Crazy Psychologist
Vol 2 Chapter 609: It's hard to forget the grievances I suffered that day
Although a child is young, he also understands that the people around him are not friendly to him, whether there is anyone around him who likes him, whether the people around him hate him, this feeling is sometimes clear in the child's heart.
Later, Mu Chun told Xie Chunping and Li Xiaoyun that the child would not divide all kinds of emotions very finely, and the child would only rush to be "abandoned".
Neglect by adults, parents leaving their children with the elderly, or parents yelling at or even beating their children.
Children can't think too many complex emotions, but they can feel—abandoned.
This feeling will follow the child for a lifetime, and many of them will not change for many years after adulthood.
After growing up, this feeling of being abandoned will grow into a kind of flattering personality.
Because they are afraid of being abandoned, they always work hard to do a lot of things well, and they always hope that people around them think they are good. Such a life will be a very exhausting life.
And for all the carelessness of the parents, it is the children who bear everything.
After listening to Mu Chun's words, Li Xiaoyun finally calmed down, and Mu Chun's voice softened, "It is indeed difficult. Whether it is now or in the future, there are many things to face, but we can face them together."
"Tell me, what is the disease?" Li Xiaoyun stretched out his right hand to wipe away his tears.
"It should be [Tourette's Syndrome], a hereditary neurological disease."
After Mu Chun finished speaking, Li Xiaoyun was at a loss, "I don't understand the doctor, so just tell me how to treat it, what kind of medicine to buy or do some infrared physiotherapy?"
"There are no targeted drugs."
Mu Chun replied.
"No?"
"Yes, not at all."
"Actually, we met each other last time in the concert hall, do you remember?" Mu Chun reminded Li Xiaoyun.
Only then did she realize that there was indeed such a thing. This doctor had indeed seen this doctor when she took Xie Xiaofei to the Lechuan National Piano Competition finals. At that time, she felt that this person was meddling, but it turned out that the people around him said it was good, and he was really a doctor.
During the intermission, in the lobby, Li Xiaoyun couldn't bear his temper and gave Xie Xiaofei a good education, but was stopped by a man later.
This person is Dr. Mu Chun! That's right!
"I'm so sorry," Li Xiaoyun said, "I'm so sorry."
"I said that Dr. Mu Chun must have a solution here. I saw many people on the Internet saying that Dr. Mu Chun is very good." Xie Chunping praised bluntly.
Li Xiaoyun glanced at her husband out of the corner of her eye, and then seriously asked Dr. Mu Chun, "What should I do if there is no special medicine?"
"Tourette's symptoms usually start before puberty, but some end up with the end of puberty, and some patients may have persistent problems."
"Then how do you know which type our Xie Xiaofei belongs to?" Li Xiaoyun asked hastily.
Mu Chun understands the worry and pressure that parents feel when they know their child is sick and there is no clear treatment method.
When I saw Xie Xiaofei in the concert hall, this sense of oppression already existed in Mu Chun's heart, and when Xie Xiaofei grew up, when he understood some people's evaluations and could understand more emotions, what Xie Xiaofei had to face This world will be very unfriendly.
"There is no way to judge." Mu Chun decided to tell the truth.
He has no way to hide something from the child in front of the parents, because this kind of concealment seems to temporarily relieve the pain of the parents, but it doesn't make any sense at all.
"Then what should we do?" Xie Chunping grabbed Li Xiaoyun's shoulder, his fingers trembling slightly.
"First, such symptoms, such as strange screams and body tremors, will occur more frequently due to emotional tension, and it is much better to try to keep your emotions calm.
Second, doing more exercise and improving your physical fitness will help.
Third, family harmony. Even if the child has no problems, we should try our best to maintain family harmony. In addition, let him understand his own problems slowly. This kind of problem does not affect him and every normal child, they are no different .
It is necessary to consider in advance the inferiority complex that the child may have due to the surrounding environment, and build and protect the child's self-confidence. Parents especially cannot let the child feel that he has embarrassed his parents because of these strange things in him, so his parents look down on him.
He will definitely encounter all kinds of difficulties outside, because we can't avoid and prevent them from happening because of other people's eyes and bad words, right? "
Xie Chunping and Li Xiaoyun nodded together.
I don't know how much they understood. When they left the hospital, Li Xiaoyun came back secretly and asked Dr. Mu Chun if he could try some medicine. The condition is not too serious. Mu Chun hopes that they can bring the child to the doctor for a follow-up visit every half a month, and record the time when the child's symptoms are severe at home. Two weeks is a cycle. At the same time, Mu Chun suggested that Li Xiaoyun communicate with the school teacher about this matter. , Truthfully explain the child's situation, so that the child may suffer less pain at school.
Mu Chun tries to do all the things that can be done in advance, but Mu Chun knows whether the child will suffer pain outside.
This is a matter that the family has to face and bear together. Whether a child with Tourette's syndrome can grow into a happy and cheerful child depends on the parents' influence.
Of course, Mu Chun also hopes that Xie Xiaofei can leave the control of this disease after a beautiful puberty.
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That night, Mu Chun asked Mu Xiao to have dinner together. Seeing Mu Chun's gloomy expression, Mu Chun thought he was worried about the professor and wanted to comfort him, but Mu Chun asked about Xiao Lanping and Dahai.
"You mean their Tourette's Syndrome charity film?" Mu Xiao asked.
Mu Chun nodded, put down his chopsticks and asked Mu Xiao, is the filming going well?
Mu Xiao took out the mobile phone from the bag, and told Mu Chun happily, "It's simply too great. I really didn't expect that these two children could do this to such a complete extent. I thought they would be simple at first." It’s just to find some patients and do some interviews, but they actually used the documentary filming method of follow-up shooting. I watched the edited version for the first time and cried.”
When she said this, Mu Xiao's eyes were red, as if she was about to shed tears in the restaurant.
"Don't cry, why are you so fragile?" Mu Chun comforted.
"What's fragile? It's touching, okay? You can see for yourself."
Mu Xiao opened the video and handed it to Mu Chun.
This initial edited version often lasted more than an hour. Mu Chun only read the story of the first patient, and even a man like him wanted to cry.
"It's really too difficult." Mu Chun leaned on the chair and said.
"Yes, this girl, her parents are divorced, and she lives with her mother. She was ridiculed by her classmates when she was studying. She finally graduated from college and wanted to find a job, but she was repeatedly called weird by the boss. It's not very good for the company's image, or This will affect the work of other colleagues and rejected her on the grounds. It is really not easy, but you can see that she is so optimistic, she looks like a normal 21-year-old girl."
In the documentary, the girl named Liu Hui showed Dahai the medicines she took. There were more than 20 kinds of medicines in a shoe box. She took out five cans of them and poured the pills on the palm.
She reached out to the camera lens, and then said: "Look, this is the medicine I take every day, no, it's the medicine I take every meal."
Liu Hui counted to the camera, "Eighteen!" she said.
"Is it useful to eat it?" Dahai asked.
"What do you think? Have you never taken these medicines?" Liu Hui smiled brightly.
Dahai’s voice appeared on the screen, “I’ve had it for a year or two, but my mother said it’s useless, it’s useless at all, so it’s not a waste of money.”
"Hahaha, I don't know how many years I have been taking it. What you see here are more than a dozen bottles of medicine. Look at these. I don't know how to take these medicines or what to take. Anyway, some of them are vitamins, some What nourishes the nerves, and some treat emotions—because I am often either very irritable, very irritable, very irritable."
Liu Hui's mother said from the side: "Yes, very irritable, almost like a psycho."
The screen still stays on Liu Hui's mother, Liu Fangmin, but Liu Hui's voice suddenly breaks in, "What does it mean to be like a neuropathy, am I not a neuropathy? A neuropathy neuropathy."
Liu Hui with a ponytail yelled at Liu Fangmin, and at the same time kept tapping his fingers on the table, making his whole body tremble.
"Look, she's like this, she can't say a word, what did I say about her? Whenever I talk, she gets angry anyway, and quarrels with me all day long." Liu Fangmin didn't look at Liu Hui, nor did she look at the camera, He swiped Weibo on his phone.
"Don't worry about it, my mother and I are like this. It's not easy for her. Mom! Don't check Weibo, what's there to do?"
Liu Hui yelled again while she was talking. When she yelled, her neck twisted back and forth, and there was a sound like teeth clashing in her mouth from time to time.
"You take a look after you go back, and I'll send it to you, but I can tell you in advance that Liu Hui is still very optimistic, so she is a lucky girl. She found a job in a few days. Dahai also interviewed the boss of Liu Hui's new company. The boss is also a very kind person. He said that Liu Hui is very nice and is the employee his company wants. As for such small problems, Liu Hui told the boss very clearly during the interview, and also made it up for the boss. Explained in detail and clearly, the boss thought she was very brave and honest, and she was the employee he hoped for.
Although the salary is not high, Liu Hui is very happy and said to buy a new dress for her mother. She hasn't bought a new dress for a long time. "
"That's great, can such a movie win the first place?"
Mu Chun asked with a smile.
"Not necessarily, this movie is very touching, but many public welfare films are also very touching. I also received "Children of the Stars" filmed by a [autism] public welfare organization, which is also very very touching. I Watch it again and cry again, and after crying, I want to watch it again."
"Autism?" Mu Chun asked.
"Yes, autism."
"I saw a child before, but the mother didn't pay attention to the child's problem at all. She just wanted me to issue a medical certificate to her, proving that the child was mentally handicapped. Then, I didn't know what she wanted to do. gone."
Mu Chun thought of Fang Jia and her daughter, that child seemed likely to be an [autistic] child.
"If parents don't pay attention, or treat their children's problems in a completely unscientific way, then the children must suffer, and many of them will really last their lives."
Mu Xiao's expression was very dignified.
The child's problem has always been a big concern of the psychosomatic doctor.
"By the way," Mu Xiao said, "help me think of a name. Xiao Lanping said that she and Dahai were about to quarrel, and she didn't think of a name that both of them thought would be suitable, so she wanted to ask me to help you think about it. I don’t know what name to choose. The title of the documentary is still quite important. It’s best to let everyone know what the theme of the movie is from the title. In addition, it can also have a little positive energy. It must be positive. It better be more beautiful."
Mu Chun looked at Mu Xiao, snapped his fingers, and then he smiled and said, "This is really demanding."
"You can figure it out, I know Mu Chun has a little wisdom."
"In terms of naming, I think our parents are probably more powerful, Mu Chun, Mu Xiao, what do you think?"
Mu Chun made a joke, but he was thinking about finding a suitable name for this movie. This movie is very touching, and it also tells everyone about a disease that few people know about—Tourette’s Syndrome.
But these young Tourette's patients are so energetic. For example, Dahai is also a musician himself. He often participates in various music performances and has gradually gained some fame in the circle.
"Have you thought about it?" Mu Xiao urged. UU reading www.uukanshu.com
"When I think about it, it's called "Double Happiness"." Mu Chun said.
"Proper happiness?" Mu Xiao repeated, and then a beautiful smile bloomed on her face. Suddenly, light and shadow flowed in her eyes. There seemed to be tears, but they were tears of joy.
"Good name," she said.
"Then ask Dahai and Xiao Lanping if they like it. Only they know what is most suitable for the documentary they shot. Do I need to think of another backup?" Mu Chun asked again.
"I think this name is enough. Why do you have to plan B and C even for the name? Mu Chun's true bad habits will not change." Mu Xiao deliberately laughed at him.
"It's really hard to change bad habits. I seem to have a bad memory, so I may have to be more careful in the future and think about everything." Mu Chun rubbed his forehead, thinking of the past few days. Those weird words that Ri Hongling said, but thinking of those words, Mu Chun's head hurts a little.
"What's wrong with you?" Mu Xiao touched Mu Chun's forehead with concern, "You don't have a fever!"
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