Crazy Psychologist

Chapter 275: Pleaser personality

I don't know how long it took before Bai Lu regained consciousness.

"I'm sorry." Bai Lu said.

"Huh? It's okay, I'm afraid we will be trending on Weibo tomorrow."

"How come?" Bai Lu grinned.

"Weibo posts like [Wretched-Naughty Man Hot Pot Restaurant stalked and beat up a pianist] usually attract people's interest."

"You did it on purpose, right?" Bai Lu asked.

"Ah, I've seen it." Mu Chun pretended to be stupid and scratched his chin.

"Yeah, I can tell, she's really pretending, it's a pity not to act."

"Don't say that, I also really like Teacher Bailu." Mu Chun said softly!

Just like the real thing!

"If I hadn't suddenly remembered the sign at the door of the outpatient room on the fifth floor, I would have been competing with a female patient to enter this outpatient room one morning."

"Eh? It seems that there is such a thing." Mu Chun echoed.

"Yeah, it was just a few weeks ago, so that time I looked at the sign specially, and I was impressed by the word [Physical and Physical Medicine], so a doctor of physical and mental medicine will naturally be somewhat different. As an ordinary doctor, I am afraid that I will be deceived and not know."

Bai Lu smiled, but her mood was much more stable than before.

"It seems like I'm praising the doctors of the [Physical and Mental Medicine], but in fact ~~~~~ are just ordinary doctors, maybe not as good as ordinary doctors."

Mu Chun lowered her head, Bai Lu suspected that she had read something wrong, why did she feel that the shameless doctor just now suddenly felt a deep sadness?

"So the treatment of the physical and mental department is not limited to the treatment in the hospital? I'm afraid it's not as simple as prescribing medicine and checking."

Bai Lu held her head with her right hand and looked at Mu Chun's face.

Mu Chun suddenly became embarrassed, "Don't look at me like that, no girl has ever looked at me like that."

The atmosphere suddenly relaxed, and Bai Lu sighed, "Okay, I won't look at you, your treatment may have some effect."

"Really? I just felt it at the beginning. I always felt that there was something I didn't notice. In the chain of [loneliness]-[alcohol]-[indulgence]-[pain], I always felt that there was something I didn't notice. The place I’ve been to, so I want to search again, find a better breakthrough, wipe the card, and untie this chain.”

"Well, you might have helped me realize that."

Bai Lu smiled.

"Really? Then we may have hit the right target. I said that Teacher Bai Lu definitely has the potential to become a psychosomatic doctor."

"Is there? No, I'm just a patient. Loneliness is a disease. I don't know how to reject it. It's a disease. It's very hard for me. I don't dare to say anything if I am dissatisfied. On the husband's side, maybe as long as Tell him early in the morning that you don't like him traveling all the time, maybe it won't be what it is today.

Whether at home, at school, or among classmates since I was a child, I was always afraid that others would be unhappy, but it seemed that others would not be really happy just because of my compromise. "

"[Pleasing personality] This kind of personality is very common." Mu Chun explained that almost every person who pleases is very clear in his heart. If he doesn't know how to refuse, it will be very tiring, and it will be very hard to please others. Sometimes this thing is really not his own. I want to do that, but if I don't do it, others will be unhappy.

They are sensitive and even vulnerable.

Sometimes I think, what a wonderful thing it would be if the world would really be a better place because of the kindness of the [Pleasant Personality]. These people lose themselves through endurance again and again, some become more and more lonely, and some become weaker and weaker.

But contrary to expectations, the world has not become a better place because of the self-sacrifice of the "pleasing personality". They have become the tools that others take for granted. They satisfy others but hurt themselves. At this time, they still have to make up a story about the past. Explain to make things look not so bad, my weakness is not because I don't know how to say no - but there will always be good parts if I promise.

For example, you can take revenge on your husband, such as increasing work experience, such as adding credit to the school.

They are always very selfless, and it is almost impossible to refuse anyone's request, even if it is an unreasonable request or an excessive job that is completely outside the scope of their duties, they will try to understand these requests and will [give this request] in their minds. become rationalized. Things like wronging oneself and perfecting others often happen to such people.

However, as for [pleasers] themselves, they seem to be people who don’t have any demands. It seems that my thoughts are not important in front of the request, because I don’t like conflicts with others, and I always instinctively avoid all things that quarrel with others, such as Turn down a request for assistance at work, or an invitation from a man you don't like.

Before a conflict occurs or is about to occur, it is easy for them to choose to compromise, to be patient and to forget it. "

Bai Lu shed tears, because of her grievances over the years, and because she finally understood that she could try to change this problem.

"Experiencing [total crushing] may change, or [total despair], being forced to the point of being unbearable, sometimes it may be a physical breakdown. Long-term overtime fatigue, no rest sensitive body and sensitive nerves." Mu Chun further explained.

"Why am I like this? Why am I the only one? Everyone else in the school can hand over their work to me. I just find it troublesome to refuse, and it's so difficult to say so. If it weren't for Mu just now Doctor, you~~~~~~~"

"I'm really disgusting, right~www.readwn.com~ Mu Chun said with a smile.

Bai Lu nodded, "Yes, a little bit."

"It's like the guy who disguised himself as a woman, because it's so disgusting that when you reach your limit, the chain is broken."

"Unintentional treatment?" Bai Lu asked.

"Well, you are indeed a good candidate for a physical and mental doctor. If you have the opportunity, you must join us."

Mu Chun's invitation seemed very sincere, but Bai Lu didn't nod and didn't agree. She wondered if this was also caused by the "I" of the [Pleasant Personality]. When hearing this kind of invitation, she always thought that if she If you agree, the other party will be happy, and the scene will look warm and harmonious.

"I have a presumptuous question that I would like to ask Mr. Bai, just to accumulate some experience for meeting the same patients in the future."

Mu Chun said sincerely.

"Well, okay, you can ask."

"I want to know about your childhood, is there anything special?"

"My childhood?" Bai Lu thought for a while, "My childhood was practicing piano, I was always an excellent girl, very excellent, until one day I could no longer show my parents my excellent grades.

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