My medical skills add experience

Chapter 464 The reason why the male doctor is single

Most doctors are very careful about protecting family members, especially privacy.Generally, family members are rarely asked to come to the office of the hospital, and even if they come, it is basically because of seeing a doctor.

If you don't take the initiative to tell outsiders, most people don't even know that it is the doctor's wife or parents.

In short, in this era of tense doctor-patient relationship, for the safety of family members, everyone will try not to expose their kinship.Because you never know if there is a pair of hateful eyes staring at you secretly.

Zhou Can quickly came to the Department of Cardiothoracic Surgery, originally planning to see Director Xueyan, but thinking of her husband's warning, Zhou Can dismissed the idea.

When you meet some bad people, there is no need to confront them.

"Miss Qin, do you know where Director Le is?"

Zhou Can grabbed a nurse at the nurse station and asked.

"It seems to be in the No. [-] operating room. It is estimated that the operation is almost over. It is okay for Dr. Zhou to sit here and wait for him."

The nurse girl is in her 20s, just like a flower and a jade.

For young and handsome potential stocks like Zhou Can, they are often quite enthusiastic and proactive.

Only when they meet doctors who are ugly or have ordinary potential, will they be like proud white swans and ignore them.

"No, no, I'll go to the operating room to have a look! I have something to do in a while! Goodbye!"

Zhou Can waved to this enthusiastic nurse girl.

The hospital has never stipulated that employees are not allowed to fall in love.As long as you have the ability, it is okay for a doctor to marry a nurse, or a doctor to marry a doctor.

But to put it more heartbreakingly, there are more girls and boys these days, and girls' incomes are not low, so they can live well without relying on men.Many female nurses are reluctant to marry male doctors.

In the eyes of outsiders, male doctors have stable jobs, high income, and high social status, and they are high-quality stocks.

But nurses are employees in the large system of the hospital, and they know very well how hard ordinary doctors are.Not to mention anything else, just working overtime is enough to make them daunting.

When I really get married in the future, my wife is sick, and the doctor needs to work in the hospital to treat other patients, so I can't take care of my wife at home.

I often ask my wife to take some medicine, drink more warm boiled water, and rest at home.

The same is true if a child is born in the future.

There was a nurse who was married to a doctor and decided to divorce after two years of marriage.

She cried to the reporter that the toilet was clogged and she could only figure out a solution by herself.The faucet is broken, so I still have to figure it out.Usually sick and bedridden, I can only carry it by myself. When my husband needs to work overtime, let alone go home to take care of her, there is not even a phone call or text message to greet her.

After their baby was born, they thought things would get better.

As a result, the child had a high fever one night, and the nurse's husband happened to have to work the night shift that day.

The female nurse called her husband more than a dozen times, but no one answered.

She took care of the child by herself, took care of all kinds of things, and didn't even have the time to close her eyes.

By this time I was very sleepy and exhausted.

She is extremely eager for her husband to be able to help her and take on her husband's responsibilities.

In the end, she could only drag her exhausted body and rush to the hospital alone with her child for emergency treatment.It was difficult to get a taxi at night, and it rained heavily that night. She struggled to get to the hospital with the baby in her arms.

In order to protect the child in her arms from getting wet, her back was already soaked by rain.

Her heart was also soaked by the rain.

After the child recovered, she filed a divorce directly with her husband.

He even confessed to the reporter that he regretted marrying a husband who is a doctor.In any marriage, after the passion and enthusiasm of love fade, you will need to adapt to the ordinary life of daily necessities.

The sadness expressed by the female nurse above is believed to be experienced by many women who marry doctors.

She was lucky to choose to divorce after only two years of marriage.

Some women are very traditional, and they are even more loyal to love.

After marriage, although the husband often has to work overtime, he seldom takes care of family affairs.But they still gritted their teeth and persisted.After finally waiting for her husband to get the deputy senior title, he retreated to the second line, so he no longer had to work night shifts like before.

The income is also high.

At this time, the husband followed the law of getting promoted, getting rich and killing his wife.

First, I got in touch with a young female nurse in the department.

Later, she flirted with a female medical student under her command, disregarding the ethics of teachers and students, and crossed the threshold.What's even more exasperating is that the husband thinks that his wife is old and poor, and is inferior to the young and beautiful female medical student in all aspects, so he insists on divorce.

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Not that every male doctor is irresponsible to marriage, at least some of them are.

During the stage of medical student, training doctor, and resident doctor, his income was low, his work was busy, and he could not take care of his family.After he was promoted to attending doctor or even deputy high school, his income was higher and his work was not so busy, but he chose not to go home and enjoy the colorful world outside.

Marrying a male doctor is a gamble.

Unless you are confident in your man's character and loyalty, prepare for the worst.

Today's female nurses are no longer as innocent and deceitful as the health school students in the past. Better hospitals basically require a bachelor's degree.Female nurses with higher education have quite high standards for mate selection.

They don't look down on ordinary male doctors at all.

This is why many male doctors are in their thirties and still single.Many people think that these male doctors don't know how to be romantic, and they only know how to see patients, perform operations, and write papers all day long, like idiots.

It's really not like that.

It was they who wanted to pursue female nurses, but they refused to accept them.

Just like Dr. Lu who was fired from the emergency department, he is definitely a role model among scumbags.One mouth is enough to coax a female nurse and a female doctor around, and in the end, isn't she still single all the time?
I didn't see which female nurse he really took down.

Those nurse girls are all so smart!
As for male doctors pursuing female doctors, the threshold is even higher.The number of female doctors is relatively rare, and their potential and income are no worse than male doctors.If you want to catch them, you have to compete with countless single male doctors in this hospital, and you have to compete with single men in society. The odds of winning are really low.

Any e-commerce company with an annual income of 40 to [-] yuan, a small boss, can instantly kill most residents.

To sum up, Zhou Can can only think of one sentence, to persuade people to study medicine is like a thunderbolt.

If you have any enmity with anyone, then persuade his son to study medicine!
Zhou Can came to the No. [-] operating room, and just about to ring the doorbell, he saw the red light flashing, and then the door of the operating room opened automatically.

The first to come out of it was Chief Physician Xueyan.

When she saw Zhou Can, her eyes averted a little.

In addition, Zhou Can saw that even though she was wearing a mask, there seemed to be a bruise in the corner of her eye.

Even with the foundation cream on top, it is still difficult to cover up.

"Miss Yan!"

Zhou Can took the initiative to call her.

"I didn't ask you to come over to help with the operation today, did I?" Xueyan asked with some doubts.

"I invited Dr. Zhou to come here. The patient who underwent cardia cancer resection suffered from severe chest pain after the operation, and the cause has not been found out. I was worried about an accident, so I asked Dr. Zhou to come and take a look."

Director Le came out from inside.

"Oh! Then go and have a look! I still have something to do at home, so I'm off work first!"

After Director Xueyan finished speaking, she went straight away.

Her performance was obviously different from usual.

"Sister Yan, be careful."

Zhou Can looked at her back, somewhat worried.

After getting along in the past few years, he really treats Xueyan as a senior sister of the same school.Seeing her marriage in serious crisis now, he was very worried.

There was a bruise from the corner of her left eye, and after the operation, she walked out of the operating room without taking off the mask and headgear. There are signs that she may have suffered domestic violence.

In any case, during the marriage, especially in the case of cohabitation, the woman is the weaker party.

When a man thinks that he may be cheated, the phenomenon of domestic violence is common.

"Ok!"

She hummed lightly, and left without looking back.

Director Le looked at Xueyan's hastily leaving footsteps, frowned slightly, walked towards the ward with Zhou Can, and said in a low voice, "Director Xue seems to be a little out of order at work today, and I don't know if something happened at home?"

"It's really not easy for her!"

Zhou Can sighed deeply.

At work, she needs to bear great pressure.Now there is a problem with the family and marriage again, what a beauty.

I just hope that she can clear up the misunderstanding with her husband as soon as possible.

If you meet a reasonable man, Zhou Can can help to think of a way.Now, the only thing he can do is to keep a distance from Director Xueyan, otherwise he will only harm her.

Following Director Le to the ward, he saw the patient who underwent cardia cancer resection.

This is a 37-year-old middle-aged woman with disheveled hair and sweat on her forehead, lying on the hospital bed and humming non-stop.Her husband sat by the hospital bed and took care of her.

"Director Le, you came at a good time. Please help me to see my wife. She keeps crying for pain. Is there any analgesia? You can prescribe some painkillers. I asked the nurse and the doctor in charge of the bed, and they all said to wait. You can prescribe medicine after seeing it yourself."

The female patient's husband stood up and treated Director Le very respectfully.

Basically, most family members have this attitude towards doctors.Especially during the hospitalization of patients, they ask the doctor and will never offend the doctor easily.

"This is Dr. Zhou from the emergency department of our hospital. He is very good at pain and complications after cardiothoracic surgery. I specially invited him to come over for consultation and try to find out the cause of your wife's postoperative pain. .”

When Director Le introduced Zhou Can, he raised Zhou Can very high.

On the one hand, this is to show respect for Zhou Can, and on the other hand, it is to show an attitude to the family members and let the family members know that Director Le attaches great importance to this patient.

Already trying to solve it.

"Doctor Zhou, please be more considerate!"

The family members looked at their thick backs, their thick hands, and their clothes were not very particular. They should be coolies such as truck drivers.

In terms of dealing with people, he has done quite well.

At least it made Zhou Can feel comfortable.

"You are welcome! It is our duty to do everything possible to cure patients."

Zhou Can walked to the hospital bed, first checked the patient's medical record information, nursing records, etc.

"Is the urine volume and color normal?"

"It feels like a lot of drawing, and I really haven't seen the color." The male family member said a little embarrassed.

"It's okay, just know that urination is normal. But next time, you can observe the color of the urine. If it is brown or even bloody in the urine, or milk urine, you must tell the nurse in charge of the bed in time."

Zhou Can nodded and continued to understand the patient's current symptoms.

"I read your medical records just now, and it was a jejunoesophageal anastomosis. Is this where your pain is?"

Zhou Can communicated directly with the female patient this time.

His eyes were secretly watching the female patient's expression and reaction.Fortunately, the female patient's eyes are bright, indicating that she is sane.

"That's right, this is the part that hurts."

The woman seemed very weak when she spoke, and kept inhaling, indicating that it was very painful.

"Does the pain come from the bottom up?"

Zhou Can gestured to her on his chest.

When there are male family members nearby, you must be extra careful when asking questions and describing actions.

If you gesture in front of a female patient's chest in front of a male family member, if you encounter an unreasonable or small-minded male family member, you may directly punch her.

"You are amazing!"

The woman resisted the pain and gave Zhou Can a thumbs up.

"That's how it hurts, and it's the same place where it hurts."

After hearing this, the male family members next to him couldn't help but look at this young doctor with admiration.

"The experts are here, so I'm relieved this time."

He said happily beside him.

"Doctor Zhou is very good at this disease, and I hope to find out the cause of the pain." Director Le also helped Zhou Can speak.

Sometimes proper boasting is also an important part of doctor-patient communication.

But we must seize the opportunity and not boast.

Otherwise, you will be like a queen who sells melons, selling melons and boasting.

Director Le took the opportunity to praise Zhou Can's medical skills, which undoubtedly had a very good effect.It can greatly enhance the trust of patients and their families in Zhou Can.

"You guys won the prize!"

Zhou Can said a little modestly, and then said, "Let me describe the process of your pain. If it is, you can nod your head, if it is not, you can shake your head. The pain starts from this part, and then slowly rises. There will be a burning pain, and it will continue to intensify .Finally reached this position and stopped, and then spread around like fireworks, and the pain escalated and intensified again."

Zhou Can is still gesturing on himself.

"Yeah! You are so right. You are amazing, and you said exactly the same." Zhou Can clearly described the pain of the female patient, and her trust in Zhou Can also rose to a new level.

At the same time, there is a little bit more hope for a cure.

"Okay, I'll discuss it with Director Le again. I have already understood your general situation. If necessary, I will come to the ward to ask you again."

Zhou Can and Director Le came to the office.

"Doctor Zhou, you were really amazing just now. You just glanced at the medical records, how did you know so clearly?"

Director Le looked at Zhou Can with admiration.

Old people do not rely on muscles and bones for energy.

Medical skills have always been those who have mastered it first, and those who have mastered it are teachers.

Director Le does not have Zhou Can's ability, so he naturally admires Zhou Can from the bottom of his heart.

(End of this chapter)