Does the villain stepmother have a headache again today!
Chapter 215 You Are Different, They Are Not, So They Don’t Need To Feel That They Are Inferior To Yo
Fu Yuquan was stunned, everyone Guo, He Ma and Li Ma were also stunned.
Madam's words were like sharp knives, suddenly tearing apart the clear sky...
Whether it was in the mouth or outside the buttons, they were all so surprised that they couldn't speak.
Before this, none of them seemed to have thought about it this way; but since Madam mentioned it, everyone seems to be able to quickly find the corresponding in the bottom of their hearts.
Moreover, the impression is more profound and firmer.
If Madam hadn't mentioned it, no one would think there was anything wrong with it; but Madam mentioned it like this, and it seemed that everything was wrong.
Mama He also looked at Madam in surprise.
If the madam is just to amuse the eldest lady, it shouldn't be wrong...
Moreover, Ma'am is still in front of everyone in Guo this time, and she doesn't shy away from it at all.
Unless, the madam wants to teach the young lady a good lesson.
In fact, along the way north, every once in a while, the madam will give the young lady a very impressive lesson.
Of course, it's not just Missy, but also Second Young Master, Fourth Young Master, Fifth Young Master and Sixth Young Master...
Madam is like playing a game of counting soldiers and generals, whoever is selected, will be given a special class today, without warning at all.
But they can hit with precision, and click as far as possible.
You don't need a heavy hammer to beat the drum, Madam's catchphrase.
Yes, it is true that the hammer was not used.
But basically, whenever there is a chance to exercise, my wife is always exercising, and she never tires of it!
Especially the eldest lady, let alone other things, at least in the area of dealing with people and receiving people and things, the current eldest lady is completely different from the previous eldest lady.
The people who are in front of the eldest lady every day may not feel it, but they passed by Yongzhou on the way, and met the acquaintance of the Hou's mansion earlier, the other party said several times, and they have not seen each other for a long time, the eldest lady has really grown up. Smart and transparent...
Listen to these words in reverse.
To say I’ve really grown up means that I didn’t grow up earlier and didn’t understand; to say I’m more intelligent and transparent means that I was dull and didn’t listen, and my mind didn’t open up.
That day the eldest lady's behavior was also decent, she followed the lady's side, observed the words and expressions, and knew when to say something and when not to say anything. There was already a tacit understanding between the lady and the lady, and there was no need for the lady to speak, just a look, everyone The lady knows what to do.
This surprised Mama He a little.
It's just that when leaving, the eldest lady was a little unhappy in the carriage.
The madam asked without raising her head, and the eldest lady also held her chin and told the madam that the other party seemed to be praising her in every sentence, but in fact they were saying that she was not good in the past.
Although she was not very nice before, the other party obviously wanted to flatter her mother.
This kind of method of killing one person to please another is actually not clever, but the other party still thinks it is appropriate and enjoys it. In fact, she can hear it, and the mother can definitely hear it, but grandma and mother are both there, even if they are not happy. It shouldn't be her who showed it, so she didn't say a word the whole time, thinking that her mother would say a word to attack the other party, but in the end her mother didn't, so she was depressed and felt unhappy.
At that time, the madam glanced at the eldest lady and asked calmly, "We are far away as guests, and they greet us warmly. Why should I hate each other and make enemies for myself?"
The eldest lady was stunned.
The lady continued, "Everyone in this world may make you uncomfortable. If you have to go back to everyone who makes you uncomfortable, then if you don't die of exhaustion today, you will die of exhaustion tomorrow. Put your heart at ease. Be more open, sometimes you can’t be friends, but at least not enemies; but more often, inappropriate words and deeds are to relieve your anger at the time, but you push a person who he thinks is your friend to your enemy’s camp, often this When this kind of person stabs you in the back, it can accurately stab your vitals. So, sometimes you don't do this, it may not be good for you, but at least it will not be bad; but if you do this You may get yourself into trouble. Little ghosts are difficult to deal with. The more you are, the more you care about the attitude of others towards you. You spend time and energy dealing with him. He feels that he is fighting with the sky and the earth, but you You're wasting your time."
"Then what should I do?"
"Just laugh and laugh. The other party feels that you respect him, but he can't figure out your truth. You just treat him as your own sharpening stone. If you hear a lot, see a lot, you won't be able to do it anymore. You don't know what to do today. Just do a good job, at least in the future, the other party will not dare to speak nonsense in front of you, because you are smart and transparent."
The eldest lady seemed to suddenly see the light.
But right now, it seems to be another scene.
After Ruan Tao said what he just said, he gave Fu Maoquan another meaningful look.
Fu Aiquan hadn't recovered yet, Ruan Tao continued, "If you want to use a man's name and take into account Fu Aiquan's status as the eldest lady of the Hou Mansion, you must at least pay several times, ten times, or even dozens of times more effort than other men. , because you have too many things to worry about, any one thing will distract you, and any role will make you overwhelmed, looking forward and backward; but if you want to use the identity of Fu Yuquan to be recognized by others, then you must Be prepared mentally, because not only will you have to put in several times, ten times, or even dozens of times more effort than other men, but more importantly..."
Fu Wuquan frowned.
Everyone Guo, He Ma and Li Ma held their breath together.
Ruan Tao picked up the teacup, his eyes fell on the ripples of the cup, looked at the ripples, and said calmly, "More importantly, even if you put in dozens of times more effort than them, if your result is only better than They are several times, they will think that you are very lucky, and then lament that there are too many underappreciated people in the world, for example, they are one of them; but if you are really more than ten times better than them, they will not think that it is luck that influences these , but they will think that you rely on your grandfather, father... oh, they are all passed away, so you also rely on the Nanping Hou Mansion..."
Fu Wuquan froze.
Everyone Guo, Mama He, and Mama Li were also stunned.
Ruan Tao looked at the ripples on the teacup, and continued, "There are some people who were born with a golden spoon in their mouths. No matter what they do, they step on them. No matter how hard they work, they remain silent, while some people are born At any time, women can step on them; but if you are dozens of times, hundreds of times better than them, beyond what the back of a Marquis Mansion can match, then they won't, and it's impossible to have nothing to say Having said that, they will say that it is only natural that there is only one woman who can draw like this among women for thousands of years. There is nothing strange about it. However, if they have daughters and granddaughters, they will definitely not let their daughters or granddaughters become such people, because women should be honest, marry each other according to their duties, and then support their husbands and children at home, and then everyone will reach the goal again. Consensus - Fu Yuquan, you are different, they are not different, so they don't have to feel that they are inferior to you..."
Fu Aiquan was dumbfounded, his mouth shut from ear to ear in surprise from just now.
Ruan Tao's words, every word and every sentence were like thunder, resounding in her heart; it shocked her, and made her suddenly enlightened. Where can I disperse.
Not to mention He Ma and Li Ma.
In fact, everyone even Guo froze in place, trying to say something, but it seemed that what he said was wrong, but after thinking about it carefully, he felt the loss and shock in his heart...
Yes.
Even though he didn't want to admit it, everything Madam said was right.
Because the eldest lady is half of his disciple, so he would not think so, or rather, he would not take the initiative to think about it; but if the eldest lady really does what the madam said one day, then there will be people like this around her, He even echoes what others say...
Although this idea made everyone in Guo feel terrible, they had to admit that these were facts.
Everyone Guo bit their lips, their faces slowly darkened.
indeed.
He was sloppy.
All he thinks about is the talent in the eldest lady, he wants to dig out, he thinks maybe he can teach a talented apprentice, all these make him excited, and he can't wait, and even encourages the seedlings to grow.
But what Madam thinks is timely, reasonable, but also human, cognitive and logical.
Otherwise, all these burdens, pressure, and possibly even the ensuing ridicule and infamy will fall on the eldest lady.
He didn't think much about these things...
If he really regards the eldest lady as his disciple, then he should put himself in the other person's shoes when he changes positions.
Is it necessary to do it, how to do it?
The trade-offs in these circles, he actually knows better than the eldest lady...
Everyone in Guo was silent.
At this time, Ruan Tao gently blew on the water pattern on the surface of the cup, then took a sip, and said lightly, "If this is the case, you are willing to continue, and no matter what happens in the future, you will not be able to stop you. One person can persist until When, it is often not how much hope she still has, but at the moment when her will is weakest, she sees whether there is any way to retreat behind herself."
Something in Fu Wuquan's heart seemed to move along with the cup in front of him.
Although she didn't know if it was an illusion, when her mother said the sentence just now, it seemed that there was something hidden in her eyes.
Fu Yuquan stared at her.
Ruan Tao slowly put down the teacup, looked at Fu Yuquan's gaze, and said softly but firmly, "So, when you are very clear, this is something that even if you go to the end, maybe there is not much hope for it; and the more you Walking, as far as you are concerned, there are actually fewer retreats behind you. If you have seen all these clearly and thought about it, and you want to continue walking, then you will clearly understand what is the most precious to you , what time should be spent on, and what kind of person is worthy of joining hands with you to the end...Then it doesn't matter whether you will be Mr. Bi, Mr. Shui, or Mr. A, B, and C in the end. The important thing is, You have probably really become Fu Aiquan, unique and irreplaceable. When others mention you, they will only talk about Fu Aiquan, the maverick master Fu. No one will remember Fu Aiquan, the adopted daughter of the Hou Mansion, because, compared with these, you It doesn’t matter who you are, what matters is who you become.”
Madam's words were like sharp knives, suddenly tearing apart the clear sky...
Whether it was in the mouth or outside the buttons, they were all so surprised that they couldn't speak.
Before this, none of them seemed to have thought about it this way; but since Madam mentioned it, everyone seems to be able to quickly find the corresponding in the bottom of their hearts.
Moreover, the impression is more profound and firmer.
If Madam hadn't mentioned it, no one would think there was anything wrong with it; but Madam mentioned it like this, and it seemed that everything was wrong.
Mama He also looked at Madam in surprise.
If the madam is just to amuse the eldest lady, it shouldn't be wrong...
Moreover, Ma'am is still in front of everyone in Guo this time, and she doesn't shy away from it at all.
Unless, the madam wants to teach the young lady a good lesson.
In fact, along the way north, every once in a while, the madam will give the young lady a very impressive lesson.
Of course, it's not just Missy, but also Second Young Master, Fourth Young Master, Fifth Young Master and Sixth Young Master...
Madam is like playing a game of counting soldiers and generals, whoever is selected, will be given a special class today, without warning at all.
But they can hit with precision, and click as far as possible.
You don't need a heavy hammer to beat the drum, Madam's catchphrase.
Yes, it is true that the hammer was not used.
But basically, whenever there is a chance to exercise, my wife is always exercising, and she never tires of it!
Especially the eldest lady, let alone other things, at least in the area of dealing with people and receiving people and things, the current eldest lady is completely different from the previous eldest lady.
The people who are in front of the eldest lady every day may not feel it, but they passed by Yongzhou on the way, and met the acquaintance of the Hou's mansion earlier, the other party said several times, and they have not seen each other for a long time, the eldest lady has really grown up. Smart and transparent...
Listen to these words in reverse.
To say I’ve really grown up means that I didn’t grow up earlier and didn’t understand; to say I’m more intelligent and transparent means that I was dull and didn’t listen, and my mind didn’t open up.
That day the eldest lady's behavior was also decent, she followed the lady's side, observed the words and expressions, and knew when to say something and when not to say anything. There was already a tacit understanding between the lady and the lady, and there was no need for the lady to speak, just a look, everyone The lady knows what to do.
This surprised Mama He a little.
It's just that when leaving, the eldest lady was a little unhappy in the carriage.
The madam asked without raising her head, and the eldest lady also held her chin and told the madam that the other party seemed to be praising her in every sentence, but in fact they were saying that she was not good in the past.
Although she was not very nice before, the other party obviously wanted to flatter her mother.
This kind of method of killing one person to please another is actually not clever, but the other party still thinks it is appropriate and enjoys it. In fact, she can hear it, and the mother can definitely hear it, but grandma and mother are both there, even if they are not happy. It shouldn't be her who showed it, so she didn't say a word the whole time, thinking that her mother would say a word to attack the other party, but in the end her mother didn't, so she was depressed and felt unhappy.
At that time, the madam glanced at the eldest lady and asked calmly, "We are far away as guests, and they greet us warmly. Why should I hate each other and make enemies for myself?"
The eldest lady was stunned.
The lady continued, "Everyone in this world may make you uncomfortable. If you have to go back to everyone who makes you uncomfortable, then if you don't die of exhaustion today, you will die of exhaustion tomorrow. Put your heart at ease. Be more open, sometimes you can’t be friends, but at least not enemies; but more often, inappropriate words and deeds are to relieve your anger at the time, but you push a person who he thinks is your friend to your enemy’s camp, often this When this kind of person stabs you in the back, it can accurately stab your vitals. So, sometimes you don't do this, it may not be good for you, but at least it will not be bad; but if you do this You may get yourself into trouble. Little ghosts are difficult to deal with. The more you are, the more you care about the attitude of others towards you. You spend time and energy dealing with him. He feels that he is fighting with the sky and the earth, but you You're wasting your time."
"Then what should I do?"
"Just laugh and laugh. The other party feels that you respect him, but he can't figure out your truth. You just treat him as your own sharpening stone. If you hear a lot, see a lot, you won't be able to do it anymore. You don't know what to do today. Just do a good job, at least in the future, the other party will not dare to speak nonsense in front of you, because you are smart and transparent."
The eldest lady seemed to suddenly see the light.
But right now, it seems to be another scene.
After Ruan Tao said what he just said, he gave Fu Maoquan another meaningful look.
Fu Aiquan hadn't recovered yet, Ruan Tao continued, "If you want to use a man's name and take into account Fu Aiquan's status as the eldest lady of the Hou Mansion, you must at least pay several times, ten times, or even dozens of times more effort than other men. , because you have too many things to worry about, any one thing will distract you, and any role will make you overwhelmed, looking forward and backward; but if you want to use the identity of Fu Yuquan to be recognized by others, then you must Be prepared mentally, because not only will you have to put in several times, ten times, or even dozens of times more effort than other men, but more importantly..."
Fu Wuquan frowned.
Everyone Guo, He Ma and Li Ma held their breath together.
Ruan Tao picked up the teacup, his eyes fell on the ripples of the cup, looked at the ripples, and said calmly, "More importantly, even if you put in dozens of times more effort than them, if your result is only better than They are several times, they will think that you are very lucky, and then lament that there are too many underappreciated people in the world, for example, they are one of them; but if you are really more than ten times better than them, they will not think that it is luck that influences these , but they will think that you rely on your grandfather, father... oh, they are all passed away, so you also rely on the Nanping Hou Mansion..."
Fu Wuquan froze.
Everyone Guo, Mama He, and Mama Li were also stunned.
Ruan Tao looked at the ripples on the teacup, and continued, "There are some people who were born with a golden spoon in their mouths. No matter what they do, they step on them. No matter how hard they work, they remain silent, while some people are born At any time, women can step on them; but if you are dozens of times, hundreds of times better than them, beyond what the back of a Marquis Mansion can match, then they won't, and it's impossible to have nothing to say Having said that, they will say that it is only natural that there is only one woman who can draw like this among women for thousands of years. There is nothing strange about it. However, if they have daughters and granddaughters, they will definitely not let their daughters or granddaughters become such people, because women should be honest, marry each other according to their duties, and then support their husbands and children at home, and then everyone will reach the goal again. Consensus - Fu Yuquan, you are different, they are not different, so they don't have to feel that they are inferior to you..."
Fu Aiquan was dumbfounded, his mouth shut from ear to ear in surprise from just now.
Ruan Tao's words, every word and every sentence were like thunder, resounding in her heart; it shocked her, and made her suddenly enlightened. Where can I disperse.
Not to mention He Ma and Li Ma.
In fact, everyone even Guo froze in place, trying to say something, but it seemed that what he said was wrong, but after thinking about it carefully, he felt the loss and shock in his heart...
Yes.
Even though he didn't want to admit it, everything Madam said was right.
Because the eldest lady is half of his disciple, so he would not think so, or rather, he would not take the initiative to think about it; but if the eldest lady really does what the madam said one day, then there will be people like this around her, He even echoes what others say...
Although this idea made everyone in Guo feel terrible, they had to admit that these were facts.
Everyone Guo bit their lips, their faces slowly darkened.
indeed.
He was sloppy.
All he thinks about is the talent in the eldest lady, he wants to dig out, he thinks maybe he can teach a talented apprentice, all these make him excited, and he can't wait, and even encourages the seedlings to grow.
But what Madam thinks is timely, reasonable, but also human, cognitive and logical.
Otherwise, all these burdens, pressure, and possibly even the ensuing ridicule and infamy will fall on the eldest lady.
He didn't think much about these things...
If he really regards the eldest lady as his disciple, then he should put himself in the other person's shoes when he changes positions.
Is it necessary to do it, how to do it?
The trade-offs in these circles, he actually knows better than the eldest lady...
Everyone in Guo was silent.
At this time, Ruan Tao gently blew on the water pattern on the surface of the cup, then took a sip, and said lightly, "If this is the case, you are willing to continue, and no matter what happens in the future, you will not be able to stop you. One person can persist until When, it is often not how much hope she still has, but at the moment when her will is weakest, she sees whether there is any way to retreat behind herself."
Something in Fu Wuquan's heart seemed to move along with the cup in front of him.
Although she didn't know if it was an illusion, when her mother said the sentence just now, it seemed that there was something hidden in her eyes.
Fu Yuquan stared at her.
Ruan Tao slowly put down the teacup, looked at Fu Yuquan's gaze, and said softly but firmly, "So, when you are very clear, this is something that even if you go to the end, maybe there is not much hope for it; and the more you Walking, as far as you are concerned, there are actually fewer retreats behind you. If you have seen all these clearly and thought about it, and you want to continue walking, then you will clearly understand what is the most precious to you , what time should be spent on, and what kind of person is worthy of joining hands with you to the end...Then it doesn't matter whether you will be Mr. Bi, Mr. Shui, or Mr. A, B, and C in the end. The important thing is, You have probably really become Fu Aiquan, unique and irreplaceable. When others mention you, they will only talk about Fu Aiquan, the maverick master Fu. No one will remember Fu Aiquan, the adopted daughter of the Hou Mansion, because, compared with these, you It doesn’t matter who you are, what matters is who you become.”
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