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After dinner, the family came to the conference room in the East Wing.

The conference room in the East Wing was remodeled later, and as the number of Su family members increased, the Su residence was also changing at any time.

In the past, the security guards and housekeepers of the Su family basically lived in the courtyard, but now the Su family is about to add a child, and there will be ten children at once.

Fortunately, in a short time, the child is too young, so he must live with his parents.

But when the child is older, he will definitely move out.

There will definitely not be enough rooms at that time, so the housekeeping and security will have to move out.

Fortunately, Su Chen bought a lot of courtyard houses and residential buildings nearby. At the beginning, he bought these courtyards for the backward use of these housekeepers and security guards. Now even if they move out, they don't have to worry about having no place to live.

In the current main courtyard, there are three rooms in the main building, which should have been seven, but after renovation, the middle was opened up.

There are three rooms, the one in the middle is the living room of the main room, which is the size of two rooms. It is mainly used to entertain relatives and friends. Those who are not well connected will not be able to enter at all.

When the family usually eats, it will also be here.

On the left side of the living room is the bedroom. The entire Su family lives here. The three rooms are the size of the room. The most eye-catching thing in the room is the innermost big bed, which can sleep 30 people. It spans the east and west gables, which looks abnormal spectacular.

Of course, the reason why it was so big at the beginning was not that Su Chen wanted to marry so many wives, it was mainly for the children.

When a child is young, he must sleep with his parents. The bed is too small to sleep at all.

On the right side of the living room is Su Chen's study, which is also the entrance to the underground treasure room. Some of Su Chen's cultural relics and antiques, cultural treasures, carved handles, calligraphy works, and literary works are basically here.

Generally speaking, even the girls seldom enter Su Chen's study, because it is full of treasures, if you don't pay attention to damage something, it will cost hundreds of thousands or even millions of dollars at least.

Of course, this is also the place that Fatty Yu, Yu Qiang and others yearn for the most.

There is a rumor outside that if you don't visit Mr. Su's study, you don't know what wealth is.

There are five wing rooms on both sides, of which there are three bedrooms, which are mainly used for parents, relatives and friends when staying overnight.

The remaining four rooms are meeting room, dining room, entertainment room and cloakroom.

That's right, the women's cloakroom occupies a large room, which is still not enough. The women are planning to convert the bedroom next to the cloakroom into a cloakroom.

At this moment, the Su family, including Duo, all gathered in the conference room.

The theme of the meeting room is very warm, and the layout is very casual, not as rigid as the meeting room.There is all kinds of furniture in it.

There are sofas, reclining chairs, hanging chairs, massage chairs, swivel chairs and even swings. The reason for the layout is that we don't want to make it too serious and destroy the harmonious atmosphere of the family.

Only the Su family can enter this conference room. What is the Su family?It is the daughter-in-law of the Su family and the one surnamed Su.In addition, even parents and parents are not allowed to enter.

This was proposed by Gu Qingya on her own initiative.

Including children's education issues, parents and mothers cannot intervene.

The elderly are more careful in taking care of their children, but there are some problems that must be admitted. The elderly often have problems such as outdated ideas, bad habits and bad habits, excessive pampering, and lack of science when they encounter problems when educating their children.

If it is an ordinary family and the parents are busy with work, there is no way, the children can only be taken care of by the elderly.

But in the Su family, one counts as one, and one is more idle than the other, so the education of the children cannot be left to the elderly.

Gu Qingya attaches great importance to this issue, not only because the elderly have various problems in raising children, but also because of the special environment of the Su family.

For example, if the father and mother are taking care of the children, then in normal times, the father and mother will definitely ask some questions, such as how are your little mothers treating you, whether your brother bullies you, and how your father treats you. He will also teach him how to fight for toys, how to fight for food and so on.

Don't look at the father and mother who treat all the daughters equally, but when it comes to grandchildren, they will definitely be partial.

All the daughters have parents, and if the father cares about the mother and loves the eldest grandson, the parents of the other daughters will naturally prefer the children born to their own daughters.

In this way, after a long time, there will definitely be rifts among the children, and they will be alienated from each other, and brothers may turn against each other!

The root of why the children of big families fought with each other in the past lies here.

It is said that the environment is the best teacher for children, what kind of family environment will teach what kind of children.

As a big sister, these things must be considered.

For this reason, Gu Qingya talked to her parents more than once.

For a small family, it must be harmonious, but for a large family, rules are definitely the only magic weapon to maintain family harmony and stability.

So this question is also the first question at the family meeting today.

"Today's family meeting has a lot of content. Let's go one by one. The first is the education of the children." Su Chen sat on the big sofa that belonged to him, and said slowly while twirling the bracelet.

Hey, since having a child, I don't even have to smoke.

"In fact, to be honest, our family basically comes from ordinary families. When we were young, we basically didn't know what family rules were. It was what our parents said and what we did. At that time, I thought it was a good thing to have no family rules, and even watched While watching TV, he sneered at the rules in those wealthy mansions on TV.

I always feel that people live a lifetime, and they must be so chic and unrestrained, so many rules, are you tired?

I don't know what you guys think?Anyway, before there was our Su family, that's what I thought. "

The topics of the Su family's meetings are often very important, but they are not very serious during the meetings, and they seem to be chatting about family matters.

This is also a habit that was changed after the first meeting, because the last meeting was too serious, and the girls were not used to it, so Su Chen decisively changed the rules.

"Hee hee, husband, I'm the same as you, and I've always felt so."

"It must be the same. After all, no one likes to be bound by rules."

The prostitute grinned and expressed her opinion.

Su Chen chuckled. "Yeah, the rules are sometimes too rigid and impersonal. I didn't understand it before, but now I gradually understand that sometimes, the rules are not to restrain you, but to solve your worries and make you better. chic.

If you think about it, just like our family, there is a rule that you are not allowed to scold others when eating. With this rule, we really feel a little restrained when we eat and chat.But you think, if there is no such rule, third child, when you are eating, your elder sister scolds you, what will happen to you? "

"Then I will definitely cry, people scold me for the thing I hate most about eating!" Guo Xiaoshi arched her nose and said.

"Right, not only you hate it, but I also hate it. So, we have this family rule. After we have this rule, don't we have to worry about being scolded when we eat? "

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Chapter 499 Su Family's Special Family Atmosphere

"So, we have to correct our attitude and realize the importance of family rules! Of course, we can't make family rules casually. If there are few rules, the family will be chaotic. If there are too many rules, the family will become a court! In the final analysis, the family is still full of people. A place with a human touch.

Therefore, we must take every house rule seriously, and every house rule must go through repeated discussions, use it for at least half a year or even longer, and record it into the house rules after completely finding out that there is no problem.House rules, once established, cannot be changed overnight unless absolutely necessary.

Well, the rule we are going to discuss next is whether the relatives of grandparents have the right to educate their children! "

"This"

Su Chen's voice fell, and the expressions of the girls were all tangled.

After a while, Gu Qingya broke the silence.

"Let me talk about it first. I brought this up and discussed it with my husband. You were all there before. We all know the issue of educating children of the older generation, so I won't say much here. I What I want to say is that our family is in a special situation. Perhaps there is only one such case in the whole world.

In the world, there are many rich men like their husbands, and [-]% of the rich men are basically polygamous.

But you all know the situation in those families, the intrigue between the wife and the lover, and the endless battle between the legitimate son and the concubine.

In the final analysis, it is family disharmony.

As for our family, there may be conflicts at ordinary times, but because of the strength of my husband and the mutual understanding between our sisters, our family is so harmonious and happy.

Our family atmosphere is really hard-won, and only my husband and our sisters can understand it.Even our parents don't understand what kind of life is between us. "

"That's right, this is true!" Tang Qiong lay on a soft recliner, and Guo Xiaoshi, Zhang Huan, and the three women's bellies were already growing.Especially Zhang Huan, who is pregnant with quintuplets, looks scary with a big belly, that is, Su Chen takes good care of her, otherwise Zhang Huan would not have the energy for the meeting now.

While eating grapes, Tang Qiong said: "My parents have been calling me for the past two days. The meaning behind the words is to hurry up and fight for favor. Now it is different from before. I didn't care about it before. Now I have a child. Now, the child is not a legitimate son, the Su family has a big business, and the children will definitely fight for property in the future, if I want to raise the child 36 times, it really makes me feel dizzy!"

If Tang Qiong's words were said in public in another family, it would really be a provocation, and other women would definitely make a fuss over it.

But in the Su family, this is too commonplace.

None of the girls responded, because their parents had said similar things.This topic has even become a joke for a few girls to chat with each other.

The current state of the Su family is so strange. Su Chen and his wives get along very well with each other. The relationship between the women is better than real sisters rather than real sisters.

This is definitely not performed because Su Chen is at home.

You know, Su Chen has insight, this kind of thing can fool others, but not Su Chen.

Su Chen could tell that there was really no barrier between the girls, and the relationship was very good.

Even a few women have become obsessed with this harmonious relationship.After all, compared to intrigue all day long, it is estimated that most people prefer a harmonious family atmosphere.

There are many reasons why the Su family can have today. In the final analysis, it is the sacrifice of the eldest sister and the joint efforts of the girls. However, the girls feel that they are very happy, but their parents have never believed it. They always feel that their daughter's life is like a TV series. The wife in the house is the same as the concubine.

No matter how the girls explained, their parents didn't believe it.

That's all, anyway, the older generation doesn't live with them.As long as the relationship between the girls remains the same, it doesn't matter what the parents think.

But this was before, now that I have a child, everything is different.

"That's right, so is my family!" Guo Xiaoshi pouted and said, "My parents are planning to move to the imperial capital for a while, and they said they would help me take care of the children. I know too well, why do they want to take care of the children? They clearly want to teach How does the child stand on the top of the mountain! I am puzzled, you said that they have lived their lives without any plans, how can they have the confidence to teach their children?"

Guo Xiaoshi's expression was extremely helpless.

"So, this problem has reached the point where we can't solve it!" Gu Qingya said, looking at Su Chen and saying, "Husband, the next thing is for you to say!"

Su Chen nodded, took over the words and said: "Everyone knows the seriousness of the matter. Now, let me make a few comments, and you can discuss them. Let me talk about it. Because of the special situation of our generation, it is estimated that our children will It is very rare for a family like ours to appear, so these few suggestions are only used as the family rules of our generation, not included in the general family rules, but can be written as an appendix for future generations to refer to!"

Because the Su family has just started to establish a family, many things have to be considered and cleared.

The women had no opinion at all and nodded in agreement.

Jiang Yan picked up the pen and began to prepare to record.

"First of all, let me talk about the first rule. Well, this rule must be written into the family rules, and it will never be abolished. All descendants of my Su family will never be divided into concubines and concubines. As long as they are of the blood of the Su family, they are all Su family members. Any difference, has the right to inherit the property of the Su family!"

After Su Chen finished speaking, the girls except Gu Qingya all showed excited expressions.

Although Su Chen said this more than once.

Although Gu Qingya said this more than once, they were still worried that it was not written into the family rules.

After all, if you really want to talk about it, they are all illegal.On Su Chen's marriage certificate, there was only Gu Qingya's name.The girls said they were not worried, but they must be thinking about it in their hearts.

It's different now, now that Su Chen has written this into the house rules, they are finally relieved.

After all, as a mother, I still care about the future of my child very much.

Jiang Yan wrote down every word of Su Chen very seriously, and repeatedly confirmed that the recording of this incident was successful, and then heaved a sigh of relief.

Seeing the expressions of the girls, Gu Qingya couldn't help laughing and said, "You guys, I told you not to worry, it's true! Are you relieved now?"

"Hee hee! Oh, big sister, we didn't do it on purpose, we just couldn't help it!" Zhang Huan said coquettishly with a smile,

Gu Qingya smiled and shook her head, without saying anything.

In fact, he also understands the thoughts of the girls. If it were her, she would definitely be worried.

Seeing that the girls were all relieved, Su Chen smiled slightly.

Sometimes he rejoiced more than once, thanking God for giving her such a few good and considerate wives.

"Okay, the second one, I haven't figured out how to do this one, but I can guarantee that no matter how many children I have in the future, I can guarantee that when the family is separated in the future, it will be absolutely impartial and treat everyone equally! "

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Chapter 500 Su family meeting (continued)

After finishing the second article, the girls became happier and more at ease.

With these two guarantees, they really don't have to worry about their children's future.

"The third point is the specific problem. Leaving aside the future children, just talking about this batch, ten children are all the same age, so everything in the family must be treated equally in the future, and all children will be educated together. Especially for a few multi-parents We can't let them cling to each other, and we can't be special to any child."

"Article [-], all children are brought up together, there is no distinction between mothers and aunts, no matter which child it is, you must call your mothers uniformly. And it is best for mothers not to get close to their children alone!"

"Ah?" Guo Xiaoshi exclaimed, somewhat puzzled.

Even Gu Qingya frowned slightly, looking at Su Chen.

Seeing this, Su Chen explained: "That's why this rule is made because I'm afraid that there will be differences among the children, and I'm also afraid that you will spoil or spoil a certain child too much.

Think about it, if you often take special care of your biological children, what will happen over time?They automatically form a small group with each other, especially the fourth-born quintuplets. Once the children form a small group, it means that they are not far from divisional struggles and intrigues. "

"Then what if I want to hurt the child?" Gu Qingya said.

She is the eldest sister, and only she is the most suitable to ask these words.

When Su Chen heard this, he suddenly laughed. "What do you think? I mean, I don't want you to spoil certain children alone, but to treat them equally. If you want to be the boss, it's easy, you can be alone with the boss, but if you want to give the boss some gifts and benefits, then It’s best to make nine more, so that no one will be left behind. That’s what I mean when I say treat everyone equally!”

"That's it! It's no problem!"