Quickly dress up: Become a max-level boss and dress up as a poor kid

Nowadays, everyone wants to have a son, but when it comes time to talk about marriage, they will taste the bitter consequences of favoring sons over daughters. It is really hard to find a wife.

Many girls are treated as objects by their parents, a rare commodity to live in.

Some parents choose a son-in-law, not based on character, appearance, or family background, but based on how much dowry you can give and how much money you can give.The sons-in-law selected in this way are often those with the worst conditions, either the worst person or the worst family background.

But the girl's parents don't care about this. They want this or that. The extremely difficult parents can even use their daughter's marriage to build a brick house for their own family, and they can also get enough betrothal gifts to pass on to their son. marriage.

They know that the son-in-law's family is poor and all the money was borrowed. They also know that after their daughter gets married, she will have to eat rice bran and pay off debts with her husband's family. She can't hold her head high and may be bullied by her husband's family.But they don't care.To them, a married daughter is like water thrown away.

There are also powerful girls who not only ask the man to pay a large betrothal gift to their family and build a house for their natal family, but also ask the man to build a good house, separate the family as soon as they come in, and not bear foreign debts.

Of course, if so many requests are made at once, the man may not agree.It doesn't matter, they increased the cost step by step, building the natal house first, and then raising new conditions.Don't you agree?If you don’t agree, I won’t marry.

After the house is built, you can split the house without incurring debts.At this time, her fiancé became her ally.Young men and women team up to negotiate with their parents, and most of the ones who finally compromise are the old parents.Who makes them want to have grandchildren?

There are very few powerful girls like this.Most of them married and endured hardship together.

Even a powerful girl has a hard time most of her life.Because they cannot escape the shackles of their original family, they always go to their natal family to grab things, dragging their own small family along with them to make selfless sacrifices for their natal brothers.

Families that use their daughters as bargaining chips will also be ridiculed.This kind of marriage will become a topic of conversation among people for a period of time.

But so what?Everyone is disdainful and envious of them.

Moreover, most of the families who do this are thick-skinned and don’t care what others say. They will even take the initiative to speak out and regard it as a merit in their own lives.

The daughter-in-law that the eldest brother married was considered to be "sold" by her family.The Yu family built a house for her natal family and gave her a betrothal gift.It cost more than 1 yuan, which was a huge sum of money in this era.

The new wife’s name is Zhai Yan.After she got married, she was driven around by money.

She bullied the weak and feared the strong. Money came to control her, but she controlled Yu Jiao secretly.

Yu Jiao didn't dare to resist.Ever since she learned about her life experience, she subconsciously regarded herself as an outsider who was dependent on others.

If she disobeys, her aunt will scold her directly and beat her with a broomstick. Zhai Yan will beat her behind her back.

No one spoke for her, no one made decisions for her.

She once told Qian Jinmei: "My aunt makes me do a lot of work and often beats and scolds me. Mom, can you take me back? I don't want to live in my aunt's house anymore."

What is Qian Jinmei talking about?Oh, she said: "If you were obedient, why would your aunt hit you and scold you? Jiaojiao, be good and don't make your aunt angry."

She said nothing about bringing Yu Jiao back.

From then on, Yu Jiao became even more silent and resigned.

Because she understands that no one can help her.

At the end of 97, Zhai Yan gave birth to her eldest son, and her waist straightened instantly.

From bullying Yu Jiao behind his back, it turned into blatant beatings and scoldings.

Qian Jinlai turned a deaf ear to this.A money-losing loser is not even her biological child. Compared with the mother of her own grandson, she has a strong conscience about who is more important.

In 98, in order to pay off the debt as soon as possible, Brother Yu went out to work.

This year, Brother Yu was 22 years old. He had already dropped out of school and farmed at home for several years, and also went out to work.

They really don't want to continue with the days of debt collection at the end of the year.

The only two people left at home are the old couple of the Yu family, Zhai Yan, Yu Jiao and a little baby.

Children cannot live without people, so Zhai Yan refused to work in the fields in the name of taking care of her children.The family of seven people relies on the old couple and Yu Jiao to take care of the land. If they don't cultivate it well, they won't even have enough to eat.

The land of these seven people includes Yu Jiao’s.Ever since she came to Xishan Village and settled in the Yu family, she had her share when the village divided the land.

During the Spring Festival of 98, Brother Yu came back from working outside. He was wearing decent clothes and his leather shoes were polished. He saved 5000 yuan in a year.

Brother Yu is similar to him.

This year, the two brothers paid off all their foreign debts with the money they earned from working.The Yu family can finally raise their heads in the village, without having to worry about being caught at any time and asking "when will I pay back the money?"

Brother Yu also started dating.But I couldn't find the right one after looking back and forth.

It's not that he's picky and doesn't look down on others, it's that others look down on him.

Both Yu brothers have a shortcoming: they are not tall and not strong enough.In layman's terms, they all look like chickens, and they don't look like they can stand up for themselves.

Brother Yu is better, almost 1 meters tall, and Brother Yu is not even 65 meters tall.

In rural areas, when a woman chooses a partner, height and physical strength are very important.This is probably something left over from the farming society and engraved in genes, not because of aesthetics, but because taller and stronger people seem to be better at work.

This is of course not absolute, it just seems.An uncle of Yu Jiao's family is tall, strong, and very strong, but his work is very mediocre and he complains about being tired all the time. He is not as capable as his aunt.On the contrary, it was a thin and small uncle from the neighbor's family who worked as hard as the three of them.

However, people are visual animals, and first impressions are very important.The short brother Yu is always eliminated at the first level.No one came to check whether he was capable.Of course, if inspected, he would still be eliminated.

Because he is not a special case like the neighbor's uncle.He really can't do it.

Coupled with the constraints of a poor place like Xishan Village, Brother Yu's marriage was stuck.

Who wants to marry in a mountain village?Who wants their man to be less strong than himself?

Although he can go out to work and make money, so can people from other wealthier villages and with better external conditions than him. He has no advantage.

Fortunately, in 98, Brother Yu was only 22 years old, so he could continue to search.

In 2000, Brother Yu was 24 years old, and his partner was still missing.This is enough to make parents anxious in rural areas.

They had Yu Jiao's idea.