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Chapter 17 The Meaning of Marriage

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"I don't understand the love of you young people, but if you really plan to get married and live together for the rest of your life, you must take marriage seriously."

"Marriage is not a child's play, let alone children's playing house. If you are happy today, the two of you will be happy together. If you are unhappy tomorrow, you will be clamoring for divorce and don't want to be together for a moment."

"Marriage is not only the matter of the two of you, but it is not entirely the matter of the two of you. The misfortune of marriage will definitely affect your future children, and it will also affect all relatives who care about you."

"So after two people get married and start a family, the most important thing is to learn to tolerate each other, learn to think from each other's perspective, learn to consider issues for their children, and understand the obligations and responsibilities of marriage to the family.

If there is any conflict, the two parties should work hard to resolve it, instead of avoiding it and ignoring each other. This will only deepen the conflict and misunderstanding between the two parties. "

"There is nothing wrong with calming down properly. A long cold war will seriously hurt each other's feelings. So cold war, or cold violence, is the biggest enemy of marriage."

"This is one of the reasons why I didn't quite agree with you being together just now. Dehe's parents are gone. Once you have any conflicts, there is no one to persuade you to make peace."

"Dad! Dehe treats me very well and tolerates me very much. Don't worry! If someone is bullied or wronged, that person will definitely not be your daughter, but Dehe." Xi Weixing said with a smile .

"You girl, do you think Dad is worried about you! I'm just worried that you are high-spirited and caused Dehe to suffer too much grievances. If you don't want you again, it will be you again, and Dad will also I don't have the face to seek virtue and forgive you, what do you think should I do?" Xi Yongheng said.

"He won't let me go, right? Dehe, quickly promise my dad that you won't leave me alone." Xi Weixing said to Ouyang Dehe.

"Yes, yes, yes! Teacher, don't worry, I will definitely pamper Xingzi like a treasure in the future, and I will never abandon her." Ouyang Dehe quickly vowed.

"Since you are going to marry my daughter, do you still call me teacher? Aren't you going to change your tune?" Xi Yongheng said with a smile.

"Dad, Dad, you will be my father-in-law and my teacher forever." Ouyang Dehe said happily.

"Actually, I'm just a primary school teacher. Whether you students are successful or not, I can only play a very limited role." Xi Yunheng said very modestly.

"That can't be said like that. You are our first teacher. You have laid a solid foundation for us and taught us the principles of life. Without your dedication, how can the students become successful?"

"Anyway, in my heart, you are much more important than the teacher in junior high school."

"I'm not saying this just because you are my father-in-law now, but I have always thought so in my heart."

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Xi Yongxing cooked the kitchen himself, and Xi Yongheng was not polite to his daughter. In his words, after Xi Weixing went out to work, it was difficult to eat the meals made by his daughter.

After the daughter gets married and starts a family, it will be even more difficult to eat the meals made by her daughter.

Ouyang Dehe also got to eat the food cooked by Xi Weixing for the first time.

After tasting it, Ouyang Dehe's heart was even more joyful, and the two of them will be together in the future, but they will be blessed.

Although Ouyang Dehe can also cook, and his cooking is not bad, but he has to admit that compared with Xi Weixing's cooking skills, he seems to be a bit inferior.

After dinner, Ouyang Dehe was about to go back. When the family was reunited, it was inconvenient to say some things in front of him. After all, he was still an outsider to Xi Weixing's family. After they got married, It is considered a family, at least for now it is not convenient for him to stay overnight.

In addition, Ouyang Dehe also has to go back and hire someone to be a matchmaker. When he goes to the woman's house to propose marriage, the process still needs to go. A kind of respect from the family.

You can’t just marry your daughter who has been raised for more than 20 years. Would you cherish something that is too easy to get?

After driving for a few minutes, I returned to my village.In fact, Xijia Village and Ouyang Village are only three or four miles away. Both villages are natural villages and belong to the same brigade.

But strictly speaking, the brigade was called the brigade in the past, when the town was still called the commune.

Now the brigade is called the administrative village, also called the village committee, but everyone is still used to calling it the brigade.

Tianlong Village Committee is composed of more than a dozen natural villages of different sizes. The smallest natural village has only more than 600 villagers, and the largest has only 3000 people. Together, it has a population of more than [-].

Ouyang Village only has about [-] households, with a population in the early [-]s. To put it bluntly, the entire village is strictly speaking only two and a half households, and the rest are large families who have not yet paid five clothes.

Ouyang Dehe's family occupies more than half of the village, and there are dozens of cousins. His grandfather and two brothers, when it comes to his father, there are only three brothers, plus one cousin, a total of four brothers.

In Ouyang Dehe's generation, there are twelve brothers, and Ouyang Dehe is the last one. His father gave birth to him in his 40s.

Ouyang Dehe's eldest brother fought in the Vietnam War and became a martyr. He left behind two sons. His eldest sister-in-law remarried and lived in the city, and her son also went to school in the city. However, the mother and son still have land in the village and their household registration remains. Ouyang Dehe often came back to visit the village. During the busy farming season, Ouyang Dehe's father took care of other farm work.

Later, the two nephews changed from communal grain to commercial grain, and their household registrations were also moved to the city. After eating commercial grain, the fields in the village were taken back.

Ouyang Dehe is more than 20 years younger than his elder brother, but he has been with his elder nephew for a year, only three months older than his elder nephew. When they were young, they often robbed his sister-in-law's daughter to drink water. Ouyang Dehe's mother When you are old, you don't have any female friends to drink. At that time, your life was very tight, let alone have female friends to eat.

Ouyang Dehe's father was also the youngest in their generation, more than 20 years younger than Ouyang Dehe's uncle.

So don't look at Ouyang Dehe's young age, but his seniority is very high. The first cousin is a great grandfather, and the son of the first cousin is in his 40s. When he sees Ouyang Dehe, he has to call him Uncle Dehe.

Ouyang Dehe's second uncle has five sons, four of whom are masons, and all of them learned the craft from his uncle.

Ouyang Dehe also has a second elder brother, and now he and his sister-in-law both go to Fuzhou to work as plasterers on the construction site. One son and one daughter are studying at home, and are looked after by sister-in-law's elder sister. It's my daughter, who is in junior high school.

Ouyang Dehe drove the car into the big yard, and when he got out of the car, he greeted the curious cousin sister-in-law: "Sister-in-law Qiu Hong, are you drying clothes? You didn't go to the brigade today!"

"Dehe is back! I thought someone was here. Is this the car you bought?"

Qiuhong's sister-in-law is the women's director of the brigade. She is warm and generous. No matter who in the village asks her for help, she will try her best to help.

People in the village also like to discuss with her if they have anything to do.

"Yes! It's more convenient to have a car to come back." Ouyang Dehe said.

"It's convenient, but you haven't started a family yet! You've spent all your money so lavishly, how can you get a wife? Now it costs [-] to [-], or even [-] to [-] to get a wife." Sister-in-law Qiu Hong was concerned. said.

(End of this chapter)