Married to a wealthy family by mistake, got married without seeing her husband

Mother Meng said, "I am very pleased that you think this way. There are more and more independent women in modern times, girls are seeing a wider world, and more and more people are unwilling to get married or have children. I have seen too much , I also think that everyone’s ideas should be respected. I respect people who are willing to get married, and I also respect people who don’t want to get married..."

Meng Ziyin, "Mom, when you called me last week, you said that I was about to turn 25 and urged me to get married and have children as soon as possible. Now you say that it doesn't matter whether we get married or not, which one of you should I believe? ?”

Mother Meng smiled helplessly, "While I hope you get married early, settle down early, and have children early, I am also worried that you will be trapped by marriage, family, and children at such a young age, and your career will be ruined. No An opportunity to see a wider world.”

Meng Ziyin said, "Mom, don't worry about this. Even if Chongchong and I get married and have children, we will continue to work and will not let ourselves be full-time wives. We still have many, many ideas that we want to realize."

Si Lian said, "Auntie, you probably don't know yet. The performance of the studio between the three of us is getting better and better. I estimate that if we work hard for another year and a half, we can pay off all the mortgages."

When Si Lian mentioned the house, she thought of her grandma again. She specially decorated the room for her in the new house, but her grandma could no longer live in it.

Because the lights were turned off, no one noticed her emotions.

Mother Meng and Mother Tang were very happy when they heard that their studio was doing well, "You have been doing this since your third grade. After all these years, your hard work has finally been in vain."

Meng Ziyin said, "Mom, aunt, you all go to Xiangjiang to celebrate the New Year this winter. Xiangjiang is not cold in winter, and it is much more comfortable than our winter in Jiangbei."

The two mothers said in unison, "Okay, don't dislike us when the time comes."

Si Lian, "No. When the time comes, we will let you eat all the delicious food in Xiangjiang."

Mother Meng said, "Okay, okay."

"Let's not talk about food and fun. We haven't finished talking about the business yet." Mother Tang forced the topic back, "I tell you two, you must have your own job after marriage. Only you can make money, and you can have it at home. You have the right to speak, don’t be blinded by the so-called love. Men in the world are all pretty much the same. Many of them talk nice, but in reality they are just bad people. But there are good men, but they are hard to find."

Meng Ziyin said, "But I think Uncle Tang treats Auntie very well."

Tang’s mother, “What you see is superficial. A true marriage relationship is like a fish drinking water and knowing whether it is warm or not.”

Mother Meng, "Yes, your Aunt Tang is right, especially not like Aunt Li in Building Six."

Both Si Lian and Meng Ziyin had an impression of Aunt Li mentioned by Meng's mother.

Probably during their senior year of high school, Aunt Li took her three-year-old and one-year-old children and committed suicide by drowning in the river.

It is said that the trigger was when Aunt Li asked her husband who went to work in the morning for the day's grocery shopping money.

Her husband threw a few dollars to her and scolded her for doing nothing but eating at home.

Aunt Li is raising two babies by herself, one is three years old and the other is less than one year old. Babies of this age cannot be separated even for an inch. Anyone who has taken care of them should know how difficult it is to take care of them.

Not only does she have to take care of two children, she also has to buy groceries, cook, and do housework...

These jobs are tiring enough, but her husband still nags her for a long time when giving her money to buy groceries, accusing her of not doing anything but eating.

Life has overwhelmed her, and the only person she can rely on has become so cold and callous. This is the last straw that breaks the camel's back, forcing her to take her two daughters to a dead end.

Originally, Aunt Li also had her own job, and the workplace was quite good. After she got married, she was given birth by her husband's family and her natal family.

She gave birth to two children for the family one after another, and because they were both daughters, the family also wanted to give her a third child.

In order to have a baby, she quit her job and became a full-time housewife...

Full-time housewives work very hard, but they don’t get the respect they deserve. In the eyes of many people, full-time housewives are just idiots who don’t work or work...

In the final analysis, both men and women must be able to make money by themselves and have money in their pockets so that they can live the life they want and not be controlled by others in everything.

When Meng Ziyin mentioned this Aunt Li, she still felt frightened when she thought about her mother.

She turned over and hugged Meng's mother tightly, "Mom, thank you for coming out."

Mother Meng patted her on the shoulder, "Silly girl, your mother is not that stupid. Life is so precious, you must cherish it every day."

Si Lian suddenly asked, "Aunt Meng, Aunt Tang, do you still remember what my mother looks like? Can you tell me what she looks like?"

When it comes to Si Lian's mother, even after so many years, Mother Tang and Mother Meng still have a particularly deep impression on her.

Mother Meng said, "Remember, of course I still remember."

Tang's mother said, "Your mother is very beautiful, very beautiful, and has a temperament, but occasionally you can still see a bit of her in you."

Si Lian, "Do my mother and my father love each other?"

Tang's mother said, "Of course we love each other! They are college classmates. They fell in love and got married freely, and their relationship has not diminished after marriage. They often go out as a couple. You don't know how many others your father and your mother envy.

At that time, we had to have children immediately after getting married, otherwise others would make irresponsible remarks about whether we could not have children or not, and we should go see a doctor.

At that time, your mother didn't want to have a child so early, but your father didn't want to have a child. And your father withstood all the pressure from the outside and didn't let those remarks hurt your mother. "

Si Lian said, "My grandma often tells me that my parents love each other very much, and that my mother is very gentle... But I don't understand. If this is the case, then why does she want to divorce my father and why she doesn't want my father and me?" What’s up?”

Neither Tang Mu nor Meng Mu could answer this question.

After a moment of silence, Mother Tang said, "What can we say about feelings? I can only say that things are impermanent."

Mother Meng, "Maybe your father and your mother have only so many fates."

Meng Ziyin said, "Chongchong, do you want to find your mother?"

Si Lian didn't say a word. There was no child in the world who didn't miss his mother, but she didn't even know what her mother looked like or her name.

Grandma just told her that her mother was very beautiful and had a nice name...

Tang's mother said, "Your mother left immediately after she said she was going to leave. We didn't know they were divorced until she left for a long time."

Mother Meng said, "Xiao Lian, if you really want to find her, let's send out a missing person notice. Now that the Internet is so developed, it should be quite easy to find someone."

Si Lian shook his head, "No."

What if that woman has already formed a new family and has children of her own? If she goes to find her, it will only cause more trouble for people.