Xueba's life simulator

Chapter 236 Invitation

"Xiao Shen, I feel very friendly the moment I see you. This is your first time here, so you must stay here longer."

Zhou Ming's grandma, who was holding Shen Qingqiu's hand, was speaking kindly to Shen Qingqiu at this moment.

"I've also heard from Zhou Ming about your family's situation. Do you want to bring Grandma Ni to live with us?" Zhou Ming's grandma continued to talk to Shen Qingqiu.

"Grandma, we have persuaded her many times. Qingqiu's grandma is the same as you before, and she doesn't want to leave their hometown."

At this time, Zhou Ming also walked into the room with his parents. He heard what grandma said when he was outside the room just now, and now that he came in, he also answered for Shen Qingqiu.

"That's right, she's lived there for so long." After hearing Zhou Ming's explanation, Zhou Ming's grandmother nodded, and then continued to ask Shen Qingqiu, "Xiao Shen, before you came, Zhou Ming also called I said back on the phone that we also know that you have graduated now, so what are your plans in the future?"

Seeing grandma asking about Shen Qingqiu's follow-up plans after graduation, Zhou Ming also walked to Shen Qingqiu's side and sat down, and continued to say for Shen Qingqiu: "Grandma, we already have plans. Qingqiu has just graduated two years ago. Back home..."

Zhou Ming roughly talked to his grandma about Shen Qingqiu's future plans, but before he finished speaking, his grandma's complexion became ugly, but at this time his face was facing Zhou Ming, so Shen Qingqiu's current The angle couldn't see the expression on Zhou Ming's grandma's face clearly.

However, Zhou Ming's parents and his grandfather were also in the room at this time. After hearing what Zhou Ming said, their expressions did not change the same as Zhou Ming's grandma, because Zhou Ming had already told them about this matter before, and they also can understand.

The reason why I didn't tell my grandma when I talked about this matter with the rest of the family was because my grandma had Alzheimer's disease. I thought that I had never met Shen Qingqiu before, and this meeting meant a lot to her. It was the first time they met, Zhou Ming didn't want grandma to leave a bad impression on Shen Qingqiu before they met "for the first time".

After seeing his grandma's face not looking good, Zhou Ming quickly explained to her in detail why Shen Qingqiu did this.

After listening to Zhou Ming's explanation, Zhou Ming's grandma's expression slowly returned to normal, and finally changed to understanding and distress and relief for Shen Qingqiu.

I understand, naturally because Shen Qingqiu's grandma is actually somewhat similar to Zhou Ming's grandma, but Zhou Ming's grandma feels that Shen Qingqiu's grandma is much more pitiful than her.

Although Zhou Ming was also brought up by her, at least her wife and children are still there. It's just that Zhou Ming's father is away all year round, and he only has time to come back during the Chinese New Year, but even so, there is something to look forward to.

Moreover, when Zhou Ming was in school, although his father was not at home all year round, her youngest son did not travel far and could often visit her.

But Shen Qingqiu's grandma didn't even have any hope.

Speaking of heartache, it was because Zhou Ming had to tell the story of Shen Qingqiu's childhood again in the process of explaining it. Granny Zhou Ming, who was able to understand Shen Qingqiu's choice in this way, naturally felt distressed.

The gratification is because Shen Qingqiu has not forgotten her grandma's kindness to her when she grew up, and has not been attracted by the prosperity of the big city. Facing someone like Zhou Ming, she still insists on going back.

Filial piety is something that these old people value very much.

"Then when is Xiao Shen planning to go to Yundian? When the time comes, you can give it to me, preferably at home.

But now that you have all completed your studies, have you ever thought about when you will hold your wedding? "Zhou Ming's grandma said to Zhou Ming again.

Just as Zhou Ming had expected before, as soon as Shen Qingqiu graduated, the family would start urging them to get married, and when he really got married, the family would start urging them to have children.

"Grandma, we are still young now, so we are not in a hurry about getting married yet. If you are really anxious, then we will get the marriage certificate this month. What do you think?" Zhou Ming said to grandma.

"You young people now, I really don't know what you think. You are 24 or 24 and you are not in a hurry to get married. When I gave birth to your father, I was not yet [-]. How old was I at that time?"

Zhou Ming's grandmother said to Zhou Ming, and began to talk about the things when they were young, and said that when she gave birth to Zhou Ming and her father, she looked at her wife.

“You were 21 at that time, which was considered too late in the village.

At that time, the legal age of marriage stipulated in the Marriage Law was still 20 years old for men and [-] years old for women.

But even after the marriage law was amended in the 80s, the legal age of marriage was changed to 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women, there were still girls who gave birth at the age of [-] or [-], which cannot be controlled. "

Zhou Ming's grandfather knew that his wife said this to himself, so he opened his mouth and talked about the situation at that time by the way.

Not only in the 80s of last century, but also in the 21st century. Zhou Ming has also seen seventeen or eighteen-year-olds give birth secretly.

Parents and schools do not educate their children about related aspects, and adolescent children are at the age of curiosity, ignorance and desire for such things, and many children in rural areas are left-behind children with only the elderly at home. It is easy to turn from being ambiguous to each other into dry wood and raging fire, and finally lead to pregnancy because of not taking good measures.

When they or their family members find out that they are pregnant, they can only give birth to the child.

It is precisely because of this reason, coupled with the fact that some families in many places still favor sons over daughters, that some people abandon their children directly after they are born, and even kill them directly if they are cruel.

"Your dad was 23 years old when he married me, and he's younger than you are now." Zhou Ming's mother interjected.

"You don't have to hold a wedding and get the certificate. Anyway, if you get the certificate, Xiao Shen will enter our Zhou family." Zhou Ming's grandma said again, but after chatting with Zhou Ming for a few words, she was very upset. He quickly turned his attention to Shen Qingqiu again.

And the rest of the family could just take advantage of this time to let Zhou Ming's grandmother and Shen Qingqiu spend time alone, and they dragged Zhou Ming to another room, and chatted with Zhou Ming about Alzheimer's disease.

"We have tried all the methods you mentioned, and they are indeed effective, but the effect is not too obvious. But what you said before, how is the situation with the Alzheimer's drug that your company has started to develop?"

Zhou Ming's grandfather said to Zhou Ming.

After moving to Luzhou, Zhou Ming's family took Zhou Ming's grandma to play chess, exercise and improve diet according to the method Zhou Ming said before.

In the past six months, the frequency of Zhou Ming's grandma forgetting things and things has indeed not increased much, but this situation still occurs.

"Soon, it will definitely be developed before grandma's condition worsens. Since these methods can work, then you can continue to follow this method." Zhou Ming said to them.

Although Zhou Ming's family moved to Luzhou, Zhou Ming and them did not live in the same house, but Zhou Ming's parents took care of grandma when they lived there for a long time. Will always be informed.

"However, as I said before, as far as the current science and technology and treatment methods are concerned, Alzheimer's disease is irreversible. Even if the drug is developed later, it can only inhibit the exacerbation of the disease, and cannot restore it to Alzheimer's disease. The state before Alzheimer's disease."

Zhou Ming explained it to his family again.

Shen Qingqiu has graduated and has nothing to do before returning to Yundian, but Zhou Ming has something to do this summer.

Not to mention anything else, Zhou Ming would attend both the summer camps of the School of Life Sciences and the School of Mathematical Sciences at Hua Guo University of Science and Technology.

A few days after Zhou Ming attended the summer camp organized by the School of Life Sciences of the University of Science and Technology of China, Shen Qingqiu received an invitation.

This invitation was sent by Wu Yuan, Shen Qingqiu's roommate when he was studying at Jinling University of Technology. She is also the girlfriend of Zhou Ming's roommate Liu Tianlu when he was studying at Jinling University of Technology.

Wu Yuan was the girl who had the best relationship with Shen Qingqiu in the entire dormitory and class.

The invitation she sent to Shen Qingqiu now was not only to invite Shen Qingqiu to attend her wedding, but also to make Shen Qingqiu a bridesmaid.

And this matter, Zhou Ming only knew about it when Shen Qingqiu mentioned it to Zhou Ming when he went home at night.

However, Zhou Ming, who was a roommate, did not receive an invitation from Liu Tianlu.

"You said that your best friend Wu Yuan is going to get married next month and invited you to be a bridesmaid, but I remember that she is not Liu Tianlu's girlfriend? Why didn't I receive Liu Tianlu's invitation? Could it be that they broke up?"

After returning home and hearing Shen Qingqiu mention this matter to himself, Zhou Ming said something strange.

"Shouldn't have broken up. I think she posted on Moments two days ago that she was with Liu Tianlu. It's impossible to go from breaking up to finding a new love in such a short period of time, and then getting married quickly, right?" Shen Qingqiu said.

"This is strange." Zhou Ming murmured, took out his cell phone, and sent a message to Liu Tianlu.

Soon, Liu Tianlu replied.

After some in-depth exchanges, Zhou Ming finally understood why Liu Tianlu didn't tell him about it.

It turned out that Liu Tianlu saw that Zhou Ming was usually so busy, and that they had little contact with each other after graduating from Zhou Ming. Also, Zhou Ming was the boss of the Future Biotechnology Company, and he was an ordinary researcher of this company. He was afraid that he would invite Zhou Ming. It made Zhou Ming feel that he was clinging on purpose.

After all these thoughts, Liu Tianlu did not contact Zhou Ming in the end, and his wife contacted Shen Qingqiu, Zhou Ming should also know about this matter.

If it was Zhao Letian who married, then he would definitely invite Zhou Ming.

Not to mention Zhao Letian, even if Liu Xiao wants to get married, he will definitely tell Zhou Ming, or at least ask Zhou Ming if he has time to attend.

However, due to differences in genes, experiences, etc., people have different thoughts.

Liu Tianlu has been looking for various part-time jobs since he entered the university. It can be said that he stepped into the society before anyone else in the dormitory. The first part-time job in Zhou Ming University was found through the part-time job group that Liu Tianlu gave him.

However, although Liu Tianlu became more mature than the others in the dormitory because of this, and had an earlier understanding of the worldly ways of the society, it was also because he had absorbed too many ideas from the society very early on, which led to his disapproval of inviting Zhou Ming. Attending his wedding, he will have so many thoughts.

"I thought they broke up. After a long time, it turned out that he was thinking too much." After finishing the conversation with Liu Tianlu, Zhou Ming said to Shen Qingqiu helplessly.

"You are usually so busy and you don't have time to contact them, so the relationship will naturally fade away, and you are his boss now, so it's okay for him to think too much." Shen Qingqiu said to Zhou Ming, "But your dormitory Is there no group? Don't you usually chat in the group?"

"There is a group, but after they graduate, there are no people in that group talking." Zhou Ming explained.

……

In late July, the summer camp of the School of Mathematical Sciences of Huaguo University of Science and Technology also started.

After participating in these two summer camps, July is also at the end of the month, and it is about to end.

After the end of July, Zhou Ming deliberately found Zhang Mingjie and Li Mingzhi, the deans of the two colleges.

"Dean Zhang, Dean Li, I'm looking for you this time to tell you about the summer camp." Zhou Ming said to Zhang Mingjie and Li Mingzhi after meeting them.

"Are you dissatisfied with all the students in the summer camp, or do you particularly like a certain student in the summer camp? Or is it for some other reason?"

Seeing that Zhou Ming said that he contacted the two of them this time to talk about the summer camp, Zhang Mingjie and Li Mingzhi felt a little surprised, because the summer camps of the two colleges are over, and the list of outstanding campers for the summer camp of the School of Life Sciences It's all announced, what else is there to talk about?

"I won't participate in future summer camps." Zhou Ming explained.

"What?" Upon hearing what Zhou Ming said, Zhang Mingjie and Li Mingzhi were astonished. Why didn't they participate in the summer camp?Is this not going to recruit graduate students in the future?
"Aren't you going to recruit graduate students in the future?" Zhang Mingjie asked.

"No, graduate students will definitely be recruited, but the summer camp is not part of the activity..."

Zhou Ming began to explain to Zhang Mingjie and Li Mingzhi why he would no longer participate in the summer camp. Regarding Zhou Ming's choice, Zhang Mingjie and Li Mingzhi didn't say much except for their initial surprise. After all, it didn't matter. It's not a big deal, and it's Zhou Ming's business. What can they say?
After briefly talking about the summer camp, Zhou Ming, Li Zhizhi, and Zhang Mingjie took this opportunity to chat with Zhou Ming about other things.

"I heard that you went to Jingu this month and became the honorary dean of the School of Life Sciences of Nankai University?" Zhang Mingjie said to Zhou Ming with a smile.

(End of this chapter)