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"Hmm...!" Zhao Chaogang frowned. Who bothered him at this time, Zhao Chaogang deliberately ignored the voice of the call, but since someone called him at 09:30 in the evening, Zhao Chaogang believed that The person calling himself definitely has something very important. ±,
Therefore, Zhao Chaogang thought for a while, and still answered the call to himself from the bottom of his heart.

"Situ Gang, what's the matter?" When Zhao Chaogang decided to respond to the call in his heart, he already understood who the person calling him was.

"Master, I seem to have found the traces of the people you asked me to investigate, Master."

"What...!" Zhao Chaogang's expression changed drastically, and Situ Gang's words surprised Zhao Chaogang: "Situ Gang, what did you just say, you found the people I asked you to find?" In Zhao Chaogang's words Full of disbelief.

"Yes, master, I may have found the people you asked me to find, but I'm not sure if it's true, but this time the person I met is really strong, at least, this person's cultivation It must be above the congenital stage.

Master, the wave of true energy that this person inadvertently radiated just now directly froze a corner of Lin Qiang's clothes. The water stains on this corner of the clothes are still very cold. So, master, I guess the mystery of this warrior wine People, the escaped prisoners you made me look for. "

Situ Gang reported to Zhao Chaogang devoutly. When Situ Gang told Lin Qiang just now, why he kicked the immortal was largely because of the way he reported to Zhao Chaogang now.

Once Situ Gang finds traces of those extraterrestrial demons here, or something important happens.He didn't need to report to Zhao Chaogang in the secret world of martial arts, as long as he silently recited Zhao Chaogang three times in his heart.Zhao Chaogang will know soon.

Such a miraculous way of calling, how could it be done by a congenital warrior.

Innate warriors can indeed transmit sound to secrets.However, the distance from the sound transmission to the secret is only 4000 meters. This is Mingzhu City, which is more than 3000 kilometers away from the secret martial arts world. In addition, the secret martial arts world is a different planet, so if you want to travel at such a long distance It is not a fairy how to do it in a place where the sound is transmitted into the secret.

"Oh, let me take a look." Zhao Chaogang's consciousness instantly enveloped Situ Gang.Soon, Zhao Chaogang's spiritual sense discovered the abnormality on Situ Gang's fingers. Just like what Situ Gang said, these water stains are extremely cold, but it's no wonder that these water stains are extremely cold in such a hot summer. It can still keep cold, in fact, because there is magic energy in these water stains.

In the world, there are many kinds of ice-type auras.But the only one that exudes evil aura is the demonic energy of the cultivator of the evil way. The water stains on Situ Gang's fingers are actually caused by the inadvertent emission of the demonic energy of the extraterrestrial demons.

The water stains on Situ Gang's fingers are no longer ordinary water stains, they have been completely assimilated by the devil energy.Just like carbon and masonry, carbon and diamond are essentially the same, both formed of carbon.However, due to different external conditions, the substances produced are also different.

It's like carbon.Plants are burned to form carbon.However, the formation of diamonds is much more complicated than that of carbon.

Diamond is the product of diamond finishing. Diamond is the hardest gemstone with the simplest composition in the world. It is a natural crystal composed of carbon and with a cubic structure.

Its composition is basically the same as that of our common coal, pencil lead and sugar. Carbon element crystallizes to form graphite (black) at high temperature and pressure. An oxygen-deficient environment) crystallizes as a precious diamond (colorless).

Therefore, as long as the external conditions are different, the same substance may form different substances.

Just like the water stains on Situ Gang's hands now, they are also water, but because these water stains were infected by magic energy, they have undergone great changes.

Ordinary water will continue to evaporate when it encounters high temperature. However, these water stains that have been infected with magic energy have no signs of evaporation once they encounter high temperature. With the water vapor in the air volume, the volume of the water stain is constantly increasing.

Such a phenomenon looks amazing and frightening, but if a cultivator sees it, there will be no fuss.

What is the magic energy, that is the root of the devil's way of cultivation, without the devil's energy, there will be no devil's way of cultivators, can make those evildoers of the devil's way continue to use the devil's energy to cultivate, we can see the power of the devil's energy.

In the world of self-cultivation, why are demonic cultivators so besieged by other cultivators? The big reason is that those demonic cultivators act too cruelly and lawlessly. However, there is another small reason, that It is the reason why demonic cultivators cultivate demonic qi.

Devil energy is very evil, it can unconsciously affect a person's thinking, a person's essence, for example, this person or a cultivator was a good person before, at least not a bad person, but, after he is contaminated with magic After getting angry, the way of doing things of this person or cultivator will undergo a 180-degree change.

Before, he would be very helpful, or he would not have any harmful thoughts in his heart, but once he was contaminated by the devilish energy, this person's heart began to become evil. If you go to provoke him, he will secretly plot to be killed.

The influence of demonic energy on people's hearts is really too great, so it has naturally become the enemy of many practitioners.

For example, do you like to live in an environment full of warmth and no calculations, or a dark place full of intrigues and calculations? I believe that people on the ninth floor like to live in the former.

Orthodox cultivators do not regard demonic energy as an enemy. Another reason is that demonic energy is extremely difficult to destroy. If a cultivator wants to purify or directly eliminate demonic energy, he must use something with extremely positive attributes to destroy demonic energy. Qi, general yang attribute things can't eliminate the magic energy at all.It may even be assimilated by the magic energy.

Just like the flames in a volcano, if a cultivator uses these flames to burn the magic energy.Cultivators will soon discover that it was originally very bright.The red volcanic flames gradually began to become darker, and eventually, these volcanic flames would turn into a dark black flame, which meant that the volcanic flames had been assimilated by the magic energy and turned into magic flames.

The demonic energy is extremely aggressive, so many cultivators are cautious when encountering the demonic energy. This time is considered Lin Qiang and Situ Gang's luck.The devilish energy that Lin Qiang was infected with was only unintentionally emanating from the extraterrestrial demons, and it was the hottest time of summer, so the devilish energy on the corner of Lin Qiang's clothes did not cause any harm to Lin Qiang and Situ Gang Influence, Lin Qiang and Situ Gang are really lucky this time!

"Very good, Situ Gang, you did a good job. This breath is indeed the breath of those prisoners, Situ Gang. You have made a great contribution this time."

Although the devilish energy on the water stains is very rare, no matter how rare the devilish energy is, how could it escape Zhao Chaogang's sense of consciousness.

"Master. Do you need me to check the traces of those people next? I have been in Mingzhu City for three months, and I still have a little strength here. If those prisoners are here, I will Trust me I can find them easily."

Zhao Chaogang's compliment made Situ Gang extremely happy, for Situ Gang.Getting Zhao Chaogang's praise and affirmation is his best reward.Zhao Chaogang gave Situ Gang too much, so Situ Gang wanted to do his best to repay Zhao Chaogang.

Situ Gang is well aware of how powerful the prisoners who escaped from the secret world of martial arts are, otherwise he would not have directly chosen to report to Zhao Chaogang after knowing that the people who were eyeing Wu Zhejiu might be those prisoners.

I believe that if Situ Gang didn't know the strength of those prisoners at that time, in order to find out the details of these prisoners, Situ Gang decided the time of the meeting and chose to follow up secretly, and once Situ Gang secretly followed the extraterrestrial demon, what would Situ Gang do? I believe everyone can guess what will happen.

Even if Situ Gang used the life-saving jade token given to him by Zhao Chaogang after the group, and directly teleported back to the secret world of martial arts, but, I believe that Situ Gang must have suffered extremely serious injuries at that time.

Situ Gang is just a martial artist at the seventh level of the acquired sky, while the extraterritorial celestial demon is a practitioner of the Great Consummation of the Qi Refining Period. The extraterritorial celestial demon can directly crush Situ Gang's soul with an eye attack, not to mention, once the extraterritorial celestial demon starts to attack Now, its attack method is definitely not just a spiritual attack, but a magic attack will also come to Situ Gang immediately.

The loss of consciousness, coupled with the erosion of magic spells, at that time, even if Zhao Chaogang can rescue Situ Gang, Situ Gang will suffer extremely serious injuries. I believe this feeling is definitely no more painful than Ling Chi's execution. Qi is not so easy to get rid of.

Knowing how powerful those prisoners are, Situ Gang chose to report to Zhao Chaogang. However, after learning that those people were indeed the prisoners Zhao Chaogang was looking for, Situ Gang put other things in his mind. Finally, the first thought in his mind is to find the traces of those people for the master Zhao Chaogang as soon as possible. As for his own safety, Situ Gang has no consideration at all.

"Come on, Situ Gang, you stay in the wine for me." Zhao Chaogang reprimanded Situ Gang very severely, but Zhao Chaogang reprimanded Situ Gang so severely in his mouth, but, in Zhao Chaogang's words But my heart is full of joy.

Situ Gang was able to search for the traces of those people regardless of the danger of his life. It was not because he, Zhao Chaogang, was looking for those people again. It's no wonder that Zhao Chaogang is unhappy with his subordinates who think about themselves.

Therefore, although Zhao Chaogang reprimanded Situ Gang very severely, Zhao Chaogang soon persuaded him very gently: "Situ Gang, I understand your loyalty to me very well. Trace, you, Situ Gang, spared your own life. I am very satisfied that you have such courage, but, Situ Gang, have you forgotten the reason why I sent you to Mingzhu City? Situ Gang, why did I send you to Mingzhu City? city?"

"Master, you sent me to Mingzhu City to establish an intelligence agency in Mingzhu City. This... this..., Master. Situ Gang is wrong, please punish him!" Situ Gang lay on the ground directly.His back was covered with cold sweat, he actually forgot the reason why Zhao Chaogang sent him to Mingzhu City.

"Forget it, get up, man has gold under his knees, don't kneel on the ground, get up!" Zhao Chaogang asked Situ Gang to get up very gently: "Situ Gang, you have realized your mistake now, I asked you to come to Mingzhu City The main reason is to allow you to establish an intelligence network in Mingzhu City, so your main job now is to establish a good intelligence network in Mingzhu City, and other things must be put behind this matter.

Those prisoners are indeed very important, but you cannot lose your essential work for these prisoners.We can't do such silly things as throwing away watermelon and picking up sesame seeds!When doing things, we must distinguish between primary and secondary, and we must not lose the big because of the small! "

Zhao Chaogang breathed a sigh of relief.Let Situ Gang have a process of acceptance, and then continue to say: "Situ Gang, in life, in doing things. You have to distinguish between the primary and the secondary, so that you can grasp success!
It's like a child who unfortunately falls into the water.Ask passers-by for help, but passers-by only blame him for his carelessness.At this time, the child said anxiously: "You save me first. It's not too late to blame me!"

Situ Gang, in this story, the passers-by did not distinguish the priority of doing things - saving people is undoubtedly more important than blame, but the passers-by made the wrong choice, which will lead to tragedy.

In life, there are many examples of failures due to ignorance of priorities, so learn to distinguish priorities and grasp success.

Also, a man from the state of Chu, in order to sell pearls at a good price, made a beautiful box and packed them well.

Not long after arriving in the market, many people gathered around to appreciate Chu people's boxes.A Zheng Guoren held the box in his hand and looked at it for a long time. He couldn't put it down, and finally bought Chu's box at a high price.

After Ren Zheng paid the money, he took the box and walked back, but came back after a few steps.The people of Chu thought that the people of Zheng regretted that they wanted to return the goods, but the people of Zheng walked up to him, took out the pearls in the box and handed them to the people of Chu, saying, "Sir, you forgot a pearl in the box, and I came here to return the pearls on purpose." of."

So the Zheng man handed the pearl to the Chu man, and then walked back while admiring the box with his head down.

Zheng people only stared at the exquisite box, but lost the real valuable pearl.It can be seen that we must distinguish between the primary and the secondary in everything we do, otherwise we will do stupid things like the Zheng man who "buy the basket for the pearl" and make inappropriate choices.

People in Zheng couldn't distinguish between primary and secondary, and they bought a basket for pearls, which made people laugh and be generous.Situ Gang, you don't want to learn from Zheng Ren, you should learn to distinguish between primary and secondary, so that you can move towards the other side of success.

For another example, there is a young man who goes to participate in the recruitment of a sales consultant for a car company.The content of the recruitment is very simple. Each candidate is required to do a test paper. The chief examiner said that he mainly wants to see how everyone's comprehensive knowledge is. I hope everyone will take it seriously. The time to answer the questions is only 10 minutes.

When the test papers came out, everyone was stunned.The test paper is full of dense content, and the topics are very wide, including astronomy, geography, philosophy and art... But it is impossible to complete it in such a short time.

The young man didn't know where to start. He hurriedly read the test paper, only to find that only the last two questions in the test paper were related to car sales.In the limited time, the young man only chose these two questions and handed in the test paper.

A few days later, he received an offer from the company.On the day of registration, the chief examiner said to him: "You are the one who answered the least questions among all job applicants, but you have done what you have to do. You are a person who can distinguish priorities, use your brain and do things, so we have taken a fancy to you. you."

The success of a young man lies in the fact that he distinguishes the primary from the secondary, and chooses the most important thing to do.

In life, we often encounter similar "examination papers" in life. We can't finish them all, but we have to distinguish between priorities and choose to do the most important part. It's just useless work.Therefore, only by distinguishing the primary from the secondary can we grasp success! "Zhao Chaogang taught Situ Gang very patiently, and he was very optimistic about Situ Gang and Zhao Chaogang.

Situ Gang is loyal to him, and Situ Gang's ability makes Zhao Chaogang value Situ Gang very much. Otherwise, Zhao Chaogang doesn't value people very much, how could Zhao Chaogang say these things to him.

Indeed, whether it is in life or work, it is really important to see clearly the priorities, in everyone's life.There are always major and minor things to do.Every thing has both positive and negative meanings, how to distinguish between primary and secondary.Grasping moderation is a question worth thinking about for everyone in a lifetime.

Some people are busy from morning to night.There is always endless work at hand, it seems that they are born to work hard, they do more than others, and contribute more than others, but the god of fate always jokes with them, so that they get little gain, and even make mistakes again and again, so they have to Run for life all your life.

Yet some people work in order, no matter what they do.They can be relaxed, and it seems that they don't need to pay a lot to get the favor of the goddess of luck. They do things with ease, and their careers and lives are satisfactory.

What exactly makes such a difference? The answer lies in whether a person has a clear direction or goal.

A person's life cannot be without a goal, just like a car cannot be without a steering wheel.A car without a steering wheel, even with a powerful engine, is useless.

So, a person who lacks a clear goal and direction.He didn't know where he should go. In the ever-changing society, he went south all of a sudden and went north all of a sudden.Try this industry today, do that job tomorrow.

Once this kind of person encounters difficulties, he will immediately reverse the course of his life.Therefore, he has no orientation throughout his life, drifting in the endless ocean of life.

The direction of doing things.Often more important than the results achieved.We should be clear about the direction of life, because what kind of choice determines what kind of life.Not for too much ** or so.Seeing the essence of the problem clearly and moving towards a goal is the most basic rule of doing things.

No matter what you do, there should be a distinction between primary and secondary. Often the important things only account for 20.00%, and the other 80.00% are secondary.

Distinguishing priorities, rejecting unnecessary trivial matters, clearing a distracting thought from the brain every day, and allocating time and energy reasonably will allow us to spend more time every day, keep energetic at all times, and be good at grasping weak links, Solve important problems with ease.

Because you can't distinguish between the primary and the secondary, so in many cases, doing too much may not necessarily be the right thing to do.

We often hear such complaints: "I have done more and paid more than him, but why am I not doing as well as him? It's really unfair!" But in fact, is it God's unfairness or something wrong with you personally?
Napoleon Hill said: "People who ride bicycles can't go far." If a person is too busy to work and doesn't know how to take time to think and choose the workload that suits him, he will never be able to fully Using your own energy can even bring about bad results.

God and victory favor those who know how to use their energy effectively.

As long as you can clearly distinguish the priorities, we will find that reasonable planning can reduce the workload and keep the work in order.Planning allows us to sort out the order of things to be done, and what is urgent is not necessarily important.

In the face of urgency and importance, we should learn how to choose.

We will learn how to identify "disorderly life" for office staff; how to improve efficiency; when we try to do things right, have we thought about whether the thing itself is right or not.

We will understand that it is better to do less than to do more, and how to grasp this unique skill; how to change "one trick fresh" into "one trick first"; and how to concentrate and get things right.

We will understand that gains and losses are a pair of friends who are indistinguishable from each other. When you are greedy for everything, don't forget to let go when you should let go.

Abandoning is the best way to gain. Trying to control others, not daring to break the routine, and not having the courage to bend and stretch will make people bear a heavy burden and make it harder and harder to walk.

We will understand what kind of relationship is unique; as a leader, what kind of relationship should be established with subordinates; mobilizing the enthusiasm of subordinates is not as simple as a sentence, how to invite people to do things, and how to cooperate with them is very important Important; how to clearly communicate orders; how to maintain coordination and cooperation between departments so as not to be offside or misplaced.

We will understand that the key to doing the right thing lies in good habits, but how to develop good habits is very important; working hard is not necessarily a low profile; some things are not worth doing; we should be good at grasping the bottom line of the rules; When we have to promise, how to reduce the risk; why we say that our whole life is doing one thing, but we should figure out what it is.

If you had one urgent but not important thing and another important but not urgent thing in front of you, which one would you do first?You may find it difficult to face this problem.

In real life, many people are like this.This is just as the French philosopher Bu-lai-s? Ba-s-ka said: "It is the most difficult for people to understand what to put first."

to many.Unfortunately this statement is so true that they have absolutely no idea how to rank the tasks and responsibilities of life in order of importance.They think that the work itself is the result.But it is not.

May wish to give an example, in the process of learning in school, what do people lack the most?There may be many people who feel the same. The most lacking thing is money.During this period, people can think that learning is important to their life, but it is not the most urgent, while money is urgent to themselves (I will give many reasons. For example, I have grown up and don’t want Parents' money, etc.), but not the most important.

At this crossroads, what do you choose?
Different people have different choices about this question.Some choose to abandon school early to pursue business, some still choose to study at school, and there are even more sad ones, whether they abandon school to do business or study at school, they don't know what they are doing.

This example seems really obvious.Many people do not know which is more important and which is more urgent when dealing with various aspects of their daily life.

These people think that every task is the same, as long as the time is filled with hustle and bustle.They are happy from the bottom of their hearts.They are only willing to do things that make them happy, no matter how unimportant or urgent it is.

A person who wants to be successful should understand the principles of priorities. They should deal with things for a year or a month or a day.Always arrange your time in a prioritized way.

(1) Carefully determine the primary and secondary

Before you can decide what to do with each year or day, you must have a more holistic view of how you spend your time.need to be able to do this.Ask yourself four questions:
1 Where do I come from and where am I going?Everyone comes into this world.It's all fate.Everyone shoulders a heavy responsibility and moves forward according to the goal appointed by fate.

Maybe in another 20 years, everyone may become the leader of the company, a big entrepreneur, and a great scientist.

Therefore, the first problem people have to solve is to understand what they want to do in the future?Only in this way can people persevere in working towards this goal and abandon everything that has nothing to do with them.

2 What do I need to do?To prioritize, you should also figure out what you need to do.

There will always be tasks that must be done.It is important to distinguish whether a task must be done, or whether it must be done by yourself.These two situations are different. It must be done, but it is not necessary for you to do it yourself. You can delegate it to others, and you are only responsible for supervising its completion.

3 What will give me the highest return?People should focus their time and energy on the things that will give them the highest rewards, the things they will do better than others.

In this regard, use Barre-Tow's (8020) law to guide yourself: People should spend 80% of their time doing things that bring the highest return, and 20% of their time doing other things, so that the best use of time is the best use of time. with a strategic vision.

4. What gives me the greatest sense of satisfaction?Some people think that the things that bring the highest returns must give them the greatest satisfaction.But that's not the case in either case.No matter what your status is, you always need to spend part of your time doing things that bring you satisfaction and happiness.Only in this way can we always maintain enthusiasm for life, because our own life is interesting.

(2) Put important things first

American business and computer tycoon Luo-Spei-Roo said: "Everything that is excellent and commendable is always on the edge of the knife. It takes continuous efforts to keep the edge of the knife sharp."

Roth realized that after people determine the importance of things, it does not mean that things will be done well automatically.

It may take a lot of effort to do these important things well, but it must take a lot of effort to always put them first.

Here's a three-step plan to help people do just that:

1 valuation.First of all, use the four principles of goals, needs, rewards and satisfaction mentioned above to make an assessment of what you are going to do.

2 removal.The second step is to get rid of unnecessary things and entrust others to do things that need to be done but not necessarily done by oneself.

3 estimates.Write down what you have to do to reach your goal, including how long it will take to complete the task, who can help you complete the task, and so on.

(3) Start to act according to priorities

After determining what things should be done.Actions must be taken in accordance with their priorities.Most people prioritize things based on a sense of urgency, not priority.The approach of these people is reactive rather than proactive.

Those who know how to live cannot do this.Instead, work on priorities, here are two suggestions:
1 Start each day with a priority list.

Bo-Lee-Heng-Steel Company President Charlie-Lee-Shu-Wap once met with efficiency expert Ai-Wei Li.When meeting.A-V-Lee said he could help Shu-Wa-Pu manage his steel company better.

Shu-Wa-Pu admits that he knows how to manage, but the reality is that the company is not as it should be.But he said that what he needs is not more knowledge, but more action.

He said: "We are clear about what we should do. If you can tell us how to better implement the plan, I will listen to you, and the price will be determined by you within a reasonable range."

A-V-Lee said he could give Shu-Wa-Pu something in 10 minutes that would increase his company's performance by at least 50 percent.Then he handed Shu-Wa-Pu a blank piece of paper and said, "Write down the 6 most important things you will do tomorrow on this piece of paper."

After a while, he added: "Now use numbers to indicate the order of importance of each thing to you and your company."

This took about 5 minutes, and A-V Leigh continued, "Put this piece of paper in your pocket now. Get the note out first thing in the morning and do item one. Don't look at the rest, just Look at the first item. Work on the first item until you finish it. Then do the same with the second item, the third item... until you leave work. If you only finish the first item, it doesn't matter, you will always It’s doing the most important thing.”

Ai Wei Li added: "Do this every day. After you are convinced of the value of this method, ask the people in your company to do the same. You can do this experiment for as long as you like, and then Send me a check for what you think it's worth."

The entire meeting lasted less than half an hour.After a few weeks.Shu-wa-p sent a check for 2.5 yuan and a letter to Ai-wei Li.The letter said it was the most valuable lesson of his life from a money point of view.

Later someone said, 5 years later.This small steel plant that was unknown at the time has become the largest independent steel plant in the world, and among them, the method proposed by Ai Wei Li is indispensable.

This method later earned Charlie $[-].

2. Write things down in order.Make a schedule.

Getting your day organized is critical to your success.This way, you can focus on what you have to do every moment.But plan for a week, a month, a year.is equally important.

Doing this gives yourself an overall direction and enables you to see your own big picture.thereby helping to achieve the goal.

Follow the above methods and steps, learn to distinguish priorities, and be able to arrange priorities reasonably, which will bring you joy in life and career. A habit or even a virtue persists.

Distinguish between primary and secondary, but also need moderation, moderation is just right, this is a state of the mean that is difficult to achieve.

Give some examples.We love children in moderation, not too cruel, treat children as a tool to vent, often beat and scold children, and not be too coddled, and treat any request of children as reasonable. For example, if a seven-year-old child likes to play games, parents will give him Buying a tablet computer to play games, regardless of his eyesight, will cause the child's myopia early;
Children are selfish and unwilling to give toys to other children to play with. Parents don't care, which may cause children to be willful and arrogant;
Children are unwilling to go out to socialize, and parents lock the children at home, which will cause the children to be withdrawn and unspoken.

The correct intervention should be that after parents buy a computer, they should tell their children how to use the computer, urge them to play games for no more than one hour at a time, keep a distance of one foot between the eyes and the computer, and operate under good light.

Parents should tell their children that toys can be lent to others to play, which can attract more children to play together and create happiness.

Parents should take the initiative to take their children out, learn about nature and society, make friends with things they like (including still life, animals, and people), tell their children to be polite, introduce themselves briefly, be willing to contact others, and call people correctly, etc.

Parents are children's first teachers. Only when parents consciously implement appropriate education can they cultivate children's optimistic character and become a down-to-earth and confident person.

Taking work as an example, workaholics and work laziness are deviations from normal work requirements.

Workaholics focus on work, have no family values ​​or other hobbies, do not know how to take care of themselves, are prone to fatigue and illness, are abused by family members, and are judged as fools by others. Once they suffer setbacks at work (such as unemployment), they may be pessimistic Disappointment, resulting in a situation of not knowing what to do.

Work slackers are people who cause headaches for leaders and colleagues. They are not serious about their work, prone to mistakes and conflicts, and bring adverse effects to other staff.

Moderation in work means taking into account collective and personal interests, being responsible for work, earnestly performing duties, respecting colleagues, division of labor and cooperation, mutual help and reciprocity, principles, striving for fairness and reasonableness, and enjoying the happiness brought by work.

In the communication between people, whether they are relatives or friends or people who have never met, they should restrain their words and deeds according to ethics, laws and regulations.

You can neither be too enthusiastic, trusting, or attached, and give indefinitely for the other party, nor can you be too cold, suspicious, and unfeeling, and not give the other party a little benefit, because things will go against each other. The former can make the other party dependent, and the latter can make the other party hate. The unbalanced mentality of the two parties will inevitably find a way to change their respective attitudes. Enthusiastic people may doubt their own abilities - those who only talk about dedication are gods, and those who are not gods can only do enough;

A cold person also needs friendship, and a person without friendship can hardly move forward.After the test of time, people who are enthusiastic and indifferent are changing their words and deeds, gradually coming together, and embarking on a flat, peaceful, and peaceful life.

Every human being is a mixture of freedom and unfreedom.When you are free, you are basically alone. For example, writing is free, and you can write what you like; when you are not free, it means that the individual is connected with others or the society. Restricted by the organization, in the family, the feelings of the family members must be taken into account, and so on.

Therefore, if you want to maintain a peaceful state of mind and pay attention to a moderate life, you must handle various relationships well to avoid frequent conflicts or conflicts, such as the relationship between individuals and units, families, societies, and countries. Individuals are always tiny. It can only be placed in the back, that is, to take into account the overall situation; the relationship between people can be divided into closeness and thickness, but it is always mutually beneficial, that is, a reciprocal or equal relationship. If one party changes his attitude, the other party will also Follow the changes, otherwise, you will lose your balance.

For example, the relationship between parents and children and brothers and sisters is blood relationship. Because of the kindness of nurturing, they live together for a long time, and the family relationship will be thick; the relationship between teachers and students, classmates, colleagues, friends, etc. also changes with time, or strong. Whether or not, it is related to their respective emotional investment and the environment they are in. You can't choose at will, and you can't resent each other.

To sum up, in a person's life, it is necessary to distinguish the primary from the secondary, pay attention to the natural transition between primary and secondary, grasp the various stages of life, constantly reconcile one's mentality, and strive to adapt to the environment. Live a free, happy, joyful life.

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