Siheyuan: Tanjia Cuisine He Daqing, destroying Yi Zhonghai

"Yuzhu, everyone will encounter difficulties in life. What's important is how we deal with them." He Daqing's tone softened a little. "We can't let these difficulties overwhelm us. Instead, we should learn to draw experience from them and constantly improve ourselves."

Yuzhu listened to his father's words and struggled in his heart. He knew that his father's words made sense, but at this moment he needed more understanding and comfort, not extra pressure. He lowered his head a little uneasily, his heart full of confusion and uneasiness.

"Dad, I know you're doing this for my own good, but sometimes I really find it hard to do so." Yu Zhu said slowly, "It's not that I don't want to face the problem, but sometimes I just feel powerless."

He Daqing felt a little soft in his heart when he saw his son's reaction. He knew that although Yu Zhu's current behavior made him dissatisfied, as a father, he should understand and support his son instead of just expressing his dissatisfaction with him verbally.

"Yuzhu, I know you're under a lot of pressure right now. Maybe we can find some solutions to the problem together, or maybe you need some time to relax." He Daqing's tone was full of concern, "But please remember that no matter what difficulties you encounter, Dad will be by your side to support you."

After hearing these words, Yuzhu's heart gradually calmed down. He felt his father's love and understanding, and although these moments made him feel a little tired, he also understood that he needed to find his own strength from these difficulties.

That night, He Daqing and Yu Zhu sat together in the living room and talked about some light topics, trying to ease each other's emotions. Although the problem was not completely solved, the communication between father and son made their relationship closer. At such a moment, He Daqing felt a deep sense of responsibility. He knew that as a father, he should not only pay attention to his son's growth, but also understand his inner struggle and confusion.

In the following days, He Daqing found that Yuzhu began to behave more calmly and rationally when facing work problems. The communication between them became more open, and although there were still some small disputes occasionally, the overall atmosphere became more harmonious. He Daqing felt a little relieved, knowing that this progress was accumulated gradually, and mutual understanding and support were the key.

The winter chill enveloped every corner of the courtyard in a solemn atmosphere. The heavy curtains kept the cold wind out of the door, while the house was filled with warmth. After a series of reflections, He Daqing decided to talk to Xu Damao again. He felt an urgent need to get things properly resolved to protect his son's dignity and mood.

This morning, He Daqing walked to Xu Damao's home with a bottle of warm tea. He was in a heavier mood than the last time they met. This conversation was not just for mediation, but to make Xu Damao realize the inappropriateness of his behavior and ask him to apologize for his previous words and deeds.

He knocked on Xu Damao's door and waited for a while before Xu Damao opened the door. Seeing He Daqing's expression, Xu Damao frowned slightly, but still politely let him in.

"He Daqing, good morning. How come you have time to come to my house today?" There was a hint of uneasiness in Xu Damao's tone.

He Daqing nodded, walked into the house, sat down, and got straight to the point: "Xu Damao, I came here this time to talk to you about the rain column. I think we need to further clarify some issues from our last conversation."

Xu Damao's expression became solemn. He sat down, his expression showing some nervousness: "Okay, He Daqing, tell me."

He Daqing poured some tea from the teapot, handed it to Xu Damao, and then took a deep breath: "I know that you are very dissatisfied with Yu Zhu's problem with the equipment, but your attitude towards him seems a bit too harsh. Especially your words at that time, which made him feel very aggrieved. I think this is unfair to him."

Xu Damao frowned, looking a little confused: "He Daqing, I didn't mean to be harsh on Yu Zhu, I just hope he can take the use of the equipment seriously. I'm doing this for his own good, I hope he can learn from this experience."

He Daqing felt a little helpless after hearing this. "Xu Damao, I understand your original intention, but excessive criticism in words often makes people feel unnecessary pressure, especially for a young person. Yu Zhu did not intend to damage the equipment, and he was also trying his best to do his job. As elders, we should help him with an attitude of understanding and support, instead of making him feel further pressured."

Xu Damao looked a little embarrassed. He lowered his head and thought for a while, then finally sighed: "I understand what you mean. Maybe I was a little too aggressive in handling this matter. Maybe I was too anxious about the damage to the equipment."

He Daqing was slightly relieved to see Xu Damao's attitude soften, but he knew that this was not enough. He needed to take further action to make his son feel that his dignity was upheld.

"Xu Damao, I hope you can apologize to Yu Zhu." He Daqing said directly, "Whether it's in person or through me, I hope you can give Yu Zhu a clear apology. Doing so is not only a respect for him, but also a way to make up for yourself."

After hearing this, Xu Damao showed some hesitation and uneasiness. He realized that his behavior had indeed hurt Yu Zhu, but he still found it difficult to apologize.

"He Daqing, I know that what I said may have hurt Yu Zhu." Xu Damao's tone was a little helpless, "but asking me to apologize in person makes me feel a little overwhelmed. I will try my best to correct my attitude and treat Yu Zhu more gently in the future."

He Daqing listened to this and nodded slightly: "This is the result I hope for. If you can apologize directly to Yu Zhu, he will feel more respected and understood. After all, this is not only fair to him personally, but also a reflection of our mutual respect for each other."

Xu Damao was silent for a while, with a hint of confusion in his eyes. He finally stood up and extended his hand to He Daqing: "Since you have said so, I will consider your suggestion. Thank you for reminding me."

He Daqing held his hand and felt a little relieved. He knew that although the matter was not completely resolved, this kind of communication and understanding was already a great progress. No matter what the result was, at least the relationship between him and Xu Damao became clearer because of this conversation.