I'm not interested in money anymore

"I knew I couldn't hide it from you. Would you like to?"

"It depends on how you say it!" Su Chen said with a smile: "If you tell me as a junior of the Xu family, then I will definitely help. If you tell me as a friend, I will also help. What do you think Woolen cloth?"

"Is there any difference?" Xu Binghua blinked!

Su Chen shook his head. "There's a big difference here. Don't worry, girl, think about it carefully. In life, not only knowledge and IQ, but emotional intelligence is also very important! You can't escape or avoid these things! "

Xu Binghua frowned and fell into deep thought.

At this moment, a few boys walked over, they were all young, and they seemed to be Xu Binghua's classmates.

"Binghua, why are you here? Why didn't I answer your call? Did I disturb you?"

As soon as the visitor approached, he first greeted Xu Binghua warmly, then turned his head to look at Su Chen, stretched out his hand and said warmly: "Hello, I am Binghua's friend, I wonder who you are?"

Su Chen looked the young man up and down.

He looks good. To be honest, the young man has a good appearance and figure, especially his figure. Being able to maintain such a figure at his age shows that he is a self-disciplined person.

What surprised Su Chen was that this person did not have the slightest dandyism in his dealings with others, and his tone of speech was very sincere, which seemed to be quite educated.

Such a person is either a real gentleman, or a peerless hypocrite.

Su Chen became interested in young people, and he didn't use his eyes, that would be too boring!

Su Chen ignored the young man's outstretched hand, but said lightly, "Do we know each other?"

The young man withdrew his hand in embarrassment, touched his nose, and said, "Sorry, did I bother you?"

"What you said is obvious. Do you still need to ask me? You just want to take the initiative. If I am thinner, I will forgive you. But in fact, you still bother It's our turn, and it's a crime we know!"

"Boy! How are you talking?" A person behind the young man suddenly shouted.

"Xiaofeng! Don't do this!" The young man patted the man's shoulder in a warm voice, then turned around and apologized to Su Chen: "I'm sorry, I was wrong about what happened today, I apologize to you, and I'm leaving now."

Then, the young man took out a business card and handed it to Su Chen, saying, "This is my business card. If you are still angry, I owe you a favor today. If you have anything to do in the future, you can come to me anytime!"

After finishing speaking, the young man turned and left without hesitation!

Su Chen was playing with the business card in his hand, and after a glance, there was only a name and a string of phone numbers on it.

"Gu Jianfeng?"

"He is the leader of the three generations of the Gu family, and he is also the eldest grandson of the Gu family!" Xu Binghua recovered and explained.

"Ancient family?"

"Well, the Gu family is also a wealthy family in the imperial capital. The family foundation is comparable to the century-old Yan family, and much stronger than our Xu family!"

"I know the Yan family!" Su Chen smacked his lips? "Okay, we're done, shall we find a place to eat first?"

"I choose a place?" Xu Binghua's eyes suddenly brightened.

"Of course, it's up to the owner!"

"Then you come with me!"

There are many universities near Wudaokou, so there must be no shortage of food here, and it is also one of the few food streets in the imperial capital.

Su Chen followed Xu Binghua to a Yangxiezi hot pot restaurant on the corner of the street.

The shop looks very old, especially the signboard, which looks old, and the plaque is full of vicissitudes of history.It looks like an old shop!

"Boss! The old rules, this time it's double!"

After Xu Binghua entered the store, he greeted the boss skillfully when he saw the boss. He was a regular customer here!

"Okay!" the boss agreed. "Are you still upstairs please?"

"Well, the old place!"

"Hey, yes, please do it yourself!"

Xu Binghua led the way, went up to the second floor, walked straight forward, turned left at the end, and there was a private room at the end.

"You can find a place!" Su Chen said with a smile.

"It's quiet here, and there are windows on both sides, so the view is great!"

"It's a nice place!"

Su Chen expressed satisfaction.

He doesn't know how to coddle the young master, he has been used to it since he was a child, and it has only been half a year since he got rich, so naturally he didn't develop the problem of coddling.For Su Chen in the past, he had to grit his teeth and save money to eat at this kind of place.

The hot pot was served very quickly, and within a short while, a table was covered with dishes.

At the bottom of a large pot of lamb and scorpion, four additional plates of meat and six plates of seasonal vegetables were added!

Su Chen widened his eyes.

"Is this double?"

When Xu Binghua heard this, she blushed in a rare way, lowered her head and said, "Sorry, my appetite is a bit big!"

Su Chen was overjoyed when he heard that. "There's nothing to be sorry about. Those in my family are all cooks. This can only be regarded as a small scene."

When Xu Binghua heard Su Chen mention the girls in his family, his face suddenly froze.

Seeing this, Su Chen smiled, started seasoning on his own, and then tasted it in his mouth, saying: "Mm! As expected of an old store, this taste is authentic, not bad!"

Xu Binghua was stunned for a moment, and then said: "I forgot that you are a chef, isn't it true that I am going through the recommendations here!"

"Hey, eat! It's about satiation, or simply tasting, or trying to show the atmosphere; sometimes it doesn't matter what you eat, but the purpose of your meal is the most important. We eat together as friends, and the picture is the atmosphere, so It doesn't matter what you eat!"

Xu Binghua glanced at Su Chen, seemed to be teasing, and said seriously: "I never thought that such a big boss like you can come to eat in such a small restaurant like a little girl like me!"

"How can I answer what you said?"

"You have many answers?"

"Inevitable! Nothing is inevitable at this time, even the same thing, there will be countless evolutions!"

"Then tell me everything, I want to hear it all!"

"I can say, but you have to tell me, I asked you the question before, I will help you defend yourself, different identities have different answers, have you figured it out?"

Chapter 398 Emotional Intelligence and Circles

"I understand a little bit!" Xu Binghua said with a bitter face: "Do you want to say that if you help me as an elder, it is equivalent to that our Xu family owes you a favor. If you Helping me with my identity means that I owe you a favor?"

Su Chen smiled when he heard this.

"That's it!"

"Is it?"

"Well, what I really mean is that whether I am your elder or your friend, if you have something to do, I will definitely help you, but the premise is that you tell me the truth in advance. In this case , you are asking for help, I will definitely help. And if you ask me afterwards, it is taking advantage of me, and I may help you too, but after helping, I will feel very uncomfortable!

The so-called emotional intelligence is not an unpredictable routine, nor is it a calculation of several birds at first sight. The essence of emotional intelligence is that what you say and what you do, on the premise that your own interests will not be lost, will not be affected. It will make the other person feel uncomfortable!

And to do this, the most basic principle is sincerity! "

Xu Binghua's eyes glowed, and she nodded. "I seem to understand something!"

"It doesn't matter if you don't understand. There are ways to live with high EQ, and there are ways to live with low EQ. You can try to learn to make people comfortable, but the premise is that you don't wrong yourself. Okay, back to the topic just now. .

As you said, why can a big boss and an ordinary student chat in a small restaurant?

There are many explanations for this, let me ask you first, what do you think is a big brother? "

"success?"

Su Chen shook his head. "The so-called big boss is someone who has seen through the rules of the world and is not bound by the world. Such a person can not only wear a formal suit to eat elegantly in a high-end restaurant, but also wear genuine sandals to chat with others at a roadside stall. I lived in a five-star hotel, and also lived in a rural village. I can be neither humble nor overbearing to princes and generals, and I can also have long talks with lower Liba people.”

"It sounds reasonable, but it feels too chicken soup!"

"Then to put it another way, I'm here to make friends, not to eat. I'm here because of you. Not because of here, I'm here!"

"This statement is very true, but it is too heartbreaking!"

"Let's put it another way! I'm an ordinary person, but I just got rich by accident. I've had hardships, so where I eat, it's all the same to me!"

"The poor get rich, and the villain gets aspirations. Although this statement is sincere, there is still pride in the bones!" Xu Binghua continued to shake her head, and then suddenly said: "I want to know what you think!"

Su Chen smiled: "Me? I'm here because you are here!"

After hearing this, Xu Binghua was stunned for a moment, and then suddenly smiled like a flower!

"You are really, really different!"

"Of course, how many 25-year-old self-made bosses are there in the whole world?"

"Are you self-made?"

"That's right, it takes hard work to inherit an inheritance, right?"

"for example?"

"For example, it took me a long time to accept the fact that I am a rich second generation!"

"Pfft!" Xu Binghua cast a reproachful glance at Su Chen. "You are not serious!"

"You are wrong again! I dare say that there are not many people in this world who are more serious than me! Because I basically don't tell lies!"

"Are you serious? You haven't lied to my sisters-in-law?"

"Hehe, didn't they tell you that the prerequisite for our family to live in harmony is to treat others with sincerity?"

"I don't believe it! Then you came out on a date with me today, what did you tell your sisters-in-law?"

"I didn't say anything, they all said it."

"What did they say?"

"Do you really want to hear it?"

"Of course!"

"They said, behave well, don't waste the opportunity we gave you!"

Xu Binghua was dumbfounded. "Huh? What chance?"

Su Chen shrugged.

"What do you say?"

Xu Bing's pretty face turned red with a smile.

"Let me tell you about the Gu family!"

"Okay! I can talk about anything!"

"You don't seem to be afraid of the Gu family at all?"

"What am I afraid of?" Su Chen said indifferently, "Don't you know that I beat the young master of the Yan family?"

"Ah? Did you beat the young master of the Yan family? I have heard about it. It is said that the Yan family was very angry at the time and said aggressively that they wanted to seek revenge. However, because of internal problems in the Yan family, this matter was over. Of!

Originally, we wondered why the Yan family didn't bring up the matter again after solving their internal problems, but instead sent Yan Quan abroad.Now I seem to understand. "

Xu Binghua suddenly said.

"Yan Quan went abroad?" Su Chen smacked his lips. "Pity!"

"What a pity?"

"It's a pity that there is an opponent! I thought I could fight him! I didn't expect it!"

Xu Binghua was speechless. "Is that why you want to cause trouble?"

"You do not understand!"

"Okay, I don't understand, but I want to remind you that the Gu family is not the Yan family. The Gu family's status in China is far higher than that of our Xu family. Of course, it is not as good as our three families joining forces."

"I don't understand what you said. The three of you have always been connected with each other. How could Gu Jianfeng pursue you with such fanfare? Is this Gu Jianfeng's wishful thinking, or did the Gu family premeditate?"

"Have both!" After all, Xu Binghua is a child of an aristocratic family, so he knows all these things.It's impossible to really be a bookworm who dies, otherwise she wouldn't be called a talented woman. "It's true that Gu Jianfeng likes me, and it's also true that the Gu family wants to marry my Xu family."

As he said that, Xu Binghua's eyes were a little dazzled, and he said: "Actually, I had some doubts before this, but seeing you, I seem to have figured it out again.

This incident is still because of you. With the development of technology, the old and new societies are changing rapidly, and many families have disappeared in this torrent.

Although the Gu family has a strong background, it cannot guarantee that their family will always be at the forefront of the times.And once the vision of a family is abandoned by the times, it is not far from decline.

Before the Gu family wooed my Xu family, they should have taken a fancy to the descendants of our three major families. The background of our three major families seems to be inferior to these century-old families, but when it comes to the descendants, they are definitely not comparable to the Gu family.