I, strive for the prosperity of the motherland! 【system】

During this period of time, Zhang Caifeng was sometimes blushed and heartbeated by Zhong Nan, always looking forward to his official confession to her, and looking forward to their life after dating.

But sometimes, she feels inferior, and feels that Zhong Nan knows a lot, knows a lot, and she is not worthy of such an outstanding person...

Su Xing listened to Zhang Caifeng's narration of these details, and felt that this routine was very familiar!

She blurted out, "He's PUAing you!"

Isn't this the fucking classic routine of PUA? !

Zhang Caifeng didn't understand the word, and asked in confusion, "What?"

Su Xing heard Zhang Caifeng's reaction, and she remembered that in this era, the word PUA has not been widely spread in the domestic online world.

She explained: "The full name of PUA is 'Pick-up Artist', which means 'pick-up artist'. Turned into a horrible mind control."

Zhang Caifeng was stunned, "Mind control?"

Su Xing continued to explain in detail: "People who use PUA to mentally control others often regard the other party as prey, while they themselves are hunters. When they first contact you, they will set up a very perfect He will use various methods to make you curious and appreciate him, so that you will be attracted by him, thinking that you have met the right person, and then they will use positive reinforcement methods, such as providing you with emotional value and praising you , Dating with you, giving you "little hearts" and other rewards, you will gradually fall into an emotional trap, and you can't stop. When you feel dependent on him, he will use negative reinforcement to pick out your shortcomings. Accusing your faults makes you have negative emotions. In order to get rid of these negative emotions, you will compromise with him, do things according to his wishes, and become what he wants, and then he will repeatedly use positive reinforcement and negative reinforcement. Means, praise and reward you for a while, belittle and suppress you for a while, make your emotions fluctuate all the time, you will look forward to his reward more and fear his suppression, you will care more and more about his feelings, and thus lose yourself, You will also have doubts about yourself and deny your self-worth..."

The lights in the ward were not turned on, and the moonlight shone through the cracks in the curtains, and a figure could be seen, but the other person's face could not be seen clearly.

Although Su Xing couldn't see Zhang Caifeng's expression at the moment, she saw that she seemed to be shaking...

The voice of waking up could not help but pause.

In fact, the methods of PUA are more than these, but according to what Zhang Caifeng said, there are some methods that Zhong Nan has not used on her yet.

It should be that they haven't been in contact for a long time, and he hasn't had time to resort to those methods.

After a while, Zhang Caifeng said with a trembling voice, "Go on..."

Su Xing thought for a while, and said: "After you get along for a long time, he may still make you isolated, and will try his best to narrow your social circle, making you less and less in contact with friends and classmates, and then you will Rely on him more and more, he will tell you that he is for your own good, no one in this world treats you better than him, he has paid too much for you, if you are disobedient, how cruel he is Sadness and disappointment, gradually, a deep idea is implanted in your mind: you think you are bad, you are not worthy of anyone, and no one will like you except him..."

Zhang Caifeng covered her face and began to cry.

She cried for a while, her voice choked up and said: "What you said is basically correct... So, am I just his prey?"

After waking up for a while, she didn't know how to comfort her. She was silent for a few seconds before saying, "It's not your fault, this kind of person is too bad..."

Zhang Caifeng wiped away tears and said with a wry smile: "One day I was wearing a brown sweater, and I took off the coat while eating, and he said my sweater didn't suit me, making my skin darker, and then he Immediately there was another tolerant smile on his face, and he said that he could accept my small faults. He thought some of my small faults were cute, but he would help me develop aesthetics in the future. It's weird, he seems to be tolerant of me, treats me well, but makes me feel inferior..."

She took a deep breath, and continued: "Now that you've told me about this PUA's method, I finally understand why he did this..."

Su Xing sneered and said: "That's right, this is a typical PUA method, making you feel that only he can tolerate your shortcomings, and you are valuable only in front of him. He not only belittles you, but also elevates himself, making you You feel inferior and feel that it is your honor that he can see you."

Zhang Caifeng cried again, "I'm so stupid..."

"It's really not your fault!" Su Xing emphasized this sentence again, and then said in a serious tone: "You have to be confident, don't always question yourself, don't let yourself fall into the isolated environment created by others, You have to learn to refuse, and what’s more, when you are in contact with a boy, if there are some details that make you uncomfortable, don’t choose to ignore the discomfort and stay away from him as soon as possible.”

People who are prone to PUA tend to be sensitive and fragile, not confident, not assertive, a flattering personality, and refuse without understanding.

These traits are more or less present in Zhang Caifeng.

And this kind of people are often the most likely to be targeted by those spiritual manipulators and become their hunting targets.

Zhang Caifeng took two tissues, wiped away her tears and snot, and then asked Su Xing: "Fourth, tell me, are there many bad people like this in the world? Are there many victims of PUA?"

Su Xing answered very positively, "There are quite a lot of them. In fact, not only male-to-female PUA, female-to-male PUA is not uncommon, but also friendship PUA, family PUA, workplace PUA, and even business-to-consumer PUA... Many people During my growth experience, I have encountered all kinds of PUA methods..."

Zhang Caifeng suddenly made a request to Su Xing, "I have only been in touch with Zhong Nan for a short time, and now I feel so uncomfortable. Those who have been PUA for a long time must be even more helpless... Fourth brother, when you are free, can you draw a picture?" Grouped anti-PUA posters and uploaded them on Weibo? I really hope more people understand this terrible method, and I hope there will be fewer victims..."

Su Xing agreed without much hesitation, "Okay."

In fact, she had vaguely thought about this just now.

Zhang Caifeng said to Su Xing sincerely and solemnly, "Su Xing, thank you!"

Thank you for waking her up.

Su Xing's tone softened a bit, "Don't be polite to me."

The next Sunday.

Zhang Caifeng refused to be hospitalized anymore, and clamored to be discharged from the hospital, saying that it would be Monday tomorrow, fearing that it would affect her class.

Everyone couldn't hold her back and called a doctor.

The doctor prescribed a routine examination for her, and the examination results showed that she was in good condition, and finally agreed to let her go back to school after receiving today's drip.