The progression of Alzheimer's disease is a long process, and it is not obvious at first, but only vaguely.
Gradually, more and more things were forgotten. One time, the old woman went out to buy groceries and could not find her way home.
The son realized something was wrong with his mother and took her to the hospital for a checkup, where she was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease.
At that time, my son was still thinking of his affection and took care of her with all his heart.
He even quit his job to take care of his mother at home.
Afraid that his mother would get lost, he thoughtfully made her an identity tag and hung it around her neck.
But later, as the disease progressed, his mother seemed to be a completely different person.
The old man who was originally so virtuous and gentle became more and more irritable and often made noises.
She also often had assumptions. One moment she suspected that her daughter-in-law had stolen her snacks, and the next moment she said that her son had stolen her money.
Later, she became completely unfamiliar with people and often made a fuss with a broom to drive her son out.
Later, she even forgot to urinate and defecate, and either got it all over herself or on the bed or sofa.
The son and daughter-in-law followed behind to clean up. They had been busy all day, and it was not peaceful at night.
Because the old lady would suddenly get up and bang on the door and shout: "This is not my home, you take me home! I want to go home!"
One night in the middle of the night, she suddenly got up and said she wanted to cook for her granddaughter. After turning on the fire, she suddenly forgot what she wanted to do and turned around to go to bed.
If the son hadn't gotten up to go to the bathroom and saw a fire in the kitchen, the house would have been burned down!
No matter how much emotion there is, it will soon be wasted under the torture of the disease.
My mother's illness became more serious day by day, tormenting all her relatives.
Raising children is about pursuing hope, and the growth day by day is visible to the naked eye.
But there is no hope for raising a mother like this. It's like cutting flesh with a dull knife, torturing bit by bit, and then slowly dragging the patient and family members into the abyss without stopping.
One night, the man sat beside his mother's bed for a long time, then stretched out his hand to strangle her.
He thought that instead of living like this and making everyone suffer, it would be better to die.
Later, his wife discovered and stopped him.
The daughter-in-law said: "It is against the law to kill someone, not to mention she is still your mother! If you really can't bear it, why don't we throw her away. Throw her somewhere else, far away. Whether she lives or dies, it all depends on God's will!"
That night, the man tossed and turned in bed and stayed awake all night.
The next day, he bought a bag of snacks and sent his mother more than a hundred miles away to throw them away.
The moment he turned around to leave, he didn't feel reluctant at all. Instead, he breathed a heavy sigh of relief, feeling that the mountain that had been weighing on him for several years was finally lifted.
At this moment, when these unbearable scandals were exposed on the Internet and faced by many viewers, the man's emotions collapsed.
He covered his face and cried, howling: "I really can't stand it! I can't stand it!"
[I also have such a patient in my family. It is indeed like this. Endless torture and despair every day. 】
[Although I sympathize with him, I cannot abandon the old man no matter what. Think of it as the grace of upbringing when you were a child. 】
[I really can’t bear to find a nanny. You were very annoying when you were a child, and your mother didn’t abandon you. 】
[Upstairs, do you think finding a nanny is so easy? Not many nannies are willing to take care of such an old man. Of course, no matter how difficult it is, the elderly cannot be abandoned. 】
Faced with such a thing, Sang Feiwan was helpless.
After all, she is not a god, and there is no way to reverse the aging and disease of the brain.
At this time, the door opened again, and a young girl hurried back.
She is the granddaughter of the old lady and a fan of Sang Feiwan. I usually watch other people's stories on live broadcasts, but I didn't expect that today I would be the one to blame myself.
Seeing his daughter coming back, the man felt guilty and said, "Girl... why are you back?"
The girl said: "I just watched the live broadcast, and I know everything about grandma. You...hey! Dad, you and I will take turns taking care of grandma from now on. No matter what she becomes, she will always be our relative."
"How can this be done?" The girl's mother stood up and objected, "You don't go to work? You don't want to have a future? Do you know how difficult it is to take care of a patient?"
"No matter how difficult it is, she is still my grandma!"
At this time, the old lady who had been silent suddenly moved her eyes and looked at her granddaughter beside her: "Little girl, who are you? Why are you here?"
The granddaughter said: "I am Feifei, do you remember Feifei?"
"Feifei?" The old lady was stunned, and her cloudy eyes lit up slightly, "My granddaughter's nickname is Feifei, and yours is the same as my granddaughter's nickname."
The granddaughter said: "Grandma, I am your granddaughter, I am Feifei."
The old lady shook her head: "That's not right. My granddaughter is only five years old and hasn't grown that big. But you look familiar to me. What's your name?"
"Grandma, my name is Feifei. If you take a closer look, who am I?"
The old lady looked at her carefully and suddenly said in surprise: "Oh, you look just like my Feifei."
The granddaughter said: "Grandma, I am Feifei. When I was a child, my parents were busy with work and had no time to take care of me. It was you who raised me. Grandma, you would braid my hair in different patterns every day. The children nearby were envious of my grandma. My skillful hands. Grandma, I am your Feifei!"
Tears rolled out of his cloudy eyes. The old man held his granddaughter's face and confirmed over and over again: "She is my granddaughter. You are really my granddaughter!"
The granddaughter also cried, hugging her grandma and feeling extremely distressed.
But soon, the old man's expression suddenly became confused again, "Where are you? Who are you? Where is my granddaughter? I want to find my granddaughter!"
"Grandma, I am your granddaughter."
"No, my granddaughter is only five years old, not as old as you. Who are you?"
"I'm Feifei, grandma."
"Feifei? My granddaughter is also called Feifei, and she has the same name as you."
……
The old woman's memory deteriorated and she forgot everything except her granddaughter when she was a child.
But at this moment, even though her granddaughter reminded her over and over again, she barely remembered it and then forgot about it in the blink of an eye. Like a fish's memory, it can only last a few seconds.
The girl was not discouraged. She said to her grandma: "It doesn't matter if you forget me. It's fine if I remember you. Grandma, you gave birth to my dad and helped bring me up. We will never abandon you no matter what - right?" ,dad?"
The man squatted on the ground, holding his head and crying.
The old woman who had forgotten her son suddenly stood up when she heard him cry and said, "My son is crying. Is he hungry? I don't have enough milk. What should I do? I don't have enough milk! Oh, I'm going to make porridge." Porridge……"
The old woman was about to rush to the kitchen as she spoke, but her son hugged her and cried loudly: "Mom, my son is unfilial! My son is sorry for you!"
This is the mother who gave birth to him and raised him. She pulled him up with a lot of shit and piss, and helped him take care of his children wholeheartedly. She raised two generations of people. How could you abandon it so cruelly?
……
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