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Chapter 241: Both sides have to do it

Xiao Jin's hometown, Pingtang County, Guizhou, has a population of ethnic minorities accounting for 58% of the county's total population. It is a place where many ethnic groups live together. The main ethnic minorities who have lived there for generations are Maonan, Buyi, and Miao. It has a unique geographical environment and cultural environment. , forming a rich and colorful folk customs and culture, as well as wedding customs.

The Xiao family is of Han nationality, but due to the influence of local folk culture, the wedding customs naturally adopt local customs.

The marriage customs in Pingtang County are divided into the following steps:

To propose marriage, the groom's family will invite a matchmaker to come to the bride's house to propose marriage.

After the parents of both parties agree to the marriage, a matchmaker exchanges the horoscopes of the two people, and then finds someone to combine the horoscopes for the two newlyweds to see if they are suitable for marriage. Some people don't believe this and just skip ahead. Pass.

Burning incense is a matter of discussing the betrothal gift. At this time, the matchmaker also has to deal with it, and the amount of the betrothal gift, the amount of the dowry, etc. need to be discussed.

After the parents meet and agree on all opinions, they will come out to meet each other and talk about the details of the wedding, such as the dishes, what etiquette needs to be observed, or the number of banquets, etc.

Set the time, that is, choose the wedding date. The more traditional ones will use the birth date and zodiac sign to choose the wedding date, but some people with more open ideas can just look at the almanac and choose a day that is better on the weekend.

When inviting guests, start sending out invitations. Parents should invite relatives, while newcomers, friends or colleagues should invite themselves.

Crying for marriage, girls will start crying for marriage half a month before they get married. There is also a crying marriage ceremony, which uses local dialects and poems to cry for marriage. They will cry for their parents, brothers, sisters-in-law, sisters, etc. Although it is crying But it means good luck and good luck, which Fang Siyu probably won't use.

The above is just a prelude, there are other articles about the wedding:

Starting from the announcement of the marriage information and the invitation of relatives and friends from the hometown, good friends who are similar to the man's age will go to the man's house to drink, chat and play until late at night. The purpose of this is to celebrate their friends. At the same time, it is also to keep away "unclean" things and keep the new house lively. Another reason is that they will help their grooms steal the bride and help prepare the banquet during the wedding.

When the woman treats guests, that is, the married party’s host cooks food for friends at his own home, and cannot treat guests in a restaurant. This room is not necessary, so the following series are exempted.

Celebrate the ceremony, pick up the bride, and send off the bride.

The groom’s parents will accompany the groom to the bride’s house with the help of the groom’s relatives and friends. The gifts include: jewelry tray, red envelope tray, bridal clothing tray, new clothes tray, new underwear tray, shoe tray, red egg tray, and red walnut tray. , braised pig plate, melon seed plate, wedding candy plate.

Another detail is that when the groom comes in with gifts, someone younger and older than the groom will be arranged to pour water for the groom to wash his face.

At 11:[-] in the evening, the groom, accompanied by his friends, will go to the bride's house to pick up the bride. The bride's family will make things difficult for the groom and make him suffer "torture" before letting him in.

The groom’s friends are the ones who help the groom out and knock on the door for him. No matter how much fun he has, he must let the groom in at 11:55 so that he can pick up the bride on time at 12 o’clock.Yes, pick up the bride in the evening.

After the groom receives the bride, the bride's parents can only send her to the door, but cannot go out, so they are not considered as a send-off. The bride's other relatives carry the bride's belongings and gifts to the groom's home.

When seeing off the bride, the bride is carried downstairs by her relatives and then supported by the elders of the groom's family, holding a red umbrella and walking in front.

The red umbrella means celebration and exorcism. Walking in front means that the road is clean and has not been walked on.

After seeing off the bride and walking out of the bride's house, the groom suffers. His friends will buy a lot of eggs a few days ago and then dry them in the sun to stink. This is called rotten eggs.

Use rotten eggs to hit the groom, so the groom will be very miserable. If he is hit by the attack, he will be smelly all over. At this time, no one will help him, he can only suffer.

After the bride and groom arrive home, the groom’s family will cook a late-night snack for the guests. There is only one late-night snack, which is the local specialty - boiled rice noodles.

Then comes the formal wedding banquet, where the groom treats guests to dinner.It's two meals.

There will be more dishes for the second meal, about 12 dishes. The people attending the wedding can go to the groom’s home for the second meal. Of course, they cannot eat outside with the groom’s relatives and friends during the meal. They can only eat in the living room of the groom’s new house. A separate banquet is set for the bride-to-be to have a meal. After dinner, the bride stays with the bride until about 11 o'clock in the evening, and then leaves.

Next, the boyfriend's friends come to make arrangements for the new house, and they play all kinds of prank games.

After the wedding, the bride will return home three days later. During these three days, the bride can only move around in her new house, that is, her new home, and is absolutely not allowed to go out.

Three days later, at around 4 a.m., the bride, accompanied by the groom, returned to her natal home, and then had breakfast and lunch at her natal home.

After returning home, the bride can go out, and the wedding ceremony is truly completed.

Good guy, this custom is very different from that in Fenghua, especially if you pick up a bride at night and get home at 12 o'clock in the morning.

Li Tao was thinking hard and trying his best to take care of both parties. Moreover, on the phone, the Xiao family's parents were already making preparations, cleaning up the room and building a wedding room. Xiao's mother had already gone to the county to buy a gold ring, a gold necklace and a gold medal for Fang Siyu. earrings.

Including the ones for Xiao Jin, Xiao's mother also bought him a wedding suit and leather shoes.

At the same time, the Fang family's parents asked Xiao Jin to quickly take wedding photos with Fang Siyu and choose a wedding dress and dress for Fang Siyu.

Li Tao and Xiao Jin both had headaches after hearing this. Xiao Jin didn't know how his parents decorated their new house. The family was in trouble, so Xiao Jin immediately said that he would give the couple 20 yuan first and let them spend it as they like. Don't skimp.

Li Tao and Pan Ningyun heard this, and sighed in their hearts. They asked for money from their families when they got married to buy a house. But Xiao Jin was better off. His family was preparing for him, and his son gave money directly to his family, and a dozen was 20, which made his eyes tremble. Without batting an eyelid.

Xiao Jin is indeed rich!

What they don't know is that this is not enough for Xiao Jin, but if it is too much, his parents may not know how to spend it. After all, this 20 yuan is already a huge amount of money in Dongkou Village.

Moreover, after the house is renovated, Xiao Jin will not stay there permanently, only for three nights at most. It will still be reserved for the old couple to live in in the future.

Xiao Jin is really filial.

Li Tao and his wife didn't want to mention it, but Xiao Jin said to Fang Siyu:

"Come on, let's study it carefully. What should we do? It seems that we have to go back to Guizhou. Who will follow us there?"

The Fang family's parents immediately said that the entire Fang family would go there, but they also mentioned that when they returned home in three days, they hoped that Xiao Jin would return to Tengtou Village by himself and hold another wedding directly.

It didn't matter, but what Xiao Jin thought about was that it was too much trouble, and a week passed over and over again.

At this time Li Tao said again: "I say Lao Xiao, you should think about it. When you return to Shanghai, will you do it again?!"

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