Crazy Psychologist

Qi Feng, 35 years old, is a businessman.

Chu Sisi had previously told Mu Chun during the case discussion that the patient did not come alone, but he came to the hospital with his wife for treatment, saying that the wife felt restless. Qi Feng saw a guest on a variety show saying that he could go to the physical and mental department if he had any unpleasant problems, so he accompanied his wife Li to the hospital.

Mu Chun was not in the hospital at the time, and Chu Sisi told Qi Feng that she was just an intern, and they could sit down and chat if they didn't mind.

"Qi Feng is a man who looks very decent. He is well-dressed but not intentional. He seems to be a man of self-cultivation. According to him, he also graduated from a famous university with a major in architecture. He has been engaged in building materials business. And it's getting better and better.

The husband and wife are very well-educated in speaking. Although they knew that Chu Sisi was an intern, they decided to sit down and chat for a while after discussing. This is the first treatment.

At that time Li did seem a little irritable, she spoke very fast, but from time to time she would deny her statement and say something like, 'Probably my problem'.

At this time, Qi Feng patted his wife on the shoulder, and said very lovingly, 'It's okay, we will communicate slowly and everything will get better, you just have too high demands on yourself. ’ In Chu Sisi’s view, Qi Feng is a bit like Chen Weiwei, with a successful career and patience with his wife. "

When Mu Chun asked who proposed to visit the hospital, Chu Sisi told Mu Chun that it was Qi Feng who suggested it.

The discussion focused on the fact that his wife, Li, often felt lonely.

"When we got married, I was still taking exams, and I haven't graduated yet, but I want to go to graduate school, but I'm already working. It's because of my work that I met Qi Feng."

When Li spoke, her eyes showed her admiration for her husband. Chu Sisi saw it, and felt that a man like Qi Feng was indeed the kind that people were more likely to admire.

"Then, I was busy with my studies and my husband was busy with business, but he always made time for me, I mean kind of very caring company, like driving me to school, which is far from home, The journey usually takes 45 minutes, and my husband always finds time to take me to school, and then prepare lunch for me, saying that if you don’t want to have lunch with your classmates, you can eat the bento he prepared for me.”

Sounds like a caring person.

"When I finished class, he would pick me up at the school gate on time, which made many classmates very envious."

When Li said this, Qi Feng showed a very doting look to her again, "No, these are what I should do."

Then Li suddenly became unhappy, and said frustratedly and angrily: "But then something went wrong, I mean now, now he is very busy, very busy, although he still takes good care of me, I don't know, I don't know The statement may be too much, I really don't know, so..."

"Talk slowly, everyone will have some unavoidable emotions, it's okay, it might be better if we talk about it." Chu Sisi comforted, she found that Li looked really unhappy, her tears Spinning in the eye sockets, wanting to fall anytime.

"But maybe these are all my reasons. I have too high demands on him. I also understand that we have been married for four or five years, and I can't ask him to always treat me like he did when we first fell in love and when we first got married. .”

"My wife has a bit of a princess temper, please forgive me for that." Qi Feng said very politely.

"My princess temper? Do you think this is temper?"

Li turned sideways to look at Qi Feng, Qi Feng waved his hands like a child who did something wrong, "No, no, I mean, you are a princess in the first place, and you will always be the princess in my heart."

"It didn't sound like a lie when I got married, but now it sounds a little unreal."

Qi Feng shrugged helplessly. The two of Chu Sisi felt as if Chen Weiwei was coaxing Zhang Mei. Her mother would often lose her temper because of the headache of the case at hand. Dad was very patient and accompanied her mother, and always encouraged her to say, "It's okay, take your time, and I will help you see how to solve it."

In Chu Sisi's view, this is a necessary communication between husband and wife. This kind of temper tantrum and doting complement each other, and it is a way of getting along with each other.

Li bit her lip and said to Chu Sisi: "Doctor, I think there is a little problem between us, maybe it has something to do with the child."

"Don't talk nonsense." Qi Feng suddenly grabbed Li's hand, and Li pulled his hand out, as if she was determined to tell Chu Sisi the grievance in her heart.

"Maybe because I don't want to have children, my husband is a little cold to me."

Chu Sisi felt that perhaps she should ask some questions about married life at this time, but she didn't know how to ask, for fear that everyone would feel embarrassed.

"There is no such thing. Why do you have to attribute everything to the child? I told you many times that it has nothing to do with the child. You are under too much pressure. If you plan to go to Europe Working there, I said that I support you, don’t think that we are often unhappy because of our children’s problems just because you are hesitant about work and can’t make up your mind.”

"Why can you talk nonsense with your eyes open like this? Don't your parents keep urging us to have a child? But I'm still young, and I don't think this is something we should have to face right away."

"So this is your princess temper. I always feel that what you think is right. Okay, let's talk. There is a doctor here today, so we can clarify the problem. Let me say it first, I swear , I didn't ask my wife to have a baby, I like you, do you want to have a baby, this matter will not affect my feelings for you. "

Li couldn't laugh or cry, and said, "You really swear?"

Qi Feng raised his hand seriously, "I can say the same thing to anyone."

"Even in front of your parents?"

Li still couldn't believe it.

"Of course the same. I don't think my parents are the kind of people who are unreasonable in this regard and will make trouble for no reason. My wife and my marriage are all my business. Why do you care so much about what they think? I don’t know how they urged us to have a baby, or am I losing my memory?”

The two sounded like they were arguing, but Qi Feng kept giving way to his wife.

"I think your loneliness is because you demand too much of yourself, why can't you be a wife? You can live like a princess, go out every morning and have a cup of coffee, then go shopping, buy whatever you want It's all right, although the money at home is not considered rich, but you don't need to be careful when you spend some money on a daily basis. I will give you the credit card, and I will pay back the money for you every month. In the afternoon, you can find a girlfriend to drink like other girls Afternoon tea, there are so many good places around the sea, there are delicacies from all over the place, or you can go on a trip, wherever you want.”

"When it comes to travel, I feel even more headache and upset." Li looked at Chu Sisi and said, "Really, when it comes to travel, I feel even more uncomfortable, but you know? I don't think I can do this, I I can't complain, because Qi Feng earns most of the family's income, and I can't complain that he doesn't accompany me on trips. In short, I think all my troubles, I can't eat, I can't sleep well, all because of him No time for me."

"I've been with you as much as I can."

"No, you haven't. Ever since you opened branches in other cities, I often think that my husband is a workaholic. I used to think that you are a man with very good time management, but now, I think you are The one who manages your time by spending less time with me, I'm the unimportant person who gets shrunk and shrunk."

"It's not what you said at all. If I really don't care about you and don't want to be by your side, why should I suggest that we go to the hospital to talk to the doctor? Why do we care so much about your feelings? You have to know When it comes to loneliness, it's a kind of harm to me, okay?"

"Sorry."

Li burst into tears, as if she really hurt Qi Feng.

At this time, Qi Feng stretched out his hand to hold his wife, and put his wife's hand between his own, and the two showed their "love" in front of Chu Sisi.

Chu Sisi really didn't think there was any problem between the two.

According to her knowledge, couples therapy is a type of family therapy, usually to deal with problems that originate in the family system, such as emotional communication barriers between the two parties, or one party believes that the other party has a personality disorder.

Generally speaking, people are quite repulsive to couples therapy. One of the parties who wants to seek help is often not easy to ask the other party, and it is still taboo to talk to the doctor about such things.

For thousands of years, the culture formed by the people on this land has always been that the family ugliness is not exposed.

No matter how they are at home, most people will always say that the family is very good outside, that the husband treats them well, and the wife is also very gentle. In fact, there may have been a cold war between the two for several years.

Chu Si thought about Zhang Mei and Chu Xiaofeng. In the eyes of outsiders, Professor Chu's reputation in the academic world is getting higher and higher. He is a doctor and a university professor. Such a husband is already considered very good.

Zhang Mei himself loves the profession of lawyer very much. It can be said that he is conscientious and conscientious. The wealth accumulation of the family is also very good. Neither of them will spend money indiscriminately. The problems that ordinary people can think of have never appeared in this family.

No one would have thought that Chu Xiaofeng and Zhang Mei would divorce in the end.

And the reason Chu Sisi is not very clear until now, she once wondered if it was because of her that the relationship between parents gradually became indifferent.

Or because of work, Chu Sisi even thought about it when she was young, if both of them didn't have to work, if there was no "job" in the world, would the relationship between parents be like those happy families on TV? Woolen cloth?

The whole family eats out together every week, and the whole family travels every month or every holiday, but Chu Sisi’s childhood didn’t have these things. Mom and dad respect each other, but the relationship is very cold, and they almost live their own lives .

If Professor Chu didn't say anything, Chu Sisi didn't say anything, and Zhang Mei didn't say anything, no one would doubt that this family was one of the thousands of happy families in the world, but in fact they were not happy.

It wasn't until after her parents separated that Chu Sisi saw Zhang Mei's happiness and her father Chu Xiaofeng's relaxed expression. For a long time, she still didn't understand what was going on, and she even thought that it might be because Don't take care of this daughter together.

This kind of conflict between families usually does not allow outsiders to participate.

Qi Feng took his own initiative to bring his wife to the hospital, which made Chu Sisi feel that he cared about Li very much, because his father, Chu Xiaofeng, had never tried to understand his mother's feelings, at least he had not considered using some methods to reconnect the two of them. feelings become harmonious.

Li also seemed to feel that she was a little vexatious, but her sense of loneliness was real.

"I think it all started when you started doing business outside." Li's focus changed from her parents urging them to have children to Qi Feng doing business outside.

"When you met me, I was in the building materials business. The demand for building materials around the sea these years is not as good as in previous years. This is caused by market changes, but the demand for building materials in the surrounding area is indeed increasing. Don't I look at the opportunity to make money? Working hard, does it make it more and more difficult to do business year after year while waiting around the sea?"

"But your colleagues, I mean, your friends don't go out to do business so often." Li raised her hand to wipe her tears, and Chu Sisi was about to hand her a piece of paper. So far, Qi Feng is already wiping his wife's tears. tears.

"Don't cry, you know, I work so hard for you, for this family, I earn a little more money and you can live more comfortably, isn't this my promise to you at the beginning?"

"I know, so, I... sorry, I don't know how to say it, maybe we shouldn't come to the hospital today, I feel so ashamed."

Li turned her face away and stopped looking at Chu Sisi, and Chu Sisi didn't know how to proceed...

"Next time we can talk separately." Mu Chun suggested to Chu Sisi.

And the follow-up visit time is exactly ten o'clock in the morning of the next day.

Mu Chun looked at Deng Moran, and UU Reading www.uukanshu.com roughly outlined the possible outline of the whole matter in his heart.

The most obvious thing is that one of Deng Moran and Li is definitely not Qi Feng's wife in the legal sense.

Bigamy is illegal. Would a man like Qi Feng, who had a successful career, marry two wives openly knowing that it was illegal?

If everyone is not lying, what is the truth of the matter?

Mu Chun promised Deng Moran that she would be able to answer this matter the next day, and she could go home and wait for the call.

Deng Moran didn't accept this solution at first, until Mu Chun told her that Qi Feng might really have been to the hospital, Deng Moran stared blankly at Mu Chun with a dazed expression, and finally, she said: " I hope you guys made a mistake."

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