure enough, Fang Zhiqiang was speechless at this moment, and Bi Luochun's words were far beyond his expectation. Something he had never thought of was actually said clearly by an outsider.

Looking back now, everything Bi Luochun said is so true.

Whether it is Wang Yaxin or himself, as Bi Luochun said, it is indeed greedy, too much greedy!

"In fact, sometimes things are not that complicated. Just like when I chased Yanzi, I only wanted Yanzi to promise me. I am not greedy for other things. As for whether she will treat me well after agreeing, others What will say about our affairs again, for me, I don't care at all, because at the time I only wanted to be with Yanzi." Bi Luochun continued.

Fang Zhiqiang couldn't help but nodded. If he and Wang Yaxin had the same idea, perhaps the two would have already been together.

The car continued to drive forward, and Fang Zhiqiang did not realize at this moment. The sky outside gradually dimmed, and the street lights next to it were getting less and less. They had already driven out of the West Fourth Ring, which was the western suburb of the Pearl.

"Furthermore, you and Li Xiaoxiao, I know you had a lot of conflicts during the period before your divorce, but for any couple, how can there be no conflicts at all? When I and Yanzi are usually good, they are like glue, but when they quarrel, They both hate each other, but afterwards they will be the same as usual, what to do. But you and Li Xiaoxiao are not such people, you are both the kind of people who are not good at venting, and you like to hold everything in your heart. In fact, this will hurt your feelings a lot. My understanding of Li Xiaoxiao may be limited, but you and I know very well that you have nothing to talk about before me. In a sense, you In fact, a very talkative person, but in Li Xiaoxiao, you are like a completely different person. From the previous misunderstandings, you can see this. Sometimes you don’t like to explain, even if you notice When the other party is angry, you still choose to remain silent. In fact, at that time, if you have a big fight, it might make you both feel relieved."

Bi Luochun’s long speech made Fang Zhiqiang seem like a divine enlightenment. He previously felt that these words would not have much effect even if they were uttered, but now he realizes that people always appear to be plausible when persuading others. It is indeed because the onlookers are clear, and Their suggestions can indeed solve many problems for myself.

"Finally, to talk about the company's affairs, in fact, for me, as long as my current life is a little better than before, I think about the time when I had nothing, and then I think about the current state of life. It's not funny. Even if Huaqiang fails, even if we all end up as ordinary people, isn’t it the same as before? You said that at the beginning, the big deal is to change back to the original. For us, there is nothing to lose. The fame, money, and status gained in the past few years are treated as gifts from God. Don’t you just let it go?"

Fang Zhiqiang agreed with Bi Luochun's emotional remarks, but Fang Zhiqiang could not agree with his opinions on company issues.

"Old Bi, you don’t realize that the company is actually not yours or mine, nor a company of a single individual, but the company of our entire team. What you said is correct. For us, it’s a big deal. Looks like, but when I was at Mingda, I realized that once the company collapsed, it is not just that we have nothing. Following our team, so many employees will lose their job opportunities and even give them a life. Bringing a huge blow, think about when we were impoverished, the most frightening thing every day at that time was being fired from our boss. Once we lost our job, we felt that the whole world would collapse." Fang Zhiqiang said seriously.

Hearing this, Bi Luochun nodded, and then said: "I said that. In fact, it depends on how you think about this kind of thing. If you can think like me, even if you don't get it in the end, you will not. It will be too frustrating. If you think like you do, then naturally, you have to be responsible for everyone. Although this will make you very tired, you are just as happy and motivated."

"Moreover, what I said is not to waste your time. We will do what we should do, and we will not be lazy if we work hard, but if the final result is really unsatisfactory, there is no need to be so entangled. After all, , All the strength we can use has been used up, what is there to regret?"

"As for Liu Jiaying, I really don’t know much about this woman, but according to what you said, I also think this woman should be an uncertain guy. There are all kinds of people in this world. You can choose to go. Make friends with people you are interested in, but you can’t decide what kind of people will approach you. For someone like Liu Jiaying, when will she approach you, you can’t choose, but you can choose to avoid her because, In the process of getting along with her, you cannot find a suitable and effective way to deal with her."

While talking, Bi Luochun looked out the window. At this time, the sky was completely dimmed, and the car had completely reached the suburbs.

Fang Zhiqiang finally noticed the dim sky around him. Then he looked out the window. With the help of the weak light, Fang Zhiqiang saw that there was a very narrow country parking road in front of the car, and on the right side of the road, it seemed to be An invisible ravine, on the left is a hill that is unknown how high.

But at this time, Fang Zhiqiang was also obviously not interested in this. Regarding what Bi Luochun just said, Fang Zhiqiang continued: "In fact, Lao Bi, many times your ideas are really good, but if you use it on me, it may be It’s not appropriate, perhaps because of the difference in our identities, or it may be because you and I look at things from different perspectives."

"In fact, to make it simpler, it’s because our three views don’t agree. You think this is right, and I think it’s right. In fact, there is no right or wrong at all. Going on, as long as you can get the results you want, as long as you can experience the happiness you want, it's right." Bi Luochun said casually.

These words made Fang Zhiqiang nod again, and could not help but fall into a period of thought.

There are many people in this world, all kinds of people, what kind of people have three views, almost everyone has a completely different idea, for a farmer, he just wants it to rain. When it rains, so you can have a good harvest. But for a businessman in a freight company, he hopes that it will not rain, otherwise it will delay his business.

Suppose that if these two people are placed at the same time and in the same place, they will have these two completely different ideas, and their ideas themselves are not wrong.

For another example, some people feel that since they have come into this world, they can't do nothing, even if they can't make a huge contribution to society, they must at least realize their personal value and enjoy the lifestyle and status of those upper-class people.

However, people who have this kind of thought will definitely have another kind of thought. They believe that the most important thing in the world is contentment and happiness. Only inner happiness is the most real thing, money and reputation. , But it's all clouds. To pursue those things for a lifetime, isn't it turned into loess in the end?

No one is wrong with the two ideas originally, but if you stand on one of them and look at the other idea, obviously for you, the other idea is wrong.

It is precisely because of this that there are various evaluations in this society.

A successful person will be judged by some people like this: "That person simply got into the eyes of money. He makes all kinds of money. It's utterly conscience!"

And a person who is not doing anything will also be evaluated by some people like this: "Look at him, you know eating, drinking, and having fun all day long. He is not motivated at all. Compared with others, he is too unpromising!"

If the person being evaluated is affected by these evaluations and even influences his own thoughts, then he will fall into self-doubt and think whether his own thoughts are really wrong?

Therefore, the successful person may be troubled by this. Although he has so much money, he has not gained the respect of others, but in their eyes, he is so shameless.

As for the mediocre person, originally he was very proud of his current state of life where he didn't want to think about anything. This could indeed make him happy.

However, if he is influenced by those evaluations, he will probably feel that he is really useless? In such a large society, there is no place where you need yourself, as if you exist or not, it will not have any impact on anyone at all?

Thoughts are very magical. Once people fall into thinking, they can’t stop digging deeper, trying to dig out the deepest and most real things, but in the end, you will find out, in fact, those you The "real" thoughts are, after all, only strange ideas.

And that thing is inseparable from its origin.