Reborn in that autumn

"I don't want to have a little misunderstanding with you. A little misunderstanding may cause irreparable things."

"I don't want a little misunderstanding to ruin our relationship. Some things, the final manifestation is very different from the original starting point. The people who see it and the people who do it are likely to have different ideas. This is caused a misunderstanding”

"But we generally believe the so-called facts we see."

"When misunderstandings occur, emotions often control reason, or the other party is not given a chance to explain out of concern for face."

"I hope that no matter what misunderstanding you have about me in the future, you will give me a chance to explain."

“Don’t make decisions when you’re angry.

When one party has been overwhelmed by anger and other emotions, the other party should not use fierce language to fight

A big fight between two people will not help eliminate misunderstandings. Instead, they will make irrational decisions and say hurtful words because they are angry.

You should calm down first and then explain when you feel calmer, but if you stay calm for too long, it turns into a cold war.

"We must resolve the misunderstanding as soon as possible after calming down. Don't let the distance become farther and farther and the gravity become smaller and smaller, causing an irreversible situation."

"A slap in the face can't make a difference. If there is a misunderstanding, each party cannot escape responsibility. I will take the initiative to admit my mistake to you. The key point is to reveal my original intention in the process of apologizing."

"Is that okay? Sister Ye Qiu." Li Zichen said to Ye Qiu.

Ye Qiu thought for a moment, smiled at Li Zichen, and replied: "Okay! If you have any misunderstandings about me, don't keep it in your heart. You can ask me. My heart for you will never change." , even if someone better appears."

Li Zichen replied: "Okay, let's make an agreement."

Ye Qiu stretched out his little finger. Li Zichen understood and hooked the two fingers together. "The hook will not change for 100 years."

"If the hook is hanged for 100 years, it cannot be changed."

“Whoever can’t do it is a puppy.”

"Anyone who can't do it is a puppy."

"You go and take a rest first! I'll go to the kitchen to see if there's anything delicious."

"My brother is very quick to change his mood. I think the only thing that can change his mood now is delicious food."

"I'll go to the kitchen to research and cook a dish for him. Let's see what ingredients Aunt Wang has and see what we can make."

"Give him a meal and forget about it when he gets emotional."

Li Zichen replied: "It's okay, but you should do less, and don't tire yourself out no matter what."

Ye Qiu said: "I understand, then I'm leaving. You go back and rest for a while. You've been tired for the whole day. I'll call you when you can eat later."

"Bye bye" Ye Qiu said, turned around and walked towards Wang Jinghong's house.

After leaving the main courtyard and walking a short distance, they arrived at Wang Jinghong's home. Without going to any room, he walked directly towards the kitchen.

The kitchen was a shed built at the back, without protection from wind and rain, and two stoves were built underneath for cooking.

When Ye Qiu came in, Wang Jinghong and his wife were cooking.

Wang Jinghong was lighting the fire, and Wang Jinghong's wife, Aunt Wang, was cutting vegetables.

Aunt Wang, who was about to take a carrot and cut it, saw Ye Qiu and said to Ye Qiu: "Girl, why are you here? This place is filled with smoke and smells of oily smoke. I will eat it when the meal is ready." I'm calling you back, go back quickly, the smell is too strong, and there's oil. I accidentally splashed oil all over you, and your clothes are too dirty."