Reborn as a widow in the 70s

Afraid that Zhao Xuewen wouldn't understand, Lu Aiguo decided to break it into pieces and explain it to him.

"Only when you learn to say no can you make true friends."

"Those who really understand you and love you will not alienate you because of one or two rejections. If your rejection alienates you, then this person will never be your life-and-death friend."

"And when you decide to reject someone, your attitude must be firm and decisive. Don't use words like 'maybe' or 'maybe'. Your rejection should make the other person give up completely."

"Similarly, when others reject you, you must also learn to think from others' perspective and respect others' rejection."

"You have to remember that you should never compromise yourself just to cater to others. Your life should be beautiful and should not be used to please those who have no bottom line and are greedy."

Zhao Xuewen nodded as if he understood.

Lu Aiguo touched his furry little head and said, "It doesn't matter if you don't understand. As long as you remember my words, life will make you understand."

Lu Aiguo's words made him think for a long time.

In the past, he could indeed reject other people's requests without any scruples, but it was different now.

The more people he cares about, the more worries he has in his heart!

He is afraid that because of his rejection, the people around him will no longer love him and no longer need him.

Especially the people he cares about and loves!

He doesn't want to lose...

The next day, Zhao Xuewen was woken up by Yaya while he was still half asleep.

"Brother, I want to eat a biscuit, can you open it for me?"

Zhao Xuewen slowly rubbed his sleepy eyes away and saw Yaya lying on the edge of his bed with an iron biscuit box in front of him.

Yaya pushed the biscuit box in front of him with anticipation and said softly: "Brother, please open it for me. The lid is too tight!"

In the past, Zhao Xuewen would have helped her open the box without hesitation, but Lu Aiguo's words yesterday made him hesitate.

After struggling for a moment, Zhao Xuewen said: "Ya Ya, it's time to have breakfast soon. You can't eat these biscuits!"

Yaya looked at him pitifully: "But I really want to eat it!"

Seeing this, Zhao Xuewen quickly turned his head away, not daring to look at her pitiful appearance, fearing that he would agree to her unprincipledly the next second.

"Yaya, if you can't do it, you can't do it. If you delay eating because you eat biscuits, my aunt will be angry."

"You are now a sister. You must know how to set a good example for your brothers, did you know that?"

Zhao Xuewen's tone was very tough, but only he knew how guilty he was behind his toughness.

After listening to her brother's words, Yaya reluctantly touched the biscuit box, and then asked in a low voice: "Then when can I eat it?"

Zhao Xuewen: "Auntie said you can eat it after nap!"

"Okay, then I'll wait a little longer!" After saying that, Yaya turned around and left with the cookie box in her arms.

Zhao Xuewen saw that she was about to walk out of the room, so he quickly stopped her: "Ya Ya!"

"What's wrong!" Yaya turned around and asked.

Zhao Xuewen bit his lower lip and was afraid to speak, for fear of being rejected.

Seeing that he didn't speak, Yaya held the biscuit box and tilted her little head and asked with doubtful eyes: "Brother, what's wrong?"

After Zhao Xuewen took a deep breath, he said, "Are you still going out to play with me today?"

Yaya said without hesitation: "Of course I will follow, you are my brother!"

"Is it possible that you think I'm a burden?"

"Of course not!" Zhao Xuewen explained quickly.

"I'm afraid you won't be able to go because I want to take you to pick out bird eggs today!"

"Really!" Yaya's eyes started to shine with excitement when he heard that he could go pick out the eggs!

"Of course it's true. Let's go after breakfast!"

"Okay, then I'm going to wash up now!"

After saying that, Yaya hugged the cookie box and ran out happily, shaking her two braids.

At this time, Zhao Xuewen, who was sitting on the kang, breathed a sigh of relief, and a happy smile appeared at the corner of his mouth...

After breakfast, Lu Aiguo went to work, and Zhao Xuewen took Ya Ya and ran around with the children nearby!

Only Song Xiuxiu and two little ones were left at home.

Song Xiuxiu put the children on the kang, let them play by themselves, and then started cleaning.

She wanted to go next door after finishing her housework. Sanhong seemed to be in a bad mood recently, and she was worried about whether she was sick.

Zhao Xuewen shot down two house finches with a slingshot, and Douzi climbed up a tree and dug out a few bird eggs.

This made the two little girls Yaya and Qian Cuicui cheer excitedly.

Qian Dasheng, who was standing aside, said happily: "I can roast house finches and eggs. Let's find an open space and I'll show you my skills."

Several people all agreed.

On the way, Zhao Xuewen deliberately walked at the end. When Qian Dasheng found out, he ran over to him and said, "Boss, what's wrong with you? Are you worried about something?"

Zhao Xuewen looked at him and whispered: "Da Sheng, let me ask you something!"

"What would you do if I refused your request that day and didn't let you steal the test papers?"

Qian Dasheng scratched his head and said, "What can I do? Just think of other methods. If it doesn't work, just take the test."

"Boss, do you know that Teacher Gu asked us to take the test again this time. I got a score of 72, and I passed!"

"If I had known I was so awesome, I wouldn't have bothered so much. I would have been beaten with a belt by my dad in vain!"

Seeing that he was off topic, Zhao Xuewen continued to ask: "Wouldn't you hate me if I didn't steal the test paper for you?"

As soon as he finished speaking, Qian Dasheng looked at him with an expression of disbelief.

"Boss, you don't think that the friendship between us is only worth a test paper, do you?"

"It's okay if you don't help me! This is a mistake in the first place, and you are a good student. It makes sense not to steal."

"Besides, I wish you had rejected me in the first place, but now I've made you suffer along with us, and you won't even get the certificate this time. Every time I think about this, I feel uncomfortable!"

Hearing this, Zhao Xuewen patted him on the shoulder and said with a smile: "Why do you feel uncomfortable? Everything is of my own free will!"

Upon hearing this, Qian Dasheng immediately giggled.

"Boss, if you have any use for me in the future, I will definitely help you do it on mountains of swords and seas of fire!"

"Okay!" Zhao Xuewen responded happily, and then continued to move forward.

But before he took two steps, Qian Dasheng came over again, touched him with his elbow, and whispered.

"Boss, is there something wrong with your third uncle's mind?"

Zhao Xuewen rolled his eyes at him displeasedly, and then replied: "Your third uncle is the only one with a brain problem!"

Qian Dasheng pointed his finger not far away and said, "There's nothing wrong with him, so what is he doing!"

Zhao Xuewen looked in the direction he pointed and saw Liu Donglin laughing and running circles around a big tree. After running two or three laps, he started to cry, hugging Song Sanhong and crying...

The passers-by all had their eyes wide open and looked at him as if he were a fool.

Song Sanhong also wanted to dig a hole and bury herself at this time. It was so embarrassing!