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Chapter 188 Fan Shengmei Confids Her Heart
Chapter 188 Fan Shengmei Confids Her Heart
After helping Andy analyze the problem of the singularity, the waiter just started to serve the food, and the three of them ended the topic, and started chatting all over the place.
During the period, Andy talked to Han Tao about a merger and acquisition case she was leading recently, as well as some legal issues involving finance and accounting.
This is Han Tao's professional scope, and Andy still doesn't know that Han Tao is now the major shareholder of the Red Star Group that Shengxuan wants to sell, and he knows the internal situation very well.
Therefore, the two talked more and more speculatively, and Andy got answers to many questions that he couldn't get around before. At the same time, he also got Han Tao's very professional legal advice, which made her propose to hire Han Tao as her legal consultant.
On the other hand, Fan Shengmei looked enviously at the discussion between Andy and Han Tao, and only sighed enviously when the two of them were in the middle of the conversation:
"Andy, I think you and Brother Han are very suitable. You see that the two of you have the same qualifications, and you are both elites in your own industry. You can also get along well. It's really a good match!"
When Andy heard Fan Shengmei said that he and Han Tao were very suitable, he was a little flustered for a while, and then his face turned red:
"Little sister Fan, don't mess with the mandarin ducks. We can't be suitable. I should be older than Han Lu."
"Andy, I heard right, you came back from abroad, you are so conservative, don't you know that sister-brother romance is very popular now?
And you and Brother Han can still talk like this, which is much more reliable than that intangible and invisible online dating singularity, hehehe! "
Seeing that Andy was embarrassed, Fan Shengmei couldn't help but tease her a few words.
At this time, Andy also saw that Fan Shengmei was joking with him, so he gave her a blank look and said:
"Could it be that because they can talk, two people are going to fall in love?
Like-minded people, there is no pure friendship?Do you think it's appropriate to develop into male and female friends? "
"What do you think?"
Fan Shengmei rested her chin with her hand, looked seriously at Andy, who was in love with Xiaobai, and said helplessly:
"Andy, you are a bit too naive about relationship issues, I can tell you responsibly, there is really no!
No matter what the situation is between men and women, there are more or less feelings other than friends, or love, or unrequited love and so on.
Of course, it does not mean that it must be love, it may also be a confidant or a tacit understanding. By this confidant, I mean the level of being willing to be a lover.
For example, two people are connected by the same fate, or have experienced some things together, and the friendship has been further extended, which is also an emotion beyond friendship! "
Hearing this, without waiting for Andy to respond, Han Tao also nodded, agreeing:
"I agree with Xiaomei's statement that if the relationship between friends has been tempered over time and all the impurities have been removed, then only the most sincere, simplest and purest are left.
So even if they are not related by blood, they feel as if they are their own relatives and unconditional trust. This is the confidant that many people respect, sharing joy with each other and bearing sorrow with each other.
At this point, apart from love, the rest will definitely surpass friendship, but the difference with lovers is that both parties will always keep a safe distance.
This distance cannot be easily crossed, and I dare not cross it easily. To put it bluntly, it is a sense of boundary. At least, it should be a tacit understanding that two people can reach an agreement on. "
Hearing the remarks of Han Tao and Fan Shengmei, Andy suddenly fell into deep thought, and immediately thought of her friend Tan Zongming.
Andy knew that he was lacking in emotional cognition, and even rejected him because of some concerns.
But after listening to them now, thinking about Tan Zongming's kindness to him for so many years, maybe the two of them are so-called confidants, or there are other reasons.
Thinking about it this way, Andy couldn't help but be thankful that Tan Zongming hadn't confessed his love to him, otherwise, in his own state, he might even lose his only friend.
Seeing that Andy was deep in thought, he knew that the topic between the three of them had crossed the line, so Han Tao changed the subject and asked about Fan Shengmei and Andy's basic situation.
When Andy heard this, she generously introduced herself briefly. She used to have a stable job abroad, but she returned to the country due to some private affairs. Now she is the chief financial officer of Shengxuan, mainly responsible for an acquisition.
Fan Shengmei first talked about her job, saying that she works in the human resources department of a company. Although there is no room for improvement, the salary of more than 1 yuan a month can be regarded as a stable income.
In this way, the three chatted while drinking, and because of women's sensibility, Andy and Fan Shengmei also gradually opened their hearts.
It may be because of drinking, while talking, Fan Shengmei suddenly became depressed, and began to confide in her heart:
"Actually, I have a lot to say, and I can't find anyone to talk to. Today, I will drink with Brother Han and chat with you two for a while.
Although I can earn about [-] yuan a month, I came from a small place, and my family conditions are very poor. The most important thing is that my parents value boys over girls.
So since graduating, most of my salary has been sent to my family to help my parents provide for the elderly and help my brother sell the house to pay the down payment.
In the end, I have to help him repay the mortgage, so these years, I have been frugal and can't save any money. In the past two years, I even gave up on myself and had the idea of catching a rich man.
Because I know that I am not qualified for ordinary love, because even if I get married in the future, a son-in-law from a poor family cannot satisfy a family like mine.
Therefore, I can only find a wealthy husband, a rich man, only in that way can I satisfy my family's bottomless pit.
In fact, I envy you very much. You and Andy are both financially free, elites in the industry, and not burdened by families.
But I can't do it. No matter how hard I try for so many years, I can't get rid of the influence of my family on me. "
Speaking of this, Fan Shengmei was extremely melancholy, and sighed: "Hey! Don't talk, if you talk too much, you will be in tears!"
After listening to Fan Shengmei's downcast narration, Andy couldn't help but think of her life experience, and she, who felt the same way, was also worried.
She has been abandoned since she was a child, and she is also self-reliant when she grows up. She understands Fan Shengmei's difficulties too well, so Andy adjusted his emotions and said:
"Little sister Fan, don't give up on yourself, I believe everything will be fine.
In fact, every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite, and I also have my own sufferings. When I have a chance, I will tell you about my situation, and then you will know that you are actually quite happy. "
"Okay, whenever you want to find a listener, I'm always there."
After hearing what Andy said, Fan Shengmei adjusted her mood, looked at her with a smile and replied.
Andy looked at her with wide eyes, and even said a sentence in English: "You are so kind!"
"You are good too!"
Fan Shengmei winked at Andy playfully, replied charmingly, then looked at Han Tao and said:
"Brother Han's family should be very good. I understand the conversation you had with Andy just now. It's a big project of tens of billions. It's like hundreds of thousands in your mouth. I guess you You can’t understand the hardships of small employees like us!”
Han Tao wiped his mouth and replied humorously:
"Don't compare yourself to us, we don't feel sorry for selling your father's land! Anyway, the money is not yours, we are just taking money from capitalists and doing things for capitalists!"
Seeing what Han Tao said, Andy nodded in agreement, Fan Shengmei smiled, looked at Han Tao curiously and asked:
"Brother Han, you haven't mentioned your situation yet! How old are you, handsome and rich? There must be many girls chasing you!"
As soon as Fan Shengmei's words came out of his mouth, Han Tao knew that she was spying on him. In fact, he had more pity for Fan Shengmei than affection.
Although worshiping money is not a big mistake in today's society, if she can't learn to be independent and self-reliant, and see and handle the relationship between herself and her family, it will be difficult to find a true love!
Just like Wang Baichuan in the original plot, Fan Shengmei uses more than she likes this man who really likes her.
Fan Shengmei is like a person who fell into the water, grabbing a life-saving straw. She kidnapped Wang Baichuan with love.
Therefore, for a man, such a woman is not suitable to be a girlfriend, and it is difficult to deliver sincerity. Even if he gives up all his worries and delivers, he will be bruised all over his body!
Therefore, in order to change the topic, Han Tao simply introduced himself in a blind date version as a joke.
"Han Tao, male, 30 years old, living in Ode to Joy Community, Master's degree, 184cm tall, 78Kg in weight, good looking, annual salary over one million, had two relationships.
Looking for a confidante, who is gentle and charming, elegant and quiet, or heroic, I am willing to shelter her from the sun and rain. "
"Hahaha!"
"It's so funny, I didn't know that I thought Brother Han, you were here for a blind date!"
As expected, the effect was surprisingly good. As soon as he finished speaking, Andy and Fan Shengmei laughed out loud.
…………
(End of this chapter)
After helping Andy analyze the problem of the singularity, the waiter just started to serve the food, and the three of them ended the topic, and started chatting all over the place.
During the period, Andy talked to Han Tao about a merger and acquisition case she was leading recently, as well as some legal issues involving finance and accounting.
This is Han Tao's professional scope, and Andy still doesn't know that Han Tao is now the major shareholder of the Red Star Group that Shengxuan wants to sell, and he knows the internal situation very well.
Therefore, the two talked more and more speculatively, and Andy got answers to many questions that he couldn't get around before. At the same time, he also got Han Tao's very professional legal advice, which made her propose to hire Han Tao as her legal consultant.
On the other hand, Fan Shengmei looked enviously at the discussion between Andy and Han Tao, and only sighed enviously when the two of them were in the middle of the conversation:
"Andy, I think you and Brother Han are very suitable. You see that the two of you have the same qualifications, and you are both elites in your own industry. You can also get along well. It's really a good match!"
When Andy heard Fan Shengmei said that he and Han Tao were very suitable, he was a little flustered for a while, and then his face turned red:
"Little sister Fan, don't mess with the mandarin ducks. We can't be suitable. I should be older than Han Lu."
"Andy, I heard right, you came back from abroad, you are so conservative, don't you know that sister-brother romance is very popular now?
And you and Brother Han can still talk like this, which is much more reliable than that intangible and invisible online dating singularity, hehehe! "
Seeing that Andy was embarrassed, Fan Shengmei couldn't help but tease her a few words.
At this time, Andy also saw that Fan Shengmei was joking with him, so he gave her a blank look and said:
"Could it be that because they can talk, two people are going to fall in love?
Like-minded people, there is no pure friendship?Do you think it's appropriate to develop into male and female friends? "
"What do you think?"
Fan Shengmei rested her chin with her hand, looked seriously at Andy, who was in love with Xiaobai, and said helplessly:
"Andy, you are a bit too naive about relationship issues, I can tell you responsibly, there is really no!
No matter what the situation is between men and women, there are more or less feelings other than friends, or love, or unrequited love and so on.
Of course, it does not mean that it must be love, it may also be a confidant or a tacit understanding. By this confidant, I mean the level of being willing to be a lover.
For example, two people are connected by the same fate, or have experienced some things together, and the friendship has been further extended, which is also an emotion beyond friendship! "
Hearing this, without waiting for Andy to respond, Han Tao also nodded, agreeing:
"I agree with Xiaomei's statement that if the relationship between friends has been tempered over time and all the impurities have been removed, then only the most sincere, simplest and purest are left.
So even if they are not related by blood, they feel as if they are their own relatives and unconditional trust. This is the confidant that many people respect, sharing joy with each other and bearing sorrow with each other.
At this point, apart from love, the rest will definitely surpass friendship, but the difference with lovers is that both parties will always keep a safe distance.
This distance cannot be easily crossed, and I dare not cross it easily. To put it bluntly, it is a sense of boundary. At least, it should be a tacit understanding that two people can reach an agreement on. "
Hearing the remarks of Han Tao and Fan Shengmei, Andy suddenly fell into deep thought, and immediately thought of her friend Tan Zongming.
Andy knew that he was lacking in emotional cognition, and even rejected him because of some concerns.
But after listening to them now, thinking about Tan Zongming's kindness to him for so many years, maybe the two of them are so-called confidants, or there are other reasons.
Thinking about it this way, Andy couldn't help but be thankful that Tan Zongming hadn't confessed his love to him, otherwise, in his own state, he might even lose his only friend.
Seeing that Andy was deep in thought, he knew that the topic between the three of them had crossed the line, so Han Tao changed the subject and asked about Fan Shengmei and Andy's basic situation.
When Andy heard this, she generously introduced herself briefly. She used to have a stable job abroad, but she returned to the country due to some private affairs. Now she is the chief financial officer of Shengxuan, mainly responsible for an acquisition.
Fan Shengmei first talked about her job, saying that she works in the human resources department of a company. Although there is no room for improvement, the salary of more than 1 yuan a month can be regarded as a stable income.
In this way, the three chatted while drinking, and because of women's sensibility, Andy and Fan Shengmei also gradually opened their hearts.
It may be because of drinking, while talking, Fan Shengmei suddenly became depressed, and began to confide in her heart:
"Actually, I have a lot to say, and I can't find anyone to talk to. Today, I will drink with Brother Han and chat with you two for a while.
Although I can earn about [-] yuan a month, I came from a small place, and my family conditions are very poor. The most important thing is that my parents value boys over girls.
So since graduating, most of my salary has been sent to my family to help my parents provide for the elderly and help my brother sell the house to pay the down payment.
In the end, I have to help him repay the mortgage, so these years, I have been frugal and can't save any money. In the past two years, I even gave up on myself and had the idea of catching a rich man.
Because I know that I am not qualified for ordinary love, because even if I get married in the future, a son-in-law from a poor family cannot satisfy a family like mine.
Therefore, I can only find a wealthy husband, a rich man, only in that way can I satisfy my family's bottomless pit.
In fact, I envy you very much. You and Andy are both financially free, elites in the industry, and not burdened by families.
But I can't do it. No matter how hard I try for so many years, I can't get rid of the influence of my family on me. "
Speaking of this, Fan Shengmei was extremely melancholy, and sighed: "Hey! Don't talk, if you talk too much, you will be in tears!"
After listening to Fan Shengmei's downcast narration, Andy couldn't help but think of her life experience, and she, who felt the same way, was also worried.
She has been abandoned since she was a child, and she is also self-reliant when she grows up. She understands Fan Shengmei's difficulties too well, so Andy adjusted his emotions and said:
"Little sister Fan, don't give up on yourself, I believe everything will be fine.
In fact, every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite, and I also have my own sufferings. When I have a chance, I will tell you about my situation, and then you will know that you are actually quite happy. "
"Okay, whenever you want to find a listener, I'm always there."
After hearing what Andy said, Fan Shengmei adjusted her mood, looked at her with a smile and replied.
Andy looked at her with wide eyes, and even said a sentence in English: "You are so kind!"
"You are good too!"
Fan Shengmei winked at Andy playfully, replied charmingly, then looked at Han Tao and said:
"Brother Han's family should be very good. I understand the conversation you had with Andy just now. It's a big project of tens of billions. It's like hundreds of thousands in your mouth. I guess you You can’t understand the hardships of small employees like us!”
Han Tao wiped his mouth and replied humorously:
"Don't compare yourself to us, we don't feel sorry for selling your father's land! Anyway, the money is not yours, we are just taking money from capitalists and doing things for capitalists!"
Seeing what Han Tao said, Andy nodded in agreement, Fan Shengmei smiled, looked at Han Tao curiously and asked:
"Brother Han, you haven't mentioned your situation yet! How old are you, handsome and rich? There must be many girls chasing you!"
As soon as Fan Shengmei's words came out of his mouth, Han Tao knew that she was spying on him. In fact, he had more pity for Fan Shengmei than affection.
Although worshiping money is not a big mistake in today's society, if she can't learn to be independent and self-reliant, and see and handle the relationship between herself and her family, it will be difficult to find a true love!
Just like Wang Baichuan in the original plot, Fan Shengmei uses more than she likes this man who really likes her.
Fan Shengmei is like a person who fell into the water, grabbing a life-saving straw. She kidnapped Wang Baichuan with love.
Therefore, for a man, such a woman is not suitable to be a girlfriend, and it is difficult to deliver sincerity. Even if he gives up all his worries and delivers, he will be bruised all over his body!
Therefore, in order to change the topic, Han Tao simply introduced himself in a blind date version as a joke.
"Han Tao, male, 30 years old, living in Ode to Joy Community, Master's degree, 184cm tall, 78Kg in weight, good looking, annual salary over one million, had two relationships.
Looking for a confidante, who is gentle and charming, elegant and quiet, or heroic, I am willing to shelter her from the sun and rain. "
"Hahaha!"
"It's so funny, I didn't know that I thought Brother Han, you were here for a blind date!"
As expected, the effect was surprisingly good. As soon as he finished speaking, Andy and Fan Shengmei laughed out loud.
…………
(End of this chapter)
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