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Teacher Li explained: "That's because each child's situation is different!"

"What's the difference? Teacher Li, you didn't return An Ruyi directly back then. Could it be because An Ruyi is the daughter of the major shareholder of Nurturing Primary School, but not my son? You are a teacher and you should treat students equally, but You can’t favor one over the other.”

With this big hat put on, Teacher Li was speechless, "Fang Tian and mother, An Ruyi's situation back then was indeed different from Fang Tianyu's."

"What's different?" Liao Juanjuan asked.

Since they are all children who are not used to it in the class and are going to be sent back, why is it different?

An Ruyi can be taught well, but her son can't be taught well?
"That's right. An Ruyi didn't have a problem with her studies back then. She didn't know anything about the first grade test papers. The problem with An Ruyi was that she was too young at that time, and she couldn't control her little hands well, so Her situation is that she can’t write, or writes too slowly, so she didn’t teach her homework at first.” Teacher Li explained: “That’s why I told her parents that this child may not be suitable for the first grade because she can’t write. .Children who can’t write can’t write homework and take exams. This is still a big problem. This is the reason why I found An Ruyi’s parents. But later, An Ruyi spent about a month to overcome this problem. The problem is that not only can I write, but I can also write very well. Up to now, I often find that An Ruyi is practicing calligraphy during recess!"

In Teacher Li's view, this is something that ordinary children cannot do.

After Mr. Li chatted with An Ruyi's parents, the parents attached great importance to it and hired a tutor for An Ruyi. Now An Ruyi's writing is really improving day by day, and the speed is getting faster every day. Her small hands look small Fat and fat, the handwriting is very beautiful.

"Moreover, after An Ruyi learned how to write, the school specially arranged a test for her to see if she could continue to study in the first grade. Her test scores were all excellent at that time."

To put it bluntly, An Ruyi's problems can be made up for in a short period of time through diligent practice. She said that as long as she practices calligraphy seriously, it will definitely have an effect. As long as she practices calligraphy, An Ruyi will have no problem in learning.

But Fang Tianyu's situation is different. Fang Tianyu's handwriting is very good, beautiful and serious, but his problem is very fatal. For a first-grade child, if his handwriting is not beautiful, he can practice, and his test scores will not improve. What can I do?
"Fang Tian and his classmates' test scores have always hovered at [-] or [-] points. Sometimes other teachers say that there are still [-] or [-] points. Such a score is promoted to the second grade, which means that the foundation is not solid. When the time comes Little promotion is a problem at the beginning!"

Teacher Li is really thinking about the children, but Liao Juanjuan can't think of these things now.

She only thought that An Ruyi didn't return to kindergarten at the beginning, and whether Fang Tianyu returned or was repeated, it meant that Fang Tian and An Ruyi were worse than An Ruyi!

How could Liao Juanjuan admit that her son is worse than Yi Xinxin's daughter?
An Ruyi is a girl, but this is her precious son!
Teacher Li talked with Fang Tian's mother seriously for a while, and later found that Fang Tian and his mother were very strange, they seemed to be very reasonable and easy to communicate with, but when they actually communicated, he felt that there was a big problem.

Liao Juanjuan is very stubborn, it is difficult to make sense.

For example, Liao Juanjuan never admits that she has a problem.Even if the teacher showed her the report card, she would not admit the gap between Fang Tian and An Ruyi.

He also said firmly: "The child is still young. Back then you were able to teach An Ruyi to go to work. Now you can teach Fang Tianyu. They are two children of the same age, and their IQs should be about the same. Teacher Li, I still say that. In other words, you can't treat one more favorably than another. If you can teach An Ruyi patiently, you can teach my son patiently."

From Liao Juanjuan's point of view, An Ruyi didn't know how to write and didn't teach homework. If she scored zero in the exam, Fang Tianyu still has fifty or sixty points. An Ruyi is not as good as Fang Tianyu. Why is An Ruyi What can Fang Tianyu do well?

Teacher Li is almost at a loss, he has said everything that should be said and persuaded, why Fang Tianyu's mother just can't listen?
The other teachers in the office secretly looked up at Mr. Li and gave him sympathetic looks. Such parents would feel that their son is not stupid but smart, and that poor grades are due to the teacher not teaching well.

The parent Mr. Li met was very annoying, and she couldn't tell her clearly. In her heart, she was always staring at other people's excellent children, and she was comparing with that excellent child. As for whether her son was smart or stupid , she didn't have a clear understanding at all.

You know, there are four to fifty children in a class, and the children are all about the same age, but there are still No.1 and last.

In the same classroom with the same teacher and the same classroom, how come some children can understand a little bit, and some can't teach it at all?There are individual differences among children.Parents can't recognize this point, what can others do?
Liao Juanjuan now wants to compare the best child with her son, which is tantamount to putting the pressure on the teacher.Such parents are really unlucky for teachers!
Teacher Li closed his eyes before speaking: "Fang Tian and Mom, I understand your feelings, but you have to admit that there is a gap between children in terms of learning. I have been emphasizing just now that you cannot take Comparing An Ruyi and Fang Tianyu, they are indeed about the same age. In fact, An Ruyi is a few months younger than Fang Tianyu, but this does not mean that the same age means that the test scores must be similar."

"Ms. Li, I understand what you said. What I want to express is that An Ruyi can continue studying in the first grade, and so can my Tianyu. Besides, when Fang Tianyu was doing the test questions at home, those questions in the first grade Why can’t you get the grades in the exam when you arrive at school? I think this is the problem!” Liao Juanjuan looked at Teacher Li with a very serious expression and said: “Mr. Li, your school’s test paper is Shouldn't it be replaced with the times? You can't just print a few more copies of the test papers from previous years and distribute them to everyone in order to save trouble, so that different children write the same test papers every year, right? Then some children are opportunistic, Last year's test papers in advance, isn't every test a perfect score?"

"Our current test papers are updated every year. You can rest assured about this. We will not take the previous test papers and let the children do it directly for the sake of saving trouble. We will continue to adjust according to the changes in the situation according to the instructions from above. The teaching plan and test papers are not decided by me personally, they are all unified!"