I'm waiting for you in the wind and snow

Chapter 185 That's why the world is so vulgar

After finishing the conversation with Dai Qiang, my mood is a bit complicated. If Dai Qiang's guess is correct, then I really don't understand what Ye Zhi is thinking, because she has always been a smart woman in my heart. So she will not fail to understand the disadvantages that I can see.

With such doubts, I sent her a WeChat message for the first time after returning to Dali: "I want to ask you to verify something. Did you arrange Dai Qiang's business trip to France this time?"

This time, Ye Zhi quickly replied, she was always concise, she only said "um".

I lit a cigarette, and after thinking about it for a while, I expressed my true opinion: "I don't think this is a good thing for him, because the colleagues around him will definitely have ideas. I heard that this is a very serious situation. Rare opportunity."

"Your thinking is a bit extreme... He is a person with a lot of emotional intelligence. I think he is capable of dealing with these criticisms."

"Leave these aside, can you tell me why you gave him this opportunity?"

"I know what you're thinking...but let me tell you very clearly that this has nothing to do with you...the development of a group cannot be separated from talents. It is our responsibility to train him...he will also be obliged to make greater contributions to the group in the future, which is mutually beneficial.”

"I'm curious, what is his ability that is different from ordinary people?"

"He is good at handling interpersonal relationships, has strong learning and memory skills... most importantly, he has the spirit of hard work and hard work that most post-[-]s generation do not have... these are especially needed by the hotel service industry. "

"Really? I didn't even know that my cousin has so many advantages!"

"It's normal that you don't know, because there is no working relationship between you and him... Mi Gao, maybe I say this, you don't like to hear it, but Dai Qiang's ability to survive in the workplace is really much better than you, he is very You understand the rules and are good at using them, but many times, although you can see through them, you are unwilling to let go."

I reflect on myself because of Ye Zhi's words, she is right, I really hate some unspoken rules and sophistication in the workplace, so I will not flatter the leader, and I am not good at expressing myself by stepping on others... If you mess up In the workplace, my upper limit is probably a product manager who has spent time.

At this moment, I am a little hurt.

Ye Zhi sent another message: "But people like you are more charismatic."

I smiled and replied, "Does this count as hitting me with a stick and giving me another piece of candy?"

"Not counting... In this impetuous social environment, there are not many loving and righteous men like you."

"The candy you gave is so sweet!... I don't mind if you give me another one."

"I didn't joke with you, so don't joke with me, okay?... Although we haven't known each other for a long time, I watched you do many things with my own eyes... That day, on the highway, After my car blew out, there were many cars passing by, but you were the only one who stopped to help me change the tire without asking for anything in return... On the Erhai Lake, there were many onlookers, but you were the first to jump to save others …Money and status are indeed the best attire for people living in this society. Most of the people around me are like this, and I have seen enough…Of course they will attract some people to flock to them , but this society can’t judge a hero, good or bad based on material success or failure... So, after experiencing so much with you, I am willing to be the person who admires you and worships you, because you can do many things , I can't even do it!"

I was shocked to see Ye Zhi say so much...

The phone vibrated again, and of course it was from Ye Zhi: "If you want to use material as a standard to measure your own level, then you can just pretend that I didn't say the above."

A full five minutes later, during which I drank a bottle of beer, I sent back a message to Ye Zhi: "I've never been recognized by someone like this before... I'm a little dizzy, really!"

"That's why this world is so vulgar...Because most people judge you by your career and status...But there will always be someone who can see the shining points in you. I'm really glad to meet you. Intrigues, there are really people who can live righteously and bravely."

I drank another bottle of beer, and after a while, I replied: "I'm quite guilty now, so besides what you just said, I want to hear about my shortcomings."

"I have seen through this world, but I can't live with an attitude beyond this world... To say, this is also a kind of vulgarity. I think you care too much about things, so you are not free and easy."

"Probably yes... If I can live with an attitude beyond this world, I will not care about my parents, nor will I plan to reproduce the next generation, just find a deep mountain and old forest, and live alone for the rest of my life Already!"

"You take the free and easy I said too extreme."

I was so confused by what Ye Zhi said, so much so that I forgot to reply to the message... And when I thought too much, I became confused, because as the ex-girlfriend I loved deeply: Lu Jia, said something completely opposite ... She said, integrity cannot be eaten, and justice may not be rewarded. What I should think about is how to buy a house in Shanghai and how to make my future life safe... I said, this is a superficial life... It's reality, she said.

In the end, I was terribly defeated at her feet!
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Slightly drunk, Nicole finally finished singing today. She walked into the bar where I was with a guitar on her back, and then tapped on the table and said to me: "You are so despised. , I said you are not worthy of buying me a drink, why did you leave the 300 yuan at the bar?"

I was inexplicably angry: "Why do you look down on me?...Just because you heard a few nonsense from others, you think you know me well?"

Nicole froze.

I said again in a very strong tone: "Believe it or not, the person you are thinking of and the person I am really going to meet are not the same person at all... I bought you a drink without any malice. Misunderstanding, just put a hat on my head indiscriminately?"

Nicole looked at me even more bewildered.

I swallowed a sip of beer, wishing I could bring out the grievance and helplessness in my heart, and then show it to a stranger named Nicole.

But I didn't do that, I tried to calm myself down, closed my eyes hard, and said to Nicole in an apologetic tone: "I'm sorry, I was a little excited, but things are really not what you see...it is , I am not free and easy when dealing with feelings, but I have always been in awe... The young man you saw that day was called Cao Xiaobei, the girl he liked was called Yang Sisi, and the one who was hospitalized was called Ye Zhi. They are all from Shanghai Other than that, there is nothing in common... But just like this, you still misunderstood me, and none of them listened to my explanation, do you think I was wronged or not!"

Nicole was dubious: "Really?"

"real……"

Nicole thought for a while, then asked again: "Then do you have a picture of them? I can't see their appearance. It is really difficult for me to distinguish two different women in my brain."

I took out my phone, first found a photo in Yang Sisi's circle of friends to show her, and then found a photo of Ye Zhi.

Nicole finally smiled and said, "If I'm not mistaken, the younger one should be Yang Sisi, and the other... To be honest, I've never seen a woman with such a good temperament... Uh, it's a bit awkward. It really feels like you have manipulated this photo, right?"

I explained: "I haven't dealt with it, she is a bit of mixed race... As for her good temperament... probably because she has always been in a high position in the workplace... She is not worse than in the photos."

Nicole went back to look at Yang Sisi's photo, and sighed: "This girl is not bad, she looks very energetic... She feels easy to get along with, just like a beautiful girl next door."

"Well, they are all friends I met on the way to Dali... Later, they all returned to Shanghai, so you misunderstood me."

Nicole tasted the two photos back and forth, and then asked, "Seriously, do you know all the beauties around you?"

"Of course not...there must be ordinary women around. If you want to see photos, I can find hundreds of them for you in Moments."

"Haha, no need... I'm just curious... Just like me, if we are also considered friends, I'm one of the very ordinary parts of your circle of friends."

(End of this chapter)