Siheyuan: Rebirth 54 years ago, neighbor is stupid

"Why? Isn't it good for a girl to be gentle and sensible?"

Li Tieguo didn't quite understand.

Li Zhenmin shook his head, sighed, and said: "This is not a matter of gentleness, nor is it a matter of being sensible or not, but a kind of inferiority in her bones. As long as others are stronger, she will lower her head and dare not refute, even if she is reasonable. .”

"Do you think this is good? If you get married in the future, won't you be bullied?"

Li Tieguo recalled following Li Zhenmin's words, still a little puzzled.

He wondered: "Is it that serious?"

If this is really the case, then you should really take it seriously. Your daughter is your heartthrob and you must not be bullied after you get married!

Li Zhenmin sighed again and said, "You also said that I forget things easily. Don't you think you are the same?"

"What's wrong with me?"

"You seem to be very protective of me, but in fact you have never cared about her from her perspective. You just feel that you owe her something, but you don't know what to do."

"What do you mean?"

"I mean, Lao Li, you are a rough guy and your observations are not detailed enough. You think he is just sensible and gentle and doesn't want to argue with you because he loves you. But is this actually the case?"

"Is not it?"

"Of course not. He doesn't argue with others. It's not that he doesn't want to, but more that he doesn't dare! This is submissive, which is not sensible and gentle. Think about it, Lao Li, what about Director Shen of the human resources department in the factory? He is also gentle. They are both sensible, but what are they like? Comparing and contrasting, is it obvious?"

"..."

Li Tieguo was immediately silenced by Li Zhenmin's last words.

Shen Wenyin's appearance flashed in his mind, and his daughter's appearance also flashed in his mind.

In comparison, the difference is immediately apparent.

Shen Wenyin is a very good woman, she is a real lady, very gentle, very sensible, and kind to everyone.

On the other hand, my daughter, so-called kind, sensible and gentle, seems to be a kind of resignation and a cowardly concession?

The family's conditions are not bad now, and they have the support of Li Zhenmin, a famous eldest brother. But Li Wanying seems to be about the same as before?

Except for having the courage to argue with others when someone in my family is being treated unfairly, I am still very shy under normal circumstances.

"Just tell me, what should I do?"

Li Tieguo stared straight at Li Zhenmin, with a little panic and anxiety finally appearing in his eyes.

He is not a person who insists on making excuses without admitting his mistakes.

Since what Li Zhenmin said was reasonable, he was naturally willing to change it.

He can worry less when his son is capable, but his daughter is still young, and this pet peeve is now her biggest weakness.

Li Zhenmin let out a long sigh again: "I checked a lot of information, read a lot of books, and even asked a psychiatrist, and finally came to the conclusion that the second child has a psychological shadow."

"The conditions at home were very poor in the past, and she was always taught to be sensible and considerate, so she kept suppressing her feelings, and over time she became like this."

"She hides everything in her heart. She doesn't like to cause trouble to others. She even wonders if she is too useless. If she is capable, will the family be better off?"

"If she was more ambitious, you wouldn't be so tired."

"Even in extreme cases, I would think about whether she should not have been born. If I didn't have her in the family, would I have been able to go to high school and go to college? Was it because of her birth that my mother was in poor health? Was she a disaster? "

The more Li Zhenmin talked, the more serious it became.

The more Li Tieguo listened, the darker his face became. He didn't refute a word because he felt that Li Wanying might really think so.

Because after Li Wanying was born, there were indeed similar comments among the neighbors, saying that she was a loser and that she had brought bad luck to the Li family.

It wasn't until Li Zhenmin started to gain the ability last year that this kind of remarks gradually faded away.

"Some of these are external factors. If you listen to it too much, you will easily have random thoughts. Now that it is getting better, it will gradually fade away."

Li Zhenmin continued: "But if there are some things that are missing, they are really missing, such as maternal love..."

"We are all men, with rough minds. It is difficult to say many things, and even if we say it out loud, the effect is not good. If we have a mother, the second child will be much better. This is a subtle influence, and I am serious."

Having said this, Li Zhenmin stopped speaking, leaving the rest to Li Tieguo's own consideration.

He said that these were not just a routine for his father to find another companion, but he was also really thinking about his sister.

As my sister grows up, there are some physical things that he and his father can't find easy to explain. If there are other emotional things that arise, then there's no need to guide her.

It would be much better if there was a sensible mother to guide her, even if she was not her biological child.

Li Tieguo also seemed to understand what Li Zhenmin meant.

After thinking for a long time, he sighed and said, "I'll think about it again..."

Li Zhenmin's eyes suddenly condensed and he said: "Mom has been gone for many years, you..."

"That's not it."

"Then why are you? Are you still worried about this? No, you're not thinking about the house, are you?"

"..."

Li Tieguo didn't answer.

Apparently hit the spot.

Li Zhenmin waved his hand and said, "I have saved some money here since last year."

In order to prevent Li Tieguo from saying anything else, he added: "My monthly salary is more than 100 yuan. In addition, when I have time, I help others cook at their homes. I earn a lot of money. I also got some bonuses for repairing the car for the factory this time. This has not been announced, so don’t tell anyone else. In short, I can buy a house with as little as 2000 yuan in my hand now, so you don’t have to worry at all."

Li Tieguo opened his mouth wide and did not recover for a long time.

Can you get it for 2000 yuan?

"What's your look?"

Li Zhenmin took a set directly from the inner pocket of his clothes, took out 500 yuan, slapped it in his father's hand, and said, "Is it enough to buy a house? This is my salary and bonus from the first few days of last month, and some help from last month." Is the leader’s money enough for cooking?”

Gollum....

Li Tieguo swallowed.

500 yuan a month?

brush!

He quickly stuffed it back to Li Zhenmin and warned: "Go and save it tomorrow, don't put it in your hands!"

Li Zhenmin pushed it back directly, took out his bankbook and handed it to Li Tieguo, saying: "There is 1000 yuan in the bankbook. Take it. This is for you. Take the flowers and stand tall. Our family is not short of money." !”

Then he took out another passbook: "This is my own. I also have some money in it, several hundred yuan. I have enough for myself, so you don't have to worry. You can keep your passbook by yourself. I might pay attention when I'm busy." No, so you still have to worry about this family after all, so tell me, don’t worry about it."

Of course, there are still several thousand dollars left in the system space, but I won’t talk about that.

Li Tieguo: "..."

It's someone else.

He knew that the family was not short of money, but he didn't know that it was so short of money.

"you will not...."

"Don't think too much about clean money. You know me. I won't do dirty things or shady things. I won't mess around with my promising future."

"it is good!"

Li Tieguo responded in a deep voice and stopped refusing. At this moment, he felt inexplicably full of confidence.

No matter what happens at home from now on, there is no need to panic.

Suddenly he thought of something again and asked, "How about you and Lao Er have a simple talk, maybe she will be more confident?"

Li Zhenmin sighed, looked at his father with a look of hatred, and said without any concealment: "Old Li, are you running away? Will finding another one cost your life or something?"

"The best way for you, the second child, is not to tell her that there is endless money at home, but to find a mother for her! She is a child and is not as sensible as you. If she knows that there is so much money, then it is not It’s a matter of self-confidence, but it will completely rebound and become the second generation ancestor. Will you be responsible then?"

"........."

Li Tieguo was silent again.

He didn't know how much time had passed before he sighed and said slowly: "I'll give it a try..."