Siheyuan: A Cook in the 60s

With this idea in mind.

I feel much more relaxed.

Until I met Lou Xiao'e.

To be honest, if it was just another cousin.

I don't think there is anything wrong.

We used to be sisters.

Now we are sisters too.

This is not just a close relationship.

But this woman, Lou Xiao'e, is very strange.

She is obviously a woman, but she always likes to touch me. Moreover, she is very hateful and calls me a pig.

How good can she be? She is Lou Xiaogou. She thinks I don't know that I was doing that for the sake of my dignity as the queen and I don't bother to make trouble with her.

Yes, I don’t want to quarrel with her. This is a memoir and I won’t lie.

Wei Ge'er's attitude was also very direct.

After the negotiation was completed, someone was sent to propose the marriage.

The speed was so fast that it seemed like a dream.

In fact, in our countryside, even if two families like each other.

That requires a lot of discussion.

It is very likely that after a round of negotiation, no agreement can be reached and the discussion will have to go back and forth several times.

But Wei Ge'er did not do that. He asked his master for help and went straight to propose marriage. With that kind of betrothal gift, no one in the entire Qinjia Village could say "no".

That's really nice.

My father said I was lucky.

I don't admit it. I would rather have the bad luck of a pig.

While waiting for the wedding, there is actually only one word to describe the feeling, and that is "anxious".

Fortunately, Brother Wei came to see me several times before he got married.

I am really afraid that this will be cancelled.

According to later generations, Wei Ge'er was a playboy. What should we do if he fell in love with another girl?

In fact, I knew it was impossible. The betrothal gift had been paid, the letter of introduction had been issued, and the marriage certificate had been obtained. How could he possibly go find another girl? But I was just afraid. Before that day came, I was just afraid.

It's funny to say.

The day I had been longing for has arrived.

He came to pick me up on his bike.

When I leaned on his back, I actually fell asleep and slept very comfortably.

I don't know why, but I always feel comfortable when I'm with Wei Ge'er. He said he likes me, hehe.

I am very happy.

There are actually a lot of things to do after marriage.

Family matters, originally, just figure out when to get coal, when to exchange food, and clean the room, and that's it. Although this is strange to me, it's just a different way of doing housework, and I'm very familiar with it.

But Lou Xiao'e said that Wei Ge'er is a man with high aspirations, and he will definitely have great development in the future. If he does not keep up with him, I will not be considered his main wife.

snort!

I knew she just wouldn't give in.

She also wants to be the queen.

She is so brave!

But her words also made me alert.

Speaking of which, I have to thank her.

Although Brother Wei also told me that one must always find a long-term interest for oneself.

But how would I know what interest is?

After I got married, I actually felt like I had completed my life mission. The days ahead would be smooth sailing. I would raise a few children, take good care of the home, and wait for the children to grow up and take care of us in our old age. When I was in the village, it was like this, passed down from generation to generation.

He suddenly told me about his interests, and I was a little confused.

Interest, what is it?

I don't understand.

I originally wanted to ask my cousin.

But after thinking about it, I decided to ask Lou Xiao'e.

She is the most educated and the most powerful.

Bah, bah, bah, I’m not the best, but I do have some knowledge.

To be honest, at that time, I didn’t understand what interest was, nor did I know what life was.

Lou Xiao'e asked me what my plans for the future were.

What could I have planned?

Since Wei Ge'er can make money, I will definitely help him manage the family.

She asked me if I would feel bored.

boring?

This word is really interesting.

I asked her, doesn’t everyone go through this?

Why do you feel bored?

She told me that this is the case for ordinary people, but for a man who has three women, it is naturally different. The queen cannot just say that she is the queen.

I asked her what the queen was going to do.

She told me that I had to be able to teach my children, manage the house, and do the accounting...

I said with some surprise, isn't this what I want to do?

She said it was different.

First of all, we need to know what interest is.

interest?

After going around in circles, this question comes back again.

In fact, this is a problem of cognition.

At that time, I didn’t know anything. I only knew that educated people were powerful, but I didn’t know what the use of studying was.

She told me that reading can make people wise. Being wise means having more opportunities. In today's words, it means increasing your tolerance for mistakes.

Simply put, a knowledgeable person has more choices. He can do what others can do, and he can also do what others cannot do.

This is the value of reading.

For me, it's complicated.

But I want to learn.

But Lou Xiao'e's words are always confusing and a little hard to understand.

Fortunately, I have Brother Wei.

When I asked Wei Ge'er questions, he was always able to break them down and explain the logic behind them to me. Even if I didn't understand, he would touch my head and tell me not to worry, as I would understand them eventually.

Thinking about it now, life was really comfortable back then, hehe.

In the second year of our marriage, we gave birth to twins.

But it hurts so much, it hurts so much.

Brother Wei feels sorry for me and says he won’t have any more children in the future.

At that time, I felt that it didn’t seem to be that painful and I could still give birth.

After the baby was born, the family became busy. My master's wife moved in, and Lou Xiaogou didn't dare to come over. Hehe. One bad thing was that my cousin didn't come over either. How miserable Wei Ge'er must be.

Lou Puppy is a bad woman.

I am very sure.

Because of the environment here, she couldn't stay any longer and had to leave.

The night before she left, she told me that she was leaving and would take Wei Ge'er with her.

I'm not a fool, how could I believe it!

Both dolls are here...

But she told me that she was pregnant and she was going to Hong Kong.

I know that Wei Ge'er is very powerful. Although he didn't say it, I know that he was very limited at that time. If he really went to Hong Kong, it would be a good choice.

It was at that time that this thought scared me.

What should I do now that Wei Ge’er is gone?

I was terrified…

She asked me to go to Shichahai. If Wei Ge'er wanted to go with her, she would let me go out and cry. Maybe Wei Ge'er would not leave.

I went there, and when I saw Wei Ge'er kissing her, I was really scared, really scared.

Wei Geer followed her...

However, it turned out that Lou Xiao'e was a bad woman!