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Marriage is legally called a marriage.It refers to the civil legal act in which a man and a woman or a couple establishes a husband and wife relationship in accordance with the conditions and procedures stipulated by law, and assumes the rights, obligations and other responsibilities arising therefrom.

The true essence of marriage is a mechanism to control the relationship between men and women. Marriage has no necessary relationship with love, life, family, and childbirth.Marriage belongs to the control ethics, and love belongs to the voluntary ethics.

In ancient times, arranged marriages were practiced almost all over the world, emphasizing that marriage ethics (controlling ethics) dominate everything in the relationship between men and women.Influenced by ancient ethics for a long time, love ethics has been removed, and it has become "love is a preparation for marriage".

In fact, love itself can produce sanctity if you only want it.

When you look at the ancient classics and the Christian "Bible", you find that there are basically descriptions of arranged marriages, and there are no descriptions of pre-marital love.Ancient Christianity basically arranged marriages, and later Christianity changed the idea of ​​"love to prepare for marriage". This idea has influenced the whole world, but in this idea, it is not recognized that love can produce sanctity, but it is only a process of selection.

The so-called marriage oath today is actually a love oath. This kind of love oath can also be sworn before marriage, and it can also produce sanctity.If the true nature of marriage is control, then arranged marriages may be what marriage really is.

After the arranged marriage ended, most of the control power of the marriage was weakened.The term "arranged marriage" was invented by later people, and ancient people may think that marriage was originally arranged.

Nowadays, it seems to be a popular saying that marriage is the tomb of love. Even so, people are still fighting for it. Why? In fact, the reason is very simple, because people still hope that love will last forever, and marriage is One way to make love last, and the only way.

As for some people worrying about losing their freedom after getting married, this is actually an excuse for this person.In fact, this person is making excuses for playing with love.

So, what is the mentality of people after marriage? Many people after marriage have a very simple answer in this regard, saying that they have lost the passion they had when they were in love after marriage.Or to put it simply, I have really stepped into the 'grave' or something that makes people very afraid of getting married. In fact, the reason why these people say this is also very simple, that is because these people have not handled it well. Marriage and love relationship.

Regarding the relationship between love and marriage, we have to control these things by ourselves, and we have to rely on ourselves to deal with them. Other people's opinions or methods are not the most appropriate when you apply them to yourself.

What other people say, what love turns into family affection after marriage, what marriage means that the passion of love has turned sour and calm, what marriage is the bottleneck of love, etc. No matter what it looks like, don't believe it.

These claims are true in some respects.There are indeed some truths, but I still think that on the issue of marriage and love, our people still have an inexplicable reason, and it is because of this reason that people are somewhat confused about love and marriage.

Love is a burst of emotion between a man and a woman, coupled with the emotional needs of mutual admiration and attraction, they appreciate each other, care about each other, and work hard for a common goal-marriage, then if, as mentioned above, marriage It's the grave of love, so don't people need marriage, just to find a grave of love and get married just for the death of love?
Isn't that a big joke!Is it really because people are so thirteen? I don't think so.In fact, the real reason is that people misunderstand the love after marriage, and also have an illusion about the form of love after marriage.

The specific reason may be that people lack confidence in love after marriage, or because they fear the helplessness of love after marriage and find an excuse for themselves.
It is not too much to say that love becomes family affection after marriage, but it does not mean that there will be no love if there is family affection, that is too extreme.

Love exists forever between men and women who love each other, but the way of existence and the form of behavior are not the same.

It is indeed a great change from love to family after marriage, which will make both parties feel uncomfortable. This is a normal thing, and there is no fuss, but some people who only focus on love and passion will feel very disappointed. Also feel the loss of love.

In fact, this is unnecessary, because love exists in the heart, not just manifested on the surface. If you only focus on the surface form, don’t you think this kind of love is too superficial?!

Marriage is not only for the insurance of love, but actually the foundation for the continuation and sublimation of love.Its existence is not only to continue the offspring, but also to create people's new emotions.

People's feelings may not even exist in human beings, but they are also suitable for gradual development and perfection after the combination of life and production.

Some people say that marriage also needs to be reformed. I say it is not wrong, but monogamy is the best form. Although there are many problems in the production of marriage, marriage is at least an underground quality and quantity of human beings to avoid promiscuity. The disadvantages of many diseases that threaten human health are not in the danger of extinction on a large scale. The reform needs to be in harmony with people's survival. The messy sexual confusion is not the sublimation of emotions, it will only make people go backwards and indulge , will only be synonymous with death, and reason is the derivative of human civilization.

Although many people say that marriage is the tomb of love, but Zhao Chaogang doesn't care.What these people say is actually an excuse for not wanting to be responsible for love. With this excuse, these people can easily give up love, and then start another love that they call 'running to freedom'. That kind of people.I'm not qualified to talk about love.

Pingping has been pregnant for more than two months now, and her belly doesn't look obvious now, but after another month, Li Liping's belly will start to become more obvious.It would be too ugly to get married at that time, so Zhao Chaogang planned to marry Li Liping in the near future.This is Zhao Chaogang's responsibility as a man.

And to be honest, this is what Zhao Chaogang has always expected.Marrying the woman you love, what else can be compared to this, is more pleasing.

"Pingping. You'd better go to the room to rest. Leave these matters to Jingjing and me. The bathroom is too slippery. You should avoid going into the bathroom now."

Zhao Chaogang had just settled the accounts, and when he returned to the room, he saw Li Liping bathing his daughter in the bathroom. Upon seeing this situation, Zhao Chaogang immediately went in to stop her.Once the bathroom is contaminated with water, the floor will become very slippery, if Pingping accidentally falls because of this.The consequences...

Seeing Zhao Chaogang let herself out of the bathroom very nervously, Li Liping was very sweet in her heart, but Li Liping was not going to follow Zhao Chaogang's words and go out, she still wanted to bathe her daughter: "Chaogang, there will be more than seven months. Time, the baby in my womb is about to be born, so you can let me take a bath with my nannie more. Once the baby in my womb is born, the chances of me taking a bath with my nannie will be greatly reduced. Chao Gang, don’t worry. I will Be careful. Besides, don't I have the jade pendant that you refined, Chao Gang, on me, Chao Gang, I will be fine, don't worry!"

Seeing that Pingping took out all the jade pendants around her neck, Zhao Chaogang didn't say anything else.That's right, with the jade pendant I made for Pingping in hand, even if Pingping fell from a ten-story building, nothing would happen, I was really worried too much.

but.It's no wonder Zhao Chaogang, the child in Li Liping's stomach is Zhao Chaogang's first child.As long as people are facing their first child, they will be so nervous.

Even Li Liping, although the words in the words told Zhao Chaogang not to be nervous, but when she turned around, Li Liping changed into a pair of slippers, a pair of non-slip slippers. This is also Li Liping's first pregnancy. A child adopted from an orphanage.) She was actually very nervous in her heart.

"Dad, can you take a bath with your mother? My daughter wants to play water fights with my father!" Said the daughter who was already soaked in the bathtub with a longing face. For a five-year-old daughter, the favorite thing in her heart , or play.

"Okay, since my niece wants to play water fights, then dad will play water fights with my niece, niece, look at the trick."

"Cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck...!"

"Okay, mom help nanna, nanna, hide behind mother."

"Dad, you can't hit it, you can't hit it,...Dad, my daughter is here, cluck cluck cluck...!"

The bathroom is instantly filled with the warmth of home...

Half an hour later, the house finally quieted down, and Nannan had already returned to her bed to sleep. Now that Nannan was much more sensible, she would no longer bother to sleep with Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping. However, Nannan When sleeping, I still have to sleep with Xiao Zi in my arms.

The pleasant smell on Xiao Zi's body, as well as the soft hair, made her feel very comfortable.

Not only did Zhao Chaogang not object to this, on the contrary, he was very supportive.

Xiaozi is a spirit beast, and with her being with her for a long time, not only her body will get better and better because of Xiaozi's aura, but also her safety is guaranteed.With Xiao Zi here, even if her daughter is hit by a nuclear bomb, she will be safe and sound.Nannan is his own daughter, Zhao Chaogang, as a father, of course has to protect her well.

"Chao Gang, is your daughter fast asleep?" Seeing Zhao Chaogang returning to the room, Li Liping put down the book in her hand and asked softly.

"Well, she is already fast asleep. Nannan's sleeping appearance is so cute." Recalling her sleeping appearance, Zhao Chaogang's face was full of smiles. His daughter was really cute.

"Of course she is cute, she is my daughter, and the child in my belly will be cute too!"

Li Liping caressed her stomach with maternal love, and she could clearly feel the growth of life in her stomach.Every beat of life will make Li Liping's heart full of sweetness, because this is her first biological child, and it is also her and Chao Gang's child.

Seeing Li Liping caressing her belly with motherly love, Zhao Chaogang came to Li Liping's side eagerly, and said flatteringly: "Pingping, how is our son now? I can touch it Touch it?"

Zhao Chaogang made this request very nervously. His current appearance did not look like a cultivator in the foundation establishment period at all, just like an ordinary person full of fatherly love.

"Of course it's ok, but you have to be careful. Otherwise, if our child feels uncomfortable, watch me deal with you like this." While saying these words, Li Liping held Zhao Chaogang's hand happily. Slowly covering his stomach, to be honest.In fact, Li Liping also wanted Zhao Chaogang to feel the growth of the child in her stomach.

"Boom...! Boom...! Boom...! Boom...!..." Just as Zhao Chaogang's hand touched Li Liping's stomach, the sound of life beating spread to Zhao Chaogang's hand, and Zhao Chaogang's face was full of pain. He couldn't help showing a smile, because he knew that this beating of life was the beating of his son's life, and this beating of life was very strong, which showed that his son had grown up very well.

"Pingping. I can feel my son's heart beating. It's so comfortable!" Zhao Chaogang couldn't help but put his ear on Li Liping's stomach when he said this. He wanted to hear his son's heartbeat with his own ears. Voice.

"You...!" Li Liping pampered Zhao Chaogang's forehead, and then looked at Zhao Chaogang with satisfaction.Zhao Chaogang's childlike action filled Li Liping with satisfaction.

After a full 10 minutes, Zhao Chaogang raised his head with a satisfied face: "Pingping, our son has grown up very healthy."

"Really! If that's the case, I'm relieved." For Zhao Chaogang's words, Li Liping believed 100%: "However, the doctor said that the specific gender of the child cannot be detected yet. How do you know the child in my stomach is What about the son? Maybe. Maybe the child in my stomach is a daughter.”

If you want to find out whether the child you are carrying is male or female, you have to go to the hospital for a B-ultrasound examination after four months of pregnancy. If you go to the hospital for an examination after two or three months of pregnancy, you will not be able to tell the gender of the child of.

Because, when the child's reproductive organs begin to develop.It is three months, when the child's reproductive organs have just begun to develop and take shape, of course the hospital cannot detect it.

For this matter, Li Liping is pregnant.I already understood it very clearly, so when Zhao Chaogang said that the child in his belly was a boy, Li Liping asked Zhao Chaogang how he knew that the child in his belly was a boy. Li Liping didn't quite believe what Zhao Chaogang said. sentence.

It's a pity that Li Liping's conclusion is based on science, but Zhao Chaogang is a cultivator in the foundation period and cannot explain it with science at all. Therefore, even if Li Liping's face is full of disbelief now, Zhao Chaogang is still full of disbelief. Face confidently replied: "Pingping, with scientific instruments, it is indeed impossible to detect the gender of the child in your belly now, but don't forget who I am, I am a cultivator in the foundation-building period. Don't say Pingping Ping, you have been pregnant for two and a half months now, even if you are just a few days pregnant, Ping Ping, I can know whether the child in your belly is a boy or a girl."

"Chao Gang, do you have any basis for saying this?"

Zhao Chaogang's self-confidence, and Zhao Chaogang's status as a cultivator, did make Li Liping's disbelief disappear, but, for the sake of safety, Li Liping asked this question again.

"Pingping, the life fluctuations emitted by girls and boys are completely different. The life fluctuations of boys are full of positive aura, while the life fluctuations of girls are full of negative aura. This kind of aura, as long as a woman is pregnant After that, it will be produced, especially after the embryo begins to develop, such a breath of life will become more obvious.

Therefore, for a cultivator, it is very simple to determine whether the child in a pregnant woman's womb is a boy or a girl.

Pingping, the breath generated in your stomach is full of yang energy, so I'm sure, Pingping, the child in your stomach is a boy.Pingping, you can use your own spiritual sense to feel, is the breath coming out of your stomach full of yang energy? "

After listening to Zhao Chaogang's explanation, Li Liping nervously sensed the breath of the child in her stomach with her spiritual sense. Soon, Li Liping showed an extremely happy smile on her face, because the breath she felt was indeed full of yang. It was exactly the same as what Chao Gang said, which made Li Liping weep with joy.

Although there are fewer and fewer patriarchal thoughts in society, Li Liping really thinks that the child in her stomach is a boy.

Li Liping knows that although her father-in-law and mother-in-law are really good to her, they still want to give birth to a boy. OK.

And to be honest, Li Liping actually agrees with Zhao Qiang and his wife's idea.

Chao Gang Yao only had the private restaurant outside, and he was just an ordinary person. Li Liping didn't care if it was her son or daughter who would inherit her. It was a big deal, so Li Liping's thoughts changed.

Li Liping would not be reconciled to such a large family business if there was no son to inherit it.

Therefore, from the beginning of her pregnancy, Li Liping prayed in her heart that it would be good if the child in her belly was a boy. Even Li Liping had already made mental preparations in advance. If the child in her belly was not a boy this time, Li Liping would continue give birth until a boy is born.

Once a woman becomes crazy, it is indeed terrifying!
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