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Chapter 543 The Correct Posture for Watching Cartoons

In the picture is the conversation between Peppa Pig and George and Daddy Pig after jumping back from the mud pit.

Peppa: Dad, guess what we just did?
Daddy Pig: Did you watch TV?

Page: No no no.

Daddy Pig: Have you showered?
Page: No no no.

Daddy Pig: Oh I see, you're jumping around in the mud puddles.Look how dirty you are.

Page: Oh shit.

Daddy Pig: It's all right, it's just some mud.Wipe it clean, don't let mom see.

Peppa: Daddy, will you and Mommy come and play after you clean it up?

Daddy Pig: Yes, we can all play in the garden.

Tian Mei smiled and said: "In the above clip, Mummy Pig very gently stopped Peggy from jumping in the mud pit without wearing boots, but this restraint didn't stop Peggy from jumping in the mud pit, she can still have the fun she wants, Go by and learn to stop George's similar misbehavior.

But Daddy Pig didn't stop the behavior of jumping around in the mud pit.

In fact, the negative effect it brings is just some mud, some troubles belonging to the parents, just wipe it off.In the process, Page himself realized that "dirty" is a bad thing, but it can be solved.In the end, the whole family happily jumped and played in the mud pit.

Both Daddy Pig and Mummy Pig understand why children love to jump into mud pits. Compared with the troubles it brings, protecting the innocence of children and playing with them is more important.

I remember that I liked to jump on the sofa when I was a child. I broke a layer of membrane outside the sofa at home. My parents always stopped me, but this still couldn't kill my desire to jump on the sofa.In addition to stopping, parents often use punishment to correct misbehavior, but punishment is difficult to moderate.Punishment that is light will not be effective, and whether punishment is severe will hurt the child's heart and affect his personality in adulthood.

For behaviors like "jumping and jumping" that will cause small troubles, it is better not to simply stop them like pig father and mother pig, but to not destroy the child's fun on the basis of understanding the child.If you really need to stop, you might as well try to replace it with a similar hobby.For example, if we can’t jump on the bed, let’s go outside and jump on the trampoline in the park.

Therefore, rather than simply resisting, we might as well adopt a more active approach to solve the problems caused by "Peppa Pig".Maybe it's still an educational film for novice parents? "Speaking of which, Tian Mei looked at Lin Xiao with a smile.

The parents who came to the scene are all people with children, and they are all parents. Naturally, what they care most about is how to educate their children.

After listening to Tian Mei's words, many parents who were dissatisfied with "Peppa Pig" fell into reflection.

Soon there was a burst of warm applause.

Many parents are in Tian Mei's words, if they get something.

"Okay, thank you Professor Tian for your answer. We all know that it is very troublesome for parents to participate in their children's activities, and it is also very troublesome to understand their children. Being a parent is never an easy task. Isn't it?" The host is also the mother of the child , so she is deeply touched and authentic.

"About "Peppa Pig", it is very interesting that not only many children like it, but also many young people and adults like it very much. As the original author, what do you think is the reason?" The host turned to Lin Xiao and asked.

"Anyone who has watched the animation can know that the content of the animation "Peppa Pig" is really daily, such as picnics, kite flying, going to grandparents' house, playing various games, etc. Children can play in this animation What we see here is Page's family, kindergarten life and various games, while what adults see is more that we who were young did not feel a kind of family warmth from our parents."

"As those of us born in the 80s and 90s, I think many of us grew up in the more traditional Chinese family education model, which has the following characteristics:
Parents never show affection, so when I was young, I thought my parents had normal feelings, and I was afraid that they would divorce at any time;
Always compare with other people's children, the most talked about every day is "how about the xxx family's children, look at you again", do you feel very heartbroken? "

When I asked my parents where I came from, I was either "picked up in the trash can" or "born in the armpit"... all kinds of weird answers, so that when I was young, I thought I was really born in the trash can of
I seldom praise myself. I got No.1 in the exam, and my mother said: "It would be better to be more careful in mathematics."...It is really rare to hear praise.

There are many, many more, I don’t know how everyone is like, anyway, I grew up like this when I was young, so that I always felt that my parents didn’t love me. Of course, as I grew older, I gradually realized that it’s not that my parents don’t love me. not good at expressing. "

"So, in "Peppa Pig", my setting for Mummy Pig is to be gentle, never get angry, always have a pleasant face, even if she gets angry, she can quickly adjust to it.

The setting of Daddy Pig is to always bring joy to everyone, and he is really versatile, including sports and art. I think everyone once regarded Daddy as an omnipotent superman, so Daddy Pig is to some extent Said, it is the impression of our childhood father.

As for Page and George, although there are conflicts between the two, Page will make George cry, but when you see Page taking care of George and comforting him, there is love and competition between the two. The family planning policy, which makes many children are only children, usually play by themselves.

Therefore, I personally think that the most ideal life is like this.

There is a person I love deeply and a pair of lovely children. Every day, I send the children to kindergarten with my lover before going to work, have dinner together after work, accompany the children on picnics and travel on weekends, and occasionally visit my parents. Great parent-child time and leisure time!
I just show everything that I didn't feel when I was a child in this animation. I don't know what everyone thinks. Anyway, when I was a child, I didn't have such "daddy pigs and mother pigs".

But I hope that in the future, my child's mother and I can become such "Daddy Pig, Mother Pig!"

"Papa papa!" All the parents were infected by Lin Xiao's words.

Most of the parents present were not much older than Lin Xiao, and what Lin Xiao said made them feel the same way.

Chinese people have always been reserved and introverted. Most people believe that filial sons are born under the stick, and under the pressure of life, most people have no patience at all when educating their children.

Think about it carefully, pig father and pig mother are not only the image of perfect parents that children today most desire, but also the image of parents that parents once dreamed of?
Probably this is why, this cartoon can not only attract children, but also attract the favor of so many adults.

(End of this chapter)